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"My husband abandoned my family after He Paid N580K Bride Price" Lady laments by englishmart(m): 3:21pm On May 05, 2022 |
A woman lamented on social media about how her husband abandoned her relatives after paying an extortionate fee of 580k as bride price. Do you think the man was right? https://www./npowernigeria/permalink/1952585794915209/ See reactions 8 Likes 6 Shares
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Re: "My husband abandoned my family after He Paid N580K Bride Price" Lady laments by Xscape1993(m): 3:24pm On May 05, 2022 |
Just 580k? Well, your brother should struggle for his own money too. 63 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: "My husband abandoned my family after He Paid N580K Bride Price" Lady laments by englishmart(m): 3:26pm On May 05, 2022 |
Xscape1993:Is she goods and services? How could you pay that much for a (most likely) liability? 263 Likes 15 Shares |
Re: "My husband abandoned my family after He Paid N580K Bride Price" Lady laments by VeeVeeMyLuv(m): 3:27pm On May 05, 2022 |
Marriage is not for everyone This thing is not by force 8 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: "My husband abandoned my family after He Paid N580K Bride Price" Lady laments by englishmart(m): 3:28pm On May 05, 2022 |
I can't pay to acquire a feminist. Except she's a bandwagon feminist. As a feminist, you should know better than allowing me acquire you like semo. 133 Likes 10 Shares |
Re: "My husband abandoned my family after He Paid N580K Bride Price" Lady laments by englishmart(m): 3:31pm On May 05, 2022 |
VeeVeeMyLuv:And that's why someone (exceptionally broke) would want to use the privilege to open a supermarket in the guise of bride price? 126 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: "My husband abandoned my family after He Paid N580K Bride Price" Lady laments by Mindlog: 3:32pm On May 05, 2022 |
This same story have been posted here before. The woman's father is shameless, how can he boldly tax his son-in-law 120k as contribution to his own son getting married? "In patrilineal systems, brideprice is essentially an obligatory tax on young men, payable to older men"...So it is men that can stop the extortion that has now been embedded in bride price. 50 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: "My husband abandoned my family after He Paid N580K Bride Price" Lady laments by Promotions: 3:33pm On May 05, 2022 |
If you have good in laws and have the money to help them that's fine, I see nothing big about it but on the contrary if you don't have or don't wish to help that's still fine cos you owe no man a dime, every man should make their money and take care of their family. 17 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: "My husband abandoned my family after He Paid N580K Bride Price" Lady laments by Ussycool: 3:33pm On May 05, 2022 |
580K? Extortion kenan. Wicked inlaws 13 Likes |
Re: "My husband abandoned my family after He Paid N580K Bride Price" Lady laments by mysticwarrior(m): 3:33pm On May 05, 2022 |
Her family sold her to the man, and the man doesn't want to do any business with the sellers anymore. 180 Likes 7 Shares |
Re: "My husband abandoned my family after He Paid N580K Bride Price" Lady laments by Vincyman: 3:50pm On May 05, 2022 |
The man got married to the lady not the lady's family 28 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: "My husband abandoned my family after He Paid N580K Bride Price" Lady laments by MrBrownJay1(m): 3:53pm On May 05, 2022 |
why would a man not abandon your family? its not like he has to take care of them...they receive the bride price and BASTA! what else you want him to do?! he married you, and certainly not them. 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: "My husband abandoned my family after He Paid N580K Bride Price" Lady laments by Nobody: 5:51pm On May 05, 2022 |
Wait o.... The bride price alone is 580k then how much is the entire marriage Biko? Abi is there something I'm missing? .... And besides sef... You knew it was "extortionate", but you said nothing and now you expect your husband to listen to you? My dear... Let all your family members go and do something with their lives and stop bothering that innocent man .... 40 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: "My husband abandoned my family after He Paid N580K Bride Price" Lady laments by Guyman02: 9:59pm On May 05, 2022 |
It's not the bill from her family, the man needs to establish himself, when he gets surplus he can start extending hands of fellowship to her family 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: "My husband abandoned my family after He Paid N580K Bride Price" Lady laments by Believing(f): 9:59pm On May 05, 2022 |
Sometimes I wonder who came up with this exorbitant bride price idea 5 Likes |
Re: "My husband abandoned my family after He Paid N580K Bride Price" Lady laments by Realestatevixen: 9:59pm On May 05, 2022 |
This is a normal occurrence amongst men, though some do not openly come out to declare that, they simply do it subtly. Bride price should not be made beyond the reach of the man. My opinion! I am giving out 5 plots of 500sqm piece of land @ N2.5m each. Original price is 7m. Only 5 plots are available for this massive Ramadan price slash. Seman metropolis estate Lugbe Abuja is located behind Dunamis Glory Dome, and beside River park estate, along airport road Abuja. This is a once in a life time opportunity. Please call 080 3651 9974 now!!! |
Re: "My husband abandoned my family after He Paid N580K Bride Price" Lady laments by oxygenlove(m): 9:59pm On May 05, 2022 |
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Re: "My husband abandoned my family after He Paid N580K Bride Price" Lady laments by Dalil8: 9:59pm On May 05, 2022 |
A liability talking. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: "My husband abandoned my family after He Paid N580K Bride Price" Lady laments by Ezedon(m): 9:59pm On May 05, 2022 |
Thats the Normal thing, what then do you expect him to do 1 Like |
Re: "My husband abandoned my family after He Paid N580K Bride Price" Lady laments by stano2(m): 10:00pm On May 05, 2022 |
Dey man no get na 1 Like |
Re: "My husband abandoned my family after He Paid N580K Bride Price" Lady laments by whytediamond(m): 10:00pm On May 05, 2022 |
Wahala |
Re: "My husband abandoned my family after He Paid N580K Bride Price" Lady laments by ybalogs(m): 10:00pm On May 05, 2022 |
I will most likely do same since I know they really don't care about our welfare but the bride price. 1 Like |
Re: "My husband abandoned my family after He Paid N580K Bride Price" Lady laments by omoadeleye(m): 10:00pm On May 05, 2022 |
Ern. Shey he should be bank rolling your family ni? |
Re: "My husband abandoned my family after He Paid N580K Bride Price" Lady laments by kennethfranc(m): 10:00pm On May 05, 2022 |
I can't imagine paying such amount just to marry a single lady. Tho most times, this is caused by the way the son-in-law introduced himself from the onset. 1 Like |
Re: "My husband abandoned my family after He Paid N580K Bride Price" Lady laments by Eriokanmi: 10:00pm On May 05, 2022 |
She don buy you finish nah. Na wetin he wan com dey remember your family for again? 1 Like |
Re: "My husband abandoned my family after He Paid N580K Bride Price" Lady laments by MANNABBQGRILLS: 10:00pm On May 05, 2022 |
Na wa 4 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: "My husband abandoned my family after He Paid N580K Bride Price" Lady laments by ybalogs(m): 10:01pm On May 05, 2022 |
Totally agreed he has paid them off since they've decided to be stewpid. Anofia 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: "My husband abandoned my family after He Paid N580K Bride Price" Lady laments by Pidginwhisper: 10:01pm On May 05, 2022 |
Way to go. I plan to do this as well. If you like peg your bride price at 2M with list inclusive, i just pay up without complaining, then wait till after wedding and tell you proper that if any of your family mistakenly call my phone to ask for money or i see them close to my house, na toh machete them. Nonsense 34 Likes 2 Shares |
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