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Re: Mention The Year You Will Like To Get Married And At What Age by Oghenerobo2002(m): 7:22am On Mar 25, 2020
Want to get married on/before 30. That's about 20 months from now. Don't even have a serious relationship ATM
Re: Mention The Year You Will Like To Get Married And At What Age by CsRockefeller(m): 7:22am On Mar 25, 2020
orekelewa09:
I dey find husband oh. This year or next

grin grin

but he is the one meant to find u
Re: Mention The Year You Will Like To Get Married And At What Age by PrimadonnaO(f): 7:24am On Mar 25, 2020
ashewoboy:




why do you think then don't love?

Well, it happens for a number of inexplicable reasons. Sometimes you see a great guy and you're just not in love.
Re: Mention The Year You Will Like To Get Married And At What Age by PrimadonnaO(f): 7:25am On Mar 25, 2020
CsRockefeller:


gist me pls


Lol. Just saying. There was a time when I thought 19 would be it. I grew up really quickly.
Re: Mention The Year You Will Like To Get Married And At What Age by CsRockefeller(m): 7:25am On Mar 25, 2020
PrimadonnaO:


Well, it happens for a number of inexplicable reasons. Sometimes you see a great guy and you're just not in love.

forget all those butterfly in the stomach feelings, they are all a facade.

If hes a great guy, then build a great home with him.
Re: Mention The Year You Will Like To Get Married And At What Age by yeme7(m): 7:26am On Mar 25, 2020
ViVaMadrid:


Hahaha I didn't mean to laugh at you, but you're a clown grin


Bros it might sound funny but when u r in my shoe u would know what I meant its not easy with us people of that age doing nothing no back no front

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Re: Mention The Year You Will Like To Get Married And At What Age by CsRockefeller(m): 7:26am On Mar 25, 2020
PrimadonnaO:


Lol. Just saying. There was a time when I taught 19 would be it. I grew up really quickly.

okay.
Re: Mention The Year You Will Like To Get Married And At What Age by yeme7(m): 7:28am On Mar 25, 2020
Beolly:


Your story is very similar to mine, finished service this very month same age as yours. I have a savings from service but then it's not huge enough anything. God help me the last thing on my mind though is marriage, I dare not try it


Don't worry about that bros God hasn't forgot us.... I believe we could still make it little... No back no front
Re: Mention The Year You Will Like To Get Married And At What Age by PrimadonnaO(f): 7:30am On Mar 25, 2020
OlawaleBammie:


Yea, me personally i like it wen men are slightly archaic...in quote.."slightly"

Wat u dont understand is dat majority of tym women dont suffer wen men are archaic a little bit.


Its good to b slightly archaic dearie, like me i cant lie, am slightly archaic and i love it dat way, even ladies around me cherishes it.

Does being archaic involve expecting your significant other to always put your needs above hers, just because you're man? Does it include feeling entitled to a woman cooking for and serving you when she isn't your wife?
Does it include a woman sucking up your bad behaviour and not questioning your actions if they are unclear, just because you're a man?
Re: Mention The Year You Will Like To Get Married And At What Age by All4good: 7:34am On Mar 25, 2020
roliks99:
2024 at 25
Have you factored some other delays like child bearing which puts a lot of stress on families especially when the woman has no much time and they start considering IVF of millions of naira.
At 21, dear this is your year Lol.
Re: Mention The Year You Will Like To Get Married And At What Age by ashewoboy(m): 7:35am On Mar 25, 2020
PrimadonnaO:


Well, it happens for a number of inexplicable reasons. Sometimes you see a great guy and you're just not in love.



why do you think men don't love?
Re: Mention The Year You Will Like To Get Married And At What Age by PrimadonnaO(f): 7:36am On Mar 25, 2020
CsRockefeller:


forget all those butterfly in the stomach feelings, they are all a facade.

If hes a great guy, then build a great home with him.

If it's the butterfly feelings that make me look forward to seeing them every time, that make me want to make concessions and compromises, that would make forever not seem scary... that make me physically attracted to them, then I really think those butterfly feelings are needed.
Re: Mention The Year You Will Like To Get Married And At What Age by roliks99(f): 7:37am On Mar 25, 2020
All4good:

Have you factored some other delays like child bearing which puts a lot of stress on families especially when the woman has no much time and they start considering IVF of millions of naira.
At 21, dear this is your year Lol.
Re: Mention The Year You Will Like To Get Married And At What Age by PrimadonnaO(f): 7:37am On Mar 25, 2020
ashewoboy:




why do you think men don't love?

Men don't love? That's new discovery.
Re: Mention The Year You Will Like To Get Married And At What Age by All4good: 7:40am On Mar 25, 2020
CsRockefeller:


grin grin

but he is the one meant to find u

Not TRUE Bro.
SHE is meant to find HIM.
HE is only meant to pop the BIG Question. shocked
Re: Mention The Year You Will Like To Get Married And At What Age by Beolly(m): 7:40am On Mar 25, 2020
Lavendra:
when it comes to love/relationship/marriage, some people aren't just lucky. I think I fall into that category. Marriage isn't for me. I'm just waiting for the world to end or I might just probably die.
You won't die be positive minded, There's always one person for someone and it's not the end of the world rather. Can I send you a P.m please? Cheer up
Re: Mention The Year You Will Like To Get Married And At What Age by Kaka1234(f): 7:42am On Mar 25, 2020
As soon as I find �

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Re: Mention The Year You Will Like To Get Married And At What Age by saxxyb: 7:43am On Mar 25, 2020
vickydankal:
I’m married, if I knew what I know now I would have gotten married earlier. Maybe by 24 or 25. You see this thing called career mmmm don’t worry let me not shake this table

@vickdankal, You are very insane, a right thinking lady that is want to get married should have a source if income

Personally I don't support the idea of early marriage(20-25) for ladies because it comes with different problems such as , delay in achievement of one goals, marrying someone who isn't your mate, .not fully independent and finally not fully understanding the concept of marriage

As a lady you should also have a source of income to support you husband, don't be a liability, life is just unfair in this part of a country, very imbalance , a man will want to do everything, starting from paying exorbitant bride price

Ladies trust me men usually seek and respect women of value, if you are well to do as a lady men will come to you for marriage, no one wants to marry a liability, another reason for a lady to have a source if income is because at a time your family will need your financial help, just imagine a scenario where a girl from a family whose sibling are all girls and they all decide to be liabilities looking to all marry rich men and here is an urgent need (mama don fall sick), what will happen? Is that how you will calling your husband for every little thing, common to buy sanitary u no fit na your husband go provide, another is if a wife unfortunately lost one spouse and there is widowhood, Is that how your children will suffer?

Please girls equip yourself and add value to a man life and stop minding all those feminism movement valuable women are real women.
#my2cent

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Re: Mention The Year You Will Like To Get Married And At What Age by funmercy1(f): 7:45am On Mar 25, 2020
I will be 30 this year funny enough I don't have a boyfriend or a job........I always want a marriage where we are friends,I don't just want to be married ...............
Re: Mention The Year You Will Like To Get Married And At What Age by Beolly(m): 7:45am On Mar 25, 2020
ritamart:
Planned to be married on April 25th this year but due to the pandemic, it's been shifted to July 4th. I am 22 years old.

Very good but at 22 are you matured enough? Have you seen it all
Re: Mention The Year You Will Like To Get Married And At What Age by roliks99(f): 7:46am On Mar 25, 2020
All4good:

Have you factored some other delays like child bearing which puts a lot of stress on families especially when the woman has no much time and they start considering IVF of millions of naira.
At 21, dear this is your year Lol.

Am still yet to achieve something for me,intending on serving by the end of this is(by God's grace),further a lil more in education and work (I can't marry broke or be a liability)
Re: Mention The Year You Will Like To Get Married And At What Age by CsRockefeller(m): 7:46am On Mar 25, 2020
PrimadonnaO:


If it's the butterfly feelings that make me look forward to seeing them every time, that make me want to make concessions and compromises, that would make forever not seem scary... that make me physically attracted to them, then I really think those butterfly feelings are needed.

I would really love to work in a top consulting firm. I love economic analysis, making projections and forecasting and formulating economic policies. I also would love to be a Teacher or Lecturer, guiding young ones and sharing knowledge with them.

Instead, I'm stuck with figures and numbers in the name of Accounting, a great career nonetheless but doesn't give me that fufillment i need. However, it pays the bills and I'm ready to keep at it till death if that's what keeps coming my way.

Life is funny, but not perfect.

Duty first, is the motto, even Christ could wish his cup passed him by.

We all want the best of everything but if horses were wishes beggars would ride.

Duty first.

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Re: Mention The Year You Will Like To Get Married And At What Age by dadarasak(m): 7:49am On Mar 25, 2020
funmercy1:
I will be 30 this year funny enough I don't have a boyfriend or a job........I always want a marriage where we are friends,I don't just want to be married ...............

Yip. Friendship should help. Be patient

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Re: Mention The Year You Will Like To Get Married And At What Age by MrNipplesLover(m): 7:54am On Mar 25, 2020
Kaka1234:
As soon as I find �


you must be a simple person in reality.

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Re: Mention The Year You Will Like To Get Married And At What Age by solonubinho(m): 7:55am On Mar 25, 2020
SyrusdeHansome:
Mine is 2022, at de age of 33

Survive Corona virus first.
Re: Mention The Year You Will Like To Get Married And At What Age by AmbFitsaint(m): 7:57am On Mar 25, 2020
safarigirl:
Not likely to ever happen for me

Some of us will just come and go. No marriage, nothing.

Not everybody will find love, and some will find love, but with the wrong person.

Me, I'm tired of looking forward to anything about marriage. If it happens, it happens, if not, we come and go. Nobody ever made it to history books, for being married anyway.

If I were your age mate. I would have loved to shoot my shot but still very young grin
You are a very pretty lady BTW. I really do pray you find true love soon.
Marriage is beautiful !!! Kids are awesome creatures from God. Imagine holding on your arms a princess or prince that bears your genes with face glittering with the shining melanin you carry. Having someone truthful to hear your heartbeats and share your burdens with. This list goes on
Re: Mention The Year You Will Like To Get Married And At What Age by saxxyb: 7:59am On Mar 25, 2020
A right thinking lady that is preparing to get married should have a source if income

Personally I don't support the idea of early marriage(20-25) for ladies because it comes with different problems such as , delay in achievement of one goals, marrying someone who isn't your mate, .not fully independent and finally not fully understanding the concept of marriage.

As a lady you should also have a source of income to support you husband, don't be a liability, life is just unfair in this part of a country, very imbalance , a man will want to do everything, starting from paying exorbitant bride price. And the girl is just thinking of expensive aso ebi.

Ladies trust me men usually seek and respect women of value, if you are well to do as a lady men will come to you for marriage, no one wants to marry a liability, go gain full respect of a man you have to not be overly dependent, another reason for a lady to have a source of income is because at a time your family will need your financial help, just imagine a scenario where a girl from a family whose sibling are all girls and they all decide to be liabilities looking to all marry rich men and here is an urgent need (mama don fall sick), what will happen? Is that how you will be calling your husband for every little thing, common to buy sanitary u no fit, na your husband go provide, another is if a wife unfortunately lost one spouse and there is widowhood, Is that how your children will suffer?

Please girls equip yourself and add value to a man life and stop minding all those feminism movement. valuable women are real women.
#my2cent

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Re: Mention The Year You Will Like To Get Married And At What Age by PrimadonnaO(f): 7:59am On Mar 25, 2020
CsRockefeller:


I would really love to work in a top consulting firm. I love economic analysis, making projections and forecasting and formulating economic policies. I also would love to be a Teacher or Lecturer, guiding young ones and sharing knowledge with them.

Instead, I'm stuck with figures and numbers in the name of Accounting, a great career nonetheless but doesn't give me that fufillment i need. However, it pays the bills and I'm ready to keep at it till death if that's what keeps coming my way.

Life is funny, but not perfect.

Duty first, is the motto, even Christ could wish his cup passed him by.

We all want the best of everything but if horses were wishes beggars would ride.

Duty first.

I get your drift. But finding love, and compatibility, isn't such a big ask. I've had both, and it was beautiful, can't imagine not having that again.

So I'll tarry.
Re: Mention The Year You Will Like To Get Married And At What Age by Ingodwetrust15(m): 8:00am On Mar 25, 2020
2022 Always dreamt of getting married at 29 I’m 27 now, And the woman is there already. Now I’m only trying to make both ends meet make rapper no go turn singer las las
Re: Mention The Year You Will Like To Get Married And At What Age by All4good: 8:01am On Mar 25, 2020
unibenakpos:
my first ever FTC!
The year I'm comfortable enough to add two extra mouth to my table. may be when im 35+
Whaaaaat 35!! Too LATE.
My Bible says 2 is better than 1
Change your mindset Bro. Do you know you can even upgrade your social class through marriage? Use every opportunity in your hands well and scarcity will be far from you and your house hold.
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Re: Mention The Year You Will Like To Get Married And At What Age by ashewoboy(m): 8:09am On Mar 25, 2020
PrimadonnaO:


Men don't love? That's new discovery.


that is what you wrote in the previous post I quoted. I'm asking why you said that?
Re: Mention The Year You Will Like To Get Married And At What Age by OlawaleBammie: 8:09am On Mar 25, 2020
PrimadonnaO:


Does being archaic involve expecting your significant other to always put your needs above hers, just because you're man?
Well, each and everyone of us has our own priorities, wen i was in a relationship, i had her interest in my mind first even ahead of mine, maybe i was just too mumu den who knew, but am sure i would stil repeat it that way should we get back together, why?? I love her.

But i know i wont b doin myself any good if i prioritise it that my half should always put my need ahead of hers, no no no, we humans are different and we exhibit our loves in different pattern.

Does it include feeling entitled to a woman cooking for and serving you when she isn't your wife?
Lol, Absolutely No. I mean capital NO. But that doesnt mean u shouldn't help out wen need arises. Some women wil never want to help u do anything wen dey visit u on the account that u have not paid their bride price but these same women would want u to spend all ur life savings on them forgetting that you are yet to pay the said bride price oo. And if u refuse to give dem or dance to their tone, den u re everything bad they could tink of.

Does it include a woman sucking up your bad behaviour and not questioning your actions if they are unclear, just because you're a man?
Lol, if my woman always go according to my pattern i wil know something is wrong somewhere, i wil just conclude she doesn't love me, in my mind i wil b like she wan kill me grin
Pls if i go wrong scold me biko, cus i wont hesitate to do same if it was you.

Me and my Ex would usually do something, if a month should pass and we didn't have anything to scold ourselves on, we wil b asking ourselves that "are u sayin i didn't do anything bad for the past 5 weeks? Are u sayin all wat i did was good and alright by you? Keep deceiving ursef oo" we usually said dis just cus we had no misunderstandings, no scolding and d likes. grin


Madam relationship is sweet wen u find ur half biko, forget money or no money, its sweet wen u find ur half.

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