Rich4god:
Ladies... How do you define a hard working guy.

Greetings to you all.
I have observe over time, especially on this platform, when ever a ladies is asked about the kind of man she needs, most of them come up with the response... "A hard working man", "An ambitious man" etc.
Now the question is, what's your definition of "a hard working man".

Is it...
A man that graduated from school, got a job and earns a reasonable salary and grows a long his career ladder?
A man that finished school started a business and is doing well, growing continually?
A man that inherited his father's empire and was able to maintain it?
A man that got a bailout maybe from his relations, friends or politicians then invested wisely and is doing well?
A man that started from scratch and made his way up the ladder?
And so on...
I want to hear your own view, what do you see in a man for you to knw that he is hard working or is it just when the man has enough money.
[s]Mind you that a lot of guys have struggled really hard, but couldn't get a break through. A lot have graduated from school but weren't lucky to get a job that pays comfortably[/s]. Will you categorize them as the lazy ones. A lot also have started business, but yet there is no progress made over the years. Are they still lazy?

Let us hear from you ladies, what's your definition of a hard working man.

BarrSly:
[s] Ladies definition of a hardworking man, is a wealthy man..

So just have money and act like you’re doing something serious and putting your brain to good use and this is where your money is coming from.. I swear you’ll be called hardworking lol [/s]

Blu03:
You're a guy. Two ladies have commented and our definition doesn't tally with yours.

funmisticqueen2:
@ the bolded are all hard-working men, because somehing is constant in thier lives and that is growth and results.

The striken ones are the ones who don't have edge, who don't know how to strategize their financial independence and career and gain leverage over thier peers, who don't have 2 heads. They are either full of excuses, or ignorant, they should humble themselves and learn from those who have gone ahead of them. No shame in that. So yes they are lazy. It's not about hustle.if it was about hustling, then every laborer will be rich.


There are pure water and gala sellers that have houses and those that are living from hand to mouth. What makes them different?

TheSyndrome:
I hope the men in your family fall under your category and you also cos your head is not half.

funmisticqueen2:
All of them do. It was ingrained into everyone since childhood. You cannot stay in your father's house and be lazy

funmisticqueen2:
@ the bolded are all hard-working men, because somehing is constant in thier lives and that is growth and results.

The striken ones are the ones who don't have edge, who don't know how to strategize their financial independence and career and gain leverage over thier peers, who don't have 2 heads. They are either full of excuses, or ignorant, they should humble themselves and learn from those who have gone ahead of them. No shame in that. So yes they are lazy. It's not about hustle.if it was about hustling, then every laborer will be rich.


There are pure water and gala sellers that have houses and those that are living from hand to mouth. What makes them different?

Akinbahm:


Hardwork or being brainy is not a yardstick for success. Its clearly known that all of us cannot be rich and all of us cannot be poor.

And if truly hardworking paves way for success my dear our parents should be richer than us in all ramifications simply because they had the undiluted knowledge, working rate and many more to become one.

I don't nullify hardwork or being smart in one's Job/business is just not enough as a yardstick for success. It's the supernatural being blessing we enjoyed that makes it seems as if our hardwork pays off or we being the architect of our success...

TheSyndrome:
And you feel certain you are in control?
Word of advice: Nothing last forever

BarrSly:
Ladies definition of a hardworking man, is a wealthy man..

So just have money and act like you’re doing something serious and putting your brain to good use and this is where your money is coming from.. I swear you’ll be called hardworking lol

BarrSly:
Ladies definition of a hardworking man, is a wealthy man..

So just have money and act like you’re doing something serious and putting your brain to good use and this is where your money is coming from.. I swear you’ll be called hardworking lol

funmisticqueen2:
uncle, tell that to Bill gates, dangote, or Donald trump.

funmisticqueen2:
@ the bolded are all hard-working men, because somehing is constant in thier lives and that is growth and results.

The striken ones are the ones who don't have edge, who don't know how to strategize their financial independence and career and gain leverage over thier peers, who don't have 2 heads. They are either full of excuses, or ignorant, they should humble themselves and learn from those who have gone ahead of them. No shame in that. So yes they are lazy. It's not about hustle.if it was about hustling, then every laborer will be rich.


There are pure water and gala sellers that have houses and those that are living from hand to mouth. What makes them different?

funmisticqueen2:
@ the bolded are all hard-working men, because somehing is constant in thier lives and that is growth and results.

The striken ones are the ones who don't have edge, who don't know how to strategize their financial independence and career and gain leverage over thier peers, who don't have 2 heads. They are either full of excuses, or ignorant, they should humble themselves and learn from those who have gone ahead of them. No shame in that. So yes they are lazy. It's not about hustle.if it was about hustling, then every laborer will be rich.


There are pure water and gala sellers that have houses and those that are living from hand to mouth. What makes them different?

Blu03:
A man who is determined and works hard to excel. I simply want him to have that fire.
I kinda agree with funmisticqueen2.

BarrSly:
Ladies definition of a hardworking man, is a wealthy man..

So just have money and act like you’re doing something serious and putting your brain to good use and this is where your money is coming from.. I swear you’ll be called hardworking lol

funmisticqueen2:
uncle, tell that to Bill gates, dangote, or Donald trump.

Rich4god:

I like what you said... Someone that is determined to succeed. What if the results aren't showing up... Does that make him lazy?

Or is everything all about the result.

simple250:
A man can be on the wrong lane with so much work without result but when you connect yourself to the right channel without too much pressure things will just fall into place before you know it you are big ....all a man need is to pray to God for wisdom and direction .if not you can work for years without result HARD WORK NA SUFFER HEAD O

Deandean:


And thats the problem...when results is the only thing we use to measure hard work or effort.you'll see empty heads who hardly move a finger get double the result of a legit hustler,...but when ppl see money...boom! Hez a hardworking genius. I have a business and even though my friends think i'm extra ordinary to have grown it so well,i personally know it wasn't by hardwork or smartness...its just God that favors me,there countless smarter in tougher ppl who re yet to get there.they re not lazy,there legit hustle will pay someday too....judging by results alone z wat push guys to do the outrageous....don't just sit there with a privileged start to spit ppl as lazy...life ain't fair to some of them.

funmisticqueen2:
of course nothing lasts forever.

You think the men in my family had smooth sailing? Lol!!

simple250:
A man can be on the wrong lane with so much work without result but when you connect yourself to the right channel without too much pressure things will just fall into place before you know it you are big ....all a man need is to pray to God for wisdom and direction .if not you can work for years without result HARD WORK NA SUFFER HEAD O

TheSyndrome:
If you know that why the castigation in the first place?
Women are really confused creatures.

Rich4god:
Ladies... How do you define a hard working guy.

Greetings to you all.
I have observe over time, especially on this platform, when ever a ladies is asked about the kind of man she needs, most of them come up with the response... "A hard working man", "An ambitious man" etc.
Now the question is, what's your definition of "a hard working man".

Is it...
A man that graduated from school, got a job and earns a reasonable salary and grows a long his career ladder?
A man that finished school started a business and is doing well, growing continually?
A man that inherited his father's empire and was able to maintain it?
A man that got a bailout maybe from his relations, friends or politicians then invested wisely and is doing well?
A man that started from scratch and made his way up the ladder?
And so on...
I want to hear your own view, what do you see in a man for you to knw that he is hard working or is it just when the man has enough money.
Mind you that a lot of guys have struggled really hard, but couldn't get a break through. A lot have graduated from school but weren't lucky to get a job that pays comfortably. Will you categorize them as the lazy ones. A lot also have started business, but yet there is no progress made over the years. Are they still lazy?

Let us hear from you ladies, what's your definition of a hard working man.

ariefadenning:


@OP anyone that can pay his bills without any assistance is a hardworking guy