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Should A Man Hide or lock His Phone From His Wife? by chatinent: 6:28am On Mar 03, 2020
Sequel to his for females:
https://www.nairaland.com/5716040/should-woman-hide-lock-phone#87122118
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A man in my very neighbourhood is always complaining about any slightest inquiry from his wife of names of (female) contacts in his dail logs, and he took a lock-screen lock-phone preventive measure.
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So far this is a regular palaver in marriage. I was wondering, is it right for a man to hide or lock his phone from his wife for any reasons? Give your opinions and reasons, please.
Re: Should A Man Hide or lock His Phone From His Wife? by NextD18: 6:33am On Mar 03, 2020
If your wife is intrusive, curious and eager to know everything, hide it.

If she's a free spirited type, don't hide it.

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Re: Should A Man Hide or lock His Phone From His Wife? by chatinent: 6:34am On Mar 03, 2020
For wider audience, r231, Freiburger, do the needful.
Re: Should A Man Hide or lock His Phone From His Wife? by chatinent: 6:50am On Mar 03, 2020
Some females may see this act as dishonesty. Dominque and Lalasticlala, what do you think?
Re: Should A Man Hide or lock His Phone From His Wife? by FatherBona: 6:54am On Mar 03, 2020
You have the right to your spouse's phone.
Its up to you to exercise that right or not.
Again, in today's world, there is no way you will go through someone's phone, email or chats without finding a skeleton in a closet. If you lucky, you will find amorous messages with someone else, probably someone of the same sex undecided. If you not, you will discover proof of shady dealings, something he or she will not be so quick to open up to you.

My opinion? What you don't know will not kill you. Leave your partner's phone alone. What you don't know will not kill you. From the moment your curiosity gets the better of you and you go through the phone and find something incriminating, say proof of an affair with someone else, the curiosity eats into you and turns you into a detective or an investigator. From this moment, it becomes a railroad that always ends two ways, the relationship crashes or either of the partner gets stabbed( just ask Bilyaminu bello).

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Re: Should A Man Hide or lock His Phone From His Wife? by Lamanii22(f): 7:29am On Mar 03, 2020
Never will I check my man's phone... Can't give myself unnecessary heart attack....

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Re: Should A Man Hide or lock His Phone From His Wife? by FatherBona: 7:32am On Mar 03, 2020
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Re: Should A Man Hide or lock His Phone From His Wife? by GAZZUZZ(m): 7:39am On Mar 03, 2020
Only the wise

Re: Should A Man Hide or lock His Phone From His Wife? by chatinent: 5:24pm On Mar 03, 2020
Lamanii22:
Never will I check my man's phone... Can't give myself unnecessary heart attack....
Lol.
Re: Should A Man Hide or lock His Phone From His Wife? by chatinent: 5:25pm On Mar 03, 2020
FatherBona:
You have the right to your spouse's phone.
Its up to you to exercise that right or not.
Again, in today's world, there is no way you will go through someone's phone, email or chats without finding a skeleton in a closet. If you lucky, you will find amorous messages with someone else, probably someone of the same sex undecided. If you not, you will discover proof of shady dealings, something he or she will not be so quick to open up to you.

My opinion? What you don't know will not kill you. Leave your partner's phone alone. What you don't know will not kill you. From the moment your curiosity gets the better of you and you go through the phone and find something incriminating, say proof of an affair with someone else, the curiosity eats into you and turns you into a detective or an investigator. From this moment, it becomes a railroad that always ends two ways, the relationship crashes or either of the partner gets stabbed( just ask Bilyaminu bello).

Who's Bello?
Re: Should A Man Hide or lock His Phone From His Wife? by FatherBona: 5:59pm On Mar 03, 2020
chatinent:

Who's Bello?
For how much?
Re: Should A Man Hide or lock His Phone From His Wife? by JONNYSPUTE(m): 6:03pm On Mar 03, 2020
NextD18:
If you wife is intrusive, curious and eager to know everything, hide it.

If she's a free spirited type, don't hide it.
...Wish I can give you more likes for this honest comment.
Re: Should A Man Hide or lock His Phone From His Wife? by Conner44: 6:10pm On Mar 03, 2020
Yes naw undecided as a man you need to have secrets from your wife. Especially your phone and bank account balance.

In fact I’m so secretive that I always remember to switch off the lights when we f*ck. She dare not see the shape or color of my dick lest she recognizes it somewhere else (like in a leaked sex video, xvideos etc)

One can’t be too careful with a human you can divorce the next minute. Also depending on where/how you were wedded she might take ‘HALF’ of your total worth when you kick her out of your house.

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Re: Should A Man Hide or lock His Phone From His Wife? by chatinent: 6:14pm On Mar 03, 2020
Conner44:
Yes naw undecided as a man you need to have secrets from your wife. Especially your phone and bank account balance.

In fact I’m so secretive that I always remember to switch off the lights when we f*ck. She dare not see the shape or color of my dick lest she recognizes it somewhere else (like in a leaked sex video, xvideos etc)

One can’t be too careful with a human you can divorce the next minute. Also depending on where/how you were wedded she might take ‘HALF’ of your total worth when you kick her out of your house.
Hmm, quite strange.
Re: Should A Man Hide or lock His Phone From His Wife? by JONNYSPUTE(m): 6:19pm On Mar 03, 2020
Conner44:
Yes naw undecided as a man you need to have secrets from your wife. Especially your phone and bank account balance.

In fact I’m so secretive that I always remember to switch off the lights when we f*ck. She dare not see the shape or color of my dick lest she recognizes it somewhere else (like in a leaked sex video, xvideos etc)

One can’t be too careful with a human you can divorce the next minute. Also depending on where/how you were wedded she might take ‘HALF’ of your total worth when you kick her out of your house.
...I know you are joking but continue. It's very funny thou
Re: Should A Man Hide or lock His Phone From His Wife? by Conner44: 6:48pm On Mar 03, 2020
JONNYSPUTE:
...I know you are joking but continue. It's very funny thou

No jokes man. The day you divulge your full secrets to your wife is the day you use your hand to slice your life expectancy in half.

Ask around, REAL men will confirm
Re: Should A Man Hide or lock His Phone From His Wife? by crackkhaus: 6:48pm On Mar 03, 2020
I don't get why anyone should lock/hide their phones from their partners, I have never understood it.

I'm really old-school.

Even if I'm going to cheat, why on earth would I need to be having chats with the person or saving pictures of her? cheesy

Just a call here and there to agree on a time for a meet-up, and that's all.
Don't text me EVER and don't call me when I'm home, I have a wife.

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Re: Should A Man Hide or lock His Phone From His Wife? by JONNYSPUTE(m): 7:05pm On Mar 03, 2020
Conner44:


No jokes man. The day you divulge your full secrets to your wife is the day you use your hand to slice your life expectancy in half.

Ask around, REAL men will confirm
..The offfing light before sex is where I'm talking
Re: Should A Man Hide or lock His Phone From His Wife? by pwettyme(f): 7:10pm On Mar 03, 2020
Me that have my biometrics registered on his phone.... It's for cases of emergencies Sha not the other way round.
He's still got no ideas

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Re: Should A Man Hide or lock His Phone From His Wife? by TeflonBlixx: 7:13pm On Mar 03, 2020
pwettyme:
Me that have my biometrics registered on his phone.... It's for cases of emergencies Sha not the other way round.
He's still got no ideas

He isn't that observant. I'd have figured.
Re: Should A Man Hide or lock His Phone From His Wife? by Conner44: 7:15pm On Mar 03, 2020
JONNYSPUTE:
..The offfing light before sex is where I'm talking

ahn-ahn... but why should offing light be confusing to you? What is it you want to be looking at clearly while you’re f*cking?

Her face? The pillow? Bedsheets? How to wear the condom properly?? I mean, it’s not like you’ve not seen them before and won’t see them after the deed.

Don’t you know that when you f*ck your ancestors are always in the room counting and clapping for you as they cheer you on? It’s the only way you give them descendants so they have to make sure you’re doing it right. You won’t see them but they are there.

I don’t like the way the light flashes against my dick while I thrust in and out of the wet hole ... well, that plus ... the pervy ancestors angry

We all have em

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Re: Should A Man Hide or lock His Phone From His Wife? by pwettyme(f): 7:16pm On Mar 03, 2020
TeflonBlixx:

He isn't that observant. I'd have figured.
I doubt. Number of biometrics registered still displays 1. I have my ways.
Re: Should A Man Hide or lock His Phone From His Wife? by JONNYSPUTE(m): 7:16pm On Mar 03, 2020
Conner44:


ahn-ahn... but why should offing light be confusing to you? What is it you want to be looking at clearly while you’re f*cking?

Her face? The pillow? Bedsheets? How to wear the condom properly?? I mean, it’s not like you’ve not seen them before and won’t see them after the deed.

Don’t you know that when you f*ck your ancestors are always in the room counting and clapping for you as they cheer you on? It’s the only way you give them descendants so they have to make sure you’re doing it right. You won’t see them but they are there.

I don’t like the way the light flashes against my dick while I thrust in and out of the wet hole ... well, that plus ... the pervy ancestors angry

We all have em

...Lol. You are very funny
Re: Should A Man Hide or lock His Phone From His Wife? by JONNYSPUTE(m): 7:19pm On Mar 03, 2020
crackkhaus:
I don't get why anyone should lock/hide their phones from their partners, I have never understood it.

I'm really old-school.

Even if I'm going to cheat, why on earth would I need to be having chats with the person or saving pictures of her? cheesy

Just a call here and there to agree on a time for a meet-up, and that's all.
Don't text me EVER and don't call me when I'm home, I have a wife.
.. Exactly bro. I don't password or hide my phone from my spouse.
Re: Should A Man Hide or lock His Phone From His Wife? by Whyzaid(f): 7:24pm On Mar 03, 2020
Conner44:
Yes naw undecided as a man you need to have secrets from your wife. Especially your phone and bank account balance.

In fact I’m so secretive that I always remember to switch off the lights when we f*ck. She dare not see the shape or color of my dick lest she recognizes it somewhere else (like in a leaked sex video, xvideos etc)

One can’t be too careful with a human you can divorce the next minute. Also depending on where/how you were wedded she might take ‘HALF’ of your total worth when you kick her out of your house.
Na so

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Re: Should A Man Hide or lock His Phone From His Wife? by TeflonBlixx: 7:30pm On Mar 03, 2020
pwettyme:


I doubt. Number of biometrics registered still displays 1.
I have my ways.

Oh well, do teach me your ways cheesy
Re: Should A Man Hide or lock His Phone From His Wife? by Vulcan24(m): 7:53pm On Mar 03, 2020
from my personal experience,
1. if u av to leave unlock, go through your phones regularly and delete stuff that might cause problem.

2. if u don't av such time and too heady and manly, lock your phones.

women don't listen to explanations once they are on that path.

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Re: Should A Man Hide or lock His Phone From His Wife? by Fountainofyouth(f): 8:06pm On Mar 03, 2020
Why will I be married to a man that hides something from me? The moment he passwords his phone, means he's cheating, what other reason would make him password his phone if not that

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Re: Should A Man Hide or lock His Phone From His Wife? by Nobody: 9:32pm On Mar 03, 2020
Passworded Phones have ended up saving more marriages than churches and pastors do but not many know this.

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Re: Should A Man Hide or lock His Phone From His Wife? by PilotOne: 10:41pm On Mar 03, 2020
Fountainofyouth:
Why will I be married to a man that hides something from me? The moment he passwords his phone, means he's cheating, what other reason would make him password his phone if not that

All phones should be passworded in case they fall into the wrong hands. You may ask your partner for their password though.

You really remind me of someone.

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Re: Should A Man Hide or lock His Phone From His Wife? by DarkJeddi(m): 4:04pm On Mar 08, 2020
FatherBona:
You have the right to your spouse's phone.
Its up to you to exercise that right or not.
Again, in today's world, there is no way you will go through someone's phone, email or chats without finding a skeleton in a closet. If you lucky, you will find amorous messages with someone else, probably someone of the same sex undecided. If you not, you will discover proof of shady dealings, something he or she will not be so quick to open up to you.

My opinion? What you don't know will not kill you. Leave your partner's phone alone. What you don't know will not kill you. From the moment your curiosity gets the better of you and you go through the phone and find something incriminating, say proof of an affair with someone else, the curiosity eats into you and turns you into a detective or an investigator. From this moment, it becomes a railroad that always ends two ways, the relationship crashes or either of the partner gets stabbed( just ask Bilyaminu bello).

You do not have a right to your Spouse's phone,stop propagating a lie..

The ONLY person who has a right to his or her phone is the owner of said phone..

Any other person handling the phone without permission,becomes an INTRUSION..

Being married to someone doesn't confer any rights to their phone,unless they specifically permits it..

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Re: Should A Man Hide or lock His Phone From His Wife? by DarkJeddi(m): 4:06pm On Mar 08, 2020
Fountainofyouth:
Why will I be married to a man that hides something from me? The moment he passwords his phone, means he's cheating, what other reason would make him password his phone if not that
There are a thousand and one reasons he may need to have his phone on a password,you are not the only human he interacts with..

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