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I'm in relationship with a lady who asked me out ;DI' ..(yeah she was damn bold ).. but the ish now is that I don't really have feelings for her and we are currently in a Long Distance Relationship, its almost a year since we last saw but despite that she is so into me !.. like She calls me at least three times a day, always asking me to send my latest pictures and also not so long she asked me to fix a day so she would come over.......I really respect that BTW.
Back to when she asked me out to be her man I actually said no but she kept on coming..I finally said yes hoping someday I'll develop feelings for her or something cause of her persistence but it never happened rather her calls everyday are beginning to irritate me kinda.

How do I end this without breaking her heart ? is it possible ?

its hard to tell if a girl really loves you,if she is a wife material then accept her,remember it better to walk into love than fall into love

Bro, there is no way you will successfully tell her without breaking her heart. Be as honest and gentle as you can with her, it's better she knows the truth about how you feel about her than she building castles in the air

That girl must be evening newspaper. Her desperation is so appalling!

JAOS:
its hard to tell if a girl really loves you,if she is a wife material then accept her,remember it better to walk into love than fall into love

nice one bro .... true talk

ogtavia:
Bro, there is no way you will successfully tell her without breaking her heart. Be as honest and gentle as you can with her, it's better she knows the truth about how you feel about her than she building castles in the air

seriously, thank you for this

ezekiel131:
I'm in relationship with a lady who asked me out ;DI' ..(yeah she was damn bold ).. but the ish now is that I don't really have feelings for her and we are currently in a Long Distance Relationship, its almost a year since we last saw but despite that she is so into me !.. like She calls me at least three times a day, always asking me to send my latest pictures and also not so long she asked me to fix a day so she would come over.......I really respect that BTW.
Back to when she asked me out to be her man I actually said no but she kept on coming..I finally said yes hoping someday I'll develop feelings for her or something cause of her persistence but it never happened rather her calls everyday are beginning to irritate me kinda.

How do I end this without breaking her heart ? is it possible ?

Things that fall always get broken, NEVER FALL IN LOVE.

Love GROWS, it can be cultivated, so why not give love a chance with her.

Is it LOOKS or MONEY you are looking for in her before you commit?
For a lady to invest ONE YEAR WITH YOU. It is not joke to her. So do some deep soul search bro, and END IT or TEND IT.

ikh777:
Things that fall always get broken, NEVER FALL IN LOVE.

Love GROWS, it can be cultivated, so why not give love a chance with her.

Is it LOOKS or MONEY you are looking for in her before you commit?
For a lady to invest ONE YEAR WITH YOU. It is not joke to her. So do some deep soul search bro, and END IT or TEND IT.

Word!, thank u

[color=#1980BC] The last thing any "woke" man can ever do in this generation is to fall into an LDR....Whether she ask you out here is just irrelevant..As long as there isn't any medium of physical contact which as has got to be very imminient like once every three days then Tis all waste of time that could be spent in lucrative or more romantic ventures with other ladies....Pls for your sanity sake...Ghost that girl..[/color]

ichidodo:
[color=#1980BC] The last thing any "woke" man can ever do in this generation is to fall into an LDR....Whether she ask you out here is just irrelevant..As long as there isn't any medium of physical contact which as has got to be very imminient like once every three days then Tis all waste of time that could be spent in lucrative or more romantic ventures with other ladies....Pls for your sanity sake...Ghost that girl..[/color]

Nah, the relationship didn't start without a physical contact , it started the way all normal relationships should start and then developed into a LD something..
but thank you all the same .

Dude if you sure she’s loyal , keep her... women don’t boldly walk up to men unless they feel financially superior and the relationship is plagued with issues so when one does and is loyal... dude give her a chance and try to make it work... love grows and dies there are other things you need to make it work

row2ray:
Dude if you sure she’s loyal , keep her... women don’t boldly walk up to men unless they feel financially superior and the relationship is plagued with issues so when one does and is loyal... dude give her a chance and try to make it work... love grows and dies there are other things you need to make it work

nice .... love grows....

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