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I told my girl through a chat on fb...that my instinct tells me she is still gonna leave me... here is her reply I copied and past

"Lol
Not at all
But I don't have it mind that it's a must we get married
But m always like if you are meant for me we will surely be together"...

that's exactly her reply... though she always tell me if I don't set things right in my life... she ain't gonna wait for me.


what does it mean, guys help me analyze that... I told my girl through a chat on fb...that my instinct tells me she is still gonna leave me... here is her reply I copied and past

"Lol
Not at all
But I don't have it mind that it's a must we get married
But m always like if you are meant for me we will surely be together"...

that's exactly her reply... though she always tell me if I don't set things right in my life... she ain't gonna wait for me.


what does it mean, guys help me analyze that...

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Begging or telling a girl not to leave you is foolishness. Now, isn't it obvious she hasn't been laying her eggs on one basket?
You have to make a girl love and want you always not begging her to stay, now she's taking the leverage of your 'sissyness' to opt for more options.

what she means is, you can always get another girl.

She already has options and can easily leave you at any point in time(or cheat if you eventually marry her).

You know why?
You've presented your self as a needy, spineless man who is wanted by no one else.

She likely doesn't have any unique feelings for you.. You're just there as an alternative plan, incase the others don't workout on time.

Just take heart and move on.

Bro she is not satisfied with the level of your finances and is ready to jump ship when the opportunity comes. She has justified herself and is biding her time. When your period of grace elapses and you haven’t “set things right” in her own eyes, she will leave you.

Now I have a question for you. Will you double your hustle and enlarge your finances because of a mere girlfriend or because of yourself?

Some people would argue that she’s being real with you. Fine. Be real with yourself. Is that the kind of motivation you need?

AfroKnight:


Bro she is not satisfied with the level of your finances and is ready to jump ship when the opportunity comes. She has justified herself and is biding her time. When your period of grace elapses and you haven’t “set things right” in her own eyes, she will leave you.

Now I have a question for you. Will you double your hustle and enlarge your finances because of a mere girlfriend or because of yourself?

Some people would argue that she’s being real with you. Fine. Be real with yourself. Is that the kind of motivation you need?

i always tell her that if I say I will do it for her... I'll be lying, but I'll do it for myself... not cos of her

MycroftHolmes:
She already has options and can easily leave you at any point in time(or cheat if you eventually marry her).

You know why?
You've presented your self as a needy, spineless man who is wanted by no one else.

She likely doesn't have any unique feelings for you.. You're just there as an alternative plan, incase the others don't workout on time.

Just take heart and move on.

so you mean I should break up with her now?

We can analyze her statement...but her heart is what no man can analyze...use ur tongue and count ur teeth.

marttol:
i always tell her that if I say I will do it for her... I'll be lying, but I'll do it for myself... not cos of her

Thank you! That’s what I’m talking about!

Nice post.

Dude, you're highly insecure, and that's why she will go. What sotta response were you expecting - that she will die for you? C'mon guy, brace up and be a man. .

donbachi:
We can analyze her statement...but her heart is what no man can analyze...use ur tongue and count ur teeth.

I DON'T UNDERSTAND

No one can analyse the statement right except her. Do not take any advice too serious.
You should know her better n know how things has been between the two of you, that statement is not harsh to me, we have some people that are not do or die In spirit (we must marry)

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