A married couple in Lagos who wedded February, last month, has just gone their separate ways to the shock of family members, church members, and friends.

This was reported by a facebook user kwown as Smile John. According to his facebook post, the couple claimed they are no longer good enough for each other which made them go their separate ways after one month.

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Giving reasons for the separation, the woman identified as Temilade Balogun complained that the husband loves doing the do too much and that she can't cope.

The man in question defended himself by saying he agreed to the divorce because his wife can't satisfy him. He admitted that he can't cheat on his wife by doing the do outside the home when he paid all the traditional rites before marrying the wife.

He also lamented that they didn't know each other very well before marrying as his church was against doing the do before marriage.



What do you think about this?

Should they have done the do before marriage?

Is this reason good enough to divorce under just 1 month of marriage?





Drop your comments below and share please

Wetin make dem buy monkey?...go ur papa house if you no ready for the marriage

thats what happens when you expect a man to wait for years before he can fukc you... you go pay with that toto DEARLY!!!!!

that dude, all this time you were using toto to play play with tham man's destiny, he was just thinking to himself WHEN I CATCH YOU, KAI!!!!

Wetin concern me

y not marry 2 or more women

They are not both matured for marriage... when d issues of life starts to surface; sex becomes the least of a problem in marriage. They are still young i guess

Lwtmb

Quality20:
y not marry 2 or more women

you mean add more wahala to his life than he already got?

probably an arranged marriage..the one that pastor will be forcing a guy to marry a particular single lady in the church just cos he got a vision from God.Quite a gentlemanly thing for the guy to opt for divorce so as not to cheat.

I don’t think it’s because of sex , somethings must be wrong about their relationship, take love making out of it .

What they did was not right, they should have settled their differences amicably and the man should know that sex is not food.

mechanics:
What they did was not right, they should have settled their differences amicably and the man should know that sex is not food.

they not sexually compactable.its better the guy divorced her than to be cheating on her.

"He also lamented that they didn't know each other very well before marrying as his church was against doing the do before marriage."

Probably an arranged marriage.

lefulefu:
they not sexually compactable.its better the guy divorced her than to be cheating on her.

hmmmm, I understand, but the man should have adjusted na.

No proper courtship, who said you should not know in and out of your partner before you say i do.

mechanics:
hmmmm, I understand, but the man should have adjusted na.

well no be wetin im expect to see in the marraige im get .better he divorce her and give her her peace of mind than to be cheating on her under the name of sexual satisfaction

chidooh1:
No proper courtship, who said you should not know in and out of your partner before you say i do.

either the pastor of his church arranged the lady for him or she was arranged for him by his contacts or friends

lefulefu:
well no be wetin im expect to see in the marraige im get .better he divorce her and give her her peace of mind than to be cheating on her under the name of sexual satisfaction

lolz, but you know divorce is not proper, why did he not discuss it with her during courtship?

Test something wey u buy for market before u carry go house but ona no go gree.

People are so engrossed with religion and mix it up with reality.

Nice one

mechanics:
lolz, but you know divorce is not proper, why did he not discuss it with her during courtship?

from the writeup it doesnt look like they courted.it looks like an arranged marriage.look at the reasons the guy gave..they didnt know each other dat well before they got married plus he also mentioned his church.i think its a marriage the pastor just gave him a wife under the illusion of vision .

lefulefu:
from the writeup it doesnt look like they courted.it looks like an arranged marriage.look at the reasons the guy gave..they didnt know each other dat well before they got married.

They don't anybody until you are married to the person... The problem is that they didn't ask the right questions. Majority omit this part in their relationship believing that when "we get to the river we would cross it." It's very necessary you probe into your patner's sexual orientation during courtship it would solve 50% of martial problem

So, lefu tell me how long can you last and how many inches? Ayam asking for a frewnd?

Eberechi24:

They don't anybody until you are married to the person... The problem is that they didn't ask the right questions. Majority omit this part in their relationship believing that when "we get to the river we would cross it." It's very necessary you probe into your patner's sexual orientation during courtship it would solve 50% of martial problem

So, lefu tell me how long can you last and how many inches? Ayam asking for a frewnd?

some men will tell u that they are too busy with their job or hustle to date .they would leave such to their friends or parents to hunt for wives for them while the timid men will depend on their pastors to have visions so as to magic wives for them

Eberechi24:



So, lefu tell me how long can you last and how many inches? Ayam asking for a frewnd?

ehnn

lefulefu:
some men will tell u that they are too busy with their job or hustle to date .they would leave such to their friends or parents to hunt for wives for them while the timid men will depend on their pastors to have visions so as to magic wives for them

You are right.
However you find a spouse, endeavor to ask the right questions. Don't be surprised you know zero about a girl you've dated for years esp Ldr.

Well, the timid men and arrangee can get it right if they are honest and asking the right questions esp sex related but you know nah, our African strong moral norms(home trainining) will not let us.

lefulefu:
ehnn

Oh shit! What's with the face Nah? My friend can not ask question in peace again?

Why are you still awake?

Many women dont like any kind of relationship where they don't of won't have the upper manipulative and dictating hand. The man or guy is on top of his game and its killing her. She is just like a slave in the relationship. Also I sense she is talking to a friend or her mum or a third party about the relationship. Advice to divorce just after a month is too early a decision to make. But don't worry she might later come back months or years later begging to stay again in the relationship.

All the man needs do is fold him arms and watch as the soap opera turns out.
One cold beer for him!!!!!

Once a woman notice that you don't take shit. They flee to their heels like usain bolt. The guys they hate most are no nonsense guys like my prof here(don't lemme mention his name) you all know him(he doesn't like to be disturbed!) Martinez how far?

The woman will regret her action when she get to 50years without anybody coming to marry her.

No sex is too much in marriage,she should have stayed as she will adapt with time

lefulefu:
probably an arranged marriage..the one that pastor will be forcing a guy to marry a particular single lady in the church just cos he got a vision from God.Quite a gentlemanly thing for the guy to opt for divorce so as not to cheat.

I doubt it's because of sex, it's mostly because the man: always demand for sex like if she is a sex slave, no good food, no company/ jokes/ play, no pre-intimacy, no romance(white or red), watch movies together, kissing, massage, good treats and pet before inserting the rod etc assistance in house chores, no cash to keep for him...only sex, sex, sex, it's boring my brother.
sex is all about humping until one white fluid comes out of that stick and the man is satisfied while the woman in each of the round was never satisfied. And for the woman the sex is about massaging her walls, her clit and breast meats.

Sexytincoll:
No sex is too much in marriage,she should have stayed as she will adapt with time

some sex is boring, and not all women love sex, no music playing, not long enough, its just sex not love making, love making is far healthier than sex, atleast kissing. I think the guy is having 5mins sex every 4hrs, probably broke and poor.
I once had a girl sha that complained I sex her too much, that if I finish her, the next man will complain, after one month she stopped having sex, we have four hours of sex n discussion every night. 10pm till 2am daily.
she got tired n fled.
But won't treat my next girl like that.

zexy2030:

some sex is boring, and not all women love sex, no music playing, not long enough, its just sex not love making, love making is far healthier than sex, atleast kissing. I think the guy is having 5mins sex every 4hrs, probably broke and poor.
I once had a girl sha that complained I sex her too much, that if I finish her, the next man will complain, after one month she stopped having sex, we have four hours of sex n discussion every night. 10pm till 2am daily.
she got tired n fled.
But won't treat my next girl like that.

hmm,smh for you,hope you've stopped being a sex freak.Reserve the rest for your wife