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Good morning Nairalanders...I need your little advice this morning...been thinking of this issue since last night...about my girlfriend demanding and demanding..she demands alot,she always wanna buy this and that... I don’t know what to use to qualify this.,whenever she sees anything online maybe clothes or wigs...she will always show me that she wanna buy it..that I should buy it for her...and it’s very frequent.,she has never done anything on her own before,even if she wanna cook in her own house she’ll still ask me all she do is just to ask me...,when she knows I’m a student like her..,I don’t just know what to do about this issue and it’s killing me...all I just wanna ask is..how can I stop all this..?all I need is your advice please..don’t mind my grammar..and no insults please.Thanks.

Obviously she's using you as her Atm. You know most women this days date btw 2 - 5 boyfriends at the same time. Use your money to develop yourself.

Hypnotise:
Obviously she's using you as her Atm. You know most women this days date btw 2 - 5 boyfriends at the same time. Use your money to develop yourself.

but what happen is that..she’s honest and have never found anything crazy on her phone...like any strange guy texting her.

I won't be surprised if you promised her heaven and Earth while you were trying to woo her. It's time to deliver on your promises.

Lekside230:
but what happen is that..she’s honest and have never found anything crazy on her phone...like any strange guy texting her.

Seems you trust her fully. Do you know how many guys woo her daily, even on facebook or whatsapp? You can't be too sure.

Lekside230:
Good morning Nairalanders...I need your little advice this morning...been thinking of this issue since last night...about my girlfriend demanding and demanding..she demands alot,she always wanna buy this and that... I don’t know what to use to qualify this.,whenever she sees anything online maybe clothes or wigs...she will always show me that she wanna buy it..that I should buy it for her...and it’s very frequent.,she has never done anything on her own before,even if she wanna cook in her own house she’ll still ask me all she do is just to ask me...,when she knows I’m a student like her..,I don’t just know what to do about this issue and it’s killing me...all I just wanna ask is..how can I stop all this..?all I need is your advice please..don’t mind my grammar..and no insults please.Thanks.

You should be reading your books and stop dating liabilities...........

Lexusgs430:
You should be reading your books and stop dating liabilities...........

Thanks.

She is a criminal. In this time of reign of Buhari
Abeg report her matter to the nearest police station or sars

Get rid of that leech and face your book.
Tell me what do you stand to gain from her?

Why can't you say no? Just keep saying no to her request. Is saying No very hard for you.

Bros I pity you, sooner or later she will soon dump ur ass for another man that won't come to nairaland to complain, do your best and leave the rest

That girl will drain you to bits if you don't make a good decision asap. When she's done, she'll dump your sorry ass.

No gree oo. Be a man. Buy her all she wants or else she go dump ur poor ass.

Guy if she ask for 10thung only get her two tell her that’s what you can afford for now. If she loves you she will understand otherwise you need to breakup with her before she starts to cheat. And you need to learn to say NO it’s very important word especially when dealing with women.

If u both r really serious, like datedfor atleast 6momths , then I will say the solution is to get rid of her friends

Lexusgs430:
You should be reading your books and stop dating liabilities...........

But all read no do makes Regina Daniel a dull woman.

remi1444:
But all read no do makes Regina Daniel a dull woman.

Very possible........ Everyone would choose their path and possible destiny.............

By the time the girl get belle, we go read am for NL front page..........

If you like one sided relationship alot stay there, if she is the one making you to make money, remain in the relationship.. If you believe that you are enjoying sex with her while you pump her money then you are a fool,get out of the relationship.

Lexusgs430:
Very possible........ Everyone would choose their path and possible destiny.............

By the time the girl get belle, we go read am for NL front page..........

true sha.

samdavjustin:
Guy if she ask for 10thung only get her two tell her that’s what you can afford for now. If she loves you she will understand otherwise you need to breakup with her before she starts to cheat. And you need to learn to say NO it’s very important word especially when dealing with women.

very nice advice...thanks very much brother.

She doesnt like you she wants to gather and take what she can before she start complaning you call to much, your clingy and your disturbing etc then relationship ends

Lekside230:
Good morning Nairalanders...I need your little advice this morning...been thinking of this issue since last night...about my girlfriend demanding and demanding..she demands alot,she always wanna buy this and that... I don’t know what to use to qualify this.,whenever she sees anything online maybe clothes or wigs...she will always show me that she wanna buy it..that I should buy it for her...and it’s very frequent.,she has never done anything on her own before,even if she wanna cook in her own house she’ll still ask me all she do is just to ask me...,when she knows I’m a student like her..,I don’t just know what to do about this issue and it’s killing me...all I just wanna ask is..how can I stop all this..?all I need is your advice please..don’t mind my grammar..and no insults please.Thanks.

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Lekside230:
but what happen is that..she’s honest and have never found anything crazy on her phone...like any strange guy texting her.

It is not by force to have a girlfriend. What is the essence of having a girl who turn out to be a liability.

If you think you can change an adult, you're deceiving yourself. Those who truly love us don't extort us. Those who are sensible know when to walk away from a bad situation or relationship.
I use to tell people to learn from other people's mistakes and experiences but no, some have already sworn an affidavit to experience things for themselves before they learn and of course they always learn things the hard way.

kokakola:
If you think you can change an adult, you're deceiving yourself. Those who truly love us don't extort us. Those who are sensible know when to walk away from a bad situation or relationship.
I use to tell people to learn from other people's mistakes and experiences but no, some have already sworn an affidavit to experience things for themselves before they learn and of course they always learn things the hard way.

Thanks bro

And you are still asking for advise after all you are going through?
Some people sha

Lekside230:
Good morning Nairalanders...I need your little advice this morning...been thinking of this issue since last night...about my girlfriend demanding and demanding..she demands alot,she always wanna buy this and that... I don’t know what to use to qualify this.,whenever she sees anything online maybe clothes or wigs...she will always show me that she wanna buy it..that I should buy it for her...and it’s very frequent.,she has never done anything on her own before,even if she wanna cook in her own house she’ll still ask me all she do is just to ask me...,when she knows I’m a student like her..,I don’t just know what to do about this issue and it’s killing me...all I just wanna ask is..how can I stop all this..?all I need is your advice please..don’t mind my grammar..and no insults please.Thanks.

What kind of person are you. dump that bitch right now.

Thats her love language...gift giving....
So if u ain't interested...dump her sorry ass

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