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ImaIma1:
If you think you are an alpha, you are not being truthful to yourself. Thank God you wrote the article.

Yimu

healthserve:
Seems you have issues with the term alpha male itself first before anything else

She anticipates who will give a damn about her validation and approval

TonyeBarcanista:
She anticipates who will give a damn about her validation and approval

That's. It. I feel sorry for simps. Women go use their eyes see shege

Martinez39s:
Red pill is the knowledge of the reality of things hidden, deliberately or not, from the vast majority. One of those things is female nature.

Oh... What's it about? Some details pls

TonyeBarcanista:
Samson was a Beta male sir!

Yeah, tell me about it. He thought he was a champion.
He was such a loser !

healthserve:
Nice try with the psychological deflection. That was how the P Square brothers thought till they got served. Prince Harry also followed this same line of thought till he got served too. Men should be men simple. Itsbehat this is all about

I laughed when I read his post!

DelilahMakinde:
Yeah, tell me about it. He thought he was a champion.
He was such a loser !

He was a weak man that was easily manipulated by his girlfriend, and serially betrayed himself just to please his girlfriend. He was a fool

healthserve:
That's. It. I feel sorry for simps. Women go use their eyes see shege

We are all prepared to read their stories on Nairaland, Twitter and other SM platforms

TonyeBarcanista:
By Tonyebarcanista

Most people falsely misconstrue Alpha males to be irresponsible men filled with arrogance and are disrespectful towards women. They misconstrue Alpha males with with cocky males.

Many also misconstrue guys that are body builders with nice physique to be alpha males. Some misconstrue wealthy and fierce looking men as alpha males. Some even misconstrue womanizers, famous or people of high status to be alpha males. While some alpha males may belong to the aforementioned groups, not all those groups are alpha males.

Who Is An Alpha Male?
An Alpha male is the real man. He is a man's man and a warrior. He is very confident and a stand-up guy. Irrespective of what you call him, he is a leader. He is the guy others look up to for motivation, inspiration, and often with a hint of jealousy. He is a man that knows what he wants, confident of himself and can't be tossed around. The alpha male knows his power as a man and doesn't use it as tool for oppression. He can't be manipulated by women, and this makes him attracted to women. He's the kind of man every woman want. The Alpha male is mentally and emotionally strong but kind. He is very Confident, yet humble, he assertive, yet gentle at times. He is very powerful, yet calm and tempered. He has self worth yet doesn't proud! He is the kind of man every man should be. He is the kind of man that every woman crave for and hold in high esteem.

Who Is A Beta Male?
Beta males are men that always seek to fit in. They are the typical human pleasers with little or no opinion. Beta males in relationship and marriages are the typical Mr Nice Guys that always bury their thought, desire and want so as not to offend their partners. They are typical followers that always seek to blend with the society. They are not stand alone guys as they are easily manipulated. Because of these traits, Beta males are often disrespected and controlled by their partners, the society, their church, families etcetera.

ALPHA MALES VS BETA MALES

1. In Relationship
Alpha males go for who and what they want, and are men with standards. When their partners err, they are not afraid to speak their mind, address the problem and speak up when the boundaries they set are crossed. They inform their partners on the effect of their ill informed, they tell their partners the consequences on the relationship and take action to ensure that the partner falls in line. Alpha males don't seek conflicts but are not afraid to tackle conflict head on. They are active and not passive

But Beta males don't have any standard nor boundaries that they hold sacred. They would rather endure and die in silence when their partners err because they are afraid of causing conflict in their relationship. The ones that speak up do so in form of a plea or nag. They are passive men that live with burden in their heart in their bid to maintain peace that they never get.

2. Gentlemen Vs Mr Nice Guys
Alpha males are polite, nice to others, respectful but respects themselves and aren't doormat; Alpha male will never allow anyone treat him like second fiddle no matter what. An Alpha male priories his own well-being, irrespective, he genuinely care about the needs of the people in his life and want the best for others. He does this not do this for validation, to gain attention or to be praised by people around him, he simply does it because it is the right thing to do. When an Alpha male doesn't agree with you, he tells you.

Beta males on the other hand may be nice, courteous etc, but they don't prioritise themselves. They are doormat, Yes-man. They are nice because they need the validation and they agree to a fault because they want to maintain the "Mr Nice Guy" tag.

3. Beta Males Are Bitchy, Alpha males Accepts or Change A Situation:
Alpha males takes responsibility for their lives. Once anything happens in their lives, an Alpha male seeks to do something about it. If an Alpha male finds his partner with another man, he takes action- whether to breakup with her or any other action. An Alpha male makes decision for himself; whether relationship, career or whatever.

But Beta males always look at someone to pass blame on. They don't take responsibility, they bitch over it. A Beta male will find his partner in an unpleasant situation with another man, he runs to his pastor, family or social media to bitch about it... Seeking their help to take action because "he doesn't want to act irrationally". He's a weak man! Simple!!!

4. Genuine Connection Vs validation
An Alpha male always seek genuine connection and friendship with their partners and people around them. They have no time for fake relationship. Alpha males don't seek anybody's validation to feel good. They are true to themselves.

Beta males are pretenders. They desire validation of their partners, friends and society to feel good about themselves. They are fake towards themselves and others around them because they suppress their true feelings for external validation.

5. Alpha males trust themselves to make decisions for their lives, Beta males follow popular opinion.

An alpha male may consult others before making decision, he evaluates the response he gets, and compare with what he had always wanted to do. If he still believe that his desires is the best for him ahead of popular opinion, he follows his mind, makes his decision and swim or sink with it without blaming others.

Beta males consults with people, he may or may not evaluate responses, but he follows popular opinion even if it doesn't tally what he really wants because of his conformist character. He is always ready to blame others should his decision not turn out the way he wishes.

I will stop here!

I remain TonyeBarcanista

God bless you for this

iLegendd:
Welcome, Sir.

Sadly, all things Amazon starts and ends here on NL. If you have any question, you can ask on my thread. If it's something you can easily find on Google or YouTube, I'll direct you there. Remain blessed.

Okayy

ImaIma1:
If you think you are an alpha, you are not being truthful to yourself. Thank God you wrote the article.

Whether you like it or not, healthserve, tonyebarcanista, and other red pill men don't give a damn about what you think constitutes an alpha male. No female shall define or dictate to us what makes us alpha men. We do not need your approval and validation.

Take your piffle to other simpletons on this thread that think like you for we [the red pill men] will be having none of that. If you think one cannot be alpha without money, that's your business and we redpill folks don't care what you think. I wish red pill men will start ignoring the ignorant bunch that think riches make one an alpha. We are not responsible for anyone's ignorance about the redpill and its terms. Good night.

TonyeBarcanista:
Oh... What's it about? Some details pls

I will discuss that I a topic I am about to create.

ImaIma1:
They be forming alpha male and raising shoulder and their major feature is about women. How they have to be in control of her...above her, etc.

lol!! if there main feature is about women it is only becos "women" av these funny believe they can conquer all men, remember they're leaders if they don't put the house in order who will
Alphas didnt allot control to men God did ... argue with ur bible.

TonyeBarcanista:
He was a weak man that was easily manipulated by his girlfriend, and serially betrayed himself just to please his girlfriend. He was a fool

Hmmm.... I show am pepper..

TonyeBarcanista:
We are all prepared to read their stories on Nairaland, Twitter and other SM platforms

Same here

Martinez39s:
Whether you like it or not, healthserve, tonyebarcanista, and other red pill men don't give a damn about what you think constitutes an alpha male. No female shall define or dictate to us what makes us alpha men. We do not need your approval and validation.

Take your piffle to other simpletons on this thread that think like you for we [the red pill men] will be having none of that. If you think one cannot be alpha without money, that's your business and we redpill folks don't care what you think. I wish red pill men will start ignoring the ignorant bunch that think riches make one an alpha. We are not responsible for anyone's ignorance about the redpill and its terms. Good night.

You can send the memo

Jman06:
A turnoff to you but not a turnoff to me and to some other people!


Are you aware that some men in an attempt to live up to expectation of people like you end up making a mess of themselves and their relationships

Telling someone to live to his conviction and be active rather than passive is not expecting them to live to people's expectation. Alpha male is about discovering self and living it. Alpha males don't live to meet up to any expectation other than theirs.

And yes, being passive is a sign of weakness

nice post @op always found myself leading and never taking nonsense from fake people and most people term me as a hard guy.

With all the many write up between the both, I see a lot attributes of a Beta male in myself, though Alpha male is stronger but atleast Beta male is better lol... las las if your pocket fat u go steal some characteristics of a Alpha male male so dudes go and make the money and forget about Alpha or Beta male lol

osazsky:
u guys will just be shouting make money make money what has money got to do with relationship settle down on time and from there build something do u huzzle more than don jazzy of mohit records y his he not married and yet he is approaching 50 and who told u that if u have money u will find a perfect wife grow up...

did I in anyway mention wife. don jazzy no dey drag alpha male with anybody. Na only person wey broke dey fight for respect

Alfredah01:
With all the many write up between the both, I see a lot attributes of a Beta male in myself, though Alpha male is stronger but atleast Beta male is better lol... las las if your pocket fat u go steal some characteristics of a Alpha male male so dudes go and make the money and forget about Alpha or Beta male lol

hahahahhahahah with money you will be cepha male join alpha and beta

Martinez39s:
Whether you like it or not, healthserve, tonyebarcanista, and other red pill men don't give a damn about what you think constitutes an alpha male. No female shall define or dictate to us what makes us alpha men. We do not need your approval and validation.

Take your piffle to other simpletons on this thread that think like you for we [the red pill men] will be having none of that. If you think one cannot be alpha without money, that's your business and we redpill folks don't care what you think. I wish red pill men will start ignoring the ignorant bunch that think riches make one an alpha. We are not responsible for anyone's ignorance about the redpill and its terms. Good night.

You know one thing is that more often than not

It's the women wanting to define who "men" are when.they have never been a man a day in their life


Men don't do this in wholesale

It's always women

Only men know what and who men are and should be

TonyeBarcanista:
By Tonyebarcanista

Most people falsely misconstrue Alpha males to be irresponsible men filled with arrogance and are disrespectful towards women. They misconstrue Alpha males with with cocky males.

Many also misconstrue guys that are body builders with nice physique to be alpha males. Some misconstrue wealthy and fierce looking men as alpha males. Some even misconstrue womanizers, famous or people of high status to be alpha males. While some alpha males may belong to the aforementioned groups, not all those groups are alpha males.

Who Is An Alpha Male?
An Alpha male is the real man. He is a man's man and a warrior. He is very confident and a stand-up guy. Irrespective of what you call him, he is a leader. He is the guy others look up to for motivation, inspiration, and often with a hint of jealousy. He is a man that knows what he wants, confident of himself and can't be tossed around. The alpha male knows his power as a man and doesn't use it as tool for oppression. He can't be manipulated by women, and this makes him attracted to women. He's the kind of man every woman want. The Alpha male is mentally and emotionally strong but kind. He is very Confident, yet humble, he assertive, yet gentle at times. He is very powerful, yet calm and tempered. He has self worth yet doesn't proud! He is the kind of man every man should be. He is the kind of man that every woman crave for and hold in high esteem.

Who Is A Beta Male?
Beta males are men that always seek to fit in. They are the typical human pleasers with little or no opinion. Beta males in relationship and marriages are the typical Mr Nice Guys that always bury their thought, desire and want so as not to offend their partners. They are typical followers that always seek to blend with the society. They are not stand alone guys as they are easily manipulated. Because of these traits, Beta males are often disrespected and controlled by their partners, the society, their church, families etcetera.

ALPHA MALES VS BETA MALES

1. In Relationship
Alpha males go for who and what they want, and are men with standards. When their partners err, they are not afraid to speak their mind, address the problem and speak up when the boundaries they set are crossed. They inform their partners on the effect of their ill informed, they tell their partners the consequences on the relationship and take action to ensure that the partner falls in line. Alpha males don't seek conflicts but are not afraid to tackle conflict head on. They are active and not passive

But Beta males don't have any standard nor boundaries that they hold sacred. They would rather endure and die in silence when their partners err because they are afraid of causing conflict in their relationship. The ones that speak up do so in form of a plea or nag. They are passive men that live with burden in their heart in their bid to maintain peace that they never get.

2. Gentlemen Vs Mr Nice Guys
Alpha males are polite, nice to others, respectful but respects themselves and aren't doormat; Alpha male will never allow anyone treat him like second fiddle no matter what. An Alpha male priories his own well-being, irrespective, he genuinely care about the needs of the people in his life and want the best for others. He does this not do this for validation, to gain attention or to be praised by people around him, he simply does it because it is the right thing to do. When an Alpha male doesn't agree with you, he tells you. wishes.

I will stop here!

I remain TonyeBarcanista

Rubbish post....if you don't have money.


All your Alpha males goes to the gutters....make money and see them flock around you respectfully..... Money stops nonsense, I repeat money stops nonsense

All these una useless analogy and write won't put a dime in a man's pocket.....everyone dey form motivational speakers

Kennedyiheme02:
Beta males aka simp men like prince harry

I won't call Harry a simp tho

Alpha makes protect their women and damn the consequence.
The woman who is worth it to him

Crap as usual.

my first heartbreak thought me a bitter lesson and ever since then av been Alpha Male, no time for dulling

DexterousOne:
I won't call Harry a simp tho

Alpha makes protect their women and damn the consequence.
The woman who is worth it to him

she got in his head, I'm sure she inspired the move out of England, you and i know it wasn't his idea

ericsmith:
I think he said it all for the alpha males ... as for me i don't even knw where i belong becos i do things as "the spirit leads". another thing i notice is people around me like whatever i like buh whateva people like i just lost interest 4 it. maybe i belong to the "crazymales" .

Guy u are funny, just made me laff

Kennedyiheme02:
she got in his head, I'm sure she inspired the move out of England, you and i know it wasn't his idea

If you knew Harry from day 1
You would know that this day was inevitable


I wonder why people are surprised
The guy is a sneaky guy

Alpha male with zero invention??
You must be high on weed.

DexterousOne:
If you knew Harry from day 1
You would know that this day was inevitable


I wonder why people are surprised
The guy is a sneaky guy

his wife is a 38 year old feminist, you really think she's gonna the one putting crazy ideas in his head?.. then you dont know feminists, women her age seek to control thier husbands

TonyeBarcanista:
There is no way someone with those qualities won't be a hustler

Well, I do not have problem with whatever life style someone tries to put on, as I'm gonna also treat and follow you same way, what I'm against is some broke useless people that can't fund their life style but yet, wanna give an illusion of what they are not. Maka Chineke, Ekwensu ga akpo onye ahu oku.