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Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by DukeNija(m): 11:17pm On Jan 07, 2020 |
0monnak0da: You are deranged. You should be nowhere near the internet except within the walls of a mental facility. You are a mad woman. 15 Likes |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Ifyjos(f): 11:17pm On Jan 07, 2020 |
Ok teacher please come and teach me English I will be happy. By the way I don’t want another child , im happy with my daughter and we are waiting for God to bless my guy with a good job so he can come and pay my pride price after that we will have as many kids as we want. We don’t want to give birth to kids we can’t afford fpeter: |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Youthleader22(m): 11:18pm On Jan 07, 2020 |
0monnak0da: Who is this demented fellow? Please someone should take this one back to yaba. He’s not fully recovered yet. 9 Likes |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Youthleader22(m): 11:18pm On Jan 07, 2020 |
DukeNija: It’s clear ... he or she is a total mental patient. |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Meliian(f): 11:19pm On Jan 07, 2020 |
Am I the only one that sees the wrong her elder sister did her by locking her up in the cell? How come nobody is talking about this? 1 Like |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Ifyjos(f): 11:19pm On Jan 07, 2020 |
Thank you Meliian: |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Sarang(f): 11:19pm On Jan 07, 2020 |
Meliian: Her job lost was because she lost focus. And she lost focus because her fiancee dumped her Everyone does not have the same amount of willpower Everyone is not the same! 13 Likes |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by cococandy(f): 11:20pm On Jan 07, 2020 |
See entitlement Ifyjos: 12 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Nobody: 11:20pm On Jan 07, 2020 |
Meliian:You are very right, her sister needs to work on her temper too. I can't justify the OP's actions, but I must say her sister brought this upon herself with her temper and the way she treated the guy. This should be a lesson to people who think they can treat people like crap and get away with it. easily. 2 Likes |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by 77up(m): 11:20pm On Jan 07, 2020 |
ireneidiva:E weak me small . Good guy indeed On a more serious note @ op, with this your deadly attitude towards your loving sister ( because am sure your naivety won't let you know that your sister loves you, she hates your guy because she assumed that he has spoiled your life by impregnating you at 15), you won't go far in life . Not a curse pls even if it's a curse ,trust me you deserves it....born at 15 you are a waste already,you only modified your waste life with what you did to your sister. Only solution you have is to go and confess to your sister and gather all your cohorts to right all the wrongs. |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by midnighter(f): 11:21pm On Jan 07, 2020 |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by victorazyvictor(m): 11:21pm On Jan 07, 2020 |
Ifyjos: Agent..... |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Ifyjos(f): 11:21pm On Jan 07, 2020 |
She wanted us to stay there longer than this but if it wasn’t for mom high blood pressure , We would have been there for a long time Meliian: |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by PerseDew(f): 11:22pm On Jan 07, 2020 |
Ifyjos: How your sister behaved after you got pregnant is how some if not most parents would have behaved if not worse. So would you have collided with your "good man" to harm your parents if they treated you like that? From your original post, you were not remorseful and from your responses, you are still not remorseful and even with the advices scattered here on things to learn, you don't think you can achieve anything on your own. God will help your sis pull through it is your daughter I pity. People afraid to give birth to girls and the ones with girls already should strive to teach their girls leadership values, how they should take up space in their environment and cement themselves in the society. (Zozobini Tunzi, Miss Universe 2019). That way even if they make a mistake you won't see them behaving like the OP who is just 20 but is patiently waiting for her baby daddy to make it before she can have a comfortable life. That would be totally inconceivable to them in such a scenario. 7 Likes |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by simple250: 11:22pm On Jan 07, 2020 |
You will only be free when you speak out forget about the consequence but if you deside to die with the truth pls dont waist our time .... Give us feed back when u apologise if it turns out good fine ,if it turns out the other way round drop your sisters number we will follow up and apologise for your sins . 1 Like |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Hestywhyt(f): 11:22pm On Jan 07, 2020 |
Ifyjos: Proudest mother, so you know getting pregnant at 15 is a mistake ehn and your sorry ass of a baby daddy is a mistake too..you shouldn't have taken the prayer personal if you are so OK with your life and your baby daddy's 5 Likes |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by DukeNija(m): 11:22pm On Jan 07, 2020 |
Ifyjos: You are a child who was abused at 15. You lack basic comprehension and social skills. I wasn’t even speaking to you but you responded. You need help and I don’t mean it in a bad way. Unfortunately, the only person who would have helped you is your sister. You ruined your life with your own hands. But it’s not too late because there’s hope with God. Apologize to your sister and ask God for forgiveness. Tell everyone what you did including her fiancée. God have mercy on your soul. 6 Likes |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Sarang(f): 11:22pm On Jan 07, 2020 |
Meliian: Because wrongs have grade, for what she did to her sister, her sister’s sin is acquitted Continue being the victim if you want people to listen to you. Don’t go and plot someone’s murder! |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Beey(f): 11:23pm On Jan 07, 2020 |
Ifyjos:If this story has any truth in it, then I’ll admit that I don’t even know what to type.What worries me is how entitled you feel.Your sister sounds like she’s just starting life herself, but here you are sounding like she’s supposed to mother you & your boyfriend by starting up a business for you & taking over your parenting responsibilities.You need to wake up & face reality, life is not a fairy tale.You can not tell someone what they should do with their money.What you need to do is drop your myopic view if life & start thinking ahead.That baby daddy you have, fo you see a future with him? Is he the kind of man you’d want for a husband, a guy who drinks , smokes & lives a thug life? Better get your eyes off that area & think of how you can further your studies because several years to come, you’ll regret the choices you made in your youthful years.You need to forget that guy & broaden your view of life? Have you considered going back to school? It’s not too late dear.If you are learned, you’ll get a man who will be worth that name to the letter.Better start thinking of your future. 4 Likes |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Meliian(f): 11:23pm On Jan 07, 2020 |
Sarang: I already reprimanded her for raising her hand at her sister. She's a very disrespectful girl. However, there are other ways to punish a rude younger one. Getting them arrested is psychotic. Op must come from a very bad home. They both need help. 5 Likes |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Ebenezar2020(m): 11:24pm On Jan 07, 2020 |
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Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by DukeNija(m): 11:24pm On Jan 07, 2020 |
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Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by midnighter(f): 11:24pm On Jan 07, 2020 |
GeniusWannabe: But truly, there is not much point in telling that elder sister what she did. It sounds nice to tell people to "confess" but are you confessing to help the other person or just to relieve yourself of the guilt She has to help her sister move on and find another fiance and job, thats just the truth. Modified: This is what I couldnt express: KingNom: |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by BREYZ: 11:25pm On Jan 07, 2020 |
Meliian: Why quote me? Just drop your comment and pass madam. I made a statement I understood very well, dont come here to comment over a statement I made without proper understanding. Please be properly guided. 2 Likes |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Sarang(f): 11:25pm On Jan 07, 2020 |
Meliian: Or maybe her sister had had it up to her neck Everyone has their level of tolerance A woman who would bring out her hard earned money to pay for someone’s child doesn’t struck me as someone who would arrest her sister because they fought. Op smell of lies 3 Likes |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by queenitee(f): 11:25pm On Jan 07, 2020 |
Ifyjos:He’s preventing your growth madam. Everything isn’t love. Okay, what are his future plans and what are the steps he’s taking towards achieving them? Won’t your kids graduate from Nursery or Primary school? Won’t bills keep increasing? Do money crawl or run or jump to meet people at home? What are his short time and long time goals? Contrary to people’s opinion that you are young, you and I are the same age, but I know what I want which clearly you don’t know what you want. Take a look at you, what do you want? What step is your guy taking towards helping you achieve your goals? Seriously I’m really sad I don’t have the opportunity to meet you and like have a discussion with you. Love isn’t all there is to a relationship my dear, you need sense, you need emotional and mental intelligence, you need to know when to walk away. Yes I know there’s a baby and you don’t want to be a single mother. But my dear, it’s better to be a single mother in your situation so you can make something out of yourself. Who told you when you make something with your life, guys won’t rush to date you even with your kids? Take a look at Linda Ikeji, she’s a single mother but you and I know hundred of guys would rush her if she should hint at searching for a boyfriend now and I’m not talking about good for nothing guys, I’m talking about already made guys. See my dear, men love independent woman. If your guy situation should by chance turn around and he makes it, forget the love he’s showing you now, he would leave you without a second thought, because you are not growing yourself, you are busy preparing for the role of a wife and not the role of a woman. A woman can be anything. Groom yourself, that’s all your sister want, that’s why she is against you and your guy. Groom yourself, groom yourself, stop all this my guy and I. This time is for you to focus on yourself and your daughter. If you want to focus on your guy, go and get married to him already, if you are not married to him yet, please give 90% attention to yourself and your daughter. If he’s truly a responsible man like you said, leaving him does not mean he has to stop taking responsibilities over his daughter, she’s his daughter. So if he refuses to take responsibilities over his daughter because you decide to leave him, then I’m sorry, but he’s not worth it to start with. I really wish I can have a personal discussion with you. 15 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Blesser28(m): 11:26pm On Jan 07, 2020 |
Ifyjos:sister tell the truth at least u gon have peace on own even if family ends up hating u then its penance for ya deeds cos one day this truth will be revealed |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by DukeNija(m): 11:26pm On Jan 07, 2020 |
Meliian: She was probably frugal with the truth. There’s no way a sister will arrest her younger one for slapping her. They probably attacked her and all hell broke loose. They fought after the slap and I’m very certain her boyfriend joined forces with her to beat her elder sister. 7 Likes |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Pro2makx(m): 11:26pm On Jan 07, 2020 |
Ifyjos: my dear, every new day you wake up. Always thank GOD you are not my younger sister. Cos i swear down, by now i would have sent you and the low life pedofile 6 foot below, feeding termites where you belong 3 Likes |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Ifyjos(f): 11:27pm On Jan 07, 2020 |
Yes getting pregnant at 15 was bad but I don’t regret having my child because she is the best daughter Ever and I don’t want her to do the same , I want the best for her Hestywhyt: |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Hestywhyt(f): 11:28pm On Jan 07, 2020 |
DukeNija: I've thought of that too..she probably skipped that part to play the victim card here 1 Like |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Ifyjos(f): 11:28pm On Jan 07, 2020 |
Yes he did because he love me and he can’t let my sister beating me while he is there DukeNija: |
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