A life coach identified as Ajero Morgan on Twitter has gotten people talking on social media after sharing a piece of his mind.

Morgan stated that people who have brothers that are still generous after they have gotten married should not get comfortable with thanking their kin alone.

He noted that the wives of such family members should be heartily thanked and appreciated.

This, according to Morgan, is because men who respect their wives often listen to them. As such, behind the benevolence of such men is the strong support of their wives.

“If after marriage, your brother is still being generous toward your family, don’t always thank him alone. thank & appreciate his wife also. Men who respect their wives listen to them. So, behind your brother’s benevolence is the support of his wife. Don’t take it for granted,” his tweet read.

SOURCE:https://brandspurng.com/2020/01/17/if-your-brother-is-still-generous-to-your-family-after-marriage-thank-his-wife-ajero-morgan/

So, because I respect my wife, I have to listen to her not to help my brother or family members
What nonsense respect is that?

always looking for a way to rope innocent wives in

Crap. Is it my wife that will be telling me to be generous to my family?

So if the guy is not generous his wife is to be blamed


Una try

The wife is always at the receiving end.
Even a man that was badly raised will still shift blame to his wife once he is married.

What about wives that are very generous to the in-laws without waiting for the husband?

Some people never see the full picture.

Some money comes directly from the wives accounts. But because our culture hardly appreciates anything women do, the default thinking is that the husband is the one providing it. Or at best the wife is encouraging him to. Hardly does anyone think that maybe the wife gets her salary and forwards money to the in-laws without waiting to be asked .

Feminists full this thread like mad... see them up there with their usual sex starved rants. Even when the writer was scoring them cheap points, still they’re not satisfied. Lazy youths!!

Lol, I struggle to understand why the ladies are still reacting to the topic when the content is really an ode to wives (women).

Can't you people just take a compliment in good faith, or has Nairaland done you for the worse?

Indeed, there is such a thing as Permanent Reaction Mode (PRM).
Naptu was right

cococandy:
What about wives that are very generous to the in-laws without waiting for the husband?

Some people never see the full picture.

Some money comes directly from the wives accounts. But because our culture hardly appreciates anything women do, the default thinking is that the husband is the one providing it. Or at best the wife is encouraging him to. Hardly does anyone think that maybe the wife gets her salary and forwards money to the in-laws without waiting to be asked .

But can you say this about yourself? You that married your ancestor for financial benefits - who took you abroad and is still housing and feeding you till today.
How much have you given your inlaws?

Well, there's an element of truth in what the OP said.

A man who has a wife that hates to see him help others becomes restrained in helping. Yes, he would continue to help because it's his nature, but not as freely. Lots of times, he'll be forced to look the other way even if he wants to help.
Women influence their husband's actions a lot. Truth be told. When she begins to nag, or carry on with an attitude, or a permanent frown, or the silent treatment, men get frustrated and they simply want to do what the wife wants.

So yes, if he's being freely generous, there's a good chance his wife is supportive of it.

Wow, Nigerians really have no other interests besides people's marriages.

Op, I get the gist. And you are right to some extent

Do you know if the wife is even aware of your brother's generosity? You might just go and thank her and everything you get from ur bro will stop coming.

nanauju:
Do you know if the wife is even aware of your brother's generosity? You might just go and thank her and everything you get from ur bro will stop coming.

Hahahahahahaahaha!

This life eh!

genq:



But can you say this about yourself? You that married your ancestor for financial benefits - who took you abroad and is still housing and feeding you till today.
How much have you given your inlaws?

Was that supposed to be your business? why can't you mind your damn business? you sound so pained, hurrible & bittered. I fear who no fear you, sincerely speaking you deserve an award for enemy of progress.

If you read the message critically, you will see that it's a way of saying "if your brother is NOT generous to your family, BLAME his wife". Is it a wife that dictates if a man should or should not give to his family?

nanauju:
Do you know if the wife is even aware of your brother's generosity? You might just go and thank her and everything you get from ur bro will stop coming.

True.

dominique:
If you read the message critically, you will see that it's a way of saying "if your brother is NOT generous to your family, BLAME his wife". Is it a wife that dictates if a man should or should not give to his family?

In some cases, yes but not all. It is cliché to blame wives when issues arise. Most families are guilty of this.

How do we come up with such conclusions?

I believe my wife shouldn't even have an idea of what I do for my family members. It's none of her business.

Her business is how I take care of her and the nuclear family.