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Re: Never Skip These Before You Marry As A Christian by Pruwa: 10:01am On Feb 02, 2020
wonderful write-up
welldone op
Re: Never Skip These Before You Marry As A Christian by Man90(m): 10:11am On Feb 02, 2020
Ok
Re: Never Skip These Before You Marry As A Christian by Man90(m): 10:13am On Feb 02, 2020
faceURfront:
Story
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Re: Never Skip These Before You Marry As A Christian by Nobody: 10:28am On Feb 02, 2020
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Re: Never Skip These Before You Marry As A Christian by gennysq(f): 10:28am On Feb 02, 2020
YorubaNinja:
Awon adviser.. angry Africans and their foolish mentality! grin

Na ONLY Africans dey do medical test as a condition for marriage which makes it conditional love. 'True love' loves unconditionally. I'm even surprised 9ja churches dey encourage all this medical test prior to marriage. Should I be surprised? 98% of them are fake churches anyway. That shows their level of faith. God is love and love above everything else.... Not in a place like 9ja where poverty and wealth determines everything.

In developed worlds, they love unconditionally regardless of the their partner's medical condition. Some even go ahead to marry their partners on their death beds. cool

I dont think loving someone "unconditionally" equates to loving "blindly".
Having medical examinations is to reveal known or unknown medical conditions about your partner, but the decision to marry the person after such knowledge is entirely up to u.

Loving someone unconditionally is being aware of someone's imperfections and still desire to love the person regardless.
Its beta to have a broken relationship due to truth dan to have a broken marriage due to deceit.

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Re: Never Skip These Before You Marry As A Christian by Lamanii22(f): 10:29am On Feb 02, 2020
Nicee write up...
Re: Never Skip These Before You Marry As A Christian by etrange: 10:35am On Feb 02, 2020
Deliverance for cheats? Lol... you people don't like practical solutions. Must everything be spiritualized?
Re: Never Skip These Before You Marry As A Christian by ABCthings: 11:06am On Feb 02, 2020
YorubaNinja:
Awon adviser.. angry Africans and their foolish mentality! grin

Na ONLY Africans dey do medical test as a condition for marriage which makes it conditional love. 'True love' loves unconditionally. I'm even surprised 9ja churches dey encourage all this medical test prior to marriage. Should I be surprised? 98% of them are fake churches anyway. That shows their level of faith. God is love and love above everything else.... Not in a place like 9ja where poverty and wealth determines everything.

In developed worlds, they love unconditionally regardless of the their partner's medical condition. Some even go ahead to marry their partners on their death beds. cool
sense has left this one. undecided

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Re: Never Skip These Before You Marry As A Christian by judondasylva(m): 11:07am On Feb 02, 2020
Wow very nice and educative write up
Re: Never Skip These Before You Marry As A Christian by Amatrillion: 11:10am On Feb 02, 2020
You are on your own....OYO....
mumumugu:
add coronovirus test
Re: Never Skip These Before You Marry As A Christian by Elvinho2244(m): 11:17am On Feb 02, 2020
This is so enlightening cool

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Re: Never Skip These Before You Marry As A Christian by philkoms: 11:25am On Feb 02, 2020
YorubaNinja:
Awon adviser.. angry Africans and their foolish mentality! grin

Na ONLY Africans dey do medical test as a condition for marriage which makes it conditional love. 'True love' loves unconditionally. I'm even surprised 9ja churches dey encourage all this medical test prior to marriage. Should I be surprised? 98% of them are fake churches anyway. That shows their level of faith. God is love and love above everything else.... Not in a place like 9ja where poverty and wealth determines everything.

In developed worlds, they love unconditionally regardless of the their partner's medical condition. Some even go ahead to marry their partners on their death beds. cool
That is a big lie.You can choose to love somebody after you have knowledge of their
Health condition ,but scene you painted is what I call pure foolishness.

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Re: Never Skip These Before You Marry As A Christian by DivineTurnAroun(f): 11:43am On Feb 02, 2020
Because over there they are truthful to their partners from day one but here some will hide their medical condition from you.
YorubaNinja:
Awon adviser.. angry Africans and their foolish mentality! grin

Na ONLY Africans dey do medical test as a condition for marriage which makes it conditional love. 'True love' loves unconditionally. I'm even surprised 9ja churches dey encourage all this medical test prior to marriage. Should I be surprised? 98% of them are fake churches anyway. That shows their level of faith. God is love and love above everything else.... Not in a place like 9ja where poverty and wealth determines everything.

In developed worlds, they love unconditionally regardless of the their partner's medical condition. Some even go ahead to marry their partners on their death beds. cool

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Re: Never Skip These Before You Marry As A Christian by Mizwisdom(f): 11:51am On Feb 02, 2020
OP thank you for this. One of the most important advise is time factor. Never marry anyone fast fast because you're desperate, that person that wants to marry you in a hurry is likely hiding something. Take your time, no matter your age. At least date for six months. This world is wicked
Re: Never Skip These Before You Marry As A Christian by Nobody: 11:54am On Feb 02, 2020
14. Test cononarvirus, Ebola, HIV, hepatitis etc.
Re: Never Skip These Before You Marry As A Christian by Yoighaman(m): 11:58am On Feb 02, 2020
hooha:
Today you hear of bridal shower, lovely wedding, wedding in Dubai, men in Black, she is my queen, he is my hero, bla bla bla. Then tomorrow, you hear of divorce: she is a devil, he is a dog, he is a wife beater, she is a beast, I didn't know she was a witch, I didn't know he has STD, bla bla bla bla. That is why you really need to do a proper check before you marry. In those days where many people were good, you could easily pick a guy or a lady, and marriage will work out. But today that is filled with hypocrisy, you ought to be careful.

I will show you things that you mustn't skip before you marry your fiance or fiancee.

(1) Test of Love: Until you love and get loved, and until the love begins to flow without energy, before you can say you are good to go. If you still put pressure trying to impress your partner to love you, please pause first. Something is wrong somewhere. But when the love flows sweatlessly and selflessly, then you may proceed to marry.

(2) Test of Fidelity: Some people love, but they are promiscuous. But promiscuity is not a characteristics of true love. So if your partner is a promiscuous cheat, pause the wedding. You can take the person for spiritual rehabilitation or deliverance before you proceed with wedding.

(3) Test of Time: Everything, no matter how sweet, palatable and enticing it may look like, can only be validated with time. So no matter how you love your partner or how your partner wishes to marry you, give it the test of time. Give it time to see if whatever you feel or whatever is shown is real. As they normally say "time will tell".

(4) Test of Peace: No matter the sweetness of any relationship, if there is an internal tension of the mind, please go back to God to ask questions. Until you have true and persistent peace, don't marry that person. When the peace is sure, go and marry.

(5) Test of Availability: Whoever tells you there is time for love and time for serious business is not a good partner for you. Love has no schedule! Until you have much access to enjoying your partners availability, don't marry. When I talk about availability here, I don't mean that your partner may not be in situations were you cannot access each other, but even when such situations come, you will still see the urge to be together; not that he or she will be operating an intentional love on schedule.

(6) Test of Tolerance: Until your imperfections are swallowed and until you are able to swallow the imperfections of your partner, don't marry yet.. It is good to have a large heart, but if you find it so difficult to take some things from your partner, do not marry yet until you are able to take it. Marriage is a very long journey.

(7) Medical Test: Don't assume your partner is good and you trust yourselves. Seek necessary medical tests before marriage.

May God help you to have a successful marriage with a God-fearing person.

True and lovely post...nice one OP.
Re: Never Skip These Before You Marry As A Christian by Nobody: 11:59am On Feb 02, 2020
themonk:
Test of sexual compatibility.

Very big d**k
Very small dick
Very wide Vijay
Very small vjay

All these can cause cheating and divorce. Better make sure your partner has your size.

Very very important... i cannot end up living in bondage because of love embarassed
Re: Never Skip These Before You Marry As A Christian by BelieverDE: 12:00pm On Feb 02, 2020
YorubaNinja:
Awon adviser.. angry Africans and their foolish mentality! grin

Na ONLY Africans dey do medical test as a condition for marriage which makes it conditional love. 'True love' loves unconditionally. I'm even surprised 9ja churches dey encourage all this medical test prior to marriage. Should I be surprised? 98% of them are fake churches anyway. That shows their level of faith. God is love and love above everything else.... Not in a place like 9ja where poverty and wealth determines everything.

In developed worlds, they love unconditionally regardless of the their partner's medical condition. Some even go ahead to marry their partners on their death beds. cool

Are you saying it is bad to undergo medical tests before marriage?

Re: Never Skip These Before You Marry As A Christian by TRAVEL101(m): 12:04pm On Feb 02, 2020
Nice write up
Re: Never Skip These Before You Marry As A Christian by Fash20: 12:06pm On Feb 02, 2020
YorubaNinja:
Awon adviser.. angry Africans and their foolish mentality! grin

Na ONLY Africans dey do medical test as a condition for marriage which makes it conditional love. 'True love' loves unconditionally. I'm even surprised 9ja churches dey encourage all this medical test prior to marriage. Should I be surprised? 98% of them are fake churches anyway. That shows their level of faith. God is love and love above everything else.... Not in a place like 9ja where poverty and wealth determines everything.

In developed worlds, they love unconditionally regardless of the their partner's medical condition. Some even go ahead to marry their partners on their death beds. cool

Are you saying knowing your partner's medical background is wrong?
Re: Never Skip These Before You Marry As A Christian by Rozaytee: 12:09pm On Feb 02, 2020
helinues:
Nigerians being looking for Gods fearing partner, why the same God means nothing to them
help me tell Dem oo...every time God fearing

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Re: Never Skip These Before You Marry As A Christian by madayaya: 12:25pm On Feb 02, 2020
Have u heard of the word DECEPTION? That’s y churches do test! So that couples will be aware of the medical condition they are going to carry along once they get married which gives you the option to say yes to the situation and be part of it! Or no I’m not going to be part of this for the rest of my life because of reasons best known to them! So it’s not a matter of conditional or unconditional love! U hear?
YorubaNinja:
Awon adviser.. angry Africans and their foolish mentality! grin

Na ONLY Africans dey do medical test as a condition for marriage which makes it conditional love. 'True love' loves unconditionally. I'm even surprised 9ja churches dey encourage all this medical test prior to marriage. Should I be surprised? 98% of them are fake churches anyway. That shows their level of faith. God is love and love above everything else.... Not in a place like 9ja where poverty and wealth determines everything.

In developed worlds, they love unconditionally regardless of the their partner's medical condition. Some even go ahead to marry their partners on their death beds. cool

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Re: Never Skip These Before You Marry As A Christian by thundafire: 12:34pm On Feb 02, 2020
Number 2 is so rampant
Re: Never Skip These Before You Marry As A Christian by worldclass68(m): 12:40pm On Feb 02, 2020
Test of virginity nko undecided undecided undecided

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Re: Never Skip These Before You Marry As A Christian by humurphia(m): 12:41pm On Feb 02, 2020
what is ubi Franklin's picture doing there?
Re: Never Skip These Before You Marry As A Christian by toplinetrtrend: 12:50pm On Feb 02, 2020
AntiChristian:
No verses at all. And Jesus and Paul didn't get married so no be compulsory to get married self!

Lolz. Paul was married. He even had a daughter by his wife. The eagerness for the Gospel caused him to desert all
Re: Never Skip These Before You Marry As A Christian by dammypat(f): 12:55pm On Feb 02, 2020
YorubaNinja:
Awon adviser.. angry Africans and their foolish mentality! grin

Na ONLY Africans dey do medical test as a condition for marriage which makes it conditional love. 'True love' loves unconditionally. I'm even surprised 9ja churches dey encourage all this medical test prior to marriage. Should I be surprised? 98% of them are fake churches anyway. That shows their level of faith. God is love and love above everything else.... Not in a place like 9ja where poverty and wealth determines everything.

In developed worlds, they love unconditionally regardless of the their partner's medical condition. Some even go ahead to marry their partners on their death beds. cool
. Oga Anti Africa/Anti church,No church is telling couple not to marry whosoever they chose to marry,medical test allows you to know the health status of your partner and to be counselled, it’s left to you to decide if you want to go ahead or not if medical test proves you both are incompatible especially on the cases of blood types having known the implications,if medical test is ruled out,how would you know how to care for an HIV partner or those with terminal illnesses? How would you know how to manage him/her and the transmission? you can marry your spouse on any health conditions if you so wish, No church will stop you! We Nigerians should stop this bad mouthing of the churches and Nigeria thingy, there is evil in every part of the world!

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Re: Never Skip These Before You Marry As A Christian by Ladyjane5657(f): 12:57pm On Feb 02, 2020
hooha:
Today you hear of bridal shower, lovely wedding, wedding in Dubai, men in Black, she is my queen, he is my hero, bla bla bla. Then tomorrow, you hear of divorce: she is a devil, he is a dog, he is a wife beater, she is a beast, I didn't know she was a witch, I didn't know he has STD, bla bla bla bla. That is why you really need to do a proper check before you marry. In those days where many people were good, you could easily pick a guy or a lady, and marriage will work out. But today that is filled with hypocrisy, you ought to be careful.

I will show you things that you mustn't skip before you marry your fiance or fiancee.

(1) Test of Love: Until you love and get loved, and until the love begins to flow without energy, before you can say you are good to go. If you still put pressure trying to impress your partner to love you, please pause first. Something is wrong somewhere. But when the love flows sweatlessly and selflessly, then you may proceed to marry.

(2) Test of Fidelity: Some people love, but they are promiscuous. But promiscuity is not a characteristics of true love. So if your partner is a promiscuous cheat, pause the wedding. You can take the person for spiritual rehabilitation or deliverance before you proceed with wedding.

(3) Test of Time: Everything, no matter how sweet, palatable and enticing it may look like, can only be validated with time. So no matter how you love your partner or how your partner wishes to marry you, give it the test of time. Give it time to see if whatever you feel or whatever is shown is real. As they normally say "time will tell".

(4) Test of Peace: No matter the sweetness of any relationship, if there is an internal tension of the mind, please go back to God to ask questions. Until you have true and persistent peace, don't marry that person. When the peace is sure, go and marry.

(5) Test of Availability: Whoever tells you there is time for love and time for serious business is not a good partner for you. Love has no schedule! Until you have much access to enjoying your partners availability, don't marry. When I talk about availability here, I don't mean that your partner may not be in situations were you cannot access each other, but even when such situations come, you will still see the urge to be together; not that he or she will be operating an intentional love on schedule.

(6) Test of Tolerance: Until your imperfections are swallowed and until you are able to swallow the imperfections of your partner, don't marry yet.. It is good to have a large heart, but if you find it so difficult to take some things from your partner, do not marry yet until you are able to take it. Marriage is a very long journey.

(7) Medical Test: Don't assume your partner is good and you trust yourselves. Seek necessary medical tests before marriage.

May God help you to have a successful marriage with a God-fearing person.

Ahhh pastor Hooha u reach this side?? cheesy grin. It's well oo.


BTW is there any GODFEARING man here who is not doing anything on Saturday next week let's get married?? cheesy cheesy

PS: pastor hooha will officiate grin

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Re: Never Skip These Before You Marry As A Christian by Kirinwa: 1:04pm On Feb 02, 2020
hooha:
Today you hear of bridal shower, lovely wedding, wedding in Dubai, men in Black, she is my queen, he is my hero, bla bla bla. Then tomorrow, you hear of divorce: she is a devil, he is a dog, he is a wife beater, she is a beast, I didn't know she was a witch, I didn't know he has STD, bla bla bla bla. That is why you really need to do a proper check before you marry. In those days where many people were good, you could easily pick a guy or a lady, and marriage will work out. But today that is filled with hypocrisy, you ought to be careful.

I will show you things that you mustn't skip before you marry your fiance or fiancee.

(1) Test of Love: Until you love and get loved, and until the love begins to flow without energy, before you can say you are good to go. If you still put pressure trying to impress your partner to love you, please pause first. Something is wrong somewhere. But when the love flows sweatlessly and selflessly, then you may proceed to marry.

(2) Test of Fidelity: Some people love, but they are promiscuous. But promiscuity is not a characteristics of true love. So if your partner is a promiscuous cheat, pause the wedding. You can take the person for spiritual rehabilitation or deliverance before you proceed with wedding.

(3) Test of Time: Everything, no matter how sweet, palatable and enticing it may look like, can only be validated with time. So no matter how you love your partner or how your partner wishes to marry you, give it the test of time. Give it time to see if whatever you feel or whatever is shown is real. As they normally say "time will tell".

(4) Test of Peace: No matter the sweetness of any relationship, if there is an internal tension of the mind, please go back to God to ask questions. Until you have true and persistent peace, don't marry that person. When the peace is sure, go and marry.

(5) Test of Availability: Whoever tells you there is time for love and time for serious business is not a good partner for you. Love has no schedule! Until you have much access to enjoying your partners availability, don't marry. When I talk about availability here, I don't mean that your partner may not be in situations were you cannot access each other, but even when such situations come, you will still see the urge to be together; not that he or she will be operating an intentional love on schedule.

(6) Test of Tolerance: Until your imperfections are swallowed and until you are able to swallow the imperfections of your partner, don't marry yet.. It is good to have a large heart, but if you find it so difficult to take some things from your partner, do not marry yet until you are able to take it. Marriage is a very long journey.

(7) Medical Test: Don't assume your partner is good and you trust yourselves. Seek necessary medical tests before marriage.

May God help you to have a successful marriage with a God-fearing person.

You will be surprised that the author of the book you gleamed these tips from might be having issues in his marriage.

People do change after marriage. Besides issues like sexual incompatibility, finance issues where the man loses his job and wife bears the burden of the family, childlessness and in-law wahala.

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Re: Never Skip These Before You Marry As A Christian by YorubaNinja: 1:05pm On Feb 02, 2020
dammypat:
. Oga Anti Africa/Anti church,No church is telling couple not to marry whosoever they chose to marry,medical test allows you to know the health status of your partner and to be counselled, it’s left to you to decide if you want to go ahead or not if medical test proves you both are incompatible especially on the cases of blood types having known the implications,if medical test is ruled out,how would you know how to care for an HIV partner or those with terminal illnesses? How would you know how to manage him/her and the transmission? you can marry your spouse on any health conditions if you so wish, No church will stop you! We Nigerians should stop this bad mouthing of the churches and Nigeria thingy, there is evil in every part of the world!

Nigerian Churches are the worst filled with evil intentions and materialism. The platform on which 98% of Nigerian churches business ventures are built is as a result of poverty and to make money NOT, win souls.

>98% of the Pastors are even more corrupt than the 9ja Politicians. They know the truth but would NEVER speak it. The Nigerian people are also very, very bad. Their mindset set towards one another is filled with evil intentions and jealousy.

You wonder why the nation suffers while other nations that are less religious progress.

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