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Re: Is He Interested In Me.? by PrimadonnaO(f): 8:05pm On Mar 24, 2020
Look at somebody's wife. LOL!
Re: Is He Interested In Me.? by XhosaNostra(f): 8:07pm On Mar 24, 2020
RisenPhoenix:
Of course she hasn't; and she is never going to either; until it's time to hurt the husband.



You are a woman and you're asking how crazy a suggestion that is? On a scale of 1-10 it's a 12 for craziness.



I wonder why he doesn't trust you.



If I had seen this comment before, I would have been satisfied to just pass through.
How would you know unless you have a dosage of estrogen yourself.
Re: Is He Interested In Me.? by Nobody: 8:16pm On Mar 24, 2020
XhosaNostra:
How would you know unless you have a dosage of estrogen yourself.
Does a dog trainer become a dog before he understands their behaviour? Despite all their pretence, women are easy to understand once you find the key.
Re: Is He Interested In Me.? by Nobody: 8:24pm On Mar 24, 2020
Preciousgirl:
How do I do it without hurting him?
This is how compromisingly stupid most Nigerian women can be... You don't want to hurt him? But you want to hurt your husband by courting this foolish senior colleague. Amadioha majikwagi ukwu!!
Yet he knows you are married. Oya go Bleep am after all na ashewo you be. angry
Re: Is He Interested In Me.? by Belafonte(m): 8:34pm On Mar 24, 2020
Married woman. I just can’t
Re: Is He Interested In Me.? by Favourite001: 8:39pm On Mar 24, 2020
Married woman,
No one will tell u to go ahead or run away yr brain is fully developed to decide for yrsef
But I hope d GOOD MAN dat has been GOOD TO U will continually b GOOD TO U to put u in d house wen u get caught and chased out of yr home.
because from yr response u like d guy.
One tin about women is dey don't know hw to love with pretence, I hop u r not seeing or imagining him wen yr husband touches you.
Re: Is He Interested In Me.? by snifferG: 9:01pm On Mar 24, 2020
@op...if u were in the habit of collecting a lot of freebies from men while u were single,u ought to know that u need to put a stop to it,now that u are married.

If truly u have nothing to hide,i'll suggest you inform your husband about everything. I guess u wont...why? cuz u are enjoying d attention from d guy at work & u are probably into him as well.
Re: Is He Interested In Me.? by emerged01(m): 9:05pm On Mar 24, 2020
faithfull18:
Lol, he is just being nice, he probably sees you as his sister.

You better ask him whyhuh

This story looks fabricated imho.
There are many stories that look fabricated but they are very real.
Re: Is He Interested In Me.? by franchasng:
Preciousgirl:
My senior colleague at work has bought me lunch consistently for about a month now. He is just too good to me. Now he buys me airtime. This afternoon, he brought me a brand new hand bag. Now he knows very well I am married, is he after something? What must I do? Thanks
I am a married man, by the grace of God I can afford and I can provide anything material needs that my wife needs and she knows it, except maybe spiritual and psychological needs.

So if I get to find out that my wife have been collecting or accepting gifts of any kind from any man who is not her dad or brother, she won't find it funny with me because she is married and should have no reason to collect or accept any gift from any man except it is an official gift from her employer, and it must be to all employees or because she achieved a particular feat if not na problem.


I shop for my wife almost every time, so I know almost all her clothes, bags, shoes, jewelry, etc and before she orders anyone online she usually send me pix asking if I like it, so I know all her outfits. So if I notice new thing with her and she cannot explain how it came about and I get to find out it was a gift from a man, she is in big trouble of course! I don't pray for divorce but I cannot live with a cheating woman for several reasons. I can forgive you but we will never be partners again but I can help you but you must be living in another house far from me. So thread carefully, no man condones a cheating wife, I don't care about what feminists think, any woman that decides to forgive her husband when he cheats, that's her own cup of tea, but as my wife if you cheat, you are fired!! No second chance for that!

So madam, how can you a married woman be accepting gifts from a man or men that are not your brothers or fatherhuh You are cheating on your husband if you don't know, so know it now and return all his gifts and tell him your husband found out and was not happy that you accepted gifts from another man. Tell him this straight up and that his plan to fvck you will die in his little brains!!!


Can't he find some single ladies that full everywhere to lure with gifts and fvck freelyhuh Some guys abi men are fools sha
Re: Is He Interested In Me.? by franchasng: 9:08pm On Mar 24, 2020
Favourite001:
Married woman,
No one will tell u to go ahead or run away yr brain is fully developed to decide for yrsef
But I hope d GOOD MAN dat has been GOOD TO U will continually b GOOD TO U to put u in d house wen u get caught and chased out of yr home.
because from yr response u like d guy.
One tin about women is dey don't know hw to love with pretence, I hop u r not seeing or imagining him wen yr husband touches you.
If coronavirus doesn't kill the guy, he will fvck her before May 25th!!
Re: Is He Interested In Me.? by AfroKnight: 9:10pm On Mar 24, 2020
Why on Earth would a married woman not reject the attentions and gifts of another man?

Chase him away. Don’t tempt yourself.
Re: Is He Interested In Me.? by Favourite001: 9:28pm On Mar 24, 2020
franchasng:
If coronavirus doesn't kill the guy, he will fvck her before May 25th!!
Abeg ooooooo
Let dat not happen because even if we scold her let's draw her with d other hand.
Funny enough dis may still happen despite much advises dats hw ladies can b so daft.
I laughed once again "HES HAS BEEN GOOD TO ME"
Ladies Sha!!! grin
Re: Is He Interested In Me.? by wizdomnzube(m): 9:35pm On Mar 24, 2020
JohnnyPalmer:
Well said..... This is the ugly truth

She dey try to deceive herself he's just a friend and he's such a nice guy

Mama wey Don lust/lost

She just needs permission to cheat

Imagine..
She said her husband dey suspicious and he doesn't trust her

Why would he... When she's acting suspicious
She's been taking freebies for over a month and the husband has no idea

All these gals of nowadays sef

This is a supposed married woman oo

May God help us
Na the niggaz wen dey carry their hard earned money go pay bride price still organize wedding me dey pity. Cuz las las most of this girls for we country nor worth am bros.
Re: Is He Interested In Me.? by wizdomnzube(m): 9:38pm On Mar 24, 2020
extol1:
Na for this coronavirus era you dey tell person make she cheat. if you no pity her abeg pity her innocent husband
Hahahahaha
Bro make ah nor lie u ehn dah bae don pipe dah guy tey tey for ha mind.... E remain mk she pipe am for legit as e dey hot. I pity d husband sha cuz na he waste money on top her head.
Re: Is He Interested In Me.? by DoubleEngine007: 9:40pm On Mar 24, 2020
Preciousgirl:
Hmm, he doesn't trust me, even though I am clean. Opening up to him on this will add fuel to his fire of untold suspicion. Hmmm
Madam this your statement goes to show that you're a cheat already.. Your husband already know the kind of person you are.. All you need now is DELIVERANCE ,nothing more...

Re: Is He Interested In Me.? by AkuOlisa: 10:00pm On Mar 24, 2020
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Preciousgirl:
Hmm, he doesn't trust me, even though I am clean. Opening up to him on this will add fuel to his fire of untold suspicion. Hmmm
Your husband is right for not trusting you. Because you have the tendency of a cheat. I pity that man
Re: Is He Interested In Me.? by Iceyjay(m): 10:17pm On Mar 24, 2020
Preciousgirl:
My senior colleague at work has bought me lunch consistently for about a month now. He is just too good to me. Now he buys me airtime. This afternoon, he brought me a brand new hand bag. Now he knows very well I am married, is he after something? What must I do? Thanks
He's after your pussycat
Re: Is He Interested In Me.? by Frankicent(m): 10:27pm On Mar 24, 2020
Preciousgirl:
My senior colleague at work has bought me lunch consistently for about a month now. He is just too good to me. Now he buys me airtime. This afternoon, he brought me a brand new hand bag. Now he knows very well I am married, is he after something? What must I do? Thanks
If he likes you and he has alter a word then his a coward...
Re: Is He Interested In Me.? by Nobody: 11:55pm On Mar 24, 2020
Kingsteve:
Do you need a soothsayer to tell you?
He wants to chop you well well.
As in...proper chopping o!

The more you receive those gifts, the more you empower him.
Be guided!
is she a meal?
Re: Is He Interested In Me.? by Kingsteve(m): 12:06am On Mar 25, 2020
Lilbest3:
is she a meal?
Na her kpomo the guy go chop.
Re: Is He Interested In Me.? by Nobody: 3:19am On Mar 25, 2020
Preciousgirl:
My senior colleague at work has bought me lunch consistently for about a month now. He is just too good to me. Now he buys me airtime. This afternoon, he brought me a brand new hand bag. Now he knows very well I am married, is he after something? What must I do? Thanks
I wanted to bash you, but I changed my mind.
You need to turn your affection back to your husband. Married women in Nigeria are not allowed to cheat, and that's what you are already one step in.
Stop talking to the man, if possible keep malice with him. Smh.
He will sacrifice you for his family when sh!t hits the fan, your husband will dump you, what will be your gain?
Handbag that you can buy for yourself. Smh.
Re: Is He Interested In Me.? by franchasng: 7:23am On Mar 25, 2020
PrimadonnaO:
Look at somebody's wife. LOL!
maybe patriarchy turned this one too to a cheating wife, what do you think Donnahuh grin
Re: Is He Interested In Me.? by CsRockefeller(m): 9:30am On Mar 25, 2020
snifferG:
@op...if u were in the habit of collecting a lot of freebies from men while u were single,u ought to know that u need to put a stop to it,now that u are married.

If truly u have nothing to hide,i'll suggest you inform your husband about everything. I guess u wont...why? cuz u are enjoying d attention from d guy at work & u are probably into him as well.
That's d problem there. She was into it when she was single, now its hard to stop.

Its a world of troubles without end to be with a partner that is never satisfied, in the words of late Fela, if you meet any "run o"
Re: Is He Interested In Me.? by Freelane33(m): 9:32am On Mar 25, 2020
The truth is that he wants to get under your pants no story ... no free lunch in free town
Re: Is He Interested In Me.? by jeff1607(m): 10:11am On Mar 25, 2020
some ladies will come here to say "there's no big deal or anything wrong with collecting gifts from male friends (married ones)"

For crying out loud ma'am you are married. if your separation hurts the man better keep your home intact.


Fear women
Re: Is He Interested In Me.? by Nobody: 10:44am On Mar 25, 2020
No 8 is for you



HOW TO AVOID ADULTERY IN YOUR MARRIAGE.

Please note that you can avoid adultery. It is within your power to do it, if you really mean it.

Carelessness is one of the major cause of affair in marriage not devil in the real sense of it as many people always claim when they fall into error. So follow the following simple rules you will never fall into adultery.

1: Never make anybody of the opposite sex your best friend with whom you share intimate discussions.

2: Never be with anybody of opposite sex at the time your spouse must never know you are there.

3 Never talk evil about your spouse in the presence of anybody,they will know you are not happy in your marriage and take advantage of that by showing you fake care and give you what you lack with your Spouse and destroy you.

3: be proud to use your wedding ring outside,let them know you are married and proud to be.

5: Never visit a website you will not be proud to tell your children and wife/ husband you visited.

6: Avoid keeping secrets from your spouse, AFFAIR thrive in secrecy.

7: Avoid confiding in the people of the opposite sex, there should be somebody of your sex you can talk to,don't dig the grave of your marriage with your mouth.

8: Avoid collecting unsolicited gifts and favour from opposite sex. They will ask for sex in return they are not Father Christmas.

9: Avoid thinking that anybody is better than your husband or wife you don't know what their spouses are enduring at home,what you are seeing outside is just a show biz don't be deceived. Grass is only greener in the other compound because it is far from you.

10: Divert all your sexual fantasy towards your spouse. He or she is planted in to your life to satisfy you and keep you holy.

11: Always remember that whatever every woman or man has in his or her body,your spouse has it too and they are not different from each other,it is only faces that are different it is the same package.

12: deal with any sexual thoughts that is not directed towards your spouse,kill it before it kills you. Sexual error do not begin in the bedroom,it begins in the heart.

12: if you are finding it difficult to deal with it,find a mature christian you can confide in and let the person pray with you,counsel you. Don't die in silence.

13: before traveling have sex with your spouse and put your mind to it that you will not have sex until you come back,that decision may safe your life and destiny

14: Men, avoid looking at the front and back side or shape of ladies and imagine what is there, it is stupid, childish and dirty to do that, that is what is called lust, what is there is not different from what your spouse has. Be wise, don't be full of lust.

15: Walk in company with good and Godly men/women if you keep company with adulterer you will become adulterous.

16: Discuss your sexual desire with your spouse and let it be met at home,don't hunt for something that will hunt you later and hurt you deeply tomorrow,your wife/ husband has the best,get it at home.

17: fill your heart with the word of God always,this will not give lust a chance in your mind.

18:Memorize and Always remember Proverbs 6:32-33. "But whoso committeth adultery with a woman lacketh understanding: he that doeth it destroyeth his own soul. A wound and dishonour shall he get; and his reproach shall not be wiped away".

19: Always count the cost of adultery, don't just look at the pleasure,look at the pain,loss of integrity,how you will hurt your wife/husband ,children,friends and above all GOD the almighty.

20: Always remember that the enjoyment, pleasure and the thrills that is in sex is just for few seconds or minutes, it can not be more than that but its repercussions can last for eternity. Why trading eternity for few seconds, is there wisdom in that?

BE FAITHFUL TO YOUR SPOUSE AND YOU WILL BE GLAD YOU DID. WHAT GOD HAS PUT TOGETHER LET NO MAN PUT ASUNDER!
Re: Is He Interested In Me.? by Chibueze90: 2:42pm On Mar 25, 2020
To whom much is given, much is expected....I don talk my own oo
Re: Is He Interested In Me.? by Brunosamel(m): 5:42pm On Mar 25, 2020
Preciousgirl:
My senior colleague at work has bought me lunch consistently for about a month now. He is just too good to me. Now he buys me airtime. This afternoon, he brought me a brand new hand bag. Now he knows very well I am married, is he after something? What must I do? Thanks
Can you listen to yourself he buys and you accept forgetting everything comes with a price...
Tomorrow you will start blaming some guys, some magas who sees spending for woman as hobby because of what is under the skirt...
Just pray he's conscience is clear...
And stop accepting gift before you cause controversy
Re: Is He Interested In Me.? by drezzyx(m): 5:59pm On Mar 25, 2020
He will come up with this thread..
How I almost banged a married woman after buying her gift consistently that is if you reject d banging.
But if you accept that thread will change almost will disappear.
Re: Is He Interested In Me.? by mechanics(m): 10:01pm On Mar 25, 2020
Stop receiving his gifts to avoid stories that touches the heart, that's how it starts.
Re: Is He Interested In Me.? by snifferG: 3:56pm On Jun 07, 2020
CsRockefeller:
That's d problem there. She was into it when she was single, now its hard to stop.

Its a world of troubles without end to be with a partner that is never satisfied, in the words of late Fela, if you meet any "run o"
ON POINT!!!
Re: Is He Interested In Me.? by maximusprime2000: 6:58pm On Jun 07, 2020
DoubleEngine007:
Except he is Santa.. Even a child will know that he is after something.. And you said you are married.. Have you talked to your husband about the gifts?
did u say talk to her husband? do u want the husband to become insecure. are you a confusionist?. instead of u to tell her to stop collecting if she doesn't want to cheat or be raped. don't make me laugh
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