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| Help! My Sister Is Overbossing Her Husband by SwagPower: 1:57pm On Jan 29, 2020 |
I love my sister to bits.Shes my most favourite person in the whole world. She's married to this guy..Good guy,Quiet,Mr nice guy basically a Beta Male. She runs circles about him. I'm torn between doing right by her since she's blood ...But I also feel sorry for her hubby as a guy ..Thing is I want to help him to be more assertive and Man his house..How do I do this without it backfiring on my sister.. Matured responses please.. (Let's make this discourse like something on Quora or Reddit). 1 Like |
| Re: Help! My Sister Is Overbossing Her Husband by AwesomeDuru(m): 2:01pm On Jan 29, 2020 |
How exactly is she over bossing her husband? What are the things she's doing to him? 6 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Help! My Sister Is Overbossing Her Husband by healthserve(m): 2:02pm On Jan 29, 2020 |
This is a toxic forum . Sorry in advance as in sure your hopes would be dashed . Make your sister a movie like Tyler Perry's family movie where few people like just you and her would be in attendance. After the movie sets the stage at his end tell her you know she's family but she's toxic and she'll end up losing if she pushes him beyond his ability to continue to bear. If you can't say it to her face. Please don't through social media and maintain a long distance like six months so the counsel would sink in 6 Likes |
| Re: Help! My Sister Is Overbossing Her Husband by SwagPower: 2:08pm On Jan 29, 2020 |
AwesomeDuru:She's kinda stubborn..Often insisting on them doing things her way.. Cc: Ubunja, Martinez39,Pansophist,Crackhaus, |
| Re: Help! My Sister Is Overbossing Her Husband by SwagPower: 2:09pm On Jan 29, 2020 |
healthserve:Boss I'm sure you making a lot of sense..But your diction is kinda hard to decipher.. |
| Re: Help! My Sister Is Overbossing Her Husband by Nobody: 2:10pm On Jan 29, 2020 |
SwagPower: Ur sister, her husband.. One golden rule to live long in life is Mindeding your own business.. Yes I mean it, mind ur business so dt u wunt be burnt.. Husband n wife matter isn't just easy like dt ooo 6 Likes |
| Re: Help! My Sister Is Overbossing Her Husband by id911(m): 2:18pm On Jan 29, 2020 |
SwagPower: It's non of your business bro. Leave your sister and her hubby to chart their own course in their marriage so far no one is complaining. Never ever try to speak to your sister's hubby or "...help him to be more assertive and Man in his house", as you put it. If you try it and anything bad eventually happens to that marriage in the future, na you cause am. If you even want to talk, you may jokingly tease your sister about it when both of you are alone and watch her response. Again, I would strongly advise you mind your business as far as marriage is concerned except either of them voluntarily complains to you or seek your opinion. I used to stay in a very wealthy man house some years back. The wife highest qualifications was and is still school cert and from a poor background. She's extremely beautiful with excellent character tho. The hubby, on the other hand, is highly educated, travels around the world. MD in a very big and popular organisation and also Director in different companies. Guess what? At home, the man no get mouth  Whatever the wife says is final! The man go even tell us say, mummy said this... mummy said that... so na wetin mummy says we should do! The thing used to pain us well well o but we discovered the man isn't bothered and so we gave up and mind our business. Fortunately, they are living a happy and fulfilled life and both are approaching 70 years now. Bros I beg you again, mind your business  28 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: Help! My Sister Is Overbossing Her Husband by Nobody: 2:18pm On Jan 29, 2020 |
Mind your fvcking business and stay out of your sister's marriage. Enjoy your stay, get the pocket money they will give you at the end it and get your black ass out of their home.  6 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Help! My Sister Is Overbossing Her Husband by Nobody: 2:21pm On Jan 29, 2020 |
Simply mind your business. You're upset that your sisters husband isn't being as assertive and masculine as you think he should. Well thats his choice. Except your sister is a psycho who's endangering his life, the best you can and should do is to politely concern yourself with something else. I hate dominators cause im a rebel. Others prefer to be submissive. If you decide to take whatever mgtow advice you get here to your inlaw, you will cause more damage than good. Talk to him as a man. But dont push that boundary 2 Likes |
| Re: Help! My Sister Is Overbossing Her Husband by healthserve(m): 2:21pm On Jan 29, 2020 |
SwagPower: Really? |
| Re: Help! My Sister Is Overbossing Her Husband by saladinnoir: 2:28pm On Jan 29, 2020 |
SwagPower: I have a feeling it was your sister that wooed or pseudo wooed her husband dominant women like guys they can control and quiet and shy exudes that, the only thing you can do for your bil is to tell him to man up look her in the eye stand tall and say no, no matter how she rants and threatens he shouldn't gave in, whenever she's pushing he should tune her out and remember" I am the man"let this always be at back of his head, I leave it to you, again I have a feeling she chased him or made it too easy for him 1 Like |
| Re: Help! My Sister Is Overbossing Her Husband by SwagPower: 2:36pm On Jan 29, 2020 |
Blu03: Well said .. Thanks |
| Re: Help! My Sister Is Overbossing Her Husband by drnoel: 2:43pm On Jan 29, 2020 |
SwagPower: Lol, hilarious story. It's shows how naïve u are. Some men prefer their women to boss them around. Doesn't mean they are weak. Don't think anything u say will make any impact on the situation. Best thing for u to do is eye's right and walk past. Makes Ur life easier. Thank me later 2 Likes |
| Re: Help! My Sister Is Overbossing Her Husband by palmshots: 3:05pm On Jan 29, 2020 |
I hope you know some guys are comfortable with being beta and want a woman to dominate them... Please leave their family alone since they are not complaining 6 Likes |
| Re: Help! My Sister Is Overbossing Her Husband by Nobody: 3:16pm On Jan 29, 2020 |
Honestly, my parents 21years in marriage now, neva heard dem beef before and I'm happy how their union and friendship plays a great role in my life too palmshots: |
| Re: Help! My Sister Is Overbossing Her Husband by pansophist(m): 3:17pm On Jan 29, 2020 |
Well, this is a classical case of taking panadol for someone else's headache. Not everything you know about them, so its better you just keep off. You're in a delicate position, as this could lead to an escalated conflict between you and them. Having said that, by default, women will naturally submit to a man worth submitting to, it's not something you can force or talk her out of it. At best, any actions you take may be met with temporary agreement, until the next spark and the maltreatment continues. The onus is not on you, but him, to make his wife respect him. His masculinity should shine that she will naturally reveals and compliments him with her femininity. 3 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Help! My Sister Is Overbossing Her Husband by Nobody: 3:20pm On Jan 29, 2020 |
It's none of your business, if it works for them so be it. I know a guy who baths his kids, cooks for them, sweeps the house etc. He has a decent job and his wife works also. When they both get back from work, the man goes about doing chores and tending to the kids while his wife reclines on the sofa and watches her favourite programs. They are both happy, the man doesn't feel emasculated. Everyone should find out what works for them. Personally, I feel the guy is a weakling but then my opinion doesn't count. It's their marriage and they are happy. 4 Likes |
| Re: Help! My Sister Is Overbossing Her Husband by Nobody: 3:23pm On Jan 29, 2020 |
SwagPower: Teach him. His being assertive and a man will help your sister as well. 2 Likes |
| Re: Help! My Sister Is Overbossing Her Husband by Larryfest(m): 4:32pm On Jan 29, 2020 |
I guess your sister has joined the naija feminist gang, you better talk some senses into her before she do pass herself and gradually start loosing her husband. Even Mr nice guy will sure have his limits one day. |
| Re: Help! My Sister Is Overbossing Her Husband by Bola146(f): 4:39pm On Jan 29, 2020 |
SwagPower: Is the husband complaining  Please don't be an intruder between the two lover birds  face front jare |
| Re: Help! My Sister Is Overbossing Her Husband by LordReed2nd(m): 4:53pm On Jan 29, 2020 |
This is not your family so I advise you not to interfere. They are adults and can work their matter by theirselves. If you are so compelled to speak then speak to your sister, she's the one who needs a cautioning. People who always get their way are damaging their relationships unwittingly. She may find herself in a situation that completely blindsides her because of her attitude. 2 Likes |
| Re: Help! My Sister Is Overbossing Her Husband by Nobody: 5:29pm On Jan 29, 2020 |
For Every YOUNG MAN who wants to get married: PLEASE note that Every LADY out there, if given opportunity will always want to put her HUSBAND inside a BOTTLE and Cockk it up forever, or better still POCKET him. My WIFE dared it but thank her stars her Redeemer Liveth. Every LADY wants to know what her MAN is thinking especially when QUIET and ALONE. Every LADY, if given opportunity would want to import all her relatives to her husband's Apartment to become Permanent Residents. Meanwhile, she frowns angrily when her husband's people come visiting. It's your ABILITY as a man to know that LADIES are always meant to be kept where they belong in Marriage. That doesn't mean you shouldn't cherish their gesture but don't be FOOLISH about it. MEMORY VERSE; BE PREPARED to knock your Father's Gate, the moment you start knocking your husband on his head. 1 Like |
| Re: Help! My Sister Is Overbossing Her Husband by Snixdave114(m): 5:43pm On Jan 29, 2020 |
| Re: Help! My Sister Is Overbossing Her Husband by Nobody: 6:09pm On Jan 29, 2020 |
My mature answer is; MIND. YOUR. BUSINESS. |
| Re: Help! My Sister Is Overbossing Her Husband by CosmicJames(m): 6:23pm On Jan 29, 2020 |
SwagPower:Your sister is taking an unfair advantage of her husband. You really wish you could help, but unfortunately there is nothing you can do to help him. Being a good nice guy is not a problem. But if a guy doesn't know how to be assertive while being good and nice, then he will suffer hell in the hand of a lady be it wife or girlfriend. Do you think your sister's husband doesn't know about his wife behaviour? Of course he knows. The problem is that he was aware of those characters earlier but he decided to ignore and allowed it. Trying to stop it now will be disastrous. So he have to endure it. Before you try to advise or stop your sister, note that what you are seeing now doesn't start today. It started a long time ago and have come to stay. That's how that marriage will continue to be. Did you know that your sister successfully tested her husband assertive nature several times and found that her husband is very weak and that nothing will happen if she act the way she is acting? 2 Likes |
| Re: Help! My Sister Is Overbossing Her Husband by Mstick: 6:23pm On Jan 29, 2020 |
This one just brought his sister to be slaughtered on a platter and he’s asking for mature response like quora forgetting that nairaland is a forum filled with women haters. 1 Like |
| Re: Help! My Sister Is Overbossing Her Husband by Ishilove: 6:26pm On Jan 29, 2020 |
Mindyabidness |
| Re: Help! My Sister Is Overbossing Her Husband by Foodqueen(f): 6:53pm On Jan 29, 2020 |
Leave her I beg. The man is not stupid. Maybe that's what works for the both of them. Don't make her do it your way, the end might be bad. |
| Re: Help! My Sister Is Overbossing Her Husband by psalmsmiles(m): 7:15pm On Jan 29, 2020 |
nawa o 1 Like |
| Re: Help! My Sister Is Overbossing Her Husband by ForbesHomesNG(m): 7:32pm On Jan 29, 2020 |
SwagPower: |
| Re: Help! My Sister Is Overbossing Her Husband by Xisnin(m): 7:36pm On Jan 29, 2020 |
SwagPower:This is why some people lock out their blood-related families. Rather than face your budding life, you are trying to create a problem where none exists. Never talk to the husband because it is none of your business. Talking to your sister may help her detect the enemy in her house. Let the couple enjoy their peace. |
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