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FrLukas:
Maybe she's also missing you

crackkhaus:
Bro, leave her be... Get a grip.

If having her number is what will keep giving you the idea that you can just reach out whenever you want, then delete the damn thing.

cococandy:
OP: Delete. Block. Ignore.

By all possible means and through all channels. Don’t give her access to you nor keep your access to her open.

Give yourself some more time. Work on being a better you and in no time you’ll wonder what it was that was so charming about her. Especially since she defrauded you in addition to the emotional turmoil .

Get busy and better.

GreatResearcher:
I saw your post late. I called. She didn't pick

GreatResearcher:
Stupid as this may sound but it's the truth. Sometimes when am idle I found myself missing my ex. I still have her number and also tempted to call. I'd ask myself, "what would I tell her if I call?" I once hid my number and called her then heard her say "Hello! Hello! I couldn't say a word just ended the call.
I've reached out to friends and they told me it's normal that I'd get over her.
Few of her things like sandals and clothes are still in my house.
Sometimes when I miss her I'd think of all the bad things that happened then my heart would grow bitter and the feelings would go immediately. Sometimes when I miss her I can't but think of the good moments we hard.
She's a good cook. Highly intelligent.

GreatResearcher:
Thanks

faithfull18:
Smh.

MightyHand:
You're not alone Bro: we broke up few weeks b4 our final paper in college, it was bitter though...
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We met on convocation day a chat lik two new friends... That gives us ground to exchange calls whenever we wanted...
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You're going to heal, it's matter of time

GreatResearcher:
Let's chat on whatsapp if u don't mind

CsRockefeller:
Today I saw a video my ex posted on her story with her man.

I couldn't help but laugh

Some ladies no dey try at all. Maybe your ex is still hot. For me, once I move forward, I move forward.

Anyone who puts his hands on the plough and looks back isn't fit for what is ahead.

PrimadonnaO:
What was amusing about the video?

CsRockefeller:
She's now really fat.

faithfull18:
What's wrong with having enough flesh on your body?

It probably shows she now has peace of mind.

CsRockefeller:
She's now really fat. Far from the slim and fit lady i used to know.

Also, she's now with a different BF, probably the no 20.

PrimadonnaO:
Eyah. You can’t know that she’s been with boyfriend number 20, though. She may not have even dated anyone else. Not every guy in a girl’s life is someone she’s romantically involved with.

CsRockefeller:
Not this lady o. After we broke up, it took her a month to get hooked up again.

It's been 6 years though.

crackkhaus:
Don't do it... I repeat, DON'T DO IT !!!

The last people you want to take advise from regarding a woman, is from other women (with the exception of your mother or sister).

Bluehill1051:
Call her and DIE!

Spechialone:
Guy, do what you feel is right to calm your heart and conscience. Na only you go live with the consequences of your action. So pls, you're not gullible if u call

GreatResearcher:
I saw your post late. I called. She didn't pick

GreatResearcher:
I saw your post late. I called. She didn't pick

CokeBar:
Call her, talk to her, tell her you miss her...


If you both can get over your differences, forget the past and be happy. Your next girlfriend wouldn't be a saint either.

There's no shame in letting her know how you feel. If she doesn't feel that way anymore, in the future, you'd know that atleast you tried your best.

Trust me you'll feel better.

Btw, donot rush into another relationship. If possible, work out your relationship. If that isn't an option, get comfortable with being alone

It is hard but doable.

justnock:
Get a hobby. With time, you will forget about her. Although, there are some people that come into your life and become irreplaceable. Avoid idleness...it is the key.

Tripitaka:

OP, I'm really optimistic that you didnt heed this advise. When ou break up with people, never forget the reason for your breakup. As a matter of fact, whenever you think about them, also ensure to think About the reason you broke up with them. If you were good enough for each other, you wouldn't have parted. The fact that you're emotionally needy doesn't suddenly make them good enough for you. Do not drink poison just because you're thirsty.

I tell people, no matter what your ex brings to the table, there are people out there who can bring triple of that and more. The beautiful ones are not yet born.

Whatever you do, do not forget how toxic the relationship was. To heal, you have to constantly remind yourself how worthless, hopeless nd helpless the made made you feel. If you make that call, get ready to be emotionally manipulated by one who now sees you as emotionally weak.

Give it time.

GreatResearcher:
Let's chat on whatsapp if u don't mind

Mariangeles:
The bolded will only fill you with bitterness, anger and resentments, making it harder for you to move on.
The more you hate them, the more you love them.
The best is to forgive every hurt they caused you, give you heart time to heal, so it can be healthy to love another deserving person purely.

CsRockefeller:
She's now really fat. Far from the slim and fit lady i used to know.

Also, she's now with a different BF, probably the no 20.

worworbabe:
You have moved on for over 6years but remained a monitoring spirit, even counting her number of boyfriends..lol

It's obvious She is better of without you
.