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Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Ifyjos(f): 12:48pm On Jan 08, 2020
He is a car washer and he has better plans for the future , his goals are to start up businesses , marry me , built a house , buy cars and send our daughter to study abroad. In Hid we trust
Ausrichie:

And he cannot pay your daughters fees all the time. Okay what does he do for a living and what are his future goals.
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by healthserve(m): 12:48pm On Jan 08, 2020
Ifyjos:
He is a car washer and he has better plans for the future , his goals are to start up businesses , marry me , built a house , buy cars and send our daughter to study abroad. In Hid we trust



You are a devil
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by virago(f): 12:49pm On Jan 08, 2020
Prettiedame:
You should turn this into a movie. Blood Sisters

Omotola and Genevieve

Director: Tchidi Chikere


gringringringringringrin Nairalanders will not kill me
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by virago(f): 12:52pm On Jan 08, 2020
ireneidiva:

You said your guy is a good guy. This is what good guys do? Good guys impregnate 15 year olds? Good guys frame people up?


I was about to ask the same thing , she herself isn't a good person so what do you expect

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Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Ifyjos(f): 12:52pm On Jan 08, 2020
Am scared to confess because of the outcome but seeing her in pain and tears makes me guilty all the time. I just don’t know how to get both of them together without them knowing i was the culprit


kingRagnarr:
See don’t confess... I repeat dont confess ooo... cos i swear to god if am your sister i will kill you.
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Ifyjos(f): 12:53pm On Jan 08, 2020
Am not a horrible mother , she is my number one priority and I love her more than anything in this world

kingRagnarr:
And i really pitty your daughter cos she have a horrible mother
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Ifyjos(f): 12:55pm On Jan 08, 2020
Ok if he leaves me it won’t be the end of the world too , but what I know is that me and him will grow old together . Only death can separate us.
queengift:



Both of you are evil, you can kill, mark my words that boy will leave you one day, and he will remind of your actions. You can never be trusted. evil girl
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Vanzcharles(m): 1:01pm On Jan 08, 2020
cheesy grin ;National Anthem and how does he intend to achieve that? What about his People? Does he have a degree? Does he have funds? Wake up oooo
Ifyjos:
He is a car washer and he has better plans for the future , his goals are to start up businesses , marry me , built a house , buy cars and send our daughter to study abroad. In Hid we trust

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Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Nobody: 1:03pm On Jan 08, 2020
Ifyjos:
He is a car washer and he has better plans for the future , his goals are to start up businesses , marry me , built a house , buy cars and send our daughter to study abroad. In Hid we trust
Sorry gringringringrin.

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Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by ibechris(m): 1:04pm On Jan 08, 2020
PENCHANTMARTINS:

Haha �. Funny bro. You might want to change the "horseband" to "HORSEBANG" �

That is the right word my dear brother.
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by virago(f): 1:05pm On Jan 08, 2020
Ifyjos:
She was the breadwinner , she helped a distant cousin with money to start business, if she could help a cousin and why not me her blood sister? She doesn't pay my child school fees but she does help if my guy doesn't have the money and before we get the money we will receive insults just because we are poor and she was rich . I'm 20 and going to be 21 on march 28
uote author=FloraEC post=85596615]
Lolzz, seriously your sister should start up business for you and your supposed baby daddy. Is she that extremely rich, have she not done enough by training your child in school.
How old are you again?


You're dumber than a door knob , I have brothers and sisters too and I know I'll rather help an outside than some blood brothers or sisters. The thing is it's evident she has seen that you and your boyfriend are a no good bunch and money spent on both of you is a waste that's why she gives you only handouts and I'm guessing she's only doing so because of your child. Get your acts together and start showing some dedication and seriousness to a cause and you'll see how your sister will change towards you

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Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by virago(f): 1:09pm On Jan 08, 2020
Surfacebaba:
u are a witch


Witches sef will reject this one , they'll be like "God forbid make this one join us"

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Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Riele(f): 1:10pm On Jan 08, 2020
Ifyjos:
He is a car washer and he has better plans for the future , his goals are to start up businesses , marry me , built a house , buy cars and send our daughter to study abroad. In Hid we trust

You sound so dumb for someone that's 20 years old .

You think life's is so easy that he can just build houses , buy cars send kids abroad with a car washing job ??

What you did was wrong ! . Though your sis sent you to cell .

I've read most of your replies here , you sound selfish and unrepentant .

You care for yourself and your sperm donor alone . You're not even thinking of what your sister is going through now .

I just hope Karma visits you someday .

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Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Riele(f): 1:11pm On Jan 08, 2020
Ifyjos:
Ok if he leaves me it won’t be the end of the world too , but what I know is that me and him will grow old together . Only death can separate us.

Only death will separate you and him

And guess what ?? . That death is around the corner .

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Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Ifyjos(f): 1:14pm On Jan 08, 2020
Back to the sender
Riele:


Only death will separate you and him

And guess what ?? . That death is around the corner .
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Riele(f): 1:16pm On Jan 08, 2020
Ifyjos:
Back to the sender
Hello , You are the sender !
So it's coming back to you .

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Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Ifyjos(f): 1:18pm On Jan 08, 2020
Of course I do care about my sister and if I didn’t then I wouldn’t be here seeking advice on how to get her and fiancé back together. Some people are concentrating on insulting my guy and me instead of resolving the problem I have . I don’t have peace of mind, my sister is in pain and to know that I have been the one that caused her pain it just break my heart. I have left the house since 7am and I’m still at my friend house and won’t go back home until evening because I can’t longer bear to see in her pain. I love my sister she is my everything

Riele:


You sound so dumb for someone that's 20 years old .

You think life's is so easy that he can just build houses , buy cars send kids abroad with a car washing job ??

What you did was wrong ! . Though your sis sent you to cell .

I've read most of your replies here , you sound selfish and unrepentant .

You care for yourself and your sperm donor alone . You're not even thinking of what your sister is going through now .

I just hope Karma visits you someday .
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Lalas247(f): 1:23pm On Jan 08, 2020
makydebbie:


You still dey?
Alive and well. wink
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by DTC2(m): 1:24pm On Jan 08, 2020
Your elder sister is right. You should have closed your legs. You got pregnant at the age of 15, that's bad undecided
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Riele(f): 1:27pm On Jan 08, 2020
Ifyjos:
It’s not a big deal if we cannot afford her school fees , she will stay at home until the money come but God will provide for us



Believe me what I'm about to call you is the most polite word I could use .

You're Just one big FOOL .

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Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Ifyjos(f): 1:31pm On Jan 08, 2020
Thank you
Riele:


Believe me what I'm about to call you is the most polite word I could use .

You're Just one big FOOL .
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by CuteNbad(m): 1:31pm On Jan 08, 2020
Ifyjos:
Ok if he leaves me it won’t be the end of the world too , but what I know is that me and him will grow old together . Only death can separate us.
Ifyjos pls tell me,do you still have sex with your boyfriend? If yes,that is where the problem lies.He still get sex from you that is why you think he loves you. Try to take away sex from your relationship with him and see if he will still stay. The truth is he won't stay again and move unto another woman that will be giving him sex.

Right now what you need to do is to tell your sister's fiancé the truth without him knowing it's you. To achieve this you will need to call those 7 guys and 2 girls that did the job and let them call him again an say it's false,that his girlfriend (that is your sister) offended them that is why they decided to damage her relationship with him so she can feel pains too.

If your sister fiancé asked what your sister did,just say that she offended them that is all and cut the call.

Make sure that every number you used that day to call your sister fiancé is the same number you will use for the job again. Even if it's 9 numbers you used,use every of the nine numbers and everyone that threatened him should again call to apologized and say that his fiancé (your sister) offended them that is why they decided to treat her Bleep up but he should go back to her Cus they were just lying and that everything is not true.


Hope you talk this advice,Good day and pls make your sister happy again
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Oly23(f): 1:31pm On Jan 08, 2020
Ifyjos:
Back to the sender
It's not a back to sender something, lung cancer from smoking is real and liver cirrhosis from excessive drinking is also real grin cheesy cheesy grin grin grin
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Riele(f): 1:32pm On Jan 08, 2020
Ifyjos:
Of course I do care about my sister and if I didn’t then I wouldn’t be here seeking advice on how to get her and fiancé back together. Some people are concentrating on insulting my guy and me instead of resolving the problem I have . I don’t have peace of mind, my sister is in pain and to know that I have been the one that caused her pain it just break my heart. I have left the house since 7am and I’m still at my friend house and won’t go back home until evening because I can’t longer bear to see in her pain. I love my sister she is my everything


Don't you dare try to cover up your shady act by telling me you love your sister .

Why won't people insult your senseless guy ? . After Impregnanting a 15 year old , should we clap for him ? .

She is your everything yet you didn't sit to think before executing your wicked act ?

At 20 , you're this foolish ?? .

If you really want to help your sister go tell her fiancee the truth and afterwards commit sucide because if you're left to rum the earth .

You could kill your sister .

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Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Ifyjos(f): 1:35pm On Jan 08, 2020
Yes u r right , it was bad but God is not stupid for blessing me with my precious daughter. I don’t regret it

DTC2:
Your elder sister is right. You should have closed your legs. You got pregnant at the age of 15, that's bad undecided

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Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Riele(f): 1:36pm On Jan 08, 2020
Ifyjos:
Thank you

You're welcome ! .

If you think replying me with soft words will make me feel bad for the insult , then you're On Your Own .

Have it at the back of your mind that you're a F00l .

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Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by lilyheaven: 1:41pm On Jan 08, 2020
Ifyjos:
Of course I do care about my sister and if I didn’t then I wouldn’t be here seeking advice on how to get her and fiancé back together. Some people are concentrating on insulting my guy and me instead of resolving the problem I have . I don’t have peace of mind, my sister is in pain and to know that I have been the one that caused her pain it just break my heart. I have left the house since 7am and I’m still at my friend house and won’t go back home until evening because I can’t longer bear to see in her pain. I love my sister she is my everything

If you really care, I'm sure you have the answer to your question. If you are not ready to confess , that means you are not ready to help.
You can kill her, if that will make you happy, at least you will won't see her crying again.
You are such a young woman with a wicked soul.

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Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Ifyjos(f): 1:47pm On Jan 08, 2020
Yes we do have sex together and men do stick with women for money but no sex and I don’t think that he only loves me for sex because there are many women here in port harcourt he can sex anytime he want with them but what I know is he truly loves and Care about me , he want to be with me for lifetime.

CuteNbad:
Ifyjos pls tell me,do you still have sex with your boyfriend? If yes,that is where the problem lies.He still get sex from you that is why you think he loves you. Try to take away sex from your relationship with him and see if he will still stay. The truth is he won't stay again and move unto another woman that will be giving him sex.

Right now what you need to do is to tell your sister's fiancé the truth without him knowing it's you. To achieve this you will need to call those 7 guys and 2 girls that did the job and let them call him again an say it's false,that his girlfriend (that is your sister) offended them that is why they decided to damage her relationship with him so she can feel pains too.

If your sister fiancé asked what your sister did,just say that she offended them that is all and cut the call. Honestly I want to do this all alone because my guy doesn’t want anything to do with my sister name and he thinks that doing this to her was the right thing and she deserved everything but I don’t blame him after everything she put us through but I still love and care about her that is why I’m looking for a way to get them back together without them knowing I was the culprit

Make sure that every number you used that day to call your sister fiancé is the same number you will use for the job again. Even if it's 9 numbers you used,use every of the nine numbers and everyone that threatened him should again call to apologized and say that his fiancé (your sister) offended them that is why they decided to treat her Bleep up but he should go back to her Cus they were just lying and that everything is not true.


Hope you talk this advice,Good day and pls make your sister happy again
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by PerseDew(f): 1:47pm On Jan 08, 2020
Meliian:


But they're sisters now? You get? Ok let me ask you this, is there any provocation that can lead you to call the police on your sibling? Come to think of it. Didn't the elder sister think about their parents? Now I'm not saying op was right, just saying as much as we're calling out the op, her sister too should be blamed.

And trust me, if op's bf had absconded when he got her pregnant, it's this same sinister elder sister that would remind op everyday that "you see, you gave birth to a bastard". She would have reminded op everyday that her child is a bastard without a moment's hesitation.

The thing about most of us is that, we've not yet fully grasped the concept of unconditional love. Unconditional love looks beyond past mistakes, forgives, and helps the other person grow. It guides them for as long as they need guidance and support. This is what I expect of the sister. If you must reprimand, do it once and move past it, not rip the other person of what's left of their self-confidence.

Your question is uncalled for cos I already said "she may be faulted". It simply means I don't support the action and still I can't blame her. What happened to insulting her back?

You are calling the sister sinister because she reminds her of her mistakes each time? No probs. I just hope you know some parents need you to fail just WAEC and they will sing a failure song untill their ward gets it right. Will you call those parents sinister? It is not a good thing but there is no need describing her as a sinister person.

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Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Ifyjos(f): 1:47pm On Jan 08, 2020
Ok
Riele:


You're welcome ! .

If you think replying me with soft words will make me feel bad for the insult , then you're On Your Own .

Have it at the back of your mind that you're a F00l .
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Chiomaegwuoba02(f): 1:49pm On Jan 08, 2020
Kai!
You are evil, though the deed has been done, but u see what u have done to your own blood will hunt u forever. Tufiakwa.
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Riele(f): 1:49pm On Jan 08, 2020
Ifyjos:
Ok


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