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What's The Most Painful Thing Someone Ever Said To You? by Honeydenz(op): 5:20pm On Mar 29, 2020
Today makes it exactly 5 years one of my aunts said a very painful word to me which I can never forget.

She said and I quote "the rate at which you are going this girl, 5 years from now you would have become a mother of 4 kids, all borne out of wedlock"

Today I have been able to prove her wrong, doing my masters program now whereas two of her daughters are university dropouts, as a result of unwanted pregnancy.

Hmmmm... How time flies, share yours.
Re: What's The Most Painful Thing Someone Ever Said To You? by Ladylite: 5:25pm On Mar 29, 2020
Honeydenz:
Today makes it exactly 5 years one of my aunts said a very painful word to me which I can never forget.

She said and I quote "the rate at which you are going this girl, 5 years from now you would have become a mother of 4 kids, all borne out of wedlock"

Today I have been able to prove her wrong, doing my masters program now whereas two of her of daughters are university dropouts, as a result of unwanted pregnancy.

Hmmmm...how time flies, share yours.
You are strong.
A guy once told me that I always be less than a house help all because I refused his financial offer and sex advance.


Today I am richer than he is. With my own money.
Re: What's The Most Painful Thing Someone Ever Said To You? by wizardus:
Honeydenz:
Today makes it exactly 5 years one of my aunts said a very painful word to me which I can never forget.

She said and I quote "the rate at which you are going this girl, 5 years from now you would have become a mother of 4 kids, all borne out of wedlock"

Today I have been able to prove her wrong, doing my masters program now whereas two of her of daughters are university dropouts, as a result of unwanted pregnancy.

Hmmmm...how time flies, share yours.
I have really had series of painful words people said to me

I told my uncle who works at a popular engine oil manufacturer as a regional manager to find me a job in their company...he said they don't employ christains..he then ask my senior brother behind my back if I can read and write

Amongst others

Another one!
I was at futminna then after I finished my national diploma at 2004..so a friend we did ND together got admission at bida poly for HND.while he was preparing to go to bida...he was already staying with me for weeks and we dey school..so he now got a job offer with ND at efcc...they are the first recruits at efcc then...later guyman bigup..so one day after a year or so..I called him simply to say hello..we chatted on phone and he then promised to send me mtn airtime to me...later..then the next morning..I now called him that I didn't ask him for card o..na hin tell me say he go send card..wia the card dey now..he now sent the card...then after some like 6 months after..I just remembered him and I decided to call him..even that day I was having like 22k cash on me...so I called him..he picked and was like who's that...I called him by his guyname and let him know that I am the one..he said that it's a wrong number...I was surprised..I now used my mtn he knows to call again...only for him to tell me on phone never to call his number again..I was angry...I sent him a message immediately telling him to Bleep off..he then told me that I have seen where I want to be extorting from..I now replied him that is it the 400 naira recharge card he sent that is making him talk like this..that I can send him his card back...he said I should send him... immediately went to buy the card and sent it back to him...I now told him that we will see again inside this life... I never Hama o since then but I am okay by his grace...he is in US doing pretty well...but I know we are gonna see again...
Re: What's The Most Painful Thing Someone Ever Said To You? by Honeydenz(op): 5:29pm On Mar 29, 2020
Ladylite:
You are strong.
A guy once told me that I always be less than a house help all because I refused his financial offer and sex advance.


Today I am richer than he is. With my own money.
Wow, certainly he's not your God
Re: What's The Most Painful Thing Someone Ever Said To You? by Honeydenz(op): 5:31pm On Mar 29, 2020
wizardus:
I have really had series of painful words people said to me

I told my uncle who works at a popular engine oil manufacturer as a regional manager to find me a job in their company...he said they don't employ christains..he then ask my senior brother behind my back if I can read and write

Amongst others
Imagine, I keep saying it

Most uncles don't mean well for their nephews, nieces. They never want you to do better than their kids!
Re: What's The Most Painful Thing Someone Ever Said To You? by Wyzkyd(m): 5:37pm On Mar 29, 2020
Mine is my neighbor who called me a slow poison cos I hardly talk to anyone. Thing pained me sha. Buh my own is,i just ignore people i think their intelligence is that of a five year old kid. No one has ever insulted me bfr or Said smth that made me felt so bad.
Re: What's The Most Painful Thing Someone Ever Said To You? by Fasindo: 5:39pm On Mar 29, 2020
shocked















My was in 2017.

It really pained me, every time I remember it I always cry.

It was when Buhari called Nigerian youths "lazy Nigerian youths" upon all our hard works.
Meanwhile his son Yusuf is lazing about in Abuja riding nd crashing power bike.

But still can't get it why ladies don't let off go what someone said to them
Re: What's The Most Painful Thing Someone Ever Said To You? by EmzyT:
Were we Dating?! sad
Re: What's The Most Painful Thing Someone Ever Said To You? by Nnatuu:
He called me a “useless hopeless thing“ when I was 12 just because I was playing football in front of his chemist shop...

If I see him now I’d give him slide down!
Re: What's The Most Painful Thing Someone Ever Said To You? by Honeydenz(op): 7:01pm On Mar 29, 2020
EmzyT:
A Girl I fell in-love with, asked her to be my Girlfriend and she accepted me! Days, weeks, months by pass and everything seemed perfect, we took pictures of ourselves and went to places together... Something happened, she went out with her female friends and met this guy at the Club, the guy started spoiling her with Gifts and Money... All of a Sudden, she started avoiding me, all her effort to breakup with me succeeded, she Broke up with me and went to this new-guy full time.. She didn't know he was a Player and has a girl he's intending to Marry, She found out, She's Heartbroken, she wants to go back to her man (ME) but it's too Late, I've moved on, Now she has realized she Lost a Diamond while trying to chase a Stone, that's when she knew the difference Between LOVE and LUST!!!
Long episode
Re: What's The Most Painful Thing Someone Ever Said To You? by Exmilitant(m): 7:33pm On Mar 29, 2020
Honeydenz:
Today makes it exactly 5 years one of my aunts said a very painful word to me which I can never forget.

She said and I quote "the rate at which you are going this girl, 5 years from now you would have become a mother of 4 kids, all borne out of wedlock"

Today I have been able to prove her wrong, doing my masters program now whereas two of her of daughters are university dropouts, as a result of unwanted pregnancy.

Hmmmm...how time flies, share yours.
OP, your post is full of grammatical, punctuation and spelling errors and you mentioned doing a masters program? Jesus!!
Re: What's The Most Painful Thing Someone Ever Said To You? by mysticwarrior(m): 8:44pm On Mar 29, 2020
Someone who is much more older than me once told me " you are not smart, you are lazy, unproactive, unproductive, stupidy and psychologically subnormal" chai I no dey forget that day, but today I have been able to prove that person otherwise, success is the best revenge.
Re: What's The Most Painful Thing Someone Ever Said To You? by Honeydenz(op): 9:39pm On Mar 29, 2020
Exmilitant:
OP, your post is full of grammatical, punctuation and spelling errors and you mentioned doing a masters program? Jesus!!
Lol, I won't answer you Mr punctuation error judge. I hope you know there's what we call 'typing error'? Additionally, am a science student and not an English graduate. However, 100 of your miserable species combined can't stand me in spoken English. Idiot!
Re: What's The Most Painful Thing Someone Ever Said To You? by toffyz(m): 9:55pm On Mar 29, 2020
I'm here to read lies...Oya continue
Re: What's The Most Painful Thing Someone Ever Said To You? by iamdrfresh:
"you're a nice guy and you're really presentable but I'm in a very serious relationship"


3years later. It still echoes in my mind!

For guys tagging me, I never said what she did was wrong..just painful..
Here's a more detailed story
https://www.nairaland.com/5003517/what-dumbest-thing-ever-did/6#75468876
iamdrfresh :
Met this girl thru a friend when I was about to resume part4 in med schl and we kinda got along(at least thought). I took her out on my birthday that she didnt even remember just cuz I wanted her to feel special.
We kept talking even tho I initiated it most time. That wasn't my first time with girls but I just had this soft spot for her(mumu me, right).
One night after her exams, I asked us to meet even tho I really didn't have anything to discuss. Decided to take her out to eat and we spent about 3hours together thereafter...twas fun.. We both enjoyed it!
Saw her back to her hostel and she told me she'd be leaving for her home 2days later and that we'd not likely see the next day. I felt the urge to throw my shot.
I don't know what came over me but I stammered for a while. I sha told her I love her and other things and she said we should talk about it another time.
Fast forward to the morning she'd be travelling home, I arranged to meet her. After keeping me waiting for almost an hour (her excuse: she was packing), she told me she's in a relationship- serious one for that matter.
I took it in good faith.. Wished her safe journey and that she should lemme know whenever she arrives Lag.
During the break, I was still chatting her up hoping she'd reconsider and one day I decided to send an "epistle" pouring out my heart in it. Last last she no still gree!
I was talking to my friend(d one that introduced us) months later and he told me how she commented on one of his stories that He never knew he is a good writer and that I'm a good story writer too
My epistle to her was just a "Story"
Re: What's The Most Painful Thing Someone Ever Said To You? by iamdrfresh: 11:42pm On Mar 29, 2020
Honeydenz:
Lol, I won't answer you Mr punctuation error judge. I hope you know there's what we call 'typing error'? Additionally, am a science student and not an English graduate. However, 100 of your miserable species combined can't stand me in spoken English. Idiot!
Exmilitant reserves d right to question your claim on being a master's student based on how you type. However, I do not agree with his approach as it's military-like!
Re: What's The Most Painful Thing Someone Ever Said To You? by chiiraq802(m): 1:17am On Mar 30, 2020
Honeydenz:
Lol, I won't answer you Mr punctuation error judge. I hope you know there's what we call 'typing error'? Additionally, am a science student and not an English graduate. However, 100 of your miserable species combined can't stand me in spoken English. Idiot!

Re: What's The Most Painful Thing Someone Ever Said To You? by Nobody: 1:48am On Mar 30, 2020
Exmilitant:
OP, your post is full of grammatical, punctuation and spelling errors and you mentioned doing a masters program? Jesus!!
Look away no cost a dime
Re: What's The Most Painful Thing Someone Ever Said To You? by Nobody:
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Re: What's The Most Painful Thing Someone Ever Said To You? by Fuckkthemod: 4:51am On Mar 30, 2020
Mine was in 2006, my dad’s friend who own a house opposite our rented apartment where I lived with my dad. His second daughter was was my friend and age group, whenever her father sees us together he will say of all the landlords children around you choose the son of a tenant, these ones will end up as criminals

Today the man is my personal contractor, he is like a boy to my dad, my dad own 4 houses and a hotel today. Don’t dictate what a person will become
Re: What's The Most Painful Thing Someone Ever Said To You? by mrwonlasewonie: 6:15am On Mar 30, 2020
Honeydenz:
Today makes it exactly 5 years one of my aunts said a very painful word to me which I can never forget.

She said and I quote "the rate at which you are going this girl, 5 years from now you would have become a mother of 4 kids, all borne out of wedlock"

Today I have been able to prove her wrong, doing my masters program now whereas two of her of daughters are university dropouts, as a result of unwanted pregnancy.

Hmmmm...how time flies, share yours.
you need to remind her


I love rubbing it in the faces of pseudo moralists trying to put up appearances
Re: What's The Most Painful Thing Someone Ever Said To You? by mrwonlasewonie: 6:17am On Mar 30, 2020
mysticwarrior:
Someone who is much more older than me once told me " you are not smart, you are lazy, unproactive, unproductive, stupidy and psychologically subnormal" chai I no dey forget that day, but today I have been able to prove that person otherwise, success is the best revenge.
hope you remember to rub it in their faces wink
Re: What's The Most Painful Thing Someone Ever Said To You? by skyhighweb(m):
EmzyT:
A Girl I fell in-love with, asked her to be my Girlfriend and she accepted me! Days, weeks, months by pass and everything seemed perfect, we took pictures of ourselves and went to places together... Something happened, she went out with her female friends and met this guy at the Club, the guy started spoiling her with Gifts and Money... All of a Sudden, she started avoiding me, all her effort to breakup with me succeeded, she Broke up with me and went to this new-guy full time.. She didn't know he was a Player and has a girl he's intending to Marry, She found out, She's Heartbroken, she wants to go back to her man (ME) but it's too Late, I've moved on, Now she has realized she Lost a Diamond while trying to chase a Stone, that's when she knew the difference Between LOVE and LUST!!!
they said word that was said to u, not wat was done to you, na so them dey take fail exam
Re: What's The Most Painful Thing Someone Ever Said To You? by skyhighweb(m): 7:10am On Mar 30, 2020
Exmilitant:
OP, your post is full of grammatical, punctuation and spelling errors and you mentioned doing a masters program? Jesus!!
please teacher correct alll the mistake let read ur version
Re: What's The Most Painful Thing Someone Ever Said To You? by Passionate888: 7:54am On Mar 30, 2020
Na only one game cut your 2 million naira ticket, you predict 2.5 them play 1:1.
Very painful
Re: What's The Most Painful Thing Someone Ever Said To You? by Kizzygentle: 10:02pm On Apr 02, 2020
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Re: What's The Most Painful Thing Someone Ever Said To You? by Goldenheart(m): 10:02pm On Apr 02, 2020
grin

Back in 2008

She said she didn't have my number anymore because her contact was full and she needed to delete someone...
Re: What's The Most Painful Thing Someone Ever Said To You? by Rabbitcartel: 10:03pm On Apr 02, 2020
Monkey wowo but him mama like am
Re: What's The Most Painful Thing Someone Ever Said To You? by DropsMic(m): 10:03pm On Apr 02, 2020
Hmm
Re: What's The Most Painful Thing Someone Ever Said To You? by shogsman(m): 10:03pm On Apr 02, 2020
Words don't get to me so I can't relate
Re: What's The Most Painful Thing Someone Ever Said To You? by LandMann: 10:03pm On Apr 02, 2020
If you are reading this now, try accessing Facebook and YouTube. Click like if you are able to. Otherwise share. Just wondering if we've been restricted from Facebook and YouTube cos both haven't worked for over one hour now. Thanks
Re: What's The Most Painful Thing Someone Ever Said To You? by popweezy(m): 10:03pm On Apr 02, 2020
You are the most useless being on earth.. Omo vex no gree cum that day.. I just dey wonder why I be human being sef..i cum dey ask myself question say.. Ola.. Be sincere to ur sef Are you really the most useless being?? Naim I dey answer myself say No.. I don't think so
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