sassysure:

Exactly

They don't put food on my table.

But the hatred is real here on that babe.

She should have know that she is getting married to a very traditional family and some certain standards are expected.

Will they live happily ever after, I doubt it.
Harry is her 3rd husband.
Wish I can see them married in the next ten yrs.

Two of them are using each other.

Sterope:
The opinions are nothing extreme or unusual.

That woman is no Angelina Jolie. So what exactly is their problem?

crackkhaus:

Not just cutting off, now they even have to pay back renovation costs on their official residence .. Lol

Mama Charlie is savage mehn.

tete7000:


It's your grandfather's technology that brought nairaland into existence. There is nothing like you love Africa, the problem you need cure for is inferiority complex. It is written over every page of your conversation with me. I am too learned to be swayed by argument driven by parochiality and inferiority complex.

cococandy:
Sassysure, Harry is her second husband

sassysure:

If Harry divorce Megan today, he will get back his title.

He is using Megan to pay his family back while Megan is using him for her own selfish intentions.
I just said it before,the are both using each other.

And, his family will never leave him. They did what they did for the Britons but behind, Harry is still their son and they will give him maximum support.
Megan on the other hand forgot that English people though liberal view thing differently from the Americans.

I noticed wives of the sons of the monarch are groomed on how to talk in public. Megan run her mouth like the normal American lady out there.

One day, the two of them will learn to face the skeleton in their cupboard.

cococandy:
I’m sorry bukatyne responsibility is not the same as accepting maltreatment, enduring racism or daily harassment. That’s not a responsibility. The other royal members of the family were not harassed like them.
Does responsibility include accepting that your child is a monkey because he has black blood? And the royal family said nothing in defense of it’s newest great grandchild. Something they would never let fly if any of the other kids were involved

Even when the tabloid carried news of prince Williams infidelity, the royal house quickly issued a cease and desist letter. So they knew how to stand up for members of their family but stood quietly while this young man and his family were being barraged with hate.

You obviously dislike her but for whatever reason that is up to you. Don’t be like this is about her accepting her responsibilities or traditions of the family. Just be upfront about your dislike of her.

Name one thing she did that was wrong so as to qualify as breaking the family tradition?

She knew she was marrying into a royal family and was probably prepared to do the job of a duchess. None of that job description involves cuddling your black child at night and crying because the world thing you’re monkeys and everyone is okay with that.

I guess she chose her black race and hence is not really a victim of the racism

sassysure:

Okay.
Wish them well.
My husband that is everything black related is against this one.

He said, this lady has the opportunity to prove naysayers wrong and she goofed.

crackkhaus:

Sassy, Harry & Meghan are going to get a divorce. It's only a matter of time, you know what you're saying.

Just imagine the woman, only you a hollywood actress, only you a self-professed feminist, only you a divorcee, only you biracial, only you not getting along with most of your family members, even your own papa did not walk you down the aisle on your wedding day...and she was seriously expecting the British people to put her on a pedestal, people that are still very much traditional and respectful of institutions unlike Americans.

Na only you waka come?

I honestly never knew what Meghan was thinking when she got married to Harry, I swear she's not a smart person if she ever thought the mostly conservative British people were ever going to go easy on her...not even by a long shot would that have ever happened.

tellwisdom:
...And how does this concern average Nigerian?

bukatyne:


I got this from cosmopolitan on 67 times she 'broke' royal protocol. Some are just for laughs however.
https://www.cosmopolitan.com/entertainment/celebs/g18197742/meghan-markle-royal-protocol/

Her in-laws demonstrated their willingness to bend backwards for her as shown below:

She Has Her Own Coat of Arms
Before a woman marries into the royal family, her father traditionally receives a royal coat of arms that's then extended to her entire family. However, because Meghan is estranged from her father, Thomas Markle, and he didn't attend the wedding, the palace announced that the coat of arms was created specifically for Meghan.

She Celebrated Christmas at Sandringham
Christmas at Sandringham is legendary, so much so that only spouses of the Queen's invitees are allowed to attend. Back in 2010, even Kate didn't get to go—she was engaged to Prince William, but she didn't marry him until April 2011. However, Prince Harry asked his grandmother to make an exception for Meghan in 2018, and she obliged.

Meghan chose her black race? I laugh in Spanish!

Meghan is too remote from my life to dislike her. After this thread, I will forget about her till another news pops up again. I don't waste my emotions like that

Harry's ex-girlfriend (a white) reasoned she couldn't cope with their shenanigans and moved out. How a biracial thought she would and start crying foul is beyond me.

Anyways, the babe is sharp: Got a royal wedding and recognition she could only dream off. Now, they have left the royal family, she would still be the wife of the ex-royal.

The Diana of her time

Time would tell.

Sterope:
What kind of standard? Are we talking about the standard that led to the death of Harry's mother? [b]What exactly has Meghan done wrong?[/b

By the way we can talk about William's alleged infidelity

Then we can move to Prince Andrew sexual exploits of underaged girls

Oh! What about Prince Philps numerous gaffes. Very unbecoming of royalty


All of you can keep projecting your hate, envy and silly analysis.

raybaba97:
Then you didn't read the right books.

They offered him so many alternatives that it was mindbogglingly that they could wait so long for a decision.

What I'm trying to get at is that you should not make it sound like he did it because he wanted to. He was very much against abdicating even till the end.

That's why I called him a coward. If he had chosen love over duty, he would have been a brave man, or duty over love too.

cococandy:
Or maybe her husband is the one insisting on this decision and she’s going along with it. We don’t know.
But she’s the villain because that’s what everyone wants her to be.

cococandy:


He’s her second husband. (Not that it’s terrible if he’s the third)
Do you dislike her because she got out of a bad marriage and found love somewhere else? Or is that she’s an actress? What’s exactly her offense

She was never really scandalous (again not even a crime if she was), was not disliked by any remarkable majority until she committed the offense of loving someone above her social class . And that’s it.

Boom!
I’m stunned

sassysure:

There lies the problem.
She should know Harry more than every other person
I, as an outsider know that Harry will explode after that poll.
She should have stopped him.

Run to the queen, his father, do something!

Even if its against her better judgement.

It will.give her a pass mark. U get it. This is a very public family and she is under the ladder already.

Anything to swerve the blame away from her and gain her that public sympathy she crave.
She isn't smart. Some smart woman would have milked the situation.
Her husband posted something online without informing his people. Just because people said she should be stripped of her title?
Everybody will assume she pushed her husband to do that.
And she didn't do any damage control
Haba!

raybaba97:


It's similar to what @chukwugoziegi : said. they decided to announce it first and he had no choice but to sign if he wanted to keep a lid on it.

Basically, they strong armed him into abdicating

cococandy:
And what would be an appropriate gesture from her to show that she appreciates them offering her the royal life?

Accept the racial harassment?

Girl your previous posts are strong sentiments for someone too remote from your life. I was surprised honestly.

I do wish them. Have no interest in seeing them break up

jesmond3945:
harry is second.

crackkhaus:

Brits have never understood why Americans are the way they are (loud, arrogant, etc), it's a common stereotype.
Sassysure, I lie?

Then on top of her being American, she is now a divorcee, a Hollywood actress (some of the fakest people on earth), she doesn't get along with her family members (was it not only her mum that attended her wedding), and then to make it worse, her body language and attitude when meeting with British commoners always appears dismissive...and you're asking what she did wrong?

Even as an actress, one would think she would have been skilled enough to act a part in public..lol.
She shot herself in the foot.

sassysure:

There was this poll that was deleted off social media.
Saw it on BBC1.
One random social media user said they should vote for Megan to be stripped off her official title.
Like joke, thousand voted yes.
That was how this started.
Not up to 3 weeks they made that announcement.
I'm thinking, like the news commentator, they never saw this coming.
It was a silly online joke by a teen but the rate with which people voted yes was alarming.

Also, I am positive this is what made Harry made that decision.
Being a highly volatile person he did it on social media instead of consulting his family first.
When asked to comment on that poll, the family where in shock and I think it was Prince Charles that said that it's a joke taken far.
Everything about that poll died natural death.

Harry has always been the prodigal son. Emotionally unstable and alone in th mot of plenty.

crackkhaus:

Not just cutting off, now they even have to pay back renovation costs on their official residence .. Lol

Mama Charlie is savage mehn.

bukatyne:


The generation of instant gratification and ignoring the communal good.

crackkhaus:

Even if he decided on his own to announce on social media, which I'm 100% sure he did after Meghan agreed to it, she ought o have made him hold back and follow protocol.

Given everything that has been happening, she really could not afford to be seen as anything other than respecting the monarchy.

Her job as a good wife was not to add fire to Harry's volatility but to be his safe haven, his emotional buffer, his anchor to reel him back in as gently as possible.
You can't be complaining of hate and still be doing things that give the public more reason to hate you, it looks as if she just doesn't care...which brings us back to that American hollywood actress arrogant demeanor she displays.

sassysure:

She will do what she got to do behind closed doors.
This is to pacify the British people.

He made a very big mistake going online.
And this is where I fault Megan.
She should have resisted that and even report him to the queen or his father. So that if the grapevine want to gossip, they will say Megan was against it( even if she supported that in her heart)

They have protocol on things like this

sassysure:

Go to malls, places of work, talk show programmes, it's Megan everyday. I'm even tired of the whole thing.

I just said that British people though liberal are very traditional.
More traditional than us.

Here, the senior citizens voice are like thunder. U must respect them o. They have been following and watching and came to the conclusion Megan is a bitter pill to swallow.

I wanted to scream at one old woman at the mall one day.
U need to see her badmouthing this lady, Megan.

As per them staying married. I hope they do but Harry is somebody that is never stable. Megan too has her motives. If it didn't go as she want, with time, we will start hearing some funny stories.

sassysure:

Go to malls, places of work, talk show programmes, it's Megan everyday. I'm even tired of the whole thing.

I just said that British people though liberal are very traditional.
More traditional than us.

Here, the senior citizens voice are like thunder. U must respect them o. They have been following and watching and came to the conclusion Megan is a bitter pill to swallow.

I wanted to scream at one old woman at the mall one day.
U need to see her badmouthing this lady, Megan.

As per them staying married. I hope they do but Harry is somebody that is never stable. Megan too has her motives. If it didn't go as she want, with time, we will start hearing some funny stories.

bukatyne:


I laugh every time I read here that 'whites' have no culture or tradition bla bla.

sassysure:

U know, when that comedian made fun.of their kid, he was dismissed and British people attacked him.
This is to tell you that they are ready to overlook a lot of things and welcome her.
If after marrying her Harry is still this explosive, then nothing has changed.

We help better the lives of our partners.

British people don't like somebody coming to destabilise the status quo for them. Just leave things the way u find them and u will be all right with them.
And mind how u look or talk to people. They won't hesitate to tell u that you are rude.
I have never seen

bukatyne:


You don't like royal family but you like royal money,

Na beans?