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My situation now, I'm the guy and need solution to this.

iLegendd

ubunja

Martinez39

cococandy

explain your exact situation if you truly need help.

Man up and tell her how you feel about her
Her answer will either be Yes or No

ikh777:
explain your exact situation if you truly need help.

okay.
Well, I'm currently an undergraduate(finals)student and I just found myself in a situation where its seems I'm becoming interested in someone but kind of difficult for me to approach her. Any solution for this?

foxxydude:
Man up and tell her how you feel about her
Her answer will either be Yes or No

how do I man up?

start reading

https://www.nairaland.com/2893475/dating-drills-guys-only

[quote author=Betcrusher post=87236j775]how do I man up?[/quote]By manning up.

MJBOLT:

start reading

https://www.nairaland.com/2893475/dating-drills-guys-only

Thanks.

Betcrusher:
My situation now, I'm the guy and need solution to this.

iLegendd

ubunja

Martinez39

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Betcrusher:
okay.
Well, I'm currently an undergraduate(finals)student and I just found myself in a situation where its seems I'm becoming interested in someone but kind of difficult for me to approach her. Any solution for this?

yes. LEAVE HER ALONE, YOU ARE IN THE WORST PLACE RIGHT NOW FOR EMOTIONAL BOUTS


See, you are in FINAL YEAR, you have nothing yet in life.... get your certificate and use your NYSC to get many SABIFICATES.

Build yourself to the kind of person a girl of her standard will BEG to have. And am very serious... I do not mean you should let a lady BEG, but that you grow yourself to the point that such ladies consider themselves BLESSED JUST TO HAVE YOUR NUMBER.

That is when you can be confident to approach her. Right now, due to your LOOKS OR POCKET OR EVEN STATUS, you will by default be shy to approach such a lady.

See, there are more ladies to meet and she too has more guys to meet, THE FIRST IS NOT ALWAYS THE BEST.

FOCUS on your path in life and achieve success early, it is misplaced priority to put the cart before the horse,

ARE YOU READY NOW FOR MARRIAGE? ............................................NO
ARE YOU READY NOW FOR ACCIDENTAL PREGNANCY RESPONSIBILITIES?..............................................NO
ARE YOU READY EMOTIONALLY FOR HEART BREAKS/DISSAPOINTMENTS/STRESS?........................................................NO

So don't deceive yourself, your hormones or erection is only pushing you into trouble that you are not mature to handle.



I KNOW YOU MAY DEFEND YOURSELF AND NOT TAKE MY ADVICE BUT IF YOU DO.... life will become a spring of joy, because 5 years from now, you may hate this same girl or you may be married to a more wonderful, richer and humble lady and then you would remember today and laugh at how fooooolllish you were.

So bruv, man up and grow up.

ikh777:
yes. LEAVE HER ALONE, YOU ARE IN THE WORST PLACE RIGHT NOW FOR EMOTIONAL BOUTS


See, you are in FINAL YEAR, you have nothing yet in life.... get your certificate and use your NYSC to get many SABIFICATES.

Build yourself to the kind of person a girl of her standard will BEG to have. And am very serious... I do not mean you should let a lady BEG, but that you grow yourself to the point that such ladies consider themselves BLESSED JUST TO HAVE YOUR NUMBER.

That is when you can be confident to approach her. Right now, due to your LOOKS OR POCKET OR EVEN STATUS, you will by default be shy to approach such a lady.

See, there are more ladies to meet and she too has more guys to meet, THE FIRST IS NOT ALWAYS THE BEST.

FOCUS on your path in life and achieve success early, it is misplaced priority to put the cart before the horse,

ARE YOU READY NOW FOR MARRIAGE? ............................................NO
ARE YOU READY NOW FOR ACCIDENTAL PREGNANCY RESPONSIBILITIES?..............................................NO
ARE YOU READY EMOTIONALLY FOR HEART BREAKS/DISSAPOINTMENTS/STRESS?........................................................NO

So don't deceive yourself, your hormones or erection is only pushing you into trouble that you are not mature to handle.



I KNOW YOU MAY DEFEND YOURSELF AND NOT TAKE MY ADVICE BUT IF YOU DO.... life will become a spring of joy, because 5 years from now, you may hate this same girl or you may be married to a more wonderful, richer and humble lady and then you would remember today and laugh at how fooooolllish you were.

So bruv, man up and grow up.

Thanks jare for putting my thoughts into words. No mind the ediot. You are in final year, you are empty and soon to acquire a worthless BSc paper but overwhelmed with the thoughts and desire of going to talk to one girl. When will these silly boys create threads like i want to be worth 5m before i am 30 any tips.

Betcrusher:
My situation now, I'm the guy and need solution to this.

iLegendd

ubunja

Martinez39

cococandy

Most of these people you have mentioned, know next to nothing about life and relationship. They are just noise makers.

We4all:
Most of these people you have mentioned, know next to nothing about life and relationship. They are just noise makers.

he who makes the loudest noise gets noticed. That's a lesson you should learn.

Betcrusher:
how do I man up?

Why be afraid to talk to somebody you are already familiar with?