Psalme91:
please forgive me for speaking like an ungrateful person, I am not ungrateful to God, I am really grateful to him for blessings me with my daughters, I was frustrated because of my husband behaviour that why I spoke like an ungrateful but I can never be ungrateful to God, my husband families, they treat me badly with all all kinds of bad names, the mother of prostitutes, it really hurts my heart, even my husband supports his mother and his sisters for maltreating me , I know when they will be aware that this baby it’s another a girl, I can imagine how they will be treating me even worse than before. my heart is bleeding a lot. my husband hasn’t returned since yesterday, he doesn’t pick up his phone and he doesn’t want to answer my text, I feel bad, I couldn’t sleep at night, I cried a lot and thinks too much, I’m at work and I can’t even concentrate. I'm really sorry for all the bad things I said out of ignorance , I can never be ungrateful to God. thank you very much

Singles, marry enlightened men, and discuss these issues before marriage. This is beyond ignorance. Its plain wickedness. Your husband and his family should do their worst.

This is what you stand to gain if you train them well, show your in laws this photo and make sure you use your husband's money to invest in their education

Psalme91:
It is almost 4AM my husband hasn’t come home yet , just because we found out that I am carrying another baby girl. I’m in pained , I don’t know what I have done to deserve all this . Please help me beg God if I offended him unknowingly to please forgive me and blessed me with baby boys ( triplets). Please

You better relax and take care of your pregnancy so that you can deliver in good health

Baby boy or girl child is determined by a man chromosomes

Some people living happily without a child is anxiously looking for a girl child to call their own

If your man wants to cheat or become unhappy, pls think about yourself

Men are not worth the tension you are creating because of him

He can as well do with out you

Just hold yourself

You are not God what if you give birth to an inbecile male , I won’t mention names but I know a billionaire that have 3 female kids and show them off and can’t show is male kid because is something is not proud of , be happy God give u 100% balanced kid Nd d ones u will hide inside the house . Your husband just need orientation and all that matter most is d kids that will make u proud not the one that will ruin ur names and I have two beautiful daughters that I show off anyday anytime . God plan is the best and I wish u safe delivery

LIVINGICON:


What is ridiculous about it?? You are an African for crying out loud. So tradition and cultural values are still held in high esteem. Fine, a baby, be it a boyor girl is important. But at the same time u can't rule out the fact that a baby boy is very important to continue his father's lineage.

Do you think families with all their children as females are really happy? Do you think they never wished to have a baby boy??

Enough of all the hypocritical thinking.

What useless lineage? Are we in the 18th century or what. So, you'll sink into depression if you have a girl child right? Agbaya!

Btw, your last statement is highly laughable! So boys automatically guarantee happiness right? Go ask my uncle who has four sons - all of whom their mother turned against him after spending millions raising and sending them abroad. Likewise I know others with daughters who are living in peace and contentment. Be careful how you talk before God punish you there.

freecocoahubby:



What useless lineage? Are we in the 18th century or what. So, you'll sink into depression if you have a girl child right? Agbaya!

Btw, your last statement is highly laughable! So boys automatically guarantee happiness right? Go ask my uncle who has four sons - all of whom their mother turned against him after spending millions raising and sending them abroad. Likewise I know others with daughters who are living in peace and contentment. Be careful how you talk before God punish you there.

Keep living in a Fool's paradise.
I don talk finish

LIVINGICON:


Keep living in a Fool's paradise.
I don talk finish

Like I said, Nigeria is full of backward apes... and you must be one of them

baby124:
Anini, Shina Rambo and Osisikankwu were all male children once. Just be happy you are alive and that your baby is healthy.

They have started, as if its not female child u wil find at every oloshoic centers across cities..

Madam Psalme91 u wil b ok wen u realise that its God dat is determining everything in this life irrespective of ur prayers, will, prospects, zeal, dedication, and all..

Laslas wen cant choose for God as ur prayer, cry, dedication, zeal cant change His plan, He's the masterplanner.

And for ur husband, dont worry, he wil come bak home after he must have gba kamu.

Psalme91:
please forgive me for speaking like an ungrateful person, I am not ungrateful to God, I am really grateful to him for blessings me with my daughters, I was frustrated because of my husband behaviour that why I spoke like an ungrateful but I can never be ungrateful to God, my husband families, they treat me badly with all all kinds of bad names, the mother of prostitutes, it really hurts my heart, even my husband supports his mother and his sisters for maltreating me , I know when they will be aware that this baby it’s another a girl, I can imagine how they will be treating me even worse than before. my heart is bleeding a lot. my husband hasn’t returned since yesterday, he doesn’t pick up his phone and he doesn’t want to answer my text, I feel bad, I couldn’t sleep at night, I cried a lot and thinks too much, I’m at work and I can’t even concentrate. I'm really sorry for all the bad things I said out of ignorance , I can never be ungrateful to God. thank you very much

And you kept opening your legs to be impregnated by their son in a pathetic attempt to prove them wrong right? You could've stopped at two but now you've got a house filled with 4-5 innocent children who will grow up knowing they are not valued because they are girls.

I know you are upset right now but shame on you, your silly husband and his useless family members.

since you and your husband have chosen to be stupid. you will suffer the consequences. 5 children in this hard economy

snipesdam:
Top tips for conceiving a boy; Remember there are no guarantees

Time sex to coincide with the day of ovulation (no earlier than 24 hours before you are about to ovulate).

Deep penetrative sex is preferable.

It helps if the woman reaches orgasm.
Have an energy drink, a cup of coffee or some chocolate before having sex it helps propel the Y sperm.

If you want a boy then avoid having sex:

Earlier than 24 hours before you are about to ovulate.

After 12 hours since you ovulated
To increase a father’s sperm count, he should not ejaculate for 4-5 days before ovulation, which according to Shettles will increase the chances of having a boy.

so they should have more kids even as they cant take care of the current ones

ikh777:



Aunty Aunty Auntyyyyyyyyyy, WHY WILL A HIGHLY FAVORED WOMAN LIKE YOU BE CRYING AT THIS TIME... pls consider your health o.


Wipe your tears.... PICK A PEN AND PAPER AND START WRITING ALL THAT GOD HAS DONE FOR YOU SINCE BEFORE YOU MARRIED.

SIT AND THINK DEEP ABOUT ALL HE HAS DONE.... Major things o, then after writing about 20 of them. bring out your phone and play some praise songs and just move your body a little and say THANK YOU JESUS FOR NO EVIL CAN BEFALL ME AND MY HOME.

Praise God and you wil see that things will start changing gradually. Do not allow the devil make you cry, YOUR HUSBAND IS JUST SCARED, TIRED AND FRUSTRATED... especially because of the heavy cash involved... pls give God praise. Your atmosphere will change and God's mercy will speak for you

OP follow this advice please. Remember some don't even have any children at all. Be grateful. Your husband will come round.

Diiiamoond:
its really upsetting that there are people out there who are so ungrateful for what God has given them, there are some people out there who are desperately trying to have children and then you have this man complaining that hes got girls.
So people dont realise how blessed there are,
Your husband needs more education on the blessings of having girls children. Let this not worry you in the least as it is God who gives, and HE has reasons for giving you daughters.
I was born in a family of 10- 9 girls and a boy (me number . Today my mum is happy she has lots of successful girls and the boy is useless.

seriously, 9 girls. u are blessed

Psalme91:


thank you very much for the words of encouragement, I also have 4 daughters and pregnant with the fifth. this baby supposed to be our last ,cause of financial problems, that's why my husband is not happy

Oh, I didn't see this. Four girls already?

Well, I understand how you must feel depressed at the idea of having another girl. But look at it this way, you are healthy, your children are healthy . . that's all that really matters.

Your husband will come around, and if he doesn't . . well, you need to love your child and pray for long life to raise them.

Diiiamoond:
its really upsetting that there are people out there who are so ungrateful for what God has given them, there are some people out there who are desperately trying to have children and then you have this man complaining that hes got girls.
So people dont realise how blessed there are,
Your husband needs more education on the blessings of having girls children. Let this not worry you in the least as it is God who gives, and HE has reasons for giving you daughters.
I was born in a family of 10- 9 girls and a boy (me number . Today my mum is happy she has lots of successful girls and the boy is useless.

What a terrible thing to say about your own brother!

People saying that she should be grateful because they’re people out there looking for the fruit of the womb. Well I’m sorry, just because you are blessed in a certain area, that doesn’t totally disregard your feelings or emotions. You are very entitled to feel sad about a situation, no matter how many people want to be in your shoes. Everybody has their own individual problems. The rich do cry, yet millions of people want to be in their position. Does this mean they are not entitled to feel sad?

As for those saying female children are better than males and blah blah blah. A child is a child and the behaviour and actions simply rely on the upbringing and training of the child. They’re many wayward females as well as males, if you train your child up well, they will never depart from it. It’s just that simple. No need to start spreading lies to make the OP feel better. The problems with Africans is that they don’t train their male children well, they spoil them hence why many believe female children do better in life. It’s all bullocks.

To the op, I think your main concern should be getting your tubes tied. You have too many children and clearly you all are struggling financially to take care of them. You are not destined to have a boy, and that is fine. Train your female children well and they will be a source of joy for you and your hubby in old age. Good luck.

Take a look at d Kardashian family. The only male in the family is almost useless.

Shallypop:
Take a look at d Kardashian family. The only male in the family is almost useless.

yes. And they’re many useless female children out there. I know you mean well, but stop acting like All Male children grow up to be useless.

Pls madam, you can save up with your husband and go for invitro fertilisation with sex selection. Instead of doing this trial and error technique. Look for a good fertility clinic to discuss with.

Ndi Isi Oji!!! Black people from Black Africa... Very useless and stupid to the core; coupled with the fact that they live in a British Zoo makes it worse!


The only race on Earth to be traded and priced like onions.

There's this stupidity that lives in the brains of Ndi Isi Oji that makes them think a male child is more important!
Tomorrow when the female child turns out to be a corrupt government official AKA Looting Machine or maybe a full-fledged Instagram scammer, the stupid sperm donor will gladly call her MY DAUGHTER!


No wonder people are buying bleaching creams just to turn white....

James289:
Technically, the man decides the sex of the baby... not the woman. You can only contribute an X since you are XX and the man's sperm contributed either an X or a Y - thus deciding the sex.
So, he wasn't able to give himself what he wanted, lol - no reason for you to feel guilty.

Actually, it is timing that determines the sex of the baby. Having sex after her ovulation day is more likely to result to a son that having sex before her ovulation day.
Male sperm are faster but are not resilient like female sperm that are slower but more resilient. It is a race for who will first reach the egg, so make sure the egg is readily available before you start the race. it is called handicapping.

Shallypop:
Take a look at d Kardashian family. The only male in the family is almost useless.

Even their father became a woman.

olabrinks:
yes. And they’re many useless female children out there. I know you mean well, but stop acting like All Male children grow up to be useless.

My son will never be useless IJN. Just trying to encourage the OP dat in any situation, always give thanks.

ednut1:
since you and your husband have chosen to be stupid. you will suffer the consequences. 5 children in this hard economy

Na the children go suffer am pass. I sympathise with them.

People here are bringing up instances of male children turning out wayward like it's not females that are prostituting round the whole Nigeria and writing "Hookup Only" on Badoo and Instamessage.
The ones saying she and her husband are ingrates are yet to be completely thankful for eating 3 square meals daily and living in properly sheltered buildings while several millions of people are homeless right in this country. The fact is, complete satisfaction is easier said than done, and no gender has a monopoly of waywardness. Your husband will come around with time; just be patient.
In life, things don't always go the way we want them; however, that isn't enough reason to beat ourselves up. He's just letting off steam. He'll calm down.
Make una slow down on the children though, as having too many isn't a wise decision.

Diiiamoond:
its really upsetting that there are people out there who are so ungrateful for what God has given them, there are some people out there who are desperately trying to have children and then you have this man complaining that hes got girls.
So people dont realise how blessed there are,
Your husband needs more education on the blessings of having girls children. Let this not worry you in the least as it is God who gives, and HE has reasons for giving you daughters.
I was born in a family of 10- 9 girls and a boy (me number . Today my mum is happy she has lots of successful girls and the boy is useless.

It means say na you useless. Chai

Psalme91:
please forgive me for speaking like an ungrateful person, I am not ungrateful to God, I am really grateful to him for blessings me with my daughters, I was frustrated because of my husband behaviour that why I spoke like an ungrateful but I can never be ungrateful to God, my husband families, they treat me badly with all all kinds of bad names, the mother of prostitutes, it really hurts my heart, even my husband supports his mother and his sisters for maltreating me , I know when they will be aware that this baby it’s another a girl, I can imagine how they will be treating me even worse than before. my heart is bleeding a lot. my husband hasn’t returned since yesterday, he doesn’t pick up his phone and he doesn’t want to answer my text, I feel bad, I couldn’t sleep at night, I cried a lot and thinks too much, I’m at work and I can’t even concentrate. I'm really sorry for all the bad things I said out of ignorance , I can never be ungrateful to God. thank you very much

Aunty, abeg, after you born this no. 5 close your legs. No look for boy again. Focus on this 5. Pray over them regularly that no evil words uttered against your girls shall ever come to pass. Encourage them to stay focused on their studies. Love them like nobody else. Love them dearly as they are, ‘YOUR WORLD’. You shall overcome las las. God is your strength.

Your hubby has to be content with the children God has given him. There is nothing wrong with having girls.

I gave birth to my handsome baby boy three months ago but my husband and I would've been happy if we had had a girl. The sex didn't matter much to us since he is our first baby, we just wanted a happy, healthy baby.

But I understand your plight of wanting a boy after having 4 girls. Know that babies are wonderful little humans irrespective of sex.

Psalme91:


thank you very much for the words of encouragement, I also have 4 daughters and pregnant with the fifth. this baby supposed to be our last ,cause of financial problems, that's why my husband is not happy

Why are you complaining? My kinsman had 18 girls from 4 women

baby124:
Anini, Shina Rambo and Osisikankwu were all male children once. Just be happy you are alive and that your baby is healthy.

Who??

amaham:
Pls madam, you can save up with your husband and go for invitro fertilisation with sex selection. Instead of doing this trial and error technique. Look for a good fertility clinic to discuss with.

So you didn't read the part where she stated they're having financial challenges??

I have 6 daughters and a boy . I'm so happy with my daughters.

Please continue to pray , God will answer you.