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dawnomike:
It has more disadvantages than advantages

Shugavee:
Some people benefit from it n many hv died from it !! Is it worth the risk? My friend was gang raped in porthacort for some days by someone she met on line!! Plus that fact u don’t actually know whom they are !! Plus so many stories online, is it worth the risk ?



, my male friend hates hearing that I met someone online !! U can never trust them!! What u think ?

Peacefullove:
There are no rules to this thing , people are raped offline as well, by people they know very well leading to " I can't believe he could do such a thing " ... You only share the negative sides, forgetting some
good relationship and Marriage today also kick off online.


Just find what works for you

lefulefu:
u might think u chatting with a lady but it would be a guy in disguise
physical relationship still has an upperhand compared to electronic relationship.at least u can seize the person up to know if he or she is real or not.

pwettyme:
It's so risky.... But involve God as you proceed.

My advise to the ladies is not to visit the guys at the first or second meeting (he should come see you at your own convenience).... not until you have spoken or seen someone related to him.
This can be done if you demand to speak or see someone related to him or better still become a mutual friend with his family members e.g Facebook.
I apologize for the preference guys.... But that's just it.
A responsible guy or girl will use his/her real name to ease your search.

Also do a video call once in a while to know who you are chatting with before you schedule your meetings.

Shugavee:
Some people benefit from it n many hv died from it !! Is it worth the risk? My friend was gang raped in porthacort for some days by someone she met on line!! Plus that fact u don’t actually know whom they are !! Plus so many stories online, is it worth the risk ?



, my male friend hates hearing that I met someone online !! U can never trust them!! What u think ?

AfroKnight:
Sorry about your friend.

A rule of thumb is that you and the guy should meet at a mall or park for your first date. No alcohol, no drugs please. Don’t let him drop you off or anything. From the mall, everyone goes their separate ways. Do this a couple of times to get clues about his temper and other things.

Ask to meet his friends after so you can get a feel of the kind of company he keeps. Meet in public spaces. Visiting him early in the relationship is risky.

Expensiverichyb:
There are no lay down rules. The bottom line is, you study people and pay attention

If you meet someone online and you need to see each other, why not do that in an open place.
It's only stu.pid people (guy/ladies) who are not careful that chooses isolated or deserted Locations for meet up.

You have typed truthfully @the bold is spot on