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YorubaNinja:
Nigerian Churches are the worst filled with evil intentions and materialism. The platform on which 98% of Nigerian churches business ventures are built is as a result of poverty and to make money NOT, win souls.

>98% of the Pastors are even more corrupt than the 9ja Politicians. The know the truth but would NEVER speak it. The Nigerian people are also very, very bad. Their mindset set towards one another if filled with evil intentions and jealousy.

You wonder why the nation suffers while other nations that are less religious progress.

98%? Based on what?

madayaya:
Have u heard of the word DECEPTION? That’s y churches do test! So that couples will be aware of the medical condition they are going to carry along once they get married which gives you the option to say yes to the situation and be part of it! Or no I’m not going to be part of this for the rest of my life because of reasons best known to them! So it’s not a matter of conditional or unconditional love! U hear?

Yes Sir!

So we shud not



Test of pussy.. What if u now go and Carry a hoe with wide borehole passage, I swear all those test go fall once ni... When u Don enter finish and she is still saying babe enter na..

ideabuilder:
8. Test of Pregnancy. At least be 1 month pregnant before wedding.

MP

hooha:
Today you hear of bridal shower, lovely wedding, wedding in Dubai, men in Black, she is my queen, he is my hero, bla bla bla. Then tomorrow, you hear of divorce: she is a devil, he is a dog, he is a wife beater, she is a beast, I didn't know she was a witch, I didn't know he has STD, bla bla bla bla. That is why you really need to do a proper check before you marry. In those days where many people were good, you could easily pick a guy or a lady, and marriage will work out. But today that is filled with hypocrisy, you ought to be careful.

I will show you things that you mustn't skip before you marry your fiance or fiancee.

(1) Test of Love: Until you love and get loved, and until the love begins to flow without energy, before you can say you are good to go. If you still put pressure trying to impress your partner to love you, please pause first. Something is wrong somewhere. But when the love flows sweatlessly and selflessly, then you may proceed to marry.

(2) Test of Fidelity: Some people love, but they are promiscuous. But promiscuity is not a characteristics of true love. So if your partner is a promiscuous cheat, pause the wedding. You can take the person for spiritual rehabilitation or deliverance before you proceed with wedding.

(3) Test of Time: Everything, no matter how sweet, palatable and enticing it may look like, can only be validated with time. So no matter how you love your partner or how your partner wishes to marry you, give it the test of time. Give it time to see if whatever you feel or whatever is shown is real. As they normally say "time will tell".

(4) Test of Peace: No matter the sweetness of any relationship, if there is an internal tension of the mind, please go back to God to ask questions. Until you have true and persistent peace, don't marry that person. When the peace is sure, go and marry.

(5) Test of Availability: Whoever tells you there is time for love and time for serious business is not a good partner for you. Love has no schedule! Until you have much access to enjoying your partners availability, don't marry. When I talk about availability here, I don't mean that your partner may not be in situations were you cannot access each other, but even when such situations come, you will still see the urge to be together; not that he or she will be operating an intentional love on schedule.

(6) Test of Tolerance: Until your imperfections are swallowed and until you are able to swallow the imperfections of your partner, don't marry yet.. It is good to have a large heart, but if you find it so difficult to take some things from your partner, do not marry yet until you are able to take it. Marriage is a very long journey.

(7) Medical Test: Don't assume your partner is good and you trust yourselves. Seek necessary medical tests before marriage.

May God help you to have a successful marriage with a God-fearing person.

Dt point 5 can dey discourage d intent to marry.
wen u hear dis kind of sentence frequently and repeatedly from ur supposed spouse to be "I am busy" , "I am not chanced" is a drawbk DT drains affection for ur partner.

Actually, someone who truly loves God will tick all these boxes

Nice write up.

ideabuilder:
8. Test of Pregnancy. At least be 1 month pregnant before wedding.

Then u only need children&nt out to enjoy d companionship in marriage.

YorubaNinja:
Awon adviser.. Africans and their foolish mentality!

Na ONLY Africans dey do medical test as a condition for marriage which makes it conditional love. 'True love' loves unconditionally. I'm even surprised 9ja churches dey encourage all this medical test prior to marriage.
In developed worlds, they love unconditionally regardless of the their partner's medical condition. Some even go ahead to marry their partners on their death beds.

You're so right. Someone up there even said d lady must be confirmed pregnant bf wedding.

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YorubaNinja:
Nigerian Churches are the worst filled with evil intentions and materialism. The platform on which 98% of Nigerian churches business ventures are built is as a result of poverty and to make money NOT, win souls.

>98% of the Pastors are even more corrupt than the 9ja Politicians. The know the truth but would NEVER speak it. They Nigerian people are also very, very bad. Their mindset set towards one another if filled with evil intentions and jealousy.

You wonder why the nation suffers while other nations that are less religious progress.

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HacheNoire:
Kukuma just turn to a "TESTER" before marriage.

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post=86306781:
Kindly go ahead and tell us sir!

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YorubaNinja:
Awon adviser.. Africans and their foolish mentality!

Na ONLY Africans dey do medical test as a condition for marriage which makes it conditional love. 'True love' loves unconditionally. I'm even surprised 9ja churches dey encourage all this medical test prior to marriage. Should I be surprised? 98% of them are fake churches anyway. That shows their level of faith. God is love and love above everything else.... Not in a place like 9ja where poverty and wealth determines everything.

In developed worlds, they love unconditionally regardless of the their partner's medical condition. Some even go ahead to marry their partners on their death beds.

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post=86306864:
Hope to understand this post better when we read it again.

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Mymynd4u:
So we shud not



Test of pussy.. What if u now go and Carry a hoe with wide borehole passage, I swear all those test go fall once ni... When u Don enter finish and she is still saying babe enter na..

Baba, me i no mind wide pussy O. Infact err,i like am express so dat i go dey enter easily. I cant deal wit tight puna. My own be say no carry STD 4 body

Nice one�

I just need a lady that will give me baby boy and girl...i dont want to get married

Sammarshall:
Op, thanks so much. You said it well.
I’m ready for marriage but I don’t even have a boyfriend, hahaha

I have prayed to God that if is his wish that I should get married, let him send my husband before am 30yrs old.

where is ur location, let see if we are compatible am also ready to settle down

Amanda4life:
Im Sorry, I hope my tone wasn't harsh

Not at all, Happy Sunday

Good one from the writer.

Nice one, the last point is a must, only one who is blind in love won't think of medical test.

hooha:
Today you hear of bridal shower, lovely wedding, wedding in Dubai, men in Black, she is my queen, he is my hero, bla bla bla. Then tomorrow, you hear of divorce: she is a devil, he is a dog, he is a wife beater, she is a beast, I didn't know she was a witch, I didn't know he has STD, bla bla bla bla. That is why you really need to do a proper check before you marry. In those days where many people were good, you could easily pick a guy or a lady, and marriage will work out. But today that is filled with hypocrisy, you ought to be careful.

I will show you things that you mustn't skip before you marry your fiance or fiancee.

(1) Test of Love: Until you love and get loved, and until the love begins to flow without energy, before you can say you are good to go. If you still put pressure trying to impress your partner to love you, please pause first. Something is wrong somewhere. But when the love flows sweatlessly and selflessly, then you may proceed to marry.

(2) Test of Fidelity: Some people love, but they are promiscuous. But promiscuity is not a characteristics of true love. So if your partner is a promiscuous cheat, pause the wedding. You can take the person for spiritual rehabilitation or deliverance before you proceed with wedding.

(3) Test of Time: Everything, no matter how sweet, palatable and enticing it may look like, can only be validated with time. So no matter how you love your partner or how your partner wishes to marry you, give it the test of time. Give it time to see if whatever you feel or whatever is shown is real. As they normally say "time will tell".

(4) Test of Peace: No matter the sweetness of any relationship, if there is an internal tension of the mind, please go back to God to ask questions. Until you have true and persistent peace, don't marry that person. When the peace is sure, go and marry.

(5) Test of Availability: Whoever tells you there is time for love and time for serious business is not a good partner for you. Love has no schedule! Until you have much access to enjoying your partners availability, don't marry. When I talk about availability here, I don't mean that your partner may not be in situations were you cannot access each other, but even when such situations come, you will still see the urge to be together; not that he or she will be operating an intentional love on schedule.

(6) Test of Tolerance: Until your imperfections are swallowed and until you are able to swallow the imperfections of your partner, don't marry yet.. It is good to have a large heart, but if you find it so difficult to take some things from your partner, do not marry yet until you are able to take it. Marriage is a very long journey.

(7) Medical Test: Don't assume your partner is good and you trust yourselves. Seek necessary medical tests before marriage.

May God help you to have a successful marriage with a God-fearing person.

8.) Test of Compatibility

mignone:
Then u only need children&nt out to enjoy d companionship in marriage.

I seek companionship in marriage together with children

Marriage is a scary institution.

What if the spouse changes?

What if they don't change but get worse?

What if...

themonk:
Test of sexual compatibility.

Very big d**k
Very small dick
Very wide Vijay
Very small vjay

All these can cause cheating and divorce. Better make sure your partner has your size.

How can you test this if premarital sex is not allowed?

Insightful !
Noted !

Na God go just save person. Nice one sir.

Why do people get married when they certainly aren't ready?

hooha:
Today you hear of bridal shower, lovely wedding, wedding in Dubai, men in Black, she is my queen, he is my hero, bla bla bla. Then tomorrow, you hear of divorce: she is a devil, he is a dog, he is a wife beater, she is a beast, I didn't know she was a witch, I didn't know he has STD, bla bla bla bla. That is why you really need to do a proper check before you marry. In those days where many people were good, you could easily pick a guy or a lady, and marriage will work out. But today that is filled with hypocrisy, you ought to be careful.

I will show you things that you mustn't skip before you marry your fiance or fiancee.

(1) Test of Love: Until you love and get loved, and until the love begins to flow without energy, before you can say you are good to go. If you still put pressure trying to impress your partner to love you, please pause first. Something is wrong somewhere. But when the love flows sweatlessly and selflessly, then you may proceed to marry.

(2) Test of Fidelity: Some people love, but they are promiscuous. But promiscuity is not a characteristics of true love. So if your partner is a promiscuous cheat, pause the wedding. You can take the person for spiritual rehabilitation or deliverance before you proceed with wedding.

(3) Test of Time: Everything, no matter how sweet, palatable and enticing it may look like, can only be validated with time. So no matter how you love your partner or how your partner wishes to marry you, give it the test of time. Give it time to see if whatever you feel or whatever is shown is real. As they normally say "time will tell".

(4) Test of Peace: No matter the sweetness of any relationship, if there is an internal tension of the mind, please go back to God to ask questions. Until you have true and persistent peace, don't marry that person. When the peace is sure, go and marry.

(5) Test of Availability: Whoever tells you there is time for love and time for serious business is not a good partner for you. Love has no schedule! Until you have much access to enjoying your partners availability, don't marry. When I talk about availability here, I don't mean that your partner may not be in situations were you cannot access each other, but even when such situations come, you will still see the urge to be together; not that he or she will be operating an intentional love on schedule.

(6) Test of Tolerance: Until your imperfections are swallowed and until you are able to swallow the imperfections of your partner, don't marry yet.. It is good to have a large heart, but if you find it so difficult to take some things from your partner, do not marry yet until you are able to take it. Marriage is a very long journey.

(7) Medical Test: Don't assume your partner is good and you trust yourselves. Seek necessary medical tests before marriage.

May God help you to have a successful marriage with a God-fearing person.

Very good write up...

YorubaNinja:
Nigerian Churches are the worst filled with evil intentions and materialism. The platform on which 98% of Nigerian churches business ventures are built is as a result of poverty and to make money NOT, win souls.

>98% of the Pastors are even more corrupt than the 9ja Politicians. The know the truth but would NEVER speak it. They Nigerian people are also very, very bad. Their mindset set towards one another if filled with evil intentions and jealousy.

You wonder why the nation suffers while other nations that are less religious progress.

. Oga YorubaNinja! Which one you be You be Chinese ni? They Nigerians! You no be Naija ni Bad people are every where! And not all Nigerians are bad! No leave marriage matter con dey fight church, leave the churches to God, face your life race,run it and make good impact!

hooha:
Today you hear of bridal shower, lovely wedding, wedding in Dubai, men in Black, she is my queen, he is my hero, bla bla bla. Then tomorrow, you hear of divorce: she is a devil, he is a dog, he is a wife beater, she is a beast, I didn't know she was a witch, I didn't know he has STD, bla bla bla bla. That is why you really need to do a proper check before you marry. In those days where many people were good, you could easily pick a guy or a lady, and marriage will work out. But today that is filled with hypocrisy, you ought to be careful.

I will show you things that you mustn't skip before you marry your fiance or fiancee.

(1) Test of Love: Until you love and get loved, and until the love begins to flow without energy, before you can say you are good to go. If you still put pressure trying to impress your partner to love you, please pause first. Something is wrong somewhere. But when the love flows sweatlessly and selflessly, then you may proceed to marry.

(2) Test of Fidelity: Some people love, but they are promiscuous. But promiscuity is not a characteristics of true love. So if your partner is a promiscuous cheat, pause the wedding. You can take the person for spiritual rehabilitation or deliverance before you proceed with wedding.

(3) Test of Time: Everything, no matter how sweet, palatable and enticing it may look like, can only be validated with time. So no matter how you love your partner or how your partner wishes to marry you, give it the test of time. Give it time to see if whatever you feel or whatever is shown is real. As they normally say "time will tell".

(4) Test of Peace: No matter the sweetness of any relationship, if there is an internal tension of the mind, please go back to God to ask questions. Until you have true and persistent peace, don't marry that person. When the peace is sure, go and marry.

(5) Test of Availability: Whoever tells you there is time for love and time for serious business is not a good partner for you. Love has no schedule! Until you have much access to enjoying your partners availability, don't marry. When I talk about availability here, I don't mean that your partner may not be in situations were you cannot access each other, but even when such situations come, you will still see the urge to be together; not that he or she will be operating an intentional love on schedule.

(6) Test of Tolerance: Until your imperfections are swallowed and until you are able to swallow the imperfections of your partner, don't marry yet.. It is good to have a large heart, but if you find it so difficult to take some things from your partner, do not marry yet until you are able to take it. Marriage is a very long journey.

(7) Medical Test: Don't assume your partner is good and you trust yourselves. Seek necessary medical tests before marriage.

May God help you to have a successful marriage with a God-fearing person.

Additional:

1.Deliberately flee pre-marital sex and every worldly and man-made standard used to verify sexual compactibility. No matter how sensible they appear. If you had mis-stepped in this respect, decide to do right, going forward.

2. Intentionally choose to use God's prescription for marriage as a guide. It seems archaic, but have consistently proven to sustain marriages. For best outcome, avoid combining man-made and God's standard.

Nice write up. Well done hooha.