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Re: My Wife And Mother Hate Each Other by Roon9(m): 7:53am On Jan 18, 2020 |
No woman can ever disrespect my mother. Op as a man you must learn to be firm with your wife and reason with your mom, from your write up she seems to be smarter than your wife. 16 Likes |
Re: My Wife And Mother Hate Each Other by NoToPile: 7:55am On Jan 18, 2020 |
Very balanced write up. 6 Likes |
Re: My Wife And Mother Hate Each Other by shinarlaura(f): 7:59am On Jan 18, 2020 |
Op I 'll blame you for everything that is happening. You choose to take side with your wife, that is why she is doing all those things. The fact that your mum is even trying to make peace and your wife don't want to have anything to do with her says it all. You really have to talk to your wife cuz is the one manipulating u. 16 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife And Mother Hate Each Other by eyinjuege: 8:00am On Jan 18, 2020 |
Drama. Too late for all of the fake friendship goals. Accept they can never be friends and your life will be easier. Let your mother also accept it. Of course, it's alright for your mom to visit and see her grandchild when she can, and it's alright for your wife to disappear when she's coming. That relationship you want between them ain't happening. kolewerk.... Go visit your mum on your own regularly, and also take your son with you when he's older. Spend hours with her, so she can enjoy the company of her grandchild(ren ). No need wasting time on futile efforts 17 Likes |
Re: My Wife And Mother Hate Each Other by zmpp(f): 9:20am On Jan 18, 2020 |
big problem, the centre cannot hold water any longer |
Re: My Wife And Mother Hate Each Other by omobacyprus(m): 10:26am On Jan 18, 2020 |
Some men still need cane 6 Likes |
Re: My Wife And Mother Hate Each Other by addictiv(m): 11:08am On Jan 18, 2020 |
Op put your feet down and take control of your home. Read out the riot act to ur wife and your mum... Both of them should fall in line and behave or feel ur wrath, do not try to tolerate any bullshit talks for attitude from both of them Be firm and stand ur ground as a man. Consult your wife in decision making but be the decision maker. 11 Likes |
Re: My Wife And Mother Hate Each Other by Timileyin1234(m): 11:13am On Jan 18, 2020 |
Mizwisdom:Sho wa okay? yen yen yen yen. Is that the reason why my wife must disrespect my mother 10 Likes |
Re: My Wife And Mother Hate Each Other by Nobody: 12:00pm On Jan 18, 2020 |
djon78:You see, I've seen a lot of situations like this and in most cases, I wish I could flog these men. How can someone claim to love you and maltreat your parents? My cousin's wife at a point refused to give her father-in-law food because she felt it was not her responsibility and this is a man in his 70s, old and weak and the so-called son was not bothered. A woman who loves you should also be able to love your family especially when there are no issues. This op's stupid wife included her mother's guest on her guest list but blatantly refused to include that of her husband's mother. That should tell she hated the woman right before her marriage started properly. I read the post twice and couldn't see where his mother did anything wrong while the wife she's been shielding has done more harm than good. From fighting his mum which shows she has no regard for the woman, she'll eventually shift goal post to him with time because he actually has no regard for her husband. All that love na sham. 26 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife And Mother Hate Each Other by Efewestern: 12:05pm On Jan 18, 2020 |
Candiesramah: Some men are just weak, too weak I tell you, how can you allow your wife maltreat your own father this way? I mean the person who made you who you are today, bro, talk to that your cousin. 11 Likes |
Re: My Wife And Mother Hate Each Other by walex2(m): 1:07pm On Jan 18, 2020 |
E685:. Your love for your wife has becloud your sense of reasoning, all blame are on you, cos you are a weakling, as a man you should be in control of your home but you have failed in that regard, you failed by allowing your wife to determine the number of guests wanted at your wedding, and even your mum has to fight out this with her, that gave you out, it seems you support your wife action and even complain about your mum as been critical . the love of a wife is different from the love of mother. if you die today your wife would remarry but can your mum give birth to you again,NO 24 Likes |
Re: My Wife And Mother Hate Each Other by walex2(m): 1:08pm On Jan 18, 2020 |
shinarlaura:you nailed it 5 Likes |
Re: My Wife And Mother Hate Each Other by MrMcJay(m): 1:20pm On Jan 18, 2020 |
Look at how you described your wife. Also look at how you described your mother. You've already taken sides. Your wife and her family are treating your mother with disrespect and you're asking us what to do. Very weak and foolish man. You can have another wife, you can't have another mother. 36 Likes |
Re: My Wife And Mother Hate Each Other by Nobody: 1:21pm On Jan 18, 2020 |
Na today? Only 1% of women love to see their mothers-in-law 3 Likes |
Re: My Wife And Mother Hate Each Other by Ihutomi: 1:22pm On Jan 18, 2020 |
As much as u pray for them just know is a woman thing |
Re: My Wife And Mother Hate Each Other by SmartyPants(m): 1:23pm On Jan 18, 2020 |
So many of these issues could have been resolved if you learned how to keep secrets. 5 Likes |
Re: My Wife And Mother Hate Each Other by seunjungle1(m): 1:25pm On Jan 18, 2020 |
You are very 5tupid. Did you just noticed? 1 Like |
Re: My Wife And Mother Hate Each Other by Firefox01: 1:25pm On Jan 18, 2020 |
Oga you're very stupid! Defending your wife's intolerance by telling us your mother's history? So you mother has no right to add just A GUEST to the wedding list Is your wife MAD?!!! Here you are defending the stupidity of your wife too. Your foolishness is stunning and a new prayer point is not to birth a son as foolish as you are! 21 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Wife And Mother Hate Each Other by BEANSndPLANTAIN(m): 1:26pm On Jan 18, 2020 |
I will call you NEPA Set awon NEPA 1 Like |
Re: My Wife And Mother Hate Each Other by wisdomkid: 1:26pm On Jan 18, 2020 |
Oga, you sabi speak good English abeg. Seems both are wrong and right. For once, I am at crossroads here, and can't point accusing fingers to anyone. sh*ty situation. |
Re: My Wife And Mother Hate Each Other by Afam4eva(m): 1:27pm On Jan 18, 2020 |
While i know a great deal of mother-inlaws can be a pain, after analyzing your story, i feel while your mother has her own issues, your wife doesn't come across as a good person. I wonder what attracted you to her in the first place. I want to believe she belongs to the group of women who are already anticipating having issues with their Mother In-laws and go into the marriage with all the machinery for war. I would have said that you should sit your wife down and talk some sense into her but i think it's too late now and also because of how emotional she is with issues. The worst people to talk to are emotionally driven people. There's no way out from this higi-haga, you just need to find a way to manage it by putting your foot down. 14 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife And Mother Hate Each Other by Influential101: 1:29pm On Jan 18, 2020 |
All these topics hitting front page every day from new monikers.. is Nairaland trying to create traffic ? Every day one story to another.. |
Re: My Wife And Mother Hate Each Other by shogsman(m): 1:29pm On Jan 18, 2020 |
Stop being a pussey,you got married too early, plus you're a weakling who can't manage a home, I just pity your poor mother. It always annoy me when I see men behaving like boys, if I was your friend or brother I would have bashed your face in or beat the shit out of you 7 Likes |
Re: My Wife And Mother Hate Each Other by Nobody: 1:29pm On Jan 18, 2020 |
Family issue so sort yourself out, if you can't control situations, tell your wife to leave |
Re: My Wife And Mother Hate Each Other by Nobody: 1:30pm On Jan 18, 2020 |
After reading this story, I can only blame one person and that's you, you think you're a man but everything says you're a boy. This problem will be solved the day you grow up and take charge. 4 Likes |
Re: My Wife And Mother Hate Each Other by ilyasom(m): 1:30pm On Jan 18, 2020 |
Rubbish... how did I even have the patience to real all that bullshit baffles me 6 Likes |
Re: My Wife And Mother Hate Each Other by kiddkash(m): 1:31pm On Jan 18, 2020 |
you are fvcked 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife And Mother Hate Each Other by Vicyace: 1:32pm On Jan 18, 2020 |
Bros, In all honesty, you are soft, way too soft. Although you are reasonable, it's important to be decisive and put everyone in their place. You have been able to thoroughly understand both your mum and your wife. You have solved the puzzle halfway. Now, you have to take some rigid decisions. You have been flexible enough and it's obviously not yielding any positive results. You mum still acts the way she always does, your wife still plays you emotionally and dictates how she wants things to run. As the head of the family, take a stand. Call a meeting between both families. Before doing this, have another discussion with your mum and your wife separately. This time, let them know you are not having anymore bullshit from none of them. Tell them, henceforth, things are going to be done your own way as the head of the family. Tell them loving each other or at least pretending to love each other is non negotiable. Your mum should have access to her grandson just as your in-laws do. The meeting between both families should go a long way in resolving these differences. Your wife's parents also have a lot to do in talking sense to your wife. If they want you to have peace, then they should plead with your wife to make peace with your mum. Pray to God for guidance and remember to take a stand. Show a different and a much more manly and decisive side of you and watch both of them behave. 6 Likes |
Re: My Wife And Mother Hate Each Other by LyfeJennings(m): 1:32pm On Jan 18, 2020 |
chidekings: Weyrey wa lori boy yen He is mentally r3tard3d 1 Like |
Re: My Wife And Mother Hate Each Other by CSTR2: 1:32pm On Jan 18, 2020 |
Women should pray against having this kind of son. You allowed a fickle and arrogant woman in the name of wife to use your mother like rag. Your own mother? Tufiakwa. 14 Likes |
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