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Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Ifyjos(f): 11:03pm On Jan 07, 2020
Please read well they were supposed to get married in February this year but last year October was when her fiancé dumped her.
rangerover:
STORY FOR THE GODS. FIRST YOU SAID WEDDING IN EARLY 2020 THEN YOU NOW SAID CANCELLED IN OCTOBER. FICTION. TRY BETTER

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Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Hestywhyt(f): 11:04pm On Jan 07, 2020
Style007:
hahaha see your mouth and he can never dump you. See you bragging with so much confidence that he can’t leave you, I’m sure the next he will do is to get you pregnant and you will keep giving birth for him while there is no money to train the children.

I saw your earlier reply too where you said your only plan in life is to make sure you marry ‘him’.

Really? So at your age you are not even thinking about how you will go to school or even learn something that can fetch you money instead it’s been a house wife for a man that is still struggling?

This is one of the many reasons why he must leave you very soon because even as a very very bad influence he is to you and how he will always manipulate you to do whatever he wants he will still not want a liability like you.

You better sit down and ask yourself many questions and amend your ways before it’s too late please I beg you.

Please help tell her...this girl isn't ready to listen to any advice...her head is filled with thoughts of her baby daddy...

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Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by highbee02: 11:04pm On Jan 07, 2020
Ifyjos:
He can never dump me because If he wanted to leave me , he would have done it long time ago when I was still pregnant. He never denied me and my pictures is everywhere on his Facebook and WhatsApp profile and our future will be greater. Not I’m not responsible for her loosing her job , she lost her job because at the time her fiancé dumped her , she was suicidal and missed work for almost a month and lost her job.


Directly or indirectly, u are responsible
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by 0monnak0da: 11:05pm On Jan 07, 2020
midnighter:


Anyway, you are not totally "wicked" as we have been calling you. I believe you are sincere but you just lost your way somewhere.

Relationships with siblings can get difficult at times and you were hurt by the way she kept abusing your partner.

At the same time, you should be emotionally intelligent enough not to invite the guy to your house when you know your sister thinks lowly of him.

If you are as determined to make it as you say you are, you need to be much smarter than this.
What is the point in being wicked if not totally?
Person dey half wicked?
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Papadoh(m): 11:05pm On Jan 07, 2020
I thought Breaking Bad had a good storyline, but this is way better. So you succeded in breaking your sister's soul, hmm... karma is real o.

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Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Sarang(f): 11:05pm On Jan 07, 2020
Ifyjos:
Yes please don’t judge him being poor is not permanent, I know that some day he will owe houses and many cars by God grace

No he will not own shit!
Not when all he thinks about is bringing someone else down
You think money, you make money
How old are you sef?

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Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Meliian(f): 11:06pm On Jan 07, 2020
thatigboman:
so u gave birth when u were 15

So what if she gave birth at 15? Some people can't have children till this day?

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Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by gentlesmithugo(m): 11:07pm On Jan 07, 2020
Chai!!!this is wickedness at it's peak.am speechless and dumbfounded. If this story is true.I rest my case.tufiakwa
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Style007(m): 11:07pm On Jan 07, 2020
Hestywhyt:


Please help tell her...this girl isn't ready to listen to any advice...her head is filled with thoughts of her baby daddy...
i really pity her. She is naive and I bet the only reason she loves that stupid boyfriend is because of his bad boy lifestyle, nothing more.

She will still get to understand life but I pray it won’t be too late for her then.

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Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by midnighter(f): 11:07pm On Jan 07, 2020
0monnak0da:

What is the point in being wicked if not totally?
Person dey half wicked?

Yes o, she is only half wicked.

If you read her replies very well, you will notice that she is not actually bad but lacks social and emotional intelligence.

Everybody here is getting annoyed with her not because she is "bad" but because she is very insensitive. So she needs to wise up or she will still do something worse than this to her daughter

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Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Youthleader22(m): 11:08pm On Jan 07, 2020
Ifyjos:
It’s risky for me because if my family came to found out that it was me and my guy behind all these then I’m finish . I don’t want to be a homeless . I just don’t know how to reunite them without them knowing I’m the culprit

If you know you aren’t ready to repent of your evil deeds then don’t quote me again. I don’t want to have anything to do with your kind all my life. You are the worst type of human being I have ever seen in my entire life.

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Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Nobody: 11:08pm On Jan 07, 2020
If you really want to right your wrongs, then you should be willing to go through anything to do that. Stop talking about your family knowing, you put yourself in this shit.

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Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by thatigboman: 11:09pm On Jan 07, 2020
Meliian:


So what if she gave birth at 15? Some people can't have children till this day?
just pointing out how useless she'd been from childhood
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Habakus: 11:09pm On Jan 07, 2020
OP,I hope you get to see my comment because it's coming late.
Never ever open up to your sister or her former guy the role you played in this whole debacle.
I repeat: never ever,at least, not now.
If you do,your Sister would never truly forgive you,and would likely find a way to revenge; so the cycle continues.

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Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Hestywhyt(f): 11:09pm On Jan 07, 2020
Ifyjos:
Please if I get rid of him and are you going to take care of my child needs?
And you think you can't take care of your baby at your age? And you technically destroyed your sister who still supports you.. I started working and being independent since I was 21 so shut the Bleep up and go and do the needful...the earlier you do this, the better for you
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Mac2016(m): 11:09pm On Jan 07, 2020
Useless OP... started sex early.. Dating amugbo and a tout... Your elder sister is a banker and you're nothing for your useless sex life... See the gap.

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Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Nobody: 11:11pm On Jan 07, 2020
Youthleader22:


If you know you aren’t ready to repent of your evil deeds then don’t quote me again. I don’t want to have anything to do with your kind all my life. You are the worst type of human being I have ever seen in my entire life.
Can you imagine? She's still trying to be cunning about it, not wanting them to know she's got a hand in this. She's not even repentant at all.
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Meliian(f): 11:11pm On Jan 07, 2020
BREYZ:
This OP, i just don't know what to say honestly. But God will help you for destroying your sisters life due to your stupidity. When that guy leaves you finally, your eyes go clear.

Her life isn't destroyed because her fiance dumped her. And her life can't be destroyed because she lost her job. People get dumped and fired everyday but life goes on.

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Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Hestywhyt(f): 11:11pm On Jan 07, 2020
Style007:
i really pity her. She is naive and I bet the only reason she loves that stupid boyfriend is because of his bad boy lifestyle, nothing more.

She will still get to understand life but I pray it won’t be too late for her then.
I pray so too
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Ifyjos(f): 11:12pm On Jan 07, 2020
God forbid, my daughter will be greater than me , the mistake that I did she won’t repeat the same . She will go to university , get a better job , get married and have kids and she will make me the proudest mother in the entire world
DukeNija:


Don’t worry. Your 15 years old daughter will be impregnated by a car washing, weed smoking drunk. Then we’ll see how magnanimous you really are. Smiles.

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Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Youthleader22(m): 11:12pm On Jan 07, 2020
GeniusWannabe:

Can you imagine? She's still trying to be cunning about it, not wanting them to know she's got a hand in this. She's not even repentant at all.

I don’t even know why the story hit front page. This the worst news I have ever come across all my life and to think of it I believe it’s a true story.

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Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by blujoi(m): 11:12pm On Jan 07, 2020
@ifyjos, I know how you feel.You made a mistake out of revenge. I know your sister pushed you to the wall before you took the action you took but you have to know that two wrongs don’t make anything right. This matter is quite heavy cos I see you love your guy so much. What you can do is to contact your sisters Ex, together with your guy and explain everything to him and beg him to forgive and see if he can have a change of heart. I believe if he comes back to your sister, everyone would have learnt their lessons.

I pray it works out because I know the kind of guilt you are living with. Take things easy and do not be hasty to make decisions in moments of anger.

If you cannot reach your sisters Ex,then you have to find someone who your sister respects and confide in the person.

And try to ignore all the hateful comments directed towards you here, most of them have pointing accusing fingers have their own baggage, nobody holy pass!!!

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Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by fpeter(f): 11:14pm On Jan 07, 2020
Your sister was right. You have ruined your life, simple English you can't even construct. What penis will do to you, you never see...look you look another pikin.

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Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Ifyjos(f): 11:14pm On Jan 07, 2020
Yes I cannot take care of her because I’m not working , I make people hair at home And the money is not enough. By the way I love him and he didn’t do anything wrong to me for me to get rid of him.
Hestywhyt:

And you think you can't take care of your baby at your age? And you technically destroyed your sister who still supports you.. I started working and being independent since I was 21 so shut the Bleep up and go and do the needful...the earlier you do this, the better for you

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Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Nobody: 11:14pm On Jan 07, 2020
Youthleader22:


I don’t even know why the story hit front page. This the worst news I have ever come across all my life and to think of it I believe it’s a true story.
If we had the ability to take a peek at people's hearts, we would be gripped with much fear.
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by queenitee(f): 11:14pm On Jan 07, 2020
Habakus:
OP,I hope you get to see my comment because it's coming late.
Never ever open up to your sister or her former guy the role you played in this whole debacle.
I repeat: never ever,at least, not now.
If you do,your Sister would never truly forgive you,and would likely find a way to revenge; so the cycle continues.
You are wicked. How can you advise her not to ever open up to her sister? Are you not thinking about her own peace of mind and her sister’s sanity? So you mean she should keep living in guilt and her sister should become a mentally ill patient or a suicidal patient. Yes her sister might not totally forgive her but at least she would have a clear conscience and her sister would know the truth and they both would be free and with time, they might get back to how they used to be. But her not opening up would actually also lead to a dent in their relationship because she would never be able to relate with her sister like before, the guilt will always be there.
And not everyone has a wicked soul. Who told you the sister would equally seek revenge? Again, I’m telling you saying she shouldn’t open up to her sister is wickedness, pure wickedness.

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Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by 0monnak0da: 11:15pm On Jan 07, 2020
midnighter:


Yes o, she is only half wicked.

If you read her replies very well, you will notice that she is not actually bad but lacks social and emotional intelligence.

Everybody here is getting annoyed with her not because she is "bad" but because she is very insensitive. So she needs to wise up or she will still do something worse than this to her daughter
Who is actually bad?
Everyone has their story

Na condition make crayfish bend
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Sarang(f): 11:15pm On Jan 07, 2020
Meliian:


Her sister got her locked up in a cell too! What are you people saying sef? What kind of sister does that? Can you order the arrest of your own family? Look, the both of them are culpable in this. The elder sister is every bit as sinister as the op. I hope they can forgive each other.

Why would she hit her elder sister?
If I as much as think of hitting my “immediate” elder sister, I am a sorry ass!

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Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Ebenezar2020(m): 11:16pm On Jan 07, 2020
Prettiedame:
You should turn this into a movie. Blood Sisters

Omotola and Genevieve

Director: Tchidi Chikere
that movie that year ehn cheesy u sef no be small girl.
Hanty hope you're married?

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Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Nobody: 11:16pm On Jan 07, 2020
Ifyjos:
My story is long but I will cut short. I’m 20 years old and I have a 5 years old daughter , I’m still with her father but we are not living together. I’m still at home with my parents.

My elder sister is a banker she is engaged and her fiancé is a doctor, they were supposed to get married this February 2020. My elder sister Hates my guy a lot just because he is not educated, has no money, he drinks and Smokes but he is a good guy, he doesn’t beat or cheat on me , he gives money for our daughter upkeeps and she goes to school he is paying her school fees but sometime when he doesn’t have my sister will be paying but she will insult the hell out of me that I ruined my life by giving birth at a young age , I should have closed my legs she just says many things that really hurting me sometimes I cried and Whenever she sees my guy she will insulting him threatening to pour him hot water.

So it happened in July , our parents traveled to the village because my dad was very sick so my guy visited me at home and she came and saw him , she got angry and started raining insult at him as usual and I got angry and slapped her which lead to a very serious fight and she arrested me and my fiancé and we came out after 3 days my guy had to sign undertaken that he should not step his foot in our house again.

So he promised to deal with her in a way she will regret and I supported him, so we have decided to destroyed her relationship with her fiancé by arranging lots of boys and girls who are my guys friends to start calling her fiancé and threatening him to leave their girlfriends alone or they will kill him, so we had 7 boys and 2 girls also called him claiming that my sister is dating their husbands so he should warned her or they will do worse. Everything went according to our plans and we have succeed in destroying her relationship that her fiancé dumped her and cancelled the marriage in October.

She hasn’t been well since, she lost her job , she is totally depressed and all she does is crying and she lost so much weigh. I was so happy seeing her like that because she deserved it but I pretend like I care when I didn’t but now I just feel so bad because her condition is getting worsened.

Seeing her going to the hospital today really broke my heart and made me regretting what I and my guy did to her but I don’t know how to help her again. I wish I could talk to her and tell her everything we did and beg for her forgiveness but I’m scared because everybody in the family will hate me, they will disown me and throw me out of the house and I have nowhere else to go with my child. My guy stays with friends in a one room house.

I’m Feeling helpless
please sell this screen play for me na I swear it's interesting and it will gross more money in nollywood

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Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Nobody: 11:16pm On Jan 07, 2020
Ifyjos:
Yes I cannot take care of her because I’m not working , I make people hair at home And the money is not enough. By the way I love him and he didn’t do anything wrong to me for me to get rid of him.
He didn't do anything for you to get rid of him? Someone who plotted your sister's downfall? If I were your elder brother ehn, I would deafen you with a thunderous slap right now.

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Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Sarang(f): 11:17pm On Jan 07, 2020
0monnak0da:
shut dia!
Getaway you.
It will be very well with her.
Why are Nigerians such hypocrites?
Person way make me sleep cell 3 days if I get chance e go sleep 30 years
Come dry tell am say she for close her legs?

Ehn en?
Me I for close leg but she dey plan wedding of the year

Lafflaff catch monkey.
Wedding ko divorce ni?




Go, let this advice you
You will kill your sister because she told you the truth?
Inside life!

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