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What My Fiancee Said Is Bothering Me by Nobody: 1:21pm On Feb 19, 2020
I had to create a new account to post this.
I was having a discussion with my fiancee the other day, I asked her what if we got married and I beat her one day. She laughed and said, that any day I would raise my hand on her she would either poison me or ruin me so bad.
We have been dating for 2 years now, and our wedding is scheduled for April.
Since she said this, I have been having a serious rethink. What if she means what she said, cause my fiancee is pretty determined?
Re: What My Fiancee Said Is Bothering Me by Nobody: 1:23pm On Feb 19, 2020
grin grin

This one is not even married and he is already planning how to beat his wife.

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Re: What My Fiancee Said Is Bothering Me by YourGrandfather: 1:25pm On Feb 19, 2020
Why will you even want to beat your wife?

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Re: What My Fiancee Said Is Bothering Me by Vyolet(f): 1:27pm On Feb 19, 2020
I like her response, if you eventually marry her, you will learn to keep your hands in your pockets.

She is even the one that needs a rethink, she is about marrying a wife beater that would eventually kill her.

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Re: What My Fiancee Said Is Bothering Me by Foodqueen(f): 1:31pm On Feb 19, 2020
She should be the one worried, not you.

U are not having a rethink of you not beating her, rather you are having a rethink of her killing you. Sense will not kill you in this your up coming marriage. grin grin

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Re: What My Fiancee Said Is Bothering Me by Nobody: 1:37pm On Feb 19, 2020
Foodqueen:
She should be the one worried, not you.

U are not having a rethink of you not beating her, rather you are having a rethink of her killing you. Sense will not kill you in this your up coming marriage. grin grin
The post is so funny, assuming she said she will endure, pray and fast I am sure he would have been very happy.

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Re: What My Fiancee Said Is Bothering Me by ArcFresky(m): 1:42pm On Feb 19, 2020
DanTunde:
I had to create a new account to post this.
I was having a discussion with my fiancee the other day, I asked her what if we got married and I beat her one day. She laughed and said, that any day I would raise my hand on her she would either poison me or ruin me so bad.
We have been dating for 2 years now, and our wedding is scheduled for April.
Since she said this, I have been having a serious rethink. What if she means what she said, cause my fiancee is pretty determined?

Why would u ever consider beating a woman?
There are better ways to discipline a woman than beating.
Beating only puts the blame on you, no matter what she has done (at least that whats society will say)

Note, your girl bragged... she spoke.

You see, assuming she just smiled and kept quiet.. brother she will kill u in your sleep.

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Re: What My Fiancee Said Is Bothering Me by bigiyaro(m): 1:54pm On Feb 19, 2020
why are u afraid? I know bullies don't ever fight Dis mates.

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Re: What My Fiancee Said Is Bothering Me by Nobody: 2:00pm On Feb 19, 2020
YourGrandfather:
Why will you even want to beat your wife?
we might have a hot quarrel and I beat her out of anger. This things happen

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Re: What My Fiancee Said Is Bothering Me by bedfordking: 2:20pm On Feb 19, 2020
for you to post this means you have intentions of beating her one day . I don't blame her for replying you like that

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Re: What My Fiancee Said Is Bothering Me by piippa(m): 2:23pm On Feb 19, 2020
I advice you dump her. Some discussions exposes people. She will eventually do that and even if u don't beat her or you tend to do something else she will surely retaliate in other ways.

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Re: What My Fiancee Said Is Bothering Me by bedfordking: 2:28pm On Feb 19, 2020
DanTunde:
we might have a hot quarrel and I beat her out of anger. This things happen

no matter how angry you are it is wrong to hit a woman .

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Re: What My Fiancee Said Is Bothering Me by Theyoungmatron: 3:30pm On Feb 19, 2020
Look at this imp grin grin grin you might beat her and she might kill you. cheesy cheesy cheesy.
Lots of MIGHTS.
.
DanTunde:
we might have a hot quarrel and I beat her out of anger. This things happen

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Re: What My Fiancee Said Is Bothering Me by Nobody: 3:58pm On Feb 19, 2020
I just find this post hilarious

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Re: What My Fiancee Said Is Bothering Me by abescom: 4:06pm On Feb 19, 2020
Are you planning to beat her?

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Re: What My Fiancee Said Is Bothering Me by Oluneutral: 4:13pm On Feb 19, 2020
Op was probably expecting responses like.......
1. I know you can't do that.
2. I'm sure I must have done something to trigger your anger, so, next time, I'll check myself.
3. I'll pray against its reoccurrence.
4. Holy Ghost will purge you of such evil desire.
5. I'll take it as a test for my love for you.
6. I still don't know what I would do.
7. I will report you to your friends and our pastor.
8. I will make sure I don't push you to that end.
9. I'll pray to God to deliver you from the spirit of wife beating.
10. I sha know that you can't kill me sha.

You can add yours.


I'm sure the op wouldn't have been afraid or bothered if his fiancee uttered any of the above sentence.


Op=potential wife beater.

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Re: What My Fiancee Said Is Bothering Me by Yohans(m): 4:18pm On Feb 19, 2020
You are so funny man, you said that u are having a serious rethink and you think she also is not having a serious rethink about marrying a potential wife beater.

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Re: What My Fiancee Said Is Bothering Me by Nobody: 4:47pm On Feb 19, 2020
She has told you openly that she can kill you and even explained how she will do it, and you are still rethinking. Ok o. Be rethinking there.

One day, we will read your story on NL. Shagababataratata.
Re: What My Fiancee Said Is Bothering Me by Oluneutral: 5:01pm On Feb 19, 2020
RisenPhoenix:
She has told you openly that she can kill you and even explained how she will do it, and you are still rethinking. Ok o. Be rethinking there.

One day, we will read your story on NL. Shagababataratata.


But, don't you think something is wrong with the op for asking such a question?
What do you think should be the op fiancee's response?

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Re: What My Fiancee Said Is Bothering Me by sisisioge: 5:05pm On Feb 19, 2020
grin grin angry grin grin

She better mean it...you better desist from wanting to beat her...then you can both live happily ever after...EOD

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Re: What My Fiancee Said Is Bothering Me by Nobody: 5:08pm On Feb 19, 2020
Oluneutral:



But, don't you think something is wrong with the op for asking such a question?
What do you think should be the op fiancee's response?

Op was playing with his fiancee and asked what she will do if he beats her. Is that a crime? Real wife beaters don't go around planning and telling their future wife the plan.

Even if he was serious about beating her, are you now equating beating with murder? Her response was too well thought out and detailed to be mere play. She will do it because she has thought about it for long. His question did not provoke that response. It is entrenched in her mind as the best option should the situation occur.

Tell me, if your wife or gf asks you what you will do if she cheats, will you state that you will poison her if that is not what you will really do?

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Re: What My Fiancee Said Is Bothering Me by Omar09(m): 5:17pm On Feb 19, 2020
DanTunde:
I had to create a new account to post this.
I was having a discussion with my fiancee the other day, I asked her what if we got married and I beat her one day. She laughed and said, that any day I would raise my hand on her she would either poison me or ruin me so bad.
We have been dating for 2 years now, and our wedding is scheduled for April.
Since she said this, I have been having a serious rethink. What if she means what she said, cause my fiancee is pretty determined?

**coughs

Caps... Lock...

**coughs again
**clears throat properly...

CAPSLOCK!!

That was weird.
Re: What My Fiancee Said Is Bothering Me by CAPSLOCKED: 5:19pm On Feb 19, 2020
Omar09:


**coughs

Caps... Lock...

**coughs again
**clears throat properly...

CAPSLOCK!!

That was weird.

DO YOU KNOW THE PATTERN WE'LL ADOPT?
ONCE THEY'RE CREATING NEW ACCOUNTS TO MASK THEIR FOOLISHNESS, WE'LL CREATE NEW ACCOUNTS TO REPLY THEM AS WELL.
ALL HE'S INTERESTED IN IS TO BARBECUE HIS WIFE-TO-BE. OLOUN PEOPLE FULL THIS WORLD. cheesy

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Re: What My Fiancee Said Is Bothering Me by Oluneutral: 5:22pm On Feb 19, 2020
CAPSLOCKED:


ALL HE'S INTERESTED IN IS TO BARBECUE HIS WIFE-TO-BE. OLOUN PEOPLE FULL THIS WORLD. cheesy


This got me LMAO

Honestly, people full this world, I swear!
Re: What My Fiancee Said Is Bothering Me by Omar09(m): 5:22pm On Feb 19, 2020
CAPSLOCKED:


DO YOU KNOW THE PATTERN WE'LL ADOPT?
ONCE THEY'RE CREATING NEW ACCOUNTS TO MASK THEIR FOOLISHNESS, WE'LL CREATE NEW ACCOUNTS TO REPLY THEM AS WELL.
ALL HE'S INTERESTED IN IS TO BARBECUE HIS WIFE-TO-BE. OLOUN PEOPLE FULL THIS WORLD. cheesy

It will be fun.

Btw.. “I need candid advice. Insults are welcomed too”
Re: What My Fiancee Said Is Bothering Me by CAPSLOCKED: 5:26pm On Feb 19, 2020
Omar09:

It will be fun.
Btw.. “I need candid advice. Insults are welcomed too”
"WHAT SHOULD I DO?"
"MATURED RESPONSES PLEASE"
"PLEASE MODS MOVE TO FRONT-PAGE SO THAT WE CAN GET WIDER VIEWS"

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Re: What My Fiancee Said Is Bothering Me by Oluneutral: 5:28pm On Feb 19, 2020
RisenPhoenix:


Op was playing with his fiancee and asked what she will do if he beats her. Is that a crime? Real wife beaters don't go around planning and telling their future wife the plan.

Even if he was serious about beating her, are you now equating beating with murder? Her response was too well thought out and detailed to be mere play. She will do it because she has thought about it for long. His question did not provoke that response. It is entrenched in her mind as the best option should the situation occur.

Tell me, if your wife or gf asks you what you will do if she cheats, will you state that you will poison her if that is not what you will really do?


What kind of play is that? Na from clap dance dey start!
He too has been thinking and ruminating on it for long before spewing it out jokingly. I swear, he wasn't expecting the girl's response, the response was a rude shock to him.


But, if you insist the guy was just playing by asking that question, then, the fiancee was probably playing with her response too.

Score=1:1

EOD.

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Re: What My Fiancee Said Is Bothering Me by Omar09(m): 5:39pm On Feb 19, 2020
CAPSLOCKED:


"WHAT SHOULD I DO?"

"MATURED RESPONSES PLEASE"

"PLEASE MODS MOVE TO FRONT-PAGE SO THAT WE CAN GET WIDER VIEWS"

“Thanks”... “thank you”
Re: What My Fiancee Said Is Bothering Me by djon78(m): 5:41pm On Feb 19, 2020
Oluneutral:



What kind of play is that? Na from clap dance dey start!
He too has been thinking and ruminating on it for long before spewing it out jokingly. I swear, he wasn't expecting the girl's response, the response was a rude shock to him.


But, if you insist the guy was just playing by asking that question, then, the fiancee was probably playing with her response too.

Score=1:1

EOD.


I have heard my two relatives say it that anyday there husbands touch them, that they will see hell and left with lifetime injuries.

These ladies are now married for years and there husbands have never tried it.
Women that allow there husbands to beat them are the cause. If a man beats you, make sure you give him an injury that he will carry the scar for a lifetime.

Why should you beat a woman?
What gives you that effontery?

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Re: What My Fiancee Said Is Bothering Me by decub: 6:02pm On Feb 19, 2020
Walai, fear don grip my guy. She only threatened and you are already shivering. What if she was gazing at you and wiggling her legs at the same time. Na die be d@!

There are better ways to discipline a woman.

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Re: What My Fiancee Said Is Bothering Me by Lamanii22(f): 6:21pm On Feb 19, 2020
If I were your fiancée I'd kill you slowly and painfully... How in the heck would you wanna raise your hands on a woman.. Area boys ni ma ran si e, o ni shey ru e mo...

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Re: What My Fiancee Said Is Bothering Me by concept65: 6:32pm On Feb 19, 2020
You belong in a trashcan, she needs to dump you very quickly. Getting your dìck up planning abuse in advance, what fùckin nonsense? undecided

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