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Jman06:
I haven't deflowered any girl!

I think you should rather upgrade your own level of thinking by not assuming that everybody commits fornication.

frozen70:
Am done with you

NextD18:
Your respect will not fetch him dollars or pay his bills, neither will it give him long life and prosperity.

This is how you lots you around emotionally enslaving and holding people from saying their mind with "I use to respect you", then emotionally manipulate them to say what will suit you ladies. Nothing else!

How much una online respect dey pay?

If you are a single mother, you need to pay attention right now; Single mothers are the worse and most deadly set of women any reasonable man will ever think of getting married to. They are full of problems, bad attitude, nagging, arrogant and emotionally manipulative.

If you are a man reading this, if you want to live long as a husband, if you want peace, if you want the happiness of your biological kids, if you must take the risk of marrying a NON-Virgin, please DON'T EVER marry a single mother.

Whatever made them a single mother, will still scatter your marriage.

frozen70:
You just told us how hard and bittered your heat is

As there are single mothers so they have single fathers

Even a marriage of 10yrs can still be a victim of single parent

You ate just typing rubbish because you have not yet gone into marriage or gain any experience about marriage

You may end up being a single father with this your mumu brain

JONNYSPUTE:
.... There's always a very wide gap between a logical reasoning and emotional reasoning. Here Ma'm, all you typed was based on emotions.

Mizwisdom:
Hmmm I used to respect you for your contributions but you have highly disappointed me with this one

Mizwisdom:
There are some bitter guys that will soon take over this thread of yours. You don't need people's advice as an adult, it should be your full decision. [/b]That her child will become yours if you keep an open mind and accept her as yours wholeheartedly.[b]

missimelda01:
I am not a single mom but these cruel comments the men are making is moving me to tears. Some ladies need to be schooled on how to handle men. It's okay for a single father to find love and remarry but it's completely wrong to marry a single mom? Why are y'all hypocrites!

There's no stupid rules to love and marriage, but I don't expect some dumbass to understand that. Op, tell your family about your girlfriend's child.. if you see what you want in her, go ahead and marry her.

frozen70:
What about if its a man, will you still discourage a lady from going into it because she won't be willing to share her man with his ex ❓

Even happily married couples still have something doing with their exes

Omar09:
Well, women always talk about things that suit them and don't really care if another takes the colossal damage no matter how related they (women) are to the people/person taking the damage.

Let's go deep into child(ren) women bring into new marriages from the old one. The presence of the child(ren) in the new marriage does a lot in that marriage.
It deals with the Man (husband), wife (single mom) and the child(ren).

THE MAN: The man is the first to be affected, and he's affected badly that he sometimes is the person who carries out the maltreatment. The man's authority gets marred because he will not know how to treat the child(ren). He can not reprimand the child. He can not chastise the child(ren) in their wrong doings but he gets to support them. Just like a rich spoiled kids, he will have a hard time relating with them. Now when the man has his kids. Of course kids look up to older siblings and when the man's biological kids understand that their father's authority can be undermined especially by the elder ones, that child picks it up and there's no way a man can get his biological kids to order and leave out the other kid(s) from your wife. And if he tries to reprimand his step kid(s), his wife will come at him with the “YOU DO NOT GET TO TALK TO HIM LIKE THAT, YOU ARE NOT HIS FATHER”

THE WIFE (SINGLE MOM): They get involved in this little scam of theirs not much, but they will always have it in their head that their kid(s) could be abused or worse raped by their husband since he's not their biological father especially when it's a girl child. No peace within!

THE CHILD(REN): They get affected greatly especially when they are brainy and more successful than their step siblings. There will be hate between them. The father being aware his biological child may be a flop or not up to how successful like his other step kid(s) is, unconsciously he will start exhibiting hate towards that child and this will affect the gifted child psychologically.

WHEN WE REDPILLED MEN ADVICE OTHER MEN TO NOT GET INTO MARRIAGE WITH SINGLE MOTHERS, THIS IS WHAT WE WANT YOU TO AVOID! UNLESS YOU ARE MAN ENOUGH TO GO THROUGH THIS BULLSH.IT, I'D SUGGEST YOU REMAIN SPINELESS AND MARRY A SINGLE GIRL WITH LOW BODY COUNT.

Martinez39s
Emmaodet
Ubunja
Kennedyiheme02
Arthur21
Blu03

Omar09:
Well, women always talk about things that suit them and don't really care if another takes the colossal damage no matter how related they (women) are to the people/person taking the damage.

Let's go deep into child(ren) women bring into new marriages from the old one. The presence of the child(ren) in the new marriage does a lot in that marriage.
It deals with the Man (husband), wife (single mom) and the child(ren).

THE MAN: The man is the first to be affected, and he's affected badly that he sometimes is the person who carries out the maltreatment. The man's authority gets marred because he will not know how to treat the child(ren). He can not reprimand the child. He can not chastise the child(ren) in their wrong doings but he gets to support them. Just like a rich spoiled kids, he will have a hard time relating with them. Now when the man has his kids. Of course kids look up to older siblings and when the man's biological kids understand that their father's authority can be undermined especially by the elder ones, that child picks it up and there's no way a man can get his biological kids to order and leave out the other kid(s) from your wife. And if he tries to reprimand his step kid(s), his wife will come at him with the “YOU DO NOT GET TO TALK TO HIM LIKE THAT, YOU ARE NOT HIS FATHER”

THE WIFE (SINGLE MOM): They get involved in this little scam of theirs not much, but they will always have it in their head that their kid(s) could be abused or worse raped by their husband since he's not their biological father especially when it's a girl child. No peace within!

THE CHILD(REN): They get affected greatly especially when they are brainy and more successful than their step siblings. There will be hate between them. The father being aware his biological child may be a flop or not up to how successful like his other step kid(s) is, unconsciously he will start exhibiting hate towards that child and this will affect the gifted child psychologically.

WHEN WE REDPILLED MEN ADVICE OTHER MEN TO NOT GET INTO MARRIAGE WITH SINGLE MOTHERS, THIS IS WHAT WE WANT YOU TO AVOID! UNLESS YOU ARE MAN ENOUGH TO GO THROUGH THIS BULLSH.IT, I'D SUGGEST YOU REMAIN SPINELESS AND MARRY A SINGLE GIRL WITH LOW BODY COUNT.

Martinez39s
Emmaodet
Ubunja
Kennedyiheme02
Arthur21
Blu03

Omar09:
Well, women always talk about things that suit them and don't really care if another takes the colossal damage no matter how related they (women) are to the people/person taking the damage.

Let's go deep into child(ren) women bring into new marriages from the old one. The presence of the child(ren) in the new marriage does a lot in that marriage.
It deals with the Man (husband), wife (single mom) and the child(ren).

THE MAN: The man is the first to be affected, and he's affected badly that he sometimes is the person who carries out the maltreatment. The man's authority gets marred because he will not know how to treat the child(ren). He can not reprimand the child. He can not chastise the child(ren) in their wrong doings but he gets to support them. Just like a rich spoiled kids, he will have a hard time relating with them. Now when the man has his kids. Of course kids look up to older siblings and when the man's biological kids understand that their father's authority can be undermined especially by the elder ones, that child picks it up and there's no way a man can get his biological kids to order and leave out the other kid(s) from your wife. And if he tries to reprimand his step kid(s), his wife will come at him with the “YOU DO NOT GET TO TALK TO HIM LIKE THAT, YOU ARE NOT HIS FATHER”

THE WIFE (SINGLE MOM): They get involved in this little scam of theirs not much, but they will always have it in their head that their kid(s) could be abused or worse raped by their husband since he's not their biological father especially when it's a girl child. No peace within!

THE CHILD(REN): They get affected greatly especially when they are brainy and more successful than their step siblings. There will be hate between them. The father being aware his biological child may be a flop or not up to how successful like his other step kid(s) is, unconsciously he will start exhibiting hate towards that child and this will affect the gifted child psychologically.

WHEN WE REDPILLED MEN ADVICE OTHER MEN TO NOT GET INTO MARRIAGE WITH SINGLE MOTHERS, THIS IS WHAT WE WANT YOU TO AVOID! UNLESS YOU ARE MAN ENOUGH TO GO THROUGH THIS BULLSH.IT, I'D SUGGEST YOU REMAIN SPINELESS AND MARRY A SINGLE GIRL WITH LOW BODY COUNT.

Martinez39s
Emmaodet
Ubunja
Kennedyiheme02
Arthur21
Blu03

cococandy:
Have told women repeatedly, don’t get involved with any man who doesn’t serve your interests. Many men are selfish.

The blatant hypocrisy should be the eye opener for y’all but for some reason, ladies still let themselves get emotionally manipulated.

Listen again. If a man is not serving your interests, don’t do it. He sure as hell won’t be with you if you’re not serving his. Don’t do anything for a man that you know when the table is turned, he wouldn’t do the same for you.

Graxie:
I love what I am reading from most men here, this is an eye opener for some foolish girls. You will open yourself for any man without condoms, after you will not even help yourself to take preventive pills, when you discover that you are pregnant, you will come online and meet the hypocrites that will tell you to keep the baby. Every day the same story, no plans, no future. The same religious fanatics that will preach against abortion are the same people that will condem you for being a single mom. For those still in the valley of decision, better read this thread and see Nigeria for what it is.

missimelda01:
I am not a single mom but these cruel comments the men are making is moving me to tears. Some ladies need to be schooled on how to handle men. It's okay for a single father to find love and remarry but it's completely wrong to marry a single mom? Why are y'all hypocrites!

There's no stupid rules to love and marriage, but I don't expect some dumbass to understand that. Op, tell your family about your girlfriend's child.. if you see what you want in her, go ahead and marry her.

Bigblessed:
Can it be said that you don't know what you want?

Graxie:
I love what I am reading from most men here, this is an eye opener for some foolish girls. You will open yourself for any man without condoms, after you will not even help yourself to take preventive pills, when you discover that you are pregnant, you will come online and meet the hypocrites that will tell you to keep the baby. Every day the same story, no plans, no future. The same religious fanatics that will preach against abortion are the same people that will condem you for being a single mom. For those still in the valley of decision, better read this thread and see Nigeria for what it is.

Acct2:
Thanks to All your comments, believe me I expected different advices from different angles. What matters is LOVE and RESPECT from both couples. Thanks

cococandy:
Have told women repeatedly, don’t get involved with any man who doesn’t serve your interests. Many men are selfish.

The blatant hypocrisy should be the eye opener for y’all but for some reason, ladies still let themselves get emotionally manipulated.

Listen again. If a man is not serving your interests, don’t do it. He sure as hell won’t be with you if you’re not serving his. Don’t do anything for a man that you know when the table is turned, he wouldn’t do the same for you.

NextD18:
Your respect will not fetch him dollars or pay his bills, neither will it give him long life and prosperity.

This is how you lots go around emotionally enslaving and holding people from saying their mind with "I use to respect you", then emotionally manipulate them to say what will suit you ladies. Nothing else!

How much una online respect dey pay?

If you are a single mother, you need to pay attention right now; Single mothers are the worse and most deadly set of women any reasonable man will ever think of getting married to. They are full of problems, bad attitude, nagging, arrogant and emotionally manipulative.

If you are a man reading this, if you want to live long as a husband, if you want peace, if you want the happiness of your biological kids, if you must take the risk of marrying a NON-Virgin, please DON'T EVER marry a single mother.

[/b]Whatever made them a single mother, will still scatter your marriage[b].

Mizwisdom:
There are some bitter guys that will soon take over this thread of yours. You don't need people's advice as an adult, it should be your full decision. [s][/s]That her child will become yours if you keep an open mind and accept her as yours wholeheartedly[s][/s].

emmaodet:
Bro, of all the ladies in the world, why a single lady? Why? Are you that bad? Ugly? Poor? Or sex and love starved that you think what you desire is a single lady for starting your life?
Things are really really bad now.
Normally, we should be marrying Virgins but the demonized us that we are backward, uncivilized. Now from not marrying virgins to non-virgins to forgiving cheating gfs to marrying single mums wt a kid to 2 to 3 or more, what else again? Polyandry? Woman marrying 2 or more men?
Is this how low we have sunk has men?

How bad can it be more?

My immediate brother just told us 3 days ago that the lady he wants to marry is a single mum, a guy working in dubai and doing fine, trying to marry a single nigerian mum.
If you see the way my mum and i abused the hell out of him, i cursed him, told him his head no correct make him no carry dat kind rubbish come here.
I am the first born, i married a single lady, so i laid a good foundation for them behind me, likewise my mum not been single mum.
[/b]In short sef, Bros abeg your head no correct[b]

Acct2:
I know what I want dear... it seems coming out is difficult.

OkpaNsukkaisBae:
Una wan roast d guy alive

emmaodet:
Bro, of all the ladies in the world, why a single lady? Why? Are you that bad? Ugly? Poor? Or sex and love starved that you think what you desire is a single lady for starting your life?
Things are really really bad now.
Normally, we should be marrying Virgins but the demonized us that we are backward, uncivilized. Now from not marrying virgins to non-virgins to forgiving cheating gfs to marrying single mums wt a kid to 2 to 3 or more, what else again? Polyandry? Woman marrying 2 or more men?
Is this how low we have sunk has men?

How bad can it be more?

My immediate brother just told us 3 days ago that the lady he wants to marry is a single mum, a guy working in dubai and doing fine, trying to marry a single nigerian mum.
If you see the way my mum and i abused the hell out of him, i cursed him, told him his head no correct make him no carry dat kind rubbish come here.
I am the first born, i married a single lady, so i laid a good foundation for them behind me, likewise my mum not been single mum.
In short sef, Bros abeg your head no correct

Belafonte:
Many men are selfish, however, many women are paragons of selflessness. Na so

Shugavee:
we not jor we selfless by nature