Let me assume your story is true....call her parents, explain things to them and send her packing with IMMEDIATE EFFECT. Also carry out a DNA on your daughter to ascertain if truly she is yours.

If, you don't mind sharing your wife with the Mandingo, you can ignore my advice.

Cheers

walex2:
why do peope like to fabricate lies on faceless forum seeking uselss attention? your own wife will store a number with sugar daddy? who is using 2go again at this again? your screeshot shows 31st of december and you are seeking advice today

Yes i believe your story, but i will advise you to bring the screenshot down from the post, the number of the so called man is appearing and trust me some people will be calling him, this might put you in trouble as he might take action against you, you should have confronted him and your wife first and hear his opinion before taking a further step(s)

Oma307:

yes, if yourself can be faithful to your partner which is step one and if you can handle pressure which is step 2.
oga, go and marry

And u tink that is enof sir?? what if u re faithful to ur wife but reversed happen to b d case??

Vyolet:
I know this is another woman bashing thread and it is fake, I don't understand how your wife will save a man's name as Sugardaddy when you are not yet dead.

In the event that it is true, yes your wife is already cheating even if it's not physical yet, she is doing it emotionally. (she is wrong in all shade because it will eventually backfire, those two will eventually beat each other after all the I miss you, I love you. )

Now, back to you oga, what did you do to her? What has changed about you since you got married? Have you stopped looking good, listening to her, dressing sexy, praying for her, being romantic? Did you become stingy with your money and dickus at a time? Check yourself very well and see what you are doing wrong.
Go on your knees and pray hard, pray hard, talk to her, beg her so you can save your marriage.

Beg her... So this is the advice you will give your elder brother

Sorry bro. That's all I can say.

iamballo:
Hello fellow nairalanders, I'm a regular here even a lot of u guys kws my story here long b4 I got married in 2017. The issue now is that my marriage is on d line bcus of my wife cunning act lately, there is dis man I hv been suspecting that my wife is having affair with but b4 now I don't hv any tangible evidence abt dem dating or whatever & anytime I raised d issue she always talk her way out of it which I always believe.
Two days ago I borrowed my wife phone to send some msgs to my clients & few msgs was sent back to me thru her phone so as I was going Tru d inbox to check d msgs d tin I saw almost makes me fainted. A conversation between her & d man. I hv attached a screenshot of their conversation below.
please what's d best way for me to handle this situation because I'm down & devastated at d moment.
please I will really appreciate if this can get to the front page for wider views.

I don't know why u guys find it difficult to believe. After I saw d msg I took d phone from her since then & to hide d identity of d man number I have to save d number with something b4 I screenshot it. I didn't even transfer d screenshot to my own phone I just logged in with my wife owns. Besides I'm even asking only d adults & serious mind here to give me tangible advise on how best to handle d issue because of my daughter I don't want her growing from a broken family. Thanks....

Before I even read, crop out that number on that screenshot before you cast yourself. You have even cast your wife already sef. Too bad

To the matter at hand, I don't know how much you cherish the values of marriage. Personally I see it as a forever thing and I'll speak from that angle. If you consider your child, your health and your home, you will like to keep the marriage. Report her to her family as well as the pastors in your church after confronting her and making a fuss about it. Let them gather on head and ensure they make an example of her. This is simply a warning to her which should make her remorseful and possibly change her ways.

Now, if that doesn't work and she's already given in to her reprobate mind, this time will give you the chance to plan a separation well in advance. Gather your vital documents, wedding certificate, your international passports and birth certificate for yourself and child and keep them somewhere only you know. Adjust any trust funds and life insurance claims accordingly so you don't lose both ways. You can then seek legal counsel for the best way to work a divorce that'll work in your favour and ensure you keep child custody.

My 2 cents

zed7:

You are dumb, too dumb. How do you save a screenshot with someone's name? A screenshot is exactly how it appears on a phone.

You typed the rubbish on your phone and then screenshot it. You have no wife, you are just an idle youth trying to create a sensational story, but you are too dumb to do it properly. Better edit that nonsense.

So genius u are saying I can't open d msg, saved d number with something & den screenshot it hmm? Go get a life nigga

OP I am highly disappointed in you.

Whixh advice do.you seek? A man in your position is expected to send the woman away without telling her the reason.

You should stop being a woman!

As for your marriage, it is DEAD already

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Vyolet:
I know this is another woman bashing thread and it is fake, I don't understand how your wife will save a man's name as Sugardaddy when you are not yet dead.

In the event that it is true, yes your wife is already cheating even if it's not physical yet, she is doing it emotionally. (she is wrong in all shade because it will eventually backfire, those two will eventually beat each other after all the I miss you, I love you. )

Now, back to you oga, what did you do to her? What has changed about you since you got married? Have you stopped looking good, listening to her, dressing sexy, praying for her, being romantic? Did you become stingy with your money and dickus at a time? Check yourself very well and see what you are doing wrong.
Go on your knees and pray hard, pray hard, talk to her, beg her so you can save your marriage.

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iamballo:


So genius u are saying I can't open d msg, saved d number with something & den screenshot it hmm? Go get a life nigga

That's what makes you dumb. Saving the number with something, makes the story fictional. Sugar daddy of all names, mumu.

Even if it is true, you should go and hang yourself for allowing a woman cheat on you with an old man. It shows you are boring, silly and worthless. Since you came for advice, it's better to kill yourself for being such a simp. Redeem your honour.

Quit that marriage, she will never change and dragging her with the man or contacting the man to leave your wife for you will dirty your personality and redicule you more, safe the screenshot and show it to her families, first show it to your wife so that she won't deny it, I hope you're trying in your responsibility as a father and as a husband, but I'm sure you saw the red flags during courtship but the frequent sex you're having with her blindfolded you, she will later plan to kill you or you'll contact std from her,

I'm talking from experience.

Don't bargain your peace with her, I'm saying it again, she will never stop cheating,she will be more smarter next time for her not to get caught.

Quit the marriage before you eat poison

Vyolet:
I know this is another woman bashing thread and it is fake, I don't understand how your wife will save a man's name as Sugardaddy when you are not yet dead.

In the event that it is true, yes your wife is already cheating even if it's not physical yet, she is doing it emotionally. (she is wrong in all shade because it will eventually backfire, those two will eventually beat each other after all the I miss you, I love you. )

Now, back to you oga, what did you do to her? What has changed about you since you got married? Have you stopped looking good, listening to her, dressing sexy, praying for her, being romantic? Did you become stingy with your money and dickus at a time? Check yourself very well and see what you are doing wrong.
Go on your knees and pray hard, pray hard, talk to her, beg her so you can save your marriage.

what's wrong with some of you, even if he did all this, is that a good reason for her to cheat?
I hate this stupid excuse from some of you ladies nd its clearly obvious you will cheat on a husband.

Oga is it until u contract life threatening disease b4 ur eyes go clear....
YOLO..... YOU ONLY LIVE ONCE...

Even mine is already towing the same line. Am just watching her on 3D, when I get concrete evidence, na japa.

Life is too sweet to worry over somboris daughter, there are many ladies to marry nowadays, don't give yourself heartache. Take care of yourself and live fine.

You have to confront your wife about this affair and find out what you are not getting right

You guys should understand that, if you don't master the buttons to press in your wives body, she will get it done perfectly with another man who have taking time to take her to cloud nine

Most women that cheats, are not getting satisfaction from their men and the men involved are not ready to update or upgrade their system of handling a woman

As a man, find out how best is it to make her have orgasm rather than expecting her to give you respect and the only satisfaction she is supposed to get from you is not guaranteed

Sex is meant for women not men

Have you ever seen a woman look for how to make a man happy on the bed ❓

No ❗❗❗,
men go extra miles to handle a woman so that, she won't wish to get anything less from what she knows you are capable of

To me, I will prefer a satisfying sex romance than a complete house keep allowance

I can work and provide those things but I can't Bleep myself to cloud nine,
no matter how pleasurable my fingers are the different is clear

Vyolet:
I know this is another woman bashing thread and it is fake, I don't understand how your wife will save a man's name as Sugardaddy when you are not yet dead.

In the event that it is true, yes your wife is already cheating even if it's not physical yet, she is doing it emotionally. (she is wrong in all shade because it will eventually backfire, those two will eventually beat each other after all the I miss you, I love you. )

Now, back to you oga, what did you do to her? What has changed about you since you got married? Have you stopped looking good, listening to her, dressing sexy, praying for her, being romantic? Did you become stingy with your money and dickus at a time? Check yourself very well and see what you are doing wrong.
Go on your knees and pray hard, pray hard, talk to her, beg her so you can save your marriage.

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Yeah, right?
He shouldn't forget to wear Red pant and bra too...I mean Red singlet and boxer .

Vyolet:
I know this is another woman bashing thread and it is fake, I don't understand how your wife will save a man's name as Sugardaddy when you are not yet dead.

In the event that it is true, yes your wife is already cheating even if it's not physical yet, she is doing it emotionally. (she is wrong in all shade because it will eventually backfire, those two will eventually beat each other after all the I miss you, I love you. )

Now, back to you oga, what did you do to her? What has changed about you since you got married? Have you stopped looking good, listening to her, dressing sexy, praying for her, being romantic? Did you become stingy with your money and dickus at a time? Check yourself very well and see what you are doing wrong.
Go on your knees and pray hard, pray hard, talk to her, beg her so you can save your marriage.

beg a cheat
you sure say you no dey do drugs so?

HarunaWest:
Even mine is already towing the same line. Am just watching her on 3D, when I get concrete evidence, na japa.

Life is too sweet to worry over somboris daughter, there are many ladies to marry nowadays, don't give yourself heartache. Take care of yourself and live fine.

Kudos bro, just make sure you carry your child(ren) when you're living so that they don't grow up with such a mother, cheers.

frozen70:
You have to confront your wife about this affair and find out what you are not getting right

You guys should understand that, if you don't master the buttons to press in your wives body, she will get it done perfectly with another man who have taking time to take her to cloud nine

Most women that cheats, are not getting satisfaction from their men and the men involved are not ready to update or upgrade their system of handling a woman

As a man, find out how best is it to make her have orgasm rather than expecting her to give you respect and the only satisfaction she is supposed to get from you is not guaranteed

Sex is meant for women not men

Have you ever seen a woman look for how to make a man happy on the bed ❓

No ❗❗❗,
men go extra miles to handle a woman so that, she won't wish to get anything less from what she knows you are capable of

To me, I will prefer a satisfying sex romance than a complete house keep allowance

I can work and provide those things but I can't Bleep myself to cloud nine,
no matter how pleasurable my fingers are the different is clear

Yeah