alright

post=86306727:
@OP,
[s]All your points are valid and true,

But we will gladly put this at the top of it all......

2) Test of Fidelity: Some people love, but they are promiscuous. But promiscuity is not a characteristics of true love. So if your partner is a promiscuous cheat, pause the wedding. You can take the person for spiritual rehabilitation or deliverance before you proceed with wedding.

Thank God for boo

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Valid points made by the Op. It's interesting to note that the points you made didn't centre on religion alone but on psychological/emotional compatibility which is absolutely important.

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I think all of the above can be sum up under compatibility.
Are you compatible?
Compatibility in this case is not about education, social status or family background, its simply about kind or breed. is the person born of God with the evidence of Christ Like attitude? if yes you can go ahead

Lostz:
is there anywhere the op said marriage is compulsory?

As if say marriage is important in Christianity! Jesus and Paul for marry!

Which Bible verses supports the OP?

All these i have used to test dominique and she passed all

[quote author= post=86306727]@OP,
[s]All your points are valid and true,

But we will gladly put this at the top of it all......

2) Test of Fidelity: Some people love, but they are promiscuous. But promiscuity is not a characteristics of true love. So if your partner is a promiscuous cheat, pause the wedding. You can take the person for spiritual rehabilitation or deliverance before you proceed with wedding.

[i]Thank God for boo [/i[/s]][/quoter]rubbish

Wise coinages, but sometimes, marriages come out accidentally or providentially and starting and ending blitz fully. To me, one should follow his/her mind and not any lengthy scientific or philosophical prescriptions.

Op!! Why the excessive used of Oyinbo pics? Are u okay? Use full Nigerian pics next time. If una like bound me like d last time, na una go lose. Cos i won't waste my data on anything.

White from Lebanon, that one na white

AntiChristian:


As if say marriage is important in Christianity! Jesus and Paul for marry!

Which Bible verses supports the OP?

did the op said all Christians must marry?

Nice one

hooha:
Today you hear of bridal shower, lovely wedding, wedding in Dubai, men in Black, she is my queen, he is my hero, bla bla bla. Then tomorrow, you hear of divorce: she is a devil, he is a dog, he is a wife beater, she is a beast, I didn't know she was a witch, I didn't know he has STD, bla bla bla bla. That is why you really need to do a proper check before you marry. In those days where many people were good, you could easily pick a guy or a lady, and marriage will work out. But today that is filled with hypocrisy, you ought to be careful.

I will show you things that you mustn't skip before you marry your fiance or fiancee.

(1) Test of Love: Until you love and get loved, and until the love begins to flow without energy, before you can say you are good to go. If you still put pressure trying to impress your partner to love you, please pause first. Something is wrong somewhere. But when the love flows sweatlessly and selflessly, then you may proceed to marry.

(2) Test of Fidelity: Some people love, but they are promiscuous. But promiscuity is not a characteristics of true love. So if your partner is a promiscuous cheat, pause the wedding. You can take the person for spiritual rehabilitation or deliverance before you proceed with wedding.

(3) Test of Time: Everything, no matter how sweet, palatable and enticing it may look like, can only be validated with time. So no matter how you love your partner or how your partner wishes to marry you, give it the test of time. Give it time to see if whatever you feel or whatever is shown is real. As they normally say "time will tell".

(4) Test of Peace: No matter the sweetness of any relationship, if there is an internal tension of the mind, please go back to God to ask questions. Until you have true and persistent peace, don't marry that person. When the peace is sure, go and marry.

(5) Test of Availability: Whoever tells you there is time for love and time for serious business is not a good partner for you. Love has no schedule! Until you have much access to enjoying your partners availability, don't marry. When I talk about availability here, I don't mean that your partner may not be in situations were you cannot access each other, but even when such situations come, you will still see the urge to be together; not that he or she will be operating an intentional love on schedule.

(6) Test of Tolerance: Until your imperfections are swallowed and until you are able to swallow the imperfections of your partner, don't marry yet.. It is good to have a large heart, but if you find it so difficult to take some things from your partner, do not marry yet until you are able to take it. Marriage is a very long journey.

(7) Medical Test: Don't assume your partner is good and you trust yourselves. Seek necessary medical tests before marriage.

May God help you to have a successful marriage with a God-fearing person.

1.Fertility test.

2.How many children you want to have test

3. Do you think you can deal with not having a male child test.

4.what if a baby doesn't come between us , would you go for a second wife test , or be testing yourself with other men, or Ladies test.

5. What if baby doesn't come between us, what will be our next step to have babies part from IVF.

6.Would you be okay to adopt.

7.What's your stand for adoption.

8. Your family's stand on all these alternative.


These are things I see people go through in marriages

Lostz:
did the op said all Christians must marry?

He insinuates that.

Noticed that too.. It's annoying

Dagger111:
Op!! Why the excessive used of Oyinbo pics? Are u okay? Use full Nigerian pics next time. If una like bound me like d last time, na una go lose. Cos i won't waste my data on anything.

AntiChristian:

He insinuates that.

can you point out that part of the post?

Lostz:
can you point out that part of the post?

Reread the topic and OP

AntiChristian:


Reread the topic and OP

I already did and didn't see anything like that. maybe the way you understand things is different from everyone else.

or you just love arguing unnecessarily on any Christian post

I Agree Completely...

Vasgas:
I think all of the above can be sum up under compatibility.
Are you compatible?
Compatibility in this case is not about education, social status or family background, its simply about kind or breed. is the person born of God with the evidence of Christ Like attitude? if yes you can go ahead

There's nothing like compatibility here.

These are things that needs to be spelt out before marriage or else, when they pop up it can lead to suffering and frustration in marriages

AntiChristian:


As if say marriage is important in Christianity! Jesus and Paul for marry!

Which Bible verses supports the OP?

I support#every body must not marry

Lostz:
I already did and didn't see anything like that. maybe the way you understand things is different from everyone else.

or you just love arguing unnecessarily on any Christian post

If you can't see it others can!

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AntiChristian:


If you can't see it others can!

done with you

Lostz:
done with you

Better for una!

Noted!

So, in your mind all these test guarantees a stable and happy marriage.

Op, thanks so much. You said it well.
I’m ready for marriage but I don’t even have a boyfriend, hahaha

I have prayed to God that if is his wish that I should get married, let him send my husband before am 30yrs old.

Amanda4life:


There's nothing like compatibility here.

These are things that needs to be spelt out before marriage or else, when they pop up it can lead to suffering and frustration in marriages

OK ma'

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Vasgas:

OK ma'

Im Sorry, I hope my tone wasn't harsh