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Today you hear of bridal shower, lovely wedding, wedding in Dubai, men in Black, she is my queen, he is my hero, bla bla bla. Then tomorrow, you hear of divorce: she is a devil, he is a dog, he is a wife beater, she is a beast, I didn't know she was a witch, I didn't know he has STD, bla bla bla bla. That is why you really need to do a proper check before you marry. In those days where many people were good, you could easily pick a guy or a lady, and marriage will work out. But today that is filled with hypocrisy, you ought to be careful.

I will show you things that you mustn't skip before you marry your fiance or fiancee.

(1) Test of Love: Until you love and get loved, and until the love begins to flow without energy, before you can say you are good to go. If you still put pressure trying to impress your partner to love you, please pause first. Something is wrong somewhere. But when the love flows sweatlessly and selflessly, then you may proceed to marry.

(2) Test of Fidelity: Some people love, but they are promiscuous. But promiscuity is not a characteristics of true love. So if your partner is a promiscuous cheat, pause the wedding. You can take the person for spiritual rehabilitation or deliverance before you proceed with wedding.

(3) Test of Time: Everything, no matter how sweet, palatable and enticing it may look like, can only be validated with time. So no matter how you love your partner or how your partner wishes to marry you, give it the test of time. Give it time to see if whatever you feel or whatever is shown is real. As they normally say "time will tell".

(4) Test of Peace: No matter the sweetness of any relationship, if there is an internal tension of the mind, please go back to God to ask questions. Until you have true and persistent peace, don't marry that person. When the peace is sure, go and marry.

(5) Test of Availability: Whoever tells you there is time for love and time for serious business is not a good partner for you. Love has no schedule! Until you have much access to enjoying your partners availability, don't marry. When I talk about availability here, I don't mean that your partner may not be in situations were you cannot access each other, but even when such situations come, you will still see the urge to be together; not that he or she will be operating an intentional love on schedule.

(6) Test of Tolerance: Until your imperfections are swallowed and until you are able to swallow the imperfections of your partner, don't marry yet.. It is good to have a large heart, but if you find it so difficult to take some things from your partner, do not marry yet until you are able to take it. Marriage is a very long journey.

(7) Medical Test: Don't assume your partner is good and you trust yourselves. Seek necessary medical tests before marriage.

May God help you to have a successful marriage with a God-fearing person.

good one Op

Weldone... I concur! �

No verses at all. And Jesus and Paul didn't get married so no be compulsory to get married self!

Nigerians being looking for Gods fearing partner, why the same God means nothing to them

Very important points you've highlighted poster, i can't say less of any. Point 4 is so so important

Lalasticlala

Nice one...
No reference but I yaff copied it.

Good advice

add coronovirus test

@OP,
All your points are valid and true,

But we will gladly put this at the top of it all......

2) Test of Fidelity: Some people love, but they are promiscuous. But promiscuity is not a characteristics of true love. So if your partner is a promiscuous cheat, pause the wedding. You can take the person for spiritual rehabilitation or deliverance before you proceed with wedding.

Thank God for boo

No matter what you do, Plate wey Wan break go break

8. Test of Pregnancy. At least be 1 month pregnant before wedding.

Some people love, but they are promiscuous? OP you DO NOT know what love is.

Test of sexual compatibility.

Very big d**k
Very small dick
Very wide Vijay
Very small vjay

All these can cause cheating and divorce. Better make sure your partner has your size.

Very valid points.
Medical test made me laugh

Very valid points. Single s should consider these to avoid stories that touch.

Kukuma just turn to a "TESTER" before marriage.

Fortissimo502:
Some people love, but they are promiscuous? OP you DO NOT know what love is.

Kindly go ahead and tell us sir!

But at the end change is constant

Ok

Thanks worth the read

post=86306781:
Kindly go ahead and tell us sir!

OP posted this under Christianity. God is love. God is not promiscuous.

Story

Sometimes, I wonder why hair grow on our yansh sef...

These are things and much more that you mus fix in place before, must you be told everything?

AntiChristian:
No verse at all. And Jesus and Paul didn't get married so no be compulsory to get married self!

is there anywhere the op said marriage is compulsory?

Awon adviser.. Africans and their foolish mentality!

Na ONLY Africans dey do medical test as a condition for marriage which makes it conditional love. 'True love' loves unconditionally. I'm even surprised 9ja churches dey encourage all this medical test prior to marriage. Should I be surprised? 98% of them are fake churches anyway. That shows their level of faith. God is love and love above everything else.... Not in a place like 9ja where poverty and wealth determines everything.

In developed worlds, they love unconditionally regardless of the their partner's medical condition. Some even go ahead to marry their partners on their death beds.

Fortissimo502:
OP posted this under Christianity. God is love. God is not promiscuous.

Hope to understand this post better when we read it again.