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Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by money121(m): 10:41pm On Jan 07, 2020
Ifyjos:
My story is long but I will cut short. I’m 20 years old and I have a 5 years old daughter , I’m still with her father but we are not living together. I’m still at home with my parents.

My elder sister is a banker she is engaged and her fiancé is a doctor, they were supposed to get married this February 2020. My elder sister Hates my guy a lot just because he is not educated, has no money, he drinks and Smokes but he is a good guy, he doesn’t beat or cheat on me , he gives money for our daughter upkeeps and she goes to school he is paying her school fees but sometime when he doesn’t have my sister will be paying but she will insult the hell out of me that I ruined my life by giving birth at a young age , I should have closed my legs she just says many things that really hurting me sometimes I cried and Whenever she sees my guy she will insulting him threatening to pour him hot water.

So it happened in July , our parents traveled to the village because my dad was very sick so my guy visited me at home and she came and saw him , she got angry and started raining insult at him as usual and I got angry and slapped her which lead to a very serious fight and she arrested me and my fiancé and we came out after 3 days my guy had to sign undertaken that he should not step his foot in our house again.

So he promised to deal with her in a way she will regret and I supported him, so we have decided to destroyed her relationship with her fiancé by arranging lots of boys and girls who are my guys friends to start calling her fiancé and threatening him to leave their girlfriends alone or they will kill him, so we had 7 boys and 2 girls also called him claiming that my sister is dating their husbands so he should warned her or they will do worse. Everything went according to our plans and we have succeed in destroying her relationship that her fiancé dumped her and cancelled the marriage in October.

She hasn’t been well since, she lost her job , she is totally depressed and all she does is crying and she lost so much weigh. I was so happy seeing her like that because she deserved it but I pretend like I care when I didn’t but now I just feel so bad because her condition is getting worsened.

Seeing her going to the hospital today really broke my heart and made me regretting what I and my guy did to her but I don’t know how to help her again. I wish I could talk to her and tell her everything we did and beg for her forgiveness but I’m scared because everybody in the family will hate me, they will disown me and throw me out of the house and I have nowhere else to go with my child. My guy stays with friends in a one room house.

I’m Feeling helpless

You are the bad eggs of the family

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Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Bobonowell(m): 10:41pm On Jan 07, 2020
The story is too long , I can't read them ,
But I believe say na witch you chop grin

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Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Parkleader: 10:41pm On Jan 07, 2020
Ifyjos:
I swear to God , I have never been jealous of her , she is a graduate, she studies hard so she deserved to have everything she had and yes you are right , she doesn’t owe me or my guy anything but all I wanted from her is to mind her business and let me live my life in peace with my guy. My guy will pay the fees if he don’t have , she will stay at home until we get the money to send her back to school. quote author=dominique post=85597087]What I can deduce here is a wicked, envious sister who's out to destroy her sister who's doing better than her. Only when she succeeds that she realizes that she has bitten off the finger that feeds her. Who is goin to pay your daughters school fees now huh? Your irresponsible babydaddy?



I had to stop reading at this point, you're not only jealous you're wickedly entitled as well. Why should your sister establish a business for you and thug that impregnated you? She owes either of you nothing especially him. Is that why he impregnated you as a minor? To get handouts from your family? If you were my sister, I would never want you to continue any form of relationship with that man. That doesn't mean I don't love you or want the best for you. Your sister wants a better life for you but you're too young, naive, and blinded by lust to realize this.

Op you still get mind to dey type all this rubbish up and down, you get fish brain
I no get advise for you, because if i am your sister i will surely deal with you wether you apologise
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by ibechris(m): 10:41pm On Jan 07, 2020
Me already hated u even before I finished reading ur epistle...at 15 u carry belle and u are still proud of this stupid drunken master who u claimed to be ur horseband.

In fact I am so ashamed of u...let me just keep my cool.

Rubbish fucker,u don't even know that ur so called horseband and not husband raped u judging by law.

Poverty of the mind is the major wahala in this republic called Nigeria.

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Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Ifyjos(f): 10:42pm On Jan 07, 2020
He can never dump me because If he wanted to leave me , he would have done it long time ago when I was still pregnant. He never denied me and my pictures is everywhere on his Facebook and WhatsApp profile and our future will be greater. Not I’m not responsible for her loosing her job , she lost her job because at the time her fiancé dumped her , she was suicidal and missed work for almost a month and lost her job.
highbee02:
if the guy later dump u, that's when u will know that blood is thicker than water. Did u also responsible for job lost? If yes, how did u do it?

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Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by cybriz82(m): 10:42pm On Jan 07, 2020
blesskewe:
aunty
u bad ooooooo


Cnt blame her she waz pushd..her sister never saw this coming..how can u lock ur own sis in cell for 3days n sleep comfortably Y op u took things too far.. u shud av forgive her m move on.well who m i to judge

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Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by seborrhic: 10:43pm On Jan 07, 2020
Another of those made up tales from that sorry story teller that claims a man died during the civil war,stayed with his family for years without them knowing till his war pal that had been in Gabon for years came back and told d family the man was killed during the war.
What baffles me is how this guy always gets his fake tales pushed to the front page.
Maybe he dashes the moderators something.

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Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Mercycity: 10:43pm On Jan 07, 2020
Ifyjos:
My story is long but I will cut short. I’m 20 years old and I have a 5 years old daughter , I’m still with her father but we are not living together. I’m still at home with my parents.

My elder sister is a banker she is engaged and her fiancé is a doctor, they were supposed to get married this February 2020. My elder sister Hates my guy a lot just because he is not educated, has no money, he drinks and Smokes but he is a good guy, he doesn’t beat or cheat on me , he gives money for our daughter upkeeps and she goes to school he is paying her school fees but sometime when he doesn’t have my sister will be paying but she will insult the hell out of me that I ruined my life by giving birth at a young age , I should have closed my legs she just says many things that really hurting me sometimes I cried and Whenever she sees my guy she will insulting him threatening to pour him hot water.

So it happened in July , our parents traveled to the village because my dad was very sick so my guy visited me at home and she came and saw him , she got angry and started raining insult at him as usual and I got angry and slapped her which lead to a very serious fight and she arrested me and my fiancé and we came out after 3 days my guy had to sign undertaken that he should not step his foot in our house again.

So he promised to deal with her in a way she will regret and I supported him, so we have decided to destroyed her relationship with her fiancé by arranging lots of boys and girls who are my guys friends to start calling her fiancé and threatening him to leave their girlfriends alone or they will kill him, so we had 7 boys and 2 girls also called him claiming that my sister is dating their husbands so he should warned her or they will do worse. Everything went according to our plans and we have succeed in destroying her relationship that her fiancé dumped her and cancelled the marriage in October.

She hasn’t been well since, she lost her job , she is totally depressed and all she does is crying and she lost so much weigh. I was so happy seeing her like that because she deserved it but I pretend like I care when I didn’t but now I just feel so bad because her condition is getting worsened.

Seeing her going to the hospital today really broke my heart and made me regretting what I and my guy did to her but I don’t know how to help her again. I wish I could talk to her and tell her everything we did and beg for her forgiveness but I’m scared because everybody in the family will hate me, they will disown me and throw me out of the house and I have nowhere else to go with my child. My guy stays with friends in a one room house.

I’m Feeling helpless
Please forgive your sister and help her.Just send an sms to the guy with evidence that the whole thing is a set-up.The evidence can be you including all the phone numbers in the sms.Forward the same sms to your sister,parents and anyone that can repair the broken relationship.Use a new number.Tell them it was to punish the couple because their shakara too much

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Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by SangoOlukosoOba(m): 10:43pm On Jan 07, 2020
Just use her for money rituals to complete your work.
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Ifyjos(f): 10:45pm On Jan 07, 2020
Have talked and talked with her but she wasn’t not interested . She just wanted me to break up with him so I can become a single mother something I don’t want in my life. My guy currently situation is not permanent and I have faith some day he will be richer than my sister ex fiancé and we will live happy
Tunadinho:
That's not good

you should have talk with your sister maybe she will consider the guy
and you also ought to be doing something to help the guy and yourself.
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Ifyjos(f): 10:45pm On Jan 07, 2020
God forbid
SangoOlukosoOba:
Just use her for money rituals to complete your work.
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Frankicent(m): 10:46pm On Jan 07, 2020
STP*d b*txh no wonder you got pregnant at a tender age.. No sense, loose leg..

I hope your sister is in nairaland... I'm sure you an Igbo girl. I'm igbo the way igbo girl misbehave this days eh ..

Now that you've successfully made her lose her husband to be and job... Now watch your kid suffer.


STP*d b*tch

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Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by don4real: 10:46pm On Jan 07, 2020
Imagine the kind of guy you opened your legs for. Aunty way mumu. Well, I pity you sha

Ifyjos:
My story is long but I will cut short. I’m 20 years old and I have a 5 years old daughter , I’m still with her father but we are not living together. I’m still at home with my parents.

My elder sister is a banker she is engaged and her fiancé is a doctor, they were supposed to get married this February 2020. My elder sister Hates my guy a lot just because he is not educated, has no money, he drinks and Smokes but he is a good guy, he doesn’t beat or cheat on me , he gives money for our daughter upkeeps and she goes to school he is paying her school fees but sometime when he doesn’t have my sister will be paying but she will insult the hell out of me that I ruined my life by giving birth at a young age , I should have closed my legs she just says many things that really hurting me sometimes I cried and Whenever she sees my guy she will insulting him threatening to pour him hot water.

So it happened in July , our parents traveled to the village because my dad was very sick so my guy visited me at home and she came and saw him , she got angry and started raining insult at him as usual and I got angry and slapped her which lead to a very serious fight and she arrested me and my fiancé and we came out after 3 days my guy had to sign undertaken that he should not step his foot in our house again.

So he promised to deal with her in a way she will regret and I supported him, so we have decided to destroyed her relationship with her fiancé by arranging lots of boys and girls who are my guys friends to start calling her fiancé and threatening him to leave their girlfriends alone or they will kill him, so we had 7 boys and 2 girls also called him claiming that my sister is dating their husbands so he should warned her or they will do worse. Everything went according to our plans and we have succeed in destroying her relationship that her fiancé dumped her and cancelled the marriage in October.

She hasn’t been well since, she lost her job , she is totally depressed and all she does is crying and she lost so much weigh. I was so happy seeing her like that because she deserved it but I pretend like I care when I didn’t but now I just feel so bad because her condition is getting worsened.

Seeing her going to the hospital today really broke my heart and made me regretting what I and my guy did to her but I don’t know how to help her again. I wish I could talk to her and tell her everything we did and beg for her forgiveness but I’m scared because everybody in the family will hate me, they will disown me and throw me out of the house and I have nowhere else to go with my child. My guy stays with friends in a one room house.

I’m Feeling helpless

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Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by kayodemark(m): 10:47pm On Jan 07, 2020
Op please don't listin to what the mouse is saying
Some things are better left like that.
I will suggest you say noting and do nothing if you like yourself and your child.

Just advising you base on my own story



quote author=ojun50 post=85586614]what you did is very bad but if you want to make amends you should start with yr sister fiance, by opening up every tin to him and what lead to yr action..

seriously you wen too far[/quote]
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Ifyjos(f): 10:47pm On Jan 07, 2020
I wish I could do it but what if they all turned against me and kick me out with my child and where will I go ?
Mercycity:
Please forgive your sister and help her.Just send an sms to the guy with evidence that the whole thing is a set-up.The evidence can be you including all the phone numbers in the sms.Forward the same sms to your sister,parents and anyone that can repair the broken relationship.Use a new number.Tell them it was to punish the couple because their shakara too much

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Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by franchasng: 10:48pm On Jan 07, 2020
Ifyjos:
He can never dump me because If he wanted to leave me , he would have done it long time ago when I was still pregnant. He never denied me and my pictures is everywhere on his Facebook and WhatsApp profile and our future will be greater. Not I’m not responsible for her loosing her job , she lost her job because at the time her fiancé dumped her , she was suicidal and missed work for almost a month and lost her job.
You are naive, ignorant, foolish, vision less, directionless, doom child.

That guy has ruined your life. If you were my daughter, I will either plan your secret murder with that useless boy you call boyfriend or I disown you complete, and even if you later become queen of England tomorrow I won't ever want to see you.

Just read the rubbish you typed.

Now I see why many men weep badly when their wife give birth to a female child, it's girls like you that make people dread having a girl child.


You need God's urgent intervention, you better run to God now before its too late if not already angry

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Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Ifyjos(f): 10:48pm On Jan 07, 2020
Yes I’m Igbo but no need to insult me please
Frankicent:
STP*d b*txh no wonder you got pregnant at a tender age.. No sense, loose leg..

I hope your sister is in nairaland... I'm sure you an Igbo girl. I'm igbo the way igbo girl misbehave this days eh ..

Now that you've successfully made her lose her husband to be and job... Now watch your kid suffer.


STP*d b*tch

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Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by rain21(f): 10:48pm On Jan 07, 2020
I can't comment on this post I just can't

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Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by don4real: 10:49pm On Jan 07, 2020
Ifyjos:
God forbid

Forbid wetin? E don be so already. U will be the loser at the end, u r already losing sef

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Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by ibechris(m): 10:49pm On Jan 07, 2020
The part that got me weak is that,the said man abi na lover has no apartment of his own still squatting.

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Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by ritnd(f): 10:50pm On Jan 07, 2020
Nne,you are wickedly wicked.May you never
find peace of mind until you apologize to you sis.

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Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Nobody: 10:51pm On Jan 07, 2020
pickmeisha spotted with a Dusty!

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Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Ifyjos(f): 10:51pm On Jan 07, 2020
Yes please don’t judge him being poor is not permanent, I know that some day he will owe houses and many cars by God grace
ibechris:
The part that got me weak is that,the said man abi na lover has no apartment of his own still squatting.

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Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by wamide042(m): 10:51pm On Jan 07, 2020
Beautiful movie....
You... Cha Cha Eke
Your boyfriend...fredrick Leonard
Your sister.. Nazo Ekezie
Your sister’s fiancé Yul Edochie

Title:: I hate my sister..
Directed by:: Fred amata.....

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Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Youthleader22(m): 10:52pm On Jan 07, 2020
AceRoyal:



In 10 years from now, if you continue like this you'll sit back and hate yourself. You'll become so miserable when you realize how much you're wasting your life right now.
Your so called baby daddy doesn't mean well for you, I just pray and hope that it won't be too late before you realize how much you are messing your life up in the name of foolish love.
Go and open up to your sister's fiancé.
That's if this story is true.

I think I believe the story is true with the way the lady in question is replying to the messages but I doubt she want to open up and move on. She’s still hell bent in claiming she did whatever she did as retaliation.

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Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by od501: 10:52pm On Jan 07, 2020
You are fool and a wicked beast! Is what your sister saying about you not true? Should'nt you have closed your legs before?! So you got pregnant at the age of 15-16 (I suppose) for a complete jobless weed smoking fellow and u expect them to clap for you? Hanti u are a dump fool!

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Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by DukeNija(m): 10:52pm On Jan 07, 2020
Ifyjos:
She doesn't care about me because if she did want the best for me , she would would support me and my guy to be together and establish a business for us instead she wanted me to break up with him to become a single mom as if she would have marry me or even take care of my child the way her father does. That's something she cannot do because theres nobody that will take care of my child like her father. He has better plans but things are just difficult for him. He is a good man he can never ask me to kill any of my relatives because If that was the case then it would have kill my sister long time ago and I'm not stupid to do such things. Yes I know what we did was wrong but we only wanted revenge for her to feel the pain that she has been causing us but I just realised that it was the wrong path to take , which I'm regretting but that doesn't make us bad people please
quote author=Wetlink post=85595381]You have a very cold heart Op. I fear who no fear you.
Any reasonable person in your sisters shoes will be mad at your boyfriend or were you expecting her to pat him on the back for putting her 15year old little sister In a family way?

Your sister genuinely cares about you and that's why she'll still opt to pay your baby's school fees yet you and your, 'good' boyfriend paid her back this way[code]

If this story is anything to go by then I'm really worried about YOU.
this boyfriend of yours Is a terrible influence. I fear that one day, he may suggest you kill anyone who is against your relationship and you will gladly oblige because to you, he has your interest at heart.

My heart bleeds for you, my heart indeed bleeds.


God will punish you for what you did. You will pay for it all the days of your life unless there’s no God. Your sister doesn’t need to curse you, she has cursed all those who had a hand in her downfall and you will pay dearly for it. Wicked soul.
You think you have a future? When you’ve put someone who loves you in pain. 15 year old having a baby daddy and you expect her to be happy with the bastard that made her baby sister a baby mama. Don’t bother apologizing, she will bounce back while you will continue being a destitute.
As for your boyfriend, there’s no hope for that one and he’ll never marry you. Never.

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Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Frankicent(m): 10:52pm On Jan 07, 2020
Ifyjos:
Yes I’m Igbo but no need to insult me please


I knew you igbo... Igbo girl to misbehave. I'm an Igbo guy myself.


See you deserve more than insult... My dear you go suffer goon.. by the time your kid start going to school.. You go know say this life no easy... You carelessly got pregnant for a Yoruba guy...


Yu go suffer goon...

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Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Jaqenhghar: 10:53pm On Jan 07, 2020
sholay2011:
You slapped your own sister because of your 'boyfriend/husband'? shocked shocked

Then, went further to scatter her relationship/marriage? shocked

After all she did for your child (school fees when your husband can't perform his duty to provide etc.)? shocked

Sister, you are wickedness wrapped in human form. Isaiah 48:22 is for you: "There is NO peace, says the Lord, for the wicked". You'd better repent and find a way to confess your sins because you will surely reap in multiples the seeds you've sown.

Fear human beings...! 'You were happy seeing your sister like that- lose her man, her job, depressed because she insulted "your guy".
Ode, oponu...mumu of the highest order...God will visit judgment on you and that guy that plugged straw on your brain to sip out all the grey matter.

The story even sounds too bad to be true. grin
Stop being melodramatic. What is wickedness there? When the sister was using position to arrest people upandan she was being kind eh. Have you ever had to live in a cell for 1 night?

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Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by SangoOlukosoOba(m): 10:53pm On Jan 07, 2020
Ifyjos:
God forbid

Okay.

Wait till depression and high BP take her
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Hestywhyt(f): 10:53pm On Jan 07, 2020
You need to confess and apologize to your sister and her fiance, get rid of that your stupid boyfriend cause he is in no way a responsible guy, and you should set your life on track..you are still young atleast for the sake of your daughter

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Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Meliian(f): 10:53pm On Jan 07, 2020
ifyjos you're a very disrespectful girl for raising your hand at your elder sister. Then you're evil. You're not only to blame in this, your sister too. She's just as sinister as you are. I hope you both can forgive each other.

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