Amanee:
When he's supposed to tell you exactly when the wedding is taking place as he's giving you the ring...


Some girls una too mumu

For your mind now you're engaged. You better go on your knees and pray to whatever you believe in that you're not pregnant so you can easily throw away that chain and walk away.

jayson87:
your comments are spot on. 2 bottles of beer for you, on me

HelloHolla:


Boy, I can feed you for the rest of the year, just take a chill pill and troll on some other thread.

dododawa1:
women and story story,she no even once mention (MONEY) the guy has spent on her till date,just looking for FAULT to leave the guy since the guy is BROKELEY.WOMEN WOMEN and WOMEN.

PrimadonnaO:


Please, pay no attention to those people saying you're desperate. You never can tell...they may be people in your fiance's situation, so they are indirectly justifying themselves.

I don't know why you went into that relationship with a man like that, in the first place. But that's absolutely pointless right now.

For 35/40 year olds to still be dependent on someone else, forget it. They are both entitled and lazy. Don't even rationalise staying in that relationship. You'll end up being miserable. Take a walk, baby girl... and don't look back.

HelloHolla:


Who's Jennifer?

HelloHolla:


What if there's never money left to spend on me?

uthlaw:
yeah you are right....when a lady love they tend to do anything to keep relationship!

HelloHolla:



He tried helping but they usually end up squandering the money on irrelevances, mostly virtual games.

FanOfMyself:

How old is your mom?

UyaiIncomparabl:


I hope you'll learn to see that he's really not into you like that. A man who hasn't made plans to leave and cleave definitely has no business getting married. That he is 31 doesn't mean he's ready. You cook and tend to his family whenever you are around them, right? You'll do worse when you get married. You'll become head chef and senior nanny to his siblings and aging Grandmother.

Have a serious discussion with him, tell him to give you a time, set your own time too since you're the one whom the shoes hurts. If he still shows signs of unseriousness and unwillingness, then I see no reason why you shouldn't start extending your search outside. This is your future. Don't ruin it. The partner you marry is liable to make or mar you.

In the end, it's all your brunt to bear. Choose wisely now to avoid coming to the front page of Nairaland tomorrow seeking for marital advice.

Ladies, even if you date a douchebag, please endeavor not to marry that douchebag. Please, see it as an importance to marry a man that has sense. You're Queens and Queens do not eat debris nor settle for less.

Thread wisely and carefully. nonsense

victorian:







True on that.

I can't carry such load sha.

God knows I can't.

No matter the love. That era is gone and buried.

arukwe123:

Ladycewhy:
she is 39, she had me when she was 17.

Stacyomolola:
NextD18 oh please shut up. All in an aim to support ur fellow male u ended up spilling trash,
is that the life u purpose for ur sisters, thats if u are unfortunate to have one.
Shes been a cook, washing machine and generally a househelp to his extended family, to make matters worst he's not even proposing marriage and u calling her a wannabe feminist.
May ur sisters end up as one, AMEN.
Such detrimental, unfortunate and unreasonable smeg head

HelloHolla:


Thank you for the contribution, I accepted his ring because I thought he was going to "change" and perhaps, start living on his own, obviously, he doesn't look like he's moving anywhere, he has chased off other eligible suitors off me.

HelloHolla:
Good evening everyone, I've been a guest for quite a while, created an account cause I need advice from the audience.

How long should an engagement ring be worn for? I've been engaged since last year May (dated for 4yrs), my Fiance hasn't talked about proceeding to do introduction or marriage, it's like he just proposed to me because he felt like.

This man has refused to be on his own, his Grandma and 5 siblings (younger and older) live with him and he takes responsibility for them all, two of his siblings living with him also have their partners living with them. It's only a 3 bedroom flat. I feel like quitting the whole thing cause I don't feel comfortable going to his house. When I do, he wants me to cook for everyone which gets me strained.

With the look of things, he has no plans of moving out for them cause he rented the apartment, neither do they have intentions of moving out on their own, it's more like a family house. My period is two days late and I'm scared to the marrow.

Please advice me on what to do cause I can't live with him if they're still there after marriage, he's not even talking about marriage, I've not asked him yet so as not to sound desperate but why propose if you don't have plans of doing the next thing after a max of 6 months?

He's 31 and I'm 24

Thanks.

HelloHolla:


Thank you for the contribution, I accepted his ring because I thought he was going to "change" and perhaps, start living on his own, obviously, he doesn't look like he's moving anywhere, he has chased off other eligible suitors off me.

HelloHolla:


So, I shouldn't worry about his plans after engaging me? I wish your sisters end up with the same man, peace.