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Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by 77up(m): 11:30pm On Jan 07, 2020
Pavore9:
Another tales by moonlight by a newly registered username but if it is true, you are the lowest of the low. At age 20, you are yet to figure out your life or are you the only one that have given birth at 15? You choose to nothing meaningful with your life rather depending on a fellow low life who drinks and smokes while squatting with friends in a one room. You and your guy wants to be respected but refuse to live a life that should earn you respect but are only smart enough mess up your sister.

Whether you open up or not, just know you and your guy will continue to live miserable lives.
Gbam ! Just when my wife thought I was harsh with my comment above , then I see this .


That girl , if the story is real o, though am not God, even God hate evil . She's going nowhere in life . Wonder why many lives a miserable life since you won't know they have done so many unspeakable things.


God i rebuke this kind of op creature even in the mist of my livestocks ,not to talk of my family.

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Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Beey(f): 11:30pm On Jan 07, 2020
Ifyjos:
My story is long but I will cut short. I’m 20 years old and I have a 5 years old daughter , I’m still with her father but we are not living together. I’m still at home with my parents.

My elder sister is a banker she is engaged and her fiancé is a doctor, they were supposed to get married this February 2020. My elder sister Hates my guy a lot just because he is not educated, has no money, he drinks and Smokes but he is a good guy, he doesn’t beat or cheat on me , he gives money for our daughter upkeeps and she goes to school he is paying her school fees but sometime when he doesn’t have my sister will be paying but she will insult the hell out of me that I ruined my life by giving birth at a young age , I should have closed my legs she just says many things that really hurting me sometimes I cried and Whenever she sees my guy she will insulting him threatening to pour him hot water.

So it happened in July , our parents traveled to the village because my dad was very sick so my guy visited me at home and she came and saw him , she got angry and started raining insult at him as usual and I got angry and slapped her which lead to a very serious fight and she arrested me and my fiancé and we came out after 3 days my guy had to sign undertaken that he should not step his foot in our house again.

So he promised to deal with her in a way she will regret and I supported him, so we have decided to destroyed her relationship with her fiancé by arranging lots of boys and girls who are my guys friends to start calling her fiancé and threatening him to leave their girlfriends alone or they will kill him, so we had 7 boys and 2 girls also called him claiming that my sister is dating their husbands so he should warned her or they will do worse. Everything went according to our plans and we have succeed in destroying her relationship that her fiancé dumped her and cancelled the marriage in October.

She hasn’t been well since, she lost her job , she is totally depressed and all she does is crying and she lost so much weigh. I was so happy seeing her like that because she deserved it but I pretend like I care when I didn’t but now I just feel so bad because her condition is getting worsened.

Seeing her going to the hospital today really broke my heart and made me regretting what I and my guy did to her but I don’t know how to help her again. I wish I could talk to her and tell her everything we did and beg for her forgiveness but I’m scared because everybody in the family will hate me, they will disown me and throw me out of the house and I have nowhere else to go with my child. My guy stays with friends in a one room house.

I’m Feeling helpless
I ‘m not here to undermine your pain.After being locked up for three days, I can see why you were hurt.However, you took extreme measures because when it comes to family, we forgive for what we’d kill others for.If you want peace of mind, it will begin with you confessing & asking for forgiveness.You don’t want your sins revisiting your children.Are you a Christian? Even if you are not, I don’t believe that there’s any religion which teaches people to commit evil.If you want doors to open for you & to succeed in whatever plans you might have, go ask for forgiveness.Be ready for the consequences, but trust me your heart will be at peace & you don’t know what good things the future has in store.

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Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Ifyjos(f): 11:30pm On Jan 07, 2020
I’m not playing victim because if we were both arrested then it also play a role there but He did it for love
Hestywhyt:


I've thought of that too..she probably skipped that part to play the victim card here
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Sarang(f): 11:30pm On Jan 07, 2020
Ifyjos:
She wanted us to stay there longer than this but if it wasn’t for mom high blood pressure , We would have been there for a long time

You sure deserve to be there now
Something you can’t do to a stranger..
How can you do it to your own very blood sister..

Tufiakwa!

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Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Nobody: 11:31pm On Jan 07, 2020
midnighter:


But truly, there is not much point in telling that elder sister what she did.

It sounds nice to tell people to "confess" but are you confessing to help the other person or just to relieve yourself of the guilt

She has to help her sister move on and find another fiance and job, thats just the truth.
Find another fiancé? Lol like they come around easy. I think she should follow the advice of the FTC. She should first win her ex over (that's if he hasn't moved on to someone else), at least that would be fit enough to start the healing process before considering a new job. She needs to confess as early as possible to help her sister and also get rid of the guilt. It might get worse if the cat is let out of the bag unexpectedly.

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Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by kelvxyn: 11:32pm On Jan 07, 2020
AMEN. EVEN IF YOU CONFESS, YOU SHALL BE PUNISHED. THAT WHY IT'S NOT GOOD TO HELP ESPECIALLY FAMILY.
sholay2011:
You slapped your own sister because of your 'boyfriend/husband'? shocked shocked

Then, went further to scatter her relationship/marriage? shocked

After all she did for your child (school fees when your husband can't perform his duty to provide etc.)? shocked

Sister, you are wickedness wrapped in human form. Isaiah 48:22 is for you: "There is NO peace, says the Lord, for the wicked". You'd better repent and find a way to confess your sins because you will surely reap in multiples the seeds you've sown.

Fear human beings...! 'You were happy seeing your sister like that- lose her man, her job, depressed because she insulted "your guy".
Ode, oponu...mumu of the highest order...God will visit judgment on you and that guy that plugged straw on your brain to sip out all the grey matter.

The story even sounds too bad to be true. grin
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Sarang(f): 11:32pm On Jan 07, 2020
Ifyjos:
I’m not playing victim because if we were both arrested then it also play a role there but He did it for love

I would arrest both your asses and arrest that useless love as well. Your sister is depressed but I hope she feels better and find out and send both of your asses where you belong; in prison for a very long time!

But she won’t because she loves you.
Help your sister. Tell the truth. Don’t let your sister’s blood to be on your head
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Meliian(f): 11:32pm On Jan 07, 2020
Sarang:


Because wrongs have grade, for what she did to her sister, her sister’s sin is acquitted
Continue being the victim if you want people to listen to you. Don’t go and plot someone’s murder!

Continue being the victim if you want people to listen to you. Don’t go and plot someone’s murder

Like this quote, makes a lot of sense. However, to each her own. The elder sister too should have "made herself the victim so that people can listen to her". Just because the op didn't go about sulking on what her sister did to her doesn't mean she isn't traumatized by the prison experience too.
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Hestywhyt(f): 11:34pm On Jan 07, 2020
Ifyjos:
Yes getting pregnant at 15 was bad but I don’t regret having my child because she is the best daughter Ever and I don’t want her to do the same , I want the best for her
Then please make things right for her sake..you've planned your life all around your boyfriend forgetting you can be something great on your own...get some elders or people who you know can help you in this situation, and please plan your life well and I wish you the best in life..and I still insist you have a rethink about your baby daddy, you can probably see a counselor...
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by queenitee(f): 11:34pm On Jan 07, 2020
Ifyjos:
Yes getting pregnant at 15 was bad but I don’t regret having my child because she is the best daughter Ever and I don’t want her to do the same , I want the best for her
I know you want the best for your daughter, that’s what all good mothers out there want for their kids. But it doesn’t happen just by saying it.
If you keep going at it this way and refuse on taking control of your life, I’m sorry you can’t get the best for your daughter except your daughter gets smart and take control of her own life.

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Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Femeto: 11:35pm On Jan 07, 2020
Movie title equalizer 2019. U have already burnt the house na ashes remain how can we help you. Go and sick forgiveness from her and her fiance. Don't let her die sha.

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Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Sarang(f): 11:35pm On Jan 07, 2020
Meliian:


Continue being the victim if you want people to listen to you. Don’t go and plot someone’s murder

Like this quote, makes a lot of sense. However, to each her own. The elder sister too should have "made herself the victim so that people can listen to her". Just because the op didn't go about sulking on what her sister did to her doesn't mean she isn't traumatized by the prison experience too.

Well if you bring in your boyfriend to beat your sister what exactly would you be looking for!
Her family is not messed up. She is messed up.
I won’t even pay a penny for this one’s kid if she is my sister. She would be homeless. You make your bed. You lie on it.

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Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Youthleader22(m): 11:35pm On Jan 07, 2020
Meliian:


Her sister got her locked up in a cell too! What are you people saying sef? What kind of sister does that? Can you order the arrest of your own family? Look, the both of them are culpable in this. The elder sister is every bit as sinister as the op. I hope they can forgive each other.

You both questioning what the elder sister did... who sits and watch a guy impregnates her younger sister at just 15 and destroy her future. The girl couldn’t even continue school. She’s warning her about the so called useless guy that should have been spending his years in jail if we were living in a sane society, for impregnating a minor and you all here trying to quantity what happened. The girl in question is evil and brainwashed by her so called boyfriend.
Na preek dey catch her. If she don’t reverse and make things right. Karma Dey wait for her in the near future. At least it took her like 4 months to open this thread. Next is when she open another thread for the evil that had befall her.

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Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by queenitee(f): 11:35pm On Jan 07, 2020
Meliian:


Continue being the victim if you want people to listen to you. Don’t go and plot someone’s murder

Like this quote, makes a lot of sense. However, to each her own. The elder sister too should have "made herself the victim so that people can listen to her". Just because the op didn't go about sulking on what her sister did to her doesn't mean she isn't traumatized by the prison experience too.

You are wrong, she went about sulking. If she didn’t go about sulking, she wouldn’t do what she did.
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Meliian(f): 11:36pm On Jan 07, 2020
Sarang:


You sure deserve to be there now
Something you can’t do to a stranger..
How can you do it to your own very blood sister..

Tufiakwa!

What kind of hypocrisy is this! How can you get your own sibling locked up??!! It's abnormal. They're both sick. Stop putting the blame on the op alone. They're both culpable.

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Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Sarang(f): 11:37pm On Jan 07, 2020
Meliian:


What kind of hypocrisy is this! How can you get your own sibling locked up??!! It's abnormal. They're both sick. Stop putting the blame on the op alone. They're both culpable.

Hypocrisy my ass!
I am putting the blame on the op
She is sick!

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Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Meliian(f): 11:38pm On Jan 07, 2020
queenitee:

You are wrong, she went about sulking. If she didn’t go about sulking, she wouldn’t do what she did.

She didn't. If she did she wouldn't have done what she did. She would have just sulked!!!
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Nobody: 11:38pm On Jan 07, 2020
Fear POOR People.

Smh.

I don't have anything to say.

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Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Hestywhyt(f): 11:38pm On Jan 07, 2020
Ifyjos:
I’m not playing victim because if we were both arrested then it also play a role there but He did it for love
Your boyfriend planning your sister's downfall isn't love...do you ever think of what he will think of you for supporting him on the long run? I pray for God's intervention in your situation and I pray he orders your steps

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Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by enawt: 11:38pm On Jan 07, 2020
Truly, you've been a bad person, despicable should be written on your forehead.
I thank you for posting this kind of story. Posting it meant you knew you were wrong and want to change the havoc you've caused. This is about to be WWIII for you however. I can see it has already started with people bashing you up and down cos gosh this is wickedness and I hope we all learn from this. Keep family away from you. Keep in touch with them from distance, it's pivotal except in some cases of sickness or concern.

Now let's undo this. You have to do a factory reset. Na you cause am. We'll send you back to undo it. Tell your partners in crime to pick up their phones once again and confess of the conspiracy.

Tell your Sister too and please keep your negative energy away from the family after the confessions. Run away with your lover after undoing your evil deed.

Shalom

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Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Meliian(f): 11:39pm On Jan 07, 2020
Sarang:


Hypocrisy my ass!
I am putting the blame on the op
She is sick!

Then you're no different from the sister.
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by midnighter(f): 11:40pm On Jan 07, 2020
GeniusWannabe:

Find another fiancé? Lol like they come around easy. I think she should follow the advice of the FTC. She should first win her ex over (that's if he hasn't moved on to someone else), at least that would be fit enough to start the healing process before considering a new job. She needs to confess as early as possible to help her sister and also get rid of the guilt. It might get worse if the cat is let out of the bag unexpectedly.

They dont come around easy, but then they are not irreplaceable either.

Personally, I dont understand how a totally fictitious story from a group of strangers could seriously convince your own fiance to dump you. Thats too easy unless OP left out some crucial details.

Anyway she can as well confess but I think the timing is important. Sometimes people just spill everything out to make themselves feel better not minding the consequences or how it will effect the other person.
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by queenitee(f): 11:41pm On Jan 07, 2020
Meliian:


She didn't. If she did she wouldn't have done what she did. She would have just sulked!!!
She did sulk and that’s what led to this, got aloof(unsympathetic) exactly why she did what she did and felt it was the right thing, was very unsympathetic and sees no wrong in it till her sister started getting depressed.
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by malvisguy212: 11:41pm On Jan 07, 2020
Ifyjos:
She was the breadwinner , she helped a distant cousin with money to start business, if she could help a cousin and why not me her blood sister? She doesn't pay my child school fees but she does help if my guy doesn't have the money and before we get the money we will receive insults just because we are poor and she was rich . I'm 20 and going to be 21 on march 28
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Lolzz, seriously your sister should start up business for you and your supposed baby daddy. Is she that extremely rich, have she not done enough by training your child in school.
How old are you again?
its not the end of the road, go and undo everything you have done and be ready to face whatever come your way. asking for forgiveness means you are clearing your conscience, dust yourself up and pursue your dream. don't let the comment you read here put you in depression. give your life to Christ, make things Right with God, if things don't go well for you in this life, know that there is a second chance, a place calk heaven , that's your Home. thank you.

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Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by 0monnak0da: 11:42pm On Jan 07, 2020
RonaldoVido:
Fear POOR People.

Smh.

I don't have anything to say.
Rich people are not psychos?

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Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by PerseDew(f): 11:42pm On Jan 07, 2020
Meliian:
Am I the only one that sees the wrong her elder sister did her by locking her up in the cell? How come nobody is talking about this?

Her elder sis saw the guy in their family house and started abusing the guy not her o and then OP slapped her elder sis because of what?? Elder sis at this point had sense not to retaliate cos OP and her bf could have beaten and even killed her there with the unjust slapping action she has displayed and hate in their hearts at this point.

No parent was at home and even if her elder sis did may be faulted, what OP did was just plain stupid and evil. She started it all and when she got served on another level she has mind to be claiming oppressed victim.

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Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Alaganature(m): 11:42pm On Jan 07, 2020
This is akward... the same sister you mess up is still the same girl that's paying your child school fees whenever your boyfriend don't have..mehn to be real you went too far.. it's better you call her fiance and confess everything to him..you never know what she might be planning probably suicide cos she is depressed already..

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Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Jodha(f): 11:43pm On Jan 07, 2020
Ifyjos:
My story is long but I will cut short. I’m 20 years old and I have a 5 years old daughter , I’m still with her father but we are not living together. I’m still at home with my parents.

My elder sister is a banker she is engaged and her fiancé is a doctor, they were supposed to get married this February 2020. My elder sister Hates my guy a lot just because he is not educated, has no money, he drinks and Smokes but he is a good guy, he doesn’t beat or cheat on me , he gives money for our daughter upkeeps and she goes to school he is paying her school fees but sometime when he doesn’t have my sister will be paying but she will insult the hell out of me that I ruined my life by giving birth at a young age , I should have closed my legs she just says many things that really hurting me sometimes I cried and Whenever she sees my guy she will insulting him threatening to pour him hot water.

So it happened in July , our parents traveled to the village because my dad was very sick so my guy visited me at home and she came and saw him , she got angry and started raining insult at him as usual and I got angry and slapped her which lead to a very serious fight and she arrested me and my fiancé and we came out after 3 days my guy had to sign undertaken that he should not step his foot in our house again.

So he promised to deal with her in a way she will regret and I supported him, so we have decided to destroyed her relationship with her fiancé by arranging lots of boys and girls who are my guys friends to start calling her fiancé and threatening him to leave their girlfriends alone or they will kill him, so we had 7 boys and 2 girls also called him claiming that my sister is dating their husbands so he should warned her or they will do worse. Everything went according to our plans and we have succeed in destroying her relationship that her fiancé dumped her and cancelled the marriage in October.

She hasn’t been well since, she lost her job , she is totally depressed and all she does is crying and she lost so much weigh. I was so happy seeing her like that because she deserved it but I pretend like I care when I didn’t but now I just feel so bad because her condition is getting worsened.

Seeing her going to the hospital today really broke my heart and made me regretting what I and my guy did to her but I don’t know how to help her again. I wish I could talk to her and tell her everything we did and beg for her forgiveness but I’m scared because everybody in the family will hate me, they will disown me and throw me out of the house and I have nowhere else to go with my child. My guy stays with friends in a one room house.

I’m Feeling helpless

Not all witches fly ....

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Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Nobody: 11:46pm On Jan 07, 2020
0monnak0da:

Rich people are not psychos?

The mentality of dragging people down isn't meant for people who are already up.

Bullshit rests at the bottom of the cup.

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Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by mayten(m): 11:47pm On Jan 07, 2020
Jodha:


Not all witches fly ....


The Devil would see some people on Jugdment day and repent of his own personal sins. Because this kind devilish attitude is on another scale.

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Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Nobody: 11:48pm On Jan 07, 2020
midnighter:


They dont come around easy, but then they are not irreplaceable either.

Personally, I dont understand how a totally fictitious story from a group of strangers could seriously convince your own fiance to dump you. Thats too easy unless OP left out some crucial details.

Anyway she can as well confess but I think the timing is important. Sometimes people just spill everything out to make themselves feel better not minding the consequences or how it will effect the other person.

He's not irreplaceable, but it would be worth another shot.

I don't think he only responded to just the stories, he was also probably scared of the threats, he had to run for his life.

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Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Blesser28(m): 11:48pm On Jan 07, 2020
Habakus:
OP,I hope you get to see my comment because it's coming late.
ues.

sorry to say this buh truth is she is would never forgive herself by the time d baby daddy dump her sorry ass
that aside truth will be always be out no matter how hard she tries to hide it


the early she lose this noose and shackles she bound her with she ain't gon smell PEACE

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