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Ballary:
why? this is a man's world.

Lol. What's the difference between a white guy and a white women?

Ariza:
Lol, I haven't read the book but I know I spilled the reality but trust my Nigerian brothers to get mad at the truth especially if it's coming from a female. Little did they know what I stated is the secet women silent pass to themselves from generation to generation. I remember when my Sis was about getting married, my mom would advise her never to compete with her husband, let him take charge, be subtle, APPLY WISDOM and she will get the Man to do all she WANTS. Lol as an inquisitive person,I sat down and meditate about the whole thing and I got this:Apply Wisdom means subtle manipulations, get what she WANTS, means getting the man do all she desires directly or indirectly. And sincerely it's working for her. if you want to have a Nigerian Man at your beck and call, be a little damsel in distress. Make him feel superior and watch him put chains on his own neck then hand over the control to you . Massage his ego and he is gone

Lol one of the reason why Redpills isn't gaining ground in the society is because Nigerian Men can not do away with their ego/pride. They can't sacrifice that unreal superiority for their freedoms. They always want to believe they are in control and above.They aren't ready to accept reality or the real truth especially if it involves coming to terms that the power really isn't with them but their counterpart. Anyways, I don't have problem with this. It's a win win for ladies, but when I have a son ,I will train him better.

That is why I always say the equality is a myth, and probably will be women biggest undoing, because it directly attacks all the societal benefits conferred on women, and true equality simply means a woman will have no natural advantage to men because trust me, men will hold women accountable to everything they usually get a pass on, which women are ignorant about. It is like a fish, it lives in the water, but if you take away the water and replace it with a hot one, that could result in its death. Men life are like a fish surviving in hot water, while women's life is like a fish in a sheltered aquarium. For example, no matter how dumb, lazy or whatever a woman is, she will be elevated to the highest seat in society if she marries a king/president, but a man is just the queen's husband. Women are rewarded just for being women, her value is in her femininity, unlike masculinity which has to be refined, to do, to become before it is rewarded anything.

Men are meant to compete with men, not women. If you will be honest with yourself, you will see that at least 95% of human civilization is built and maintained by men, this is a direct result of the male competition that moves humanity forward. Women cant compete with men because they have no natural advantage in that area, if you doubt me, please name just one area (sport, academics, invention, just anything) where a woman excel, you will see that it is populated majorly by men. Men and women should complement themselves, and not compete with equality nonsense. A man competing in a manipulatory game with women will loose, as women are masters in the game. Women evolved in communities, while men are out there seeking ways to bring home the bacon, women from the beginning of times have always coordinated ways to manipulate men, and men didn't mind, we do not operate in that frequency. Men also naturally have a soft spot for women (and every woman knows this firsthand), so its ignored, not like we do not know.

And whether women like to admit it or not, a huge part of women's esteem comes from the fact that subconsciously, women want to be desired by men, and envied by women. The multibillion-dollar make-up and fashion industry prove this. Even now with the so-called equality, women still want men better than them in every way (richer, smarter, taller, influential, etc), unlike men who will settle for a good woman they find. Men accept women for their being, but a woman will only accept a man for his ''becoming''. A woman can compete with a man all she wants, but she should bear in mind that competing with men in his domain will lead her nowhere, as she lacks the evolutionary headstart for such.

pansophist:
That is why I always say the equality is a myth, and probably will be women biggest undoing, because it directly attacks all the societal benefits conferred on women, and true equality simply means a woman will have no natural advantage to men because trust me, men will hold women accountable to everything they usually get a pass on, which women are ignorant about. It is like a fish, it lives in the water, but if you take away the water and replace it with a hot one, that could result in its death. Men life are like a fish surviving in hot water, while women's life is like a fish in a sheltered aquarium. For example, no matter how dumb, lazy or whatever a woman is, she will be elevated to the highest seat in society if she marries a king/president, but a man is just the queen's husband. Women are rewarded just for being women, her value is in her femininity, unlike masculinity which has to be refined, to do, to become before it is rewarded anything.

Men are meant to compete with men, not women. If you will be honest with yourself, you will see that at least 95% of human civilization is built and maintained by men, this is a direct result of the male competition that moves humanity forward. Women cant compete with men because they have no natural advantage in that area, if you doubt me, please name just one area (sport, academics, invention, just anything) where a woman excel, you will see that it is populated majorly by men. Men and women should complement themselves, and not compete with equality nonsense. A man competing in a manipulatory game with women will loose, as women are masters in the game. Women evolved in communities, while men are out there seeking ways to bring home the bacon, women from the beginning of times have always coordinated ways to manipulate men, and men didn't mind, we do not operate in that frequency. Men also naturally have a soft spot for women (and every woman knows this firsthand), so its ignored, not like we do not know.

And whether women like to admit it or not, a huge part of women's esteem comes from the fact that subconsciously, women want to be desired by men, and envied by women. The multibillion-dollar make-up and fashion industry prove this. Even now with the so-called equality, women still want men better than them in every way (richer, smarter, taller, influential, etc), unlike men who will settle for a good woman they find. Men accept women for their being, but a woman will only accept a man for his ''becoming''. A woman can compete with a man all she wants, but she should bear in mind that competing with men in his domain will lead her nowhere, as she lacks the evolutionary headstart for such.

Lol @equality! That's bladerdash to any right thinking being. Any sane being will know and acknowledge the fact that both genders are unique in their own way and are specially structured according to what their natural roles entail. Superiority contest is a waste of time and braincells. However if any one or group of people want to break free norms, they should be ready to make sacrifices, let go of some things, win some , lose some. If women desire to be free from being silent holders of power then the should be ready to become the ceremonial holders. Simply put, if a woman's voice want to be heard she should be ready to leave the damsel in distress state and hustle for herself. This is what most feminist do not understand and make them jokes. You can claim to have a right when you can't handle your own responsibilities!
Same thing goes for Men, if you want to be in total power, don't leave your ego/pride in the hands of women.

Women can compete with Men, but a lot of sacrifices will be made.There are women who have made headlines and breaking records but it has been very difficult. Why? because they are breaking a norm/ siege unlike Men who are naturally given opportunities, women aren't and that's where I call for equity. I am a lover of equity of treatment and fairness. No gender should be sideline, Let there be equal opportunities and give everyone the right to choose. However I must bring to your notice, women are gathering power more and more all over the world.Believe me!


Honestly, the life of a Man isn't easy. Sometimes I wonder why Men have to struggle more than Women. Aside the physical features and strength between the two genders I see no much difference.Both genders are unique in their own way why should one work to serve the other? They should complete one another. Let them share all responsibilities!

gbami:
...Not At All Bro....
But, Unfortunately this white people will go back home to brag with their friends how whoreish how girls her...
Go to Dubai and listen to Arabs talk about our girls...Shame go nearly kill you

how is different from the way we brag about girls in Nigeria.for example the way an Igbo man/boy will brag about how he gets any Yoruba/Hausa girl of his choice or how a Yoruba man/boy brags about how gets an IBO girl of his choice and so on and so forth.
Now when you mention Dubai and Arab men I just dey look you laf.
when to this matter of gbenshing.it is because you have not met Nigerian men who are pounding Arab girls.
this brings us back to the crux of the matter about low esteem about your skills.

Miniso:
are u mad, who begs naija gurlz for marriage? dis same nigeria single ladies dat fight dem selves ova a rich guy, guys spend to Bleep a gurl and not to marry her initially. its destiny dat later makes the guy propose. at which some guys still end up fucking other little gurlz while married. it seems yur in yur early twenties wait till u reach thirty to join the cue, u will understand.

linda already joined the cue.. that one dey find marriage like tommorow no dey.. even university girls cant get a boy friend

pansophist:
Haha, you remind me of a book I read long time ago titled ''the myth of male power'' by Warren Farell. Truly women hold real power, while men hold the ceremonial and symbolic power. Its a man's world my foot.

oh yes look at the inventions women have made... women even invented cars.. it was a woman that invented ferrari right?

Ariza:
Lol, I haven't read the book but I know I spilled the reality but trust my Nigerian brothers to get mad at the truth especially if it's coming from a female. Little did they know what I stated is the secet women silent pass to themselves from generation to generation. I remember when my Sis was about getting married, my mom would advise her never to compete with her husband, let him take charge, be subtle, APPLY WISDOM and she will get the Man to do all she WANTS. Lol as an inquisitive person,I sat down and meditate about the whole thing and I got this:Apply Wisdom means subtle manipulations, get what she WANTS, means getting the man do all she desires directly or indirectly. And sincerely it's working for her. if you want to have a Nigerian Man at your beck and call, be a little damsel in distress. Make him feel superior and watch him put chains on his own neck then hand over the control to you . Massage his ego and he is gone

Lol one of the reason why Redpills isn't gaining ground in the society is because Nigerian Men can not do away with their ego/pride. They can't sacrifice that unreal superiority for their freedoms. They always want to believe they are in control and above.They aren't ready to accept reality or the real truth especially if it involves coming to terms that the power really isn't with them but their counterpart. Anyways, I don't have problem with this. It's a win win for ladies, but when I have a son ,I will train him better.

a man taking care of his woman is natural.. hows that taking control?

Ariza:
Honestly, the life of a Man isn't easy. Sometimes I wonder why Men have to struggle more than Women. Aside the physical features and strength between the two genders I see no much difference.Both genders are unique in their own way why should one work to serve the other? They should complete one another. Let them share all responsibilities!

Haha, our nairaland resident feminist will not agree with you that men's life are not easy lol, because that would be admitting that women's life in comparison to men are easier, and a direct blow to the permanent victim class umbrella they have built their life under.

As I see it, humans are the only sentient that evolved to be logical, which lays the foundation for morality, ethics, juxtaposition, consciousness, rule of law, equity, altruism, benevolence etc, to name a few. Hence, we can create laws, religions traditions, and the concept of "live and let live". Nature do not care about this, it only care about the survival of each specie. So in the light of the foregoing, it follows the line of thoughts that surely, a gender will be advantaged over the other, as far it propagates the survival of that particular specie.

So in this case, and from a biological outlook, women are privilege than men because eggs (womb) are limited and time bound, while sperm is in abundant and timeless. You can freeze a sperm for years, and just a cup of it can in impregnate hundreds, if not thousands of women. But a womb can only be pregnant for a limited time in a womans life. In this case, women are valuable and every society evolved to protect their women at all cost. Sending women to hunt for food or war was historically suicidal, as it will leads to the extinction of that group. There are many biblical and historical examples where the men were killed during war, but women taken as captive to be impregnated and integrated into the winning tribe. Yes, women are that valuable, and these are examples of old societies expressing this natural blueprint. Even in this equality era, the UN war charter still premium the life of women in times of war, and they should be rescued first, talk about hypocrisy.

At the very base, humans still operate under this blueprint, although with the abundance of resources, we can all pretend that we are civilised, but if shit hit the fan, we shall be back to survival of the fittest. E.g, the recent corona virus case saw historical allies shutting their borders withing one another, and intra-communities hoarding groceries and resources that will last them a long time, regardless if their neighbours have any or not. Its selfishness at its purest. So yes, equality is a myth and in the game of survival, men are disposable, and women are not.

Ariza:
Lol, I haven't read the book but I know I spilled the reality but trust my Nigerian brothers to get mad at the truth especially if it's coming from a female. Little did they know what I stated is the secet women silent pass to themselves from generation to generation. I remember when my Sis was about getting married, my mom would advise her never to compete with her husband, let him take charge, be subtle, APPLY WISDOM and she will get the Man to do all she WANTS. Lol as an inquisitive person,I sat down and meditate about the whole thing and I got this:Apply Wisdom means subtle manipulations, get what she WANTS, means getting the man do all she desires directly or indirectly. And sincerely it's working for her. if you want to have a Nigerian Man at your beck and call, be a little damsel in distress. Make him feel superior and watch him put chains on his own neck then hand over the control to you . Massage his ego and he is gone

Lol one of the reason why Redpills isn't gaining ground in the society is because Nigerian Men can not do away with their ego/pride. They can't sacrifice that unreal superiority for their freedoms. They always want to believe they are in control and above.They aren't ready to accept reality or the real truth especially if it involves coming to terms that the power really isn't with them but their counterpart. Anyways, I don't have problem with this. It's a win win for ladies, but when I have a son ,I will train him better.

Chai Jesus! I just deh look my mumu brothers.

pansophist:
Haha, our nairaland resident feminist will not agree with you that men's life are not easy lol, because that would be admitting that women's life in comparison to men are easier, and a direct blow to the permanent victim class umbrella they have built their life upon.

As I see it, humans are the only sentient that evolved to be logical, which lays the foundation for morality, ethics, juxtaposition, consciousness, rule of law, equity, altruism, benevolence etc, to name a few. Hence, we can create laws, religions traditions, and the concept of "live and let live". Nature do not care about this, it only care about the survival of each specie. So in the light of the foregoing, it follows the line of thoughts that surely, a gender will be advantaged over the other, as far it propagates the survival of that particular specie.

So in this case, and from a biological outlook, women are privilege than men because eggs (womb) are limited and time bound, while sperm is in abundant and timeless. You can freeze a sperm for years, and just a cup of it can in impregnate hundreds, if not thousands of women. But a womb can only be pregnant for a limited time in a womans life. In this case, women are valuable and every society evolved to protect their women at all cost. Sending women to hunt for food or war was historically suicidal, as it will leads to the extinction of that group. There are many biblical and historical examples where the men were killed during, but women taken as captive to be impregnated and integrated into the winning tribe. Yes, women are that valuable, and these are examples of old societies expressing this natural blueprint. Even in this equality era, the UN still war charter premium the life of women in times of war, and they should be rescued first, talk about hypocrisy.

At the very base, humans still operate under this blueprint, although with the abundance of resources, we can all pretend that we are civilised, but if shit hit the fan, we shall be back to survival of the fittest. E.g, the recent corona virus case saw historical allies shutting their borders withing one another, and intra-communities hoarding groceries and resources that will last them a long time, regardless if their neighbours have any or not. Its selfishness at its purest. So yes, equality is a myth and in the game of survival, men are disposable, and women are not.

One of the reasons I hardly take Nl feminists seriously. It is always them against Men which I don't believe in.

Oh! I've never really thought of this at least not from this perspective. I've always wondered what's so special about a Woman. To me, a woman is just another being. Chai now I've seen things and know things I be expensive commodity oooo. The womb bearer LMAO!

Omar09:
Chai Jesus! I just deh look my mumu brothers.

Lol.... It is well!

But if I born a boy ehn. His first lesson will be on Self Love! Make him no go catch grenade of anyone because him get pussy o! If he will do it, it will be for Humanity!

Ariza:
Honestly these guys know nothing! Just keep repeating lame cliche everywhere...the irony nah them go work, chase, fight even beg the female to marry and spend their hard money on them. Biko, who is decieving who?


No problem Sha, me I no fit argue, keep claiming the ceremonial supremacy while I enjoy the disguised but real supremacy, nah them headache. .If you want to claim head,no problem I will give you leg join as long as you continue to have SENSE!

badt girl

Ariza:
One of the reasons I hardly take Nl feminists seriously. It is always them against Men which I don't believe in.

Oh! I've never really thought of this at least not from this perspective. I've always wondered what's so special about a Woman. To me, a woman is just another being. Chai now I've seen things and know things I be expensive commodity oooo. The womb bearer LMAO!

Yes, women are valuable, compare to men. But again, your value is limited by time, and you should make the best out of it before your egg worn out lol. Time is women's worst enemy, hence, many of these bitter feminist are older and lost their privileges, it fuels the hate. And if a woman is not good looking, then she will not enjoy the full potential reserved for women, her life go hard small

pansophist:
Yes, women are valuable, compare to men. But again, your value is limited by time, and you should make the best out of it before your egg worn out lol. Time is women's worst enemy, hence, many of these bitter feminist are older and lost their privileges, it fuels the hate. And if a woman is not good looking, then she will not enjoy the full potential reserved for women, her life go hard small

That's your perception though, if a woman's worth to you is based on her sexual market value, well you may be right. In my world however there's more to a woman than her ovaries. A woman can do anything she sets her mind on and be whatever she wants to be. She can be a mover and a shaker if she's determined. This is what I was trained with. Maybe that's why I see no great difference between the two genders.

Ariza:
That's your perception though, if a woman's worth to you is based on her sexual market value, well you may be right. In my world however there's more to a woman than her ovaries. A woman can do anything she sets her mind on and be whatever she wants to be. She can be a mover and a shaker if she's determined. This is what I was trained with. Maybe that's why I see no great difference between the two genders.

Lol, I'm referring to the natural blueprint. Of course a woman's value extends past her ovaries. I do not consider my mother valueless because she is over 50 years old, that's a myopic way to see the world. Although above a certain age, there are privileges a woman will not be able to enjoy. She will practically be invincible to men romantically, and her value will be based on the works of her hands and if she has built herself, and not just for being a woman. Thats my point.

Ariza:
Lol.... It is well!

But if I born a boy ehn. His first lesson will be on Self Love! Make him no go catch grenade of anyone because him get pussy o! If he will do it, it will be for Humanity!

Hence the miseducation. Oh men, self love all the way.

pansophist:
Haha, our nairaland resident feminist will not agree with you that men's life are not easy lol, because that would be admitting that women's life in comparison to men are easier, and a direct blow to the permanent victim class umbrella they have built their life under.

As I see it, humans are the only sentient that evolved to be logical, which lays the foundation for morality, ethics, juxtaposition, consciousness, rule of law, equity, altruism, benevolence etc, to name a few. Hence, we can create laws, religions traditions, and the concept of "live and let live". Nature do not care about this, it only care about the survival of each specie. So in the light of the foregoing, it follows the line of thoughts that surely, a gender will be advantaged over the other, as far it propagates the survival of that particular specie.

So in this case, and from a biological outlook, women are privilege than men because eggs (womb) are limited and time bound, while sperm is in abundant and timeless. You can freeze a sperm for years, and just a cup of it can in impregnate hundreds, if not thousands of women. But a womb can only be pregnant for a limited time in a womans life. In this case, women are valuable and every society evolved to protect their women at all cost. Sending women to hunt for food or war was historically suicidal, as it will leads to the extinction of that group. There are many biblical and historical examples where the men were killed during war, but women taken as captive to be impregnated and integrated into the winning tribe. Yes, women are that valuable, and these are examples of old societies expressing this natural blueprint. Even in this equality era, the UN war charter still premium the life of women in times of war, and they should be rescued first, talk about hypocrisy.

At the very base, humans still operate under this blueprint, although with the abundance of resources, we can all pretend that we are civilised, but if shit hit the fan, we shall be back to survival of the fittest. E.g, the recent corona virus case saw historical allies shutting their borders withing one another, and intra-communities hoarding groceries and resources that will last them a long time, regardless if their neighbours have any or not. Its selfishness at its purest. So yes, equality is a myth and in the game of survival, men are disposable, and women are not.

guy, you must be a Prof.

I salute you.

gbami:
...
Your Sister is Probably Being Fvcked in the ass by a black guy right now...Since it is normal stuff

Guy I've been observing and following your comments, meaningfully so. This one here is below the belt. You don't need it.

gbami:
This guy is an expert....I salute you Sir

So do I.

pansophist:
Lol, I'm referring to the natural blueprint. Of course a woman's value extends past her ovaries. I do not consider my mother valueless because she is over 50 years old, that's a myopic way to see the world. Although above a certain age, there are privileges a woman will not be able to enjoy. She will practically be invincible to men romantically, and her value will be based on the works of her hands and if she has built herself, and not just for being a woman. Thats my point.

Ggoko for u.

You teeth complete bro.

galadima77:
Guy I've been observing and following your comments, meaningfully so. This one here is below the belt. You don't need it.

.It happens sometimes..

[quote author=Expensiverichyb post=87633587]Lol. What's the difference between a white guy and a white women?[/quo..... don't know dear

gbami:
I work in a multinational company, My colleague a white guy dates naija girls..He usually calls to tell me how many girls he has slept with. .how he slept with them...From his stories ...They are willing to Bleep his brains out...They can do anything to Please him ..They swallow, Do anal etc...Not only naija girls...Black girls in general, heard a lot of this shitty stories when I was studying in Europe...
It is so sad you will(not me) end marrying them..If she has dated a white man...There is high probability she has been fvcked in the ass...

Most white people are perverts so they can convince a lady to do rubbish for them just because they know most African ladies love money

SavageResponse:
Most white people are perverts so they can convince a lady to do rubbish for them just because they know most African ladies love money

Can't argue with that...Very Correct

gbami:
I work in a multinational company, My colleague a white guy dates naija girls..He usually calls to tell me how many girls he has slept with. .how he slept with them...From his stories ...They are willing to Bleep his brains out...They can do anything to Please him ..They swallow, Do anal etc...Not only naija girls...Black girls in general, heard a lot of this shitty stories when I was studying in Europe...
It is so sad you will(not me) end marrying them..If she has dated a white man...There is high probability she has been fvcked in the ass...

Do you know why they let us?

Its simple, we treat them better
Like humans and not like property
We dont ask them to go 50/50 ever

See when you act like a man and not a little boy its naturally brings out the submission you demand

We dont even have to ask for it, it just comes naturally from good and correct treatment 👌

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HMarshal:
Irrespective of,gender equality(Wich I very much support), enlightenment ,developement,exposure, knowledge,the BIIITEER Truth remains,it's a man's world.i personally think,the day men stop paying bride price b4 a woman can live under his roof legally(for a start),then women can av some say on the table.

Very wrong go to other west African countries and Southern African countries and see how Nigerian married women are fucking foreign men dear.
You will be totally shocked that the married women are even worse than the young girls