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Pls guys I need your opinions.
There is this girl I've been asking out for a month now. The issue is she is not saying yes or no. She has been dribbling me like maradona and Messi put together. When ever I ask to see her, she just find a smart way to avoid it though we chat.

Recently something came up, and she was directed to me as the person In the capacity to help her. Now she is bombarding me with calls and messages to see me. Though, have been telling her am busy and she say she desperately needs to see and can even come to my house.

Should I play her back in her own coin or not.

No. Staying away from her completely is the honorable thing to do. Her call is a temporary need, and she will resume to her normal disinterest when you fulfil her needs. Do you actually need someone to tell you this ? That could be a reason why she may not want you in the first place. A needy man, that lacks a strong sense of awareness on social dynamics like this is what you are showing here with this question.

As a woman, I can tell you that a delayed response is disinterest. A woman that likes you will not dribble you. She will be patiently waiting for the relationship question and jump on it asap, as otherwise may put you off and she loses you.

Relationship isnt a do or die affair


See didn't give u a reply means she is not interested
Some dont know how to say No


Are you telling me you can't talk to other girls
or was she created on the 9th day by a special angel


The Help you want to render is it financially or what?

Angela62:
No. Staying away from her completely is the honorable thing to do. Her call is a temporary need, and she will resume to her normal disinterest when you fulfil her needs. Do you actually need someone to tell you this ? That could be a reason why she may not want you in the first place. A needy man, that lacks a strong sense of awareness on social dynamics like this is what you are showing here with this question.

As a woman, I can tell you that a delayed response is disinterest. A woman that likes you will not dribble you. She will be patiently waiting for the relationship question and jump on it asap, as otherwise may put you off and she loses you.

Take this advice. Don't try to use this opportunity to probably have sex with her. Kinda like sex for help things. Trust me, at the end of the day, it wouldn't be worth it for you. You will be so messed up. She's a player and she does not worth your stress. Let her go and don't do any help for her. If you aren't interested in going into a relationship with someone, the honorable things to do is to let them know and not playing them like she's doing.

It's an opportunity, it will sure help her financially

Angela62:
No. Staying away from her completely is the honorable thing to do. Her call is a temporary need, and she will resume to her normal disinterest when you fulfil her needs. Do you actually need someone to tell you this ? That could be a reason why she may not want you in the first place. A needy man, that lacks a strong sense of awareness on social dynamics like this is what you are showing here with this question.

As a woman, I can tell you that a delayed response is disinterest. A woman that likes you will not dribble you. She will be patiently waiting for the relationship question and jump on it asap, as otherwise may put you off and she loses you.

2dice01:
Relationship isnt a do or die affair


See didn't give u a reply means she is not interested
Some dont know how to say No


Are you telling me you can't talk to other girls
or was she created on the 9th day by a special angel


The Help you want to render is it financially or what?

Helping someone and relationship are two different things. If you can help, help. Don't attach your kindness to her dating you.