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sassysure:
U don't know Harry at all.
This is what he wanted for long. Even without wife.
Freedom.

However he gets it doesn't matter.

He and his brother are not the best of friends. And his personality wouldn't want to bow down to him. He has always been a rebel. They all hoped he will marry a traditional British gal that will tamper his rebellious spirit.

I said some posts ago that Harry is a poster child of someone left to his devices.

Wrong choices trail such people.

From lifestyle to choice of a wife to this.

Meghan knew what she signed up for when she decided to marry Harry. The press has always been unkind to people and they move on. They did same to Obama & family yet they did not step down.

They did same to Goodluck Jonathan, he still contested second time and lost.

Shebi madam Meghan was reputed to leave acting because she is marrying into the royal family. Is she not going back to it?

Any relationship that makes one to lose his/her essence would not stand the test of time. Unfortunately, they are even in a clime that divorce is done at the drop of a hat.

In all of this, I have not seen one thing Meghan is sacrificing; Harry is the one giving it all up. His title, his customs, his traditions, his family etc.
The lure of getting his freedom might be 'sweet' till he realizes it is really gone. It is not on suspension; it is not like partying naked in Las Vegas for the weekend and coming back home to his privileged life. It is all gone! Puff!

Meghan's life was not in danger that he would say I am choosing my wife's life over my family.

Goodluck to Harry.

Cc: DexterousOne

@Cococandy:

Did Meghan know what she was getting into or not?

I am a firm believer of rights WITH responsibilities.

Even average people research into the family (customs, traditions, beliefs etc) of their spouses how much more an enlightened actress marrying into the British Royal Family which is the most publicized in the world?

Meghan cannot claim victimhood in this case.

BRATISLAVA:
Lol. I knew you had no true basis for supporting her except that you think she's black. She still remains better than you, your commoner/migrant taxes keep her white skin glowing. The S Fund and your hard work have ensured that. You remain a fly on the media pages while in London. Congrats. Have you asked her if she's okay today? Oh. You can't.

i am standing against injustice. thank you.

Do you know her from anywhere before?

bukatyne:
By the time Meghan is through with Harry, he will see black and call it white.

From the very beginning, they were unequally yoked.

cococandy:
Do you know her from anywhere before?

By their fruits, you shall know them.

Enculer2:
Very shallow thinking. Do you know the history of events?

I know enough that things were just fine before she came into the picture. Another example of what I said initially is Psquare. Its obvious one of them or both ladies is the cause of their split.
They came into the picture and the bond of brotherhood came crashing down.
There is something a reverend father said that has stuck with me for a very long time. He said and I quote "Some women are meant to be seen but never married cos they will utterly mess up your life". Marry a wrong woman and your own personal hell starts from this earth.

cococandy:
You must be kidding me.

Did you follow any of the media hounding and harassment that was meted out to them?

The racial insults?

All I’m hearing from my fellow black folks is that you guys think white people are to good for us hence we should accept such ridicule if we decide to mingle with those of them in high places.
Wow

black africa is doomed. their psyche has been damaged beyond repair

bukatyne:
I said some posts ago that Harry is a poster child of someone left to his devices.

Wrong choices trail such people.

From lifestyle to choice of a wife to this.

Meghan knew what she signed up for when she decided to marry Harry. The press has always been unkind to people and they move on. They did same to Obama & family yet they did not step down.

They did same to Goodluck Jonathan, he still contested second time and lost.

Shebi madam Meghan was reputed to leave acting because she is marrying into the royal family. Is she not going back to it?

Any relationship that makes one to lose his/her essence would not stand the test of time. Unfortunately, they are even in a clime that divorce is done at the drop of a hat.

In all of this, I have not seen one thing Meghan is sacrificing; Harry is the one giving it all up. His title, his customs, his traditions, his family etc.
The lure of getting his freedom might be 'sweet' till he realizes it is really gone. It is not on suspension; it is not like partying naked in Las Vegas for the weekend and coming back home to his privileged life. It is all gone! Puff!

Meghan's life was not in danger that he would say I am choosing my wife's life over my family.

Goodluck to Harry.

If Harry divorce Megan today, he will get back his title.

He is using Megan to pay his family back while Megan is using him for her own selfish intentions.
I just said it before,the are both using each other.

And, his family will never leave him. They did what they did for the Britons but behind, Harry is still their son and they will give him maximum support.
Megan on the other hand forgot that English people though liberal view thing differently from the Americans.

I noticed wives of the sons of the monarch are groomed on how to talk in public. Megan run her mouth like the normal American lady out there.

One day, the two of them will learn to face the skeleton in their cupboard.

I’m sorry bukatyne responsibility is not the same as accepting maltreatment, enduring racism or daily harassment. That’s not a responsibility. The other royal members of the family were not harassed like them.
Does responsibility include accepting that your child is a monkey because he has black blood? And the royal family said nothing in defense of it’s newest great grandchild. Something they would never let fly if any of the other kids were involved

Even when the tabloid carried news of prince Williams infidelity, the royal house quickly issued a cease and desist letter. So they knew how to stand up for members of their family but stood quietly while this young man and his family were being barraged with hate.

You obviously dislike her but for whatever reason that is up to you. Don’t be like this is about her accepting her responsibilities or traditions of the family. Just be upfront about your dislike of her.

Name one thing she did that was wrong so as to qualify as breaking the family tradition?

She knew she was marrying into a royal family and was probably prepared to do the job of a duchess. None of that job description involves cuddling your black child at night and crying because the world thing you’re monkeys and everyone is okay with that.

I guess she chose her black race and hence is not really a victim of the racism

bukatyne:
I said some posts ago that Harry is a poster child of someone left to his devices.

Wrong choices trail such people.

From lifestyle to choice of a wife to this.

Meghan knew what she signed up for when she decided to marry Harry. The press has always been unkind to people and they move on. They did same to Obama & family yet they did not step down.

They did same to Goodluck Jonathan, he still contested second time and lost.

Shebi madam Meghan was reputed to leave acting because she is marrying into the royal family. Is she not going back to it?

Any relationship that makes one to lose his/her essence would not stand the test of time. Unfortunately, they are even in a clime that divorce is done at the drop of a hat.

In all of this, I have not seen one thing Meghan is sacrificing; Harry is the one giving it all up. His title, his customs, his traditions, his family etc.
The lure of getting his freedom might be 'sweet' till he realizes it is really gone. It is not on suspension; it is not like partying naked in Las Vegas for the weekend and coming back home to his privileged life. It is all gone! Puff!

Meghan's life was not in danger that he would say I am choosing my wife's life over my family.

Goodluck to Harry.

Cc: DexterousOne

@Cococandy:

Did Meghan know what she was getting into or not?

I am a firm believer of rights WITH responsibilities.

Even average people research into the family (customs, traditions, beliefs etc) of their spouses how much more an enlightened actress marrying into the British Royal Family which is the most publicized in the world?

Meghan cannot claim victimhood in this case.

peacettw:
The rest of the world and I are very familiar with the quote. I will like to think that Meghan, a divorcee, is also very familiar with it as well. Can u blame us for acting according to script? Can she say that she didn't know that this will happen?

Oh and incase you may be wondering..allow me to inform you on time that if this goes down the drain, Meghan will be blamed as well.

@Bold:

Hahahahahahaha!

jesmond3945:
thank God you have agreed with me that you have not stepped outside the shores. Even the education you have is handed over to you by Europeans. see I am a Pan African, I dont give a Bleep about you or your fellow minions who allow white controlled media to feed them junk, insulting meghan a half african in the process. Meghan don't deserve what she went through nor her baby. They are human beings for crying out loud.

Here lies your problem. You write in English and use the white platform to communicate and yet you want to insult others while defending the stupidity of a 'half caste' woman, a woman with white blood flowing in her veins who doesn't know of your existence. Yet you want me to believe you are pan african. You sound so confused. To demonstrate your pan africanness you will need to return to a village in a jungle somewhere and live like your great grandfathers lived. Else you will just remain a confused and deluded mumu.

[quote author=jesmond3945 post=85911978]if you are in meghan's shoes what would do? die because you want to be duchess of suxxess[/quote

like I would usually say,stop defending rubbish.

The lady knows what she was getting into and she simply worked out her plan very well.

Women are great manipulators.

An Islamic scholar once said being enslaved by a woman is the worst form of slavery.
When she knows you are head over heels for her she manipulates you like a puppet;and Harry will be divorced las las the way things are going.

sassysure:
Exactly

They don't put food on my table.

But the hatred is real here on that babe.

She should have know that she is getting married to a very traditional family and some certain standards are expected.

Will they live happily ever after, I doubt it.
Harry is her 3rd husband.
Wish I can see them married in the next ten yrs.

Two of them are using each other.

Third?

I thought he was second.

The guy is certified stupid.

What kind of standard? Are we talking about the standard that led to the death of Harry's mother? What exactly has Meghan done wrong?

By the way we can talk about William's alleged infidelity

Then we can move to Prince Andrew sexual exploits of underaged girls

Oh! What about Prince Philps numerous gaffes. Very unbecoming of royalty


All of you can keep projecting your hate, envy and silly analysis.

sassysure:
Exactly

They don't put food on my table.

But the hatred is real here on that babe.

She should have know that she is getting married to a very traditional family and some certain standards are expected.

Will they live happily ever after, I doubt it.
Harry is her 3rd husband.
Wish I can see them married in the next ten yrs.

Two of them are using each other.

When was she running her mouth though?

@bold, Or maybe they really love each other and we should wish them well because no one benefits if all this pressure on them causes their marriage to break up.

sassysure:
If Harry divorce Megan today, he will get back his title.

He is using Megan to pay his family back while Megan is using him for her own selfish intentions.
I just said it before,the are both using each other.

And, his family will never leave him. They did what they did for the Britons but behind, Harry is still their son and they will give him maximum support.
Megan on the other hand forgot that English people though liberal view thing differently from the Americans.

I noticed wives of the sons of the monarch are groomed on how to talk in public. Megan run her mouth like the normal American lady out there.

One day, the two of them will learn to face the skeleton in their cupboard.

[quote author=Khaleell001 post=85929615][/quote]a misogynist spotted.

They are white. Their offense doesn’t matter

Sterope:
What kind of standard? What has she done wrong?

Lets talk about William's alleged infidelity

Then we can move to Prince Andrew sexual exploits of underaged girls

Oh! What about Prince Philps numerous gaffes. Very unbecoming of royalty


All of you can keep projecting your hate, envy and silly analysis.

sassysure:
If Harry divorce Megan today, he will get back his title.

He is using Megan to pay his family back while Megan is using him for her own selfish intentions.
I just said it before,the are both using each other.

And, his family will never leave him. They did what they did for the Britons but behind, Harry is still their son and they will give him maximum support.
Megan on the other hand forgot that English people though liberal view thing differently from the Americans.

I noticed wives of the sons of the monarch are groomed on how to talk in public. Megan run her mouth like the normal American lady out there.

One day, the two of them will learn to face the skeleton in their cupboard.

Hopefully, the prodigal son would find his way home one day.

Will it be with Meghan? No idea.

bukatyne:
Third?

I thought he was second.

The guy is certified stupid.

He’s her second husband. (Not that it’s terrible if he’s the third)
Do you dislike her because she got out of a bad marriage and found love somewhere else? Or is that she’s an actress? What’s exactly her offense

She was never really scandalous (again not even a crime if she was), was not disliked by any remarkable majority until she committed the offense of loving someone above her social class . And that’s it.

Boom!
I’m stunned

tete7000:
Here lies your problem. You write in English and use the white platform to communicate and yet you want to insult others while defending the stupidity of a 'half caste' woman, a woman with white blood flowing in her veins who doesn't know of your existence. Yet you want me to believe you are pan african. You sound so confused. To demonstrate your pan africanness you will need to return to a village in a jungle somewhere and live like your great grandfathers lived. Else you will just remain a confused and deluded mumu.

is nairaland white platform?
I spend more time here because I love my country, I love Africa. The white man has used the media outlets to brainwash africans to the point that they don' t even analyze the agenda behind any story. What is happening to Meghan is what an average black man here faces. I cannot explain anything to you because you have not experienced such and the propaganda from the foreign media has drained you of any iota of self adulation and esteem in your blackness. My condolences.

Exactly and their blood is royalty.

Let's keep the racism and classicism kites flying high.

You will think a black person from a former colony would know better

cococandy:
They are white. Their offense doesn’t matter

Agboriotejoye:
What exactly do you mean? Did you expect the queen to allow them walk away with the titles and everything attached to it while abandoning the responsibilities?

Am not entirely referring to this episode alone , go and read history specifically on princess Diana then you can come back to quote me.

sassysure:
Not surprised.
Majority of the British people hate Meghan.

Like last November, somebody on social media raised the topic that Megan be stripped of her title. Voting was initiated and within 2 days, thousands endorsed. So shocking. Somebody said he know they don't like her but not to this level. No other reason that she had black heritage.

U need to see these people referring to her like she has plaque.

Harry on the other hand had always been the black sheep of the family.
The truth is, Harry is not happy with how they treated his mother. Though very young then but it affected him pretty well.
He never wanted to do anything with Camilla or his dad.
Wasn't surprised when he married Megan, to spite his family( and that, he did ) and establish his independence.

He has gotten what he had wanted all along.

If he continue dragging them to the mud, they will give him his mother's treatment.

Harry really took it too far.
You can imagine announcing on social media that he and his wife were going to step back from royal duties, even before the Queen had issued any statement.

It's no surprise people are vilifying Meghan in all of this.

franchasng:
of course they are marrying solely for economic reasons most times, they have no plan to live forever after because most often, they will still have a second Nigerian wife or babymama, sadly



Intertribal and interracial marriages can sound sophisticated and civilised, but they come with too many baggage that majority of humans cannot handle at the long run, only few survive the future turbulence

Truth is fellow youths would hardly hear you until few months/years of being in such marriages. Same goes for inter-religion marriage. Many think it would be the same way it was during dating/courtship until they get the shock of their lives as realities unfold in the marriage. I know a handful of people experiencing that.

Meanwhile, you seem so experienced. Are you involved in an inter-tribal marriage?

cococandy:
When was she running her mouth though?

@bold, Or maybe they really love each other and we should wish them well because no one benefits if all this pressure on them causes their marriage to break up.

I actually wish them well o!
Very very well.
Infact, I'm the only one that defends her in my place of work.
The hatred is real. So real.
My first comment summed it all up.

The rest is as exactly as they say it.
Ask British people. They hate her and can't stand her presence.

There is something we all fail to understand here.
As an average American citizen( excluding blacks) feel he is superior to all races, so also an average Briton feel he is superior to an average American not to think of their monarch.
Hope u are getting the angle the hatred is coming from.
Megan is not of British or European origin but a biracial.
An American and a black combined.
Then a two time divorcee.

The odds were against her. We have to accept it, it's their skewed traditional beliefs. She should have gone under to learn, submit and then conquer.

( This is the public opinion here, off the press)

Some said she came to show them they don't know how to run the monarch again.

Oh well, British folks were ever ready to crucify her and she made it easy for them.
I'm sure she never expected this.

peacettw:
To Meghan,

This started out as a short note but I am afraid it quickly degenerated to this. But I promise, it makes for an interesting read so bear with me.

As a fellow member of your race, Meghan, let me start by saying that I am so terribly disappointed. I do not care if this was Harry's decision, your role as a wife was to deter him from making this colossal mistake. For pete's sake Megan, this decision will not end well...not for you or for your son. Their is no so such thing as a normal life for a once royal. People are fickle and selfish, and your celebrity friends will desert you.... If you doubt me, go and look up Prince Edwards who abdicated. He, at least, got to keep his title and was getting some funds from the Royal family to exist but you both have neither. How is that smart? Where is the sense in all of this? Or were you expecting the royal family to bend backwards and beg you both to stay? Do you really thing of yourselves to be that important?

Ironically, now, the pressure on you both will increase as you strive harder to maintain your fantasy, financial upkeep and lifestyle. You threw away the life long privilege that will ensure you never had to work in the real sense of it for your livelihood. Your only job had been to look pretty, smile for the cameras, attend some royal functions and act the part. A script you could have easily aced with your background in acting. Yes, I understand that you were being persecuted by the family and press... but you also didn't make it easy as well for anyone. Not only are you an American, you are a divorcee, an actress, BLACK and not in good terms with any of your family members. You cant be naive to think that you will be easily accepted. Kate fared a lot worse despite being the perfect candidate. Obama and his family also faced intense scrutiny and profound racism by the press but they weathered it quite well with dignity and class. Now Mitchell Obama is the most respected woman on earth (Google that of you don't believe me) and her husband celebrated worldwide.

Meghan, despite your imperfections, you were still chosen and loved against all odds..but you still weren't content. We all could see that you wanted the attention, to be seen and heard, to best Kate and everyone else...to change an instituition as old as time itself. Well, you have your wish so be ready to LIE ON THE BED THAT YOU HAVE MADE. You both will work for the bread that you will eat. Your fairweather friends will leave in droves because let's face it they were only there to gain access to the royal family. You are bound to face the pressure that marriage but only this time, with no buffers. You may think your life will be better but trust me, it will not. It may even be worse.

I wish you both good luck because you will desperately need it to survive your marriage and the slimy press that will forever hound you in the hopes of your noting your decline from grace to nothingness.

This is good

bukatyne:
Third?

I thought he was second.

The guy is certified stupid.

harry is second.

Sterope:
Exactly and their blood is royalty.

Let's keep the racism and classicism flying high. You will think a black person from a former colony will know better

Until today, there are speculations that Epstein was silenced in prison so that the true extent of Andrew’s (and some other world royalty) dealings with him won’t fully be known. A black man would never survive even half a speculation about that much less flourish even after evidence of him being a pedophile is established.

This black woman's offense was having a few opinions and leaving a bad marriage. Let’s crucify her. afterall she knew he was a royal and should have rejected his proposal even if she liked him.

It is well.

bukatyne:
Was she daft before she agreed to marry the Prince?

I like that the Royal Family has cut them off their funds. Let them work for their money.

I only pity their kids, they will never belong anywhere:

Too royal to be common and too common to matter in the scheme of royalty.

I hope Harry is thinking with his head and not his d!ck.

Not just cutting off, now they even have to pay back renovation costs on their official residence .. Lol

Mama Charlie is savage mehn.

jesmond3945:
is nairaland white platform?
I spend more time here because I love my country, I love Africa. The white man has used the media outlets to brainwash africans to the point that they don' t even analyze the agenda behind any story. What is happening to Meghan is what an average black man here faces. I cannot explain anything to you because you have not experienced such and the propaganda from the foreign media has drained you of any iota of self adulation and esteem in your blackness. My condolences.

It's your grandfather's technology that brought nairaland into existence. There is nothing like you love Africa, the problem you need cure for is inferiority complex. It is written over every page of your conversation with me. I am too learned to be swayed by argument driven by parochiality and inferiority complex.

crackkhaus:


Harry really took it too far.
You can imagine announcing on social media that he and his wife were going to step back from royal duties, even before the Queen had issued any statement.

It's no surprise people are vilifying Meghan in all of this.

There was this poll that was deleted off social media.
Saw it on BBC1.
One random social media user said they should vote for Megan to be stripped off her official title.
Like joke, thousand voted yes.
That was how this started.
Not up to 3 weeks they made that announcement.
I'm thinking, like the news commentator, they never saw this coming.
It was a silly online joke by a teen but the rate with which people voted yes was alarming.

Also, I am positive this is what made Harry made that decision.
Being a highly volatile person he did it on social media instead of consulting his family first.
When asked to comment on that poll, the family where in shock and I think it was Prince Charles that said that it's a joke taken far. Everything about that poll died natural death.

Harry has always been the prodigal son. Emotionally unstable and alone in th mot of plenty.

@bold, obviously. It’s more hatred than any actual thing she did wrong. Because they can’t even say what she has done wrong.
She came to show them how to run the royal house?
that’s funny

Yes babe I know exactly where the white people’s hate is coming from. The black people? I don’t understand.

I was never her fan so to say. But all the media attention got me interested in her and then I was stunned by the black haters who couldn’t see the racism or saw it and decided it was okay. Like for real?
At most just be a disinterested bystander if you will but endorsing it by saying that’s what she signed up for makes feel all types of ways.

I thought we had gotten to the level where we consider ourselves equal to whites and will not think racism is okay because our least favorite person is the one going through it.

sassysure:
I actually wish them well o!
Very very well.
Infact, I'm the only one that defends her in my place of work.
The hatred is real. So real.
My first comment summed it all up.

The rest is as exactly as they say it.
Ask British people. They hate her and can't stand her presence.

There is something we all fail to understand here.
As an average American citizen( excluding blacks) feel he is superior to all races, so also an average Briton feel he is superior to an average American not to think of their monarch.
Hope u are getting the angle the hatred is coming from.
Megan is not of British or European origin but a biracial.
An American and a black combined.
Then a two time divorcee.

The odds were against her. We have to accept it, it's their skewed traditional beliefs. She should have gone under to learn, submit and then conquer.

( This is the public opinion here, off the press)

Some said she came to show them they don't know how to run the monarch again.

Oh well, British folks were ever ready to crucify her and she made it easy for them.
I'm sure she never expected this.

The opinions are nothing extreme or unusual.

That woman is no Angelina Jolie. So what exactly is their problem?

cococandy:
Until today, there are speculations that Epstein was silenced in prison so that the true extent of Andrew’s (and some other world royalty) dealings with him won’t fully be known. A black man would never survive even half a speculation about that much less flourish even after evidence of him being a pedophile is established.

This black woman's offense was having a few opinions and leaving a bad marriage. Let’s crucify her. afterall she knew he was a royal and should have rejected his proposal even if she liked him.

It is well.