I believe u did not make d full confession. There is something u are not telling us.. U guys tried all means to frustrate her by even going diabolical. I suggest u make the proper confession to get the proper forgiveness and i pray she comes through these hard times she passing through safe and happy. The truth is that will always b part of the family but u must change ur ways so that u will not be targed as the Judas of ur family.

She's not a good girl from the beginning, that's why she got pregnant at age 15 and also slapped her sister.
The sister made a mistake of not ignoring her and made her face the responsibilities

Ifyjos:
Have talked and talked with her but she wasn’t not interested . She just wanted me to break up with him so I can become a single mother something I don’t want in my life. My guy currently situation is not permanent and I have faith some day he will be richer than my sister ex fiancé and we will live happy

Mhen, your parents must have paid a visit to a deadly shrine before they got you as a child. As little as you are, you are envious of your elder sister who is thinking well for you.


For your info, that drunkard you call boyfriend is still with you because he is too too broke, and currently an NFA boyfriend that cannot get any other girl to date, reason he is stuck with you to be curing his conji, once he succeeds in getting some money from the Yahoo yahoo or stealing he is doing or planning to do, he will varnish from your sight, you will become a classless mgbeke below his standard, watch and see, spoilt unrepentant girl

Ifyjos:
Yes please don’t judge him being poor is not permanent, I know that some day he will owe houses and many cars by God grace

By being a drunk,abeg make I see road.

Just pray he does not use u for ritual soon.
God cannot bless that kind of man that will destroy others and sees nothing evil in it.

And for u,u are already finished!

Ifyjos:
I swear to God , I have never been jealous of her , she is a graduate, she studies hard so she deserved to have everything she had and yes you are right , she doesn’t owe me or my guy anything but all I wanted from her is to mind her business and let me live my life in peace with my guy. My guy will pay the fees if he don’t have , she will stay at home until we get the money to send her back to school. quote author=dominique post=85597087]What I can deduce here is a wicked, envious sister who's out to destroy her sister who's doing better than her. Only when she succeeds that she realizes that she has bitten off the finger that feeds her. Who is goin to pay your daughters school fees now huh? Your irresponsible babydaddy?



I had to stop reading at this point, you're not only jealous you're wickedly entitled as well. Why should your sister establish a business for you and thug that impregnated you? She owes either of you nothing especially him. Is that why he impregnated you as a minor? To get handouts from your family? If you were my sister, I would never want you to continue any form of relationship with that man. That doesn't mean I don't love you or want the best for you. Your sister wants a better life for you but you're too young, naive, and blinded by lust to realize this.

What if your sister commits suicide because of depression? Do what’s right and talk to her fiancé. Open up and make things right. Stop thinking about what will happen to you afterwards. Just open up and make things right. That’s why you opened this thread isn’t it?

Ifyjos:
He can never dump me because If he wanted to leave me , he would have done it long time ago when I was still pregnant. He never denied me and my pictures is everywhere on his Facebook and WhatsApp profile and our future will be greater. Not I’m not responsible for her loosing her job , she lost her job because at the time her fiancé dumped her , she was suicidal and missed work for almost a month and lost her job.

hahaha see your mouth and he can never dump you. See you bragging with so much confidence that he can’t leave you, I’m sure the next he will do is to get you pregnant and you will keep giving birth for him while there is no money to train the children.

I saw your earlier reply too where you said your only plan in life is to make sure you marry ‘him’.

Really? So at your age you are not even thinking about how you will go to school or even learn something that can fetch you money instead it’s been a house wife for a man that is still struggling?

This is one of the many reasons why he must leave you very soon because even as a very very bad influence he is to you and how he will always manipulate you to do whatever he wants he will still not want a liability like you.

You better sit down and ask yourself many questions and amend your ways before it’s too late please I beg you.

ireneidiva:

You said your guy is a good guy. This is what good guys do? Good guys impregnate 15 year olds? Good guys frame people up?

Good guys neither smokes nor drink too...who knows if it's weed he smokes sef

Ifyjos:
I wish I could do it but what if they all turned against me and kick me out with my child and where will I go ?

It will never be well with you. Never! God will fight back and he’ll fight hard. Unless you confess and ask for her forgiveness you will never know peace.
Your own blood sister, you slapped and ruined her life because of a weed smoking bastard who had sex with an underaged girl.
You are hopeless.

blesskewe:
aunty
u bad ooooooo

I can't believe what I just read

Ifyjos:
She doesn't care about me because if she did want the best for me , she would would support me and my guy to be together and establish a business for us instead she wanted me to break up with him to become a single mom as if she would have marry me or even take care of my child the way her father does. That's something she cannot do because theres nobody that will take care of my child like her father. He has better plans but things are just difficult for him. He is a good man he can never ask me to kill any of my relatives because If that was the case then it would have kill my sister long time ago and I'm not stupid to do such things. Yes I know what we did was wrong but we only wanted revenge for her to feel the pain that she has been causing us but I just realised that it was the wrong path to take , which I'm regretting but that doesn't make us bad people please
quote author=Wetlink post=85595381]You have a very cold heart Op. I fear who no fear you.
Any reasonable person in your sisters shoes will be mad at your boyfriend or were you expecting her to pat him on the back for putting her 15year old little sister In a family way?

Your sister genuinely cares about you and that's why she'll still opt to pay your baby's school fees yet you and your, 'good' boyfriend paid her back this way[code]

If this story is anything to go by then I'm really worried about YOU.
this boyfriend of yours Is a terrible influence. I fear that one day, he may suggest you kill anyone who is against your relationship and you will gladly oblige because to you, he has your interest at heart.

My heart bleeds for you, my heart indeed bleeds.

What you did was totally wrong that’s why people are insulting you right, left, center, pouring out their anger. What you should do is to make things right. Make your sister’s relationship work again and you too will have peace.

If you find out the above writer family are igbo

Well, I hate reading stories like this but u all had no idea of what they both faced via the sister's onslaught. Sometimes, people really need to have a taste of their own medicine.

Please if I get rid of him and are you going to take care of my child needs?

Hestywhyt:
You need to confess and apologize to your sister and her fiance, get rid of that your stupid boyfriend cause he is in no way a responsible guy, and you should set your life on track..you are still young atleast for the sake of your daughter

You are just a normal human being,
I dey your back like kyphosis

Ifyjos:
She was the breadwinner , she helped a distant cousin with money to start business, if she could help a cousin and why not me her blood sister? She doesn't pay my child school fees but she does help if my guy doesn't have the money and before we get the money we will receive insults just because we are poor and she was rich . I'm 20 and going to be 21 on march 28

Entitlement mentality, SMH Are you now happy that she lost her job, her happiness and now depressed. I bet you were laughing with your so-called baby daddy when your sister was crying and explaining to her fiance how innocent she's, when she lost her job and almost her sanity.
You're naive and can easily be brainwashed and manipulated. She helps when your guy can't right, are you not under your parents roof or cohabiting with him?

The evil that people do jeez, the same blood that you grew up with.

Would have said good riddance to bad rubbish like you, but what do I know self.

All the best.

Fake story

Ifyjos:
I wish I could do it but what if they all turned against me and kick me out with my child and where will I go ?

You didn't think of that before taking that drastic decision...you are still young and your sense of reasoning is so pure for someone who has a child already...i have a junior colleague at work who is 22 with a 7 year old son but her level of maturity is more than that of 30 year old woman...sit yourself down and think thoroughly if the kind of life you have right now is what you want to give to your child, and do not think you have a future with your baby daddy, he will only destroy you more, you mistaken his stupidity all rubbed on you as love...you need help

Seeing her going to the hospital today really broke my heart and made me regretting what I and my guy did to her but I don’t know how to help her again. I wish I could talk to her and tell her everything we did and beg for her forgiveness but I’m scared because everybody in the family will hate me, they will disown me and throw me out o.

Na Dick do you this one so?
People like you, aren't meant to be forgiven..
#Tueh

Bejusttoall:


This is pure wickedness. Haba, your blood sister. Start with her fiance

Am actually a guy.

If it was vice versal, nothing will stop me from using that brother for money rituals.

olaswim:
If you find out the above writer family are igbo

Bro this is not about tribe. Any naive and stupid girl can do what she did.

STORY FOR THE GODS. FIRST YOU SAID WEDDING IN FEBRUARY 2020 THEN YOU NOW SAID CANCELLED IN OCTOBER. FICTION. TRY BETTER

Ifyjos:
My story is long but I will cut short. I’m 20 years old and I have a 5 years old daughter , I’m still with her father but we are not living together. I’m still at home with my parents.

My elder sister is a banker she is engaged and her fiancé is a doctor, they were supposed to get married this February 2020. My elder sister Hates my guy a lot just because he is not educated, has no money, he drinks and Smokes but he is a good guy, he doesn’t beat or cheat on me , he gives money for our daughter upkeeps and she goes to school he is paying her school fees but sometime when he doesn’t have my sister will be paying but she will insult the hell out of me that I ruined my life by giving birth at a young age , I should have closed my legs she just says many things that really hurting me sometimes I cried and Whenever she sees my guy she will insulting him threatening to pour him hot water.

So it happened in July , our parents traveled to the village because my dad was very sick so my guy visited me at home and she came and saw him , she got angry and started raining insult at him as usual and I got angry and slapped her which lead to a very serious fight and she arrested me and my fiancé and we came out after 3 days my guy had to sign undertaken that he should not step his foot in our house again.

So he promised to deal with her in a way she will regret and I supported him, so we have decided to destroyed her relationship with her fiancé by arranging lots of boys and girls who are my guys friends to start calling her fiancé and threatening him to leave their girlfriends alone or they will kill him, so we had 7 boys and 2 girls also called him claiming that my sister is dating their husbands so he should warned her or they will do worse. Everything went according to our plans and we have succeed in destroying her relationship that her fiancé dumped her and cancelled the marriage in October.

She hasn’t been well since, she lost her job , she is totally depressed and all she does is crying and she lost so much weigh. I was so happy seeing her like that because she deserved it but I pretend like I care when I didn’t but now I just feel so bad because her condition is getting worsened.

Seeing her going to the hospital today really broke my heart and made me regretting what I and my guy did to her but I don’t know how to help her again. I wish I could talk to her and tell her everything we did and beg for her forgiveness but I’m scared because everybody in the family will hate me, they will disown me and throw me out of the house and I have nowhere else to go with my child. My guy stays with friends in a one room house.

I’m Feeling helpless

you are a bastard that deserves to die. you are a witch. fool. guess you are happy now

Anyways that's how some families are, so I'm not surprised with what the Op said.

The elder sister made a huge mistake living in the same house with all of them.

Assuming she had left the house for this evil younger sister and go stay. Elsewhere, where none of them can trace and ask her for help. Wouldn't she be married and still with her bank job by now?

Anyways Op, u can confess to her fiance that it was all planned to teach your sister a lesson but at the end the fiance will still not marry your sister, because he will see how wicked and evil u are, then wouldn't want his unborn children to be stained by your wickedness.
If Pastor tell the elder sister that her enemy and the source of her troubles live in the same house with her and she should leave her family and go far away? Won't people say the pastor is fake?
But that's exactly what happens in some families out there.

The wickedness and evil done against each other is just too much!

Anyways what's my own sef! Op continue with your evil o, later in life u will pay dearly for it.

Ifyjos:
Yes I know that I’m not good in writing English,please forgive my errors .

Sorry if that was harsh.

It’s risky for me because if my family came to found out that it was me and my guy behind all these then I’m finish . I don’t want to be a homeless . I just don’t know how to reunite them without them knowing I’m the culprit

Youthleader22:


What you did was totally wrong that’s why people are insulting you right, left, center, pouring out their anger. What you should do is to make things right. Make your sister’s relationship work again and you too will have peace.

dominique:
What I can deduce here is a wicked, envious sister who's out to destroy her sister who's doing better than her. Only when she succeeds that she realizes that she has bitten off the finger that feeds her. Who is goin to pay your daughters school fees now huh? Your irresponsible babydaddy?

Her sister got her locked up in a cell too! What are you people saying sef? What kind of sister does that? Can you order the arrest of your own family? Look, the both of them are culpable in this. The elder sister is every bit as sinister as the op. I hope they can forgive each other.

Ifyjos:
I swear to God , I have never been jealous of her , she is a graduate, she studies hard so she deserved to have everything she had and yes you are right , she doesn’t owe me or my guy anything but all I wanted from her is to mind her business and let me live my life in peace with my guy. My guy will pay the fees if he don’t have , she will stay at home until we get the money to send her back to school.

Anyway, you are not totally "wicked" as we have been calling you. I believe you are sincere but you just lost your way somewhere.

Relationships with siblings can get difficult at times and you were hurt by the way she kept abusing your partner.

At the same time, you should be emotionally intelligent enough not to invite the guy to your house when you know your sister thinks lowly of him.

If you are as determined to make it as you say you are, you need to be much smarter than this.

Ifyjos:
My story is long but I will cut short. I’m 20 years old and I have a 5 years old daughter , I’m still with her father but we are not living together. I’m still at home with my parents.

My elder sister is a banker she is engaged and her fiancé is a doctor, they were supposed to get married this February 2020. My elder sister Hates my guy a lot just because he is not educated, has no money, he drinks and Smokes but he is a good guy, he doesn’t beat or cheat on me , he gives money for our daughter upkeeps and she goes to school he is paying her school fees but sometime when he doesn’t have my sister will be paying but she will insult the hell out of me that I ruined my life by giving birth at a young age , I should have closed my legs she just says many things that really hurting me sometimes I cried and Whenever she sees my guy she will insulting him threatening to pour him hot water.

So it happened in July , our parents traveled to the village because my dad was very sick so my guy visited me at home and she came and saw him , she got angry and started raining insult at him as usual and I got angry and slapped her which lead to a very serious fight and she arrested me and my fiancé and we came out after 3 days my guy had to sign undertaken that he should not step his foot in our house again.

So he promised to deal with her in a way she will regret and I supported him, so we have decided to destroyed her relationship with her fiancé by arranging lots of boys and girls who are my guys friends to start calling her fiancé and threatening him to leave their girlfriends alone or they will kill him, so we had 7 boys and 2 girls also called him claiming that my sister is dating their husbands so he should warned her or they will do worse. Everything went according to our plans and we have succeed in destroying her relationship that her fiancé dumped her and cancelled the marriage in October.

She hasn’t been well since, she lost her job , she is totally depressed and all she does is crying and she lost so much weigh. I was so happy seeing her like that because she deserved it but I pretend like I care when I didn’t but now I just feel so bad because her condition is getting worsened.

Seeing her going to the hospital today really broke my heart and made me regretting what I and my guy did to her but I don’t know how to help her again. I wish I could talk to her and tell her everything we did and beg for her forgiveness but I’m scared because everybody in the family will hate me, they will disown me and throw me out of the house and I have nowhere else to go with my child. My guy stays with friends in a one room house.

I’m Feeling helpless

This girl is sick or has been bewitched. She needs some mental evaluation

Mercycity:
Please forgive your sister and help her.Just send an sms to the guy with evidence that the whole thing is a set-up.The evidence can be you including all the phone numbers in the sms.Forward the same sms to your sister,parents and anyone that can repair the broken relationship.Use a new number.Tell them it was to punish the couple because their shakara too much

She should forgive her sister? What was that her sister’s offense again? Please do well to remind me

Ifyjos:
He can never dump me because If he wanted to leave me , he would have done it long time ago when I was still pregnant. He never denied me and my pictures is everywhere on his Facebook and WhatsApp profile and our future will be greater. Not I’m not responsible for her loosing her job , she lost her job because at the time her fiancé dumped her , she was suicidal and missed work for almost a month and lost her job.

Are you okay?
You made her lose her damn job because if her fiancee never dumped her she wouldn’t be suicidal.

You are so arrogant and selfish
No atom of remorse
You just taya me

2019elections:
Well, I hate reading stories like this but u all had no idea of what they both faced via the sister's onslaught. Sometimes, people really need to have a taste of their own medicine.

Don’t worry. Your 15 years old daughter will be impregnated by a car washing, weed smoking drunk. Then we’ll see how magnanimous you really are. Smiles.

DukeNija:


It will never be well with you. Never! God will fight back and he’ll fight hard. Unless you confess and ask for her forgiveness you will never know peace.
Your own blood sister, you slapped and ruined her life because of a weed smoking bastard who had sex with an underaged girl.
You are hopeless.

shut up dia!
Getaway you.
It will be very well with her.
Why are Nigerians such hypocrites?
Person way make me sleep cell 3 days if I get chance e go sleep 30 years
Come dey tell am say she for close her legs?

Ehn en?
Me I for close leg but she dey plan wedding of the year

Lafflaff catch monkey.
Wedding ko divorce ni?