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Why You Not Getting Laid by Jas80(op): 5:26pm On Apr 14, 2020
We are always attracted to people who will think are doing okay in life, everybody wants someone that can take them to the next level. Most of the times, the reason you don't get laid is because the girl thinks she can't get anything from you, she thinks you have nothing to offer.

We have read several post here about people's girlfriends sleeping with guys they just met. All these things happen mainly because these girls see this new guy has someone who has everything going on for them. In Nigeria, when you are broke, you are regarded as lazy, when you are rich is the other way round. When your girlfriend meet a guy doing better than you in all aspect of life, she starts feeling you are not good enough for her. She might sleep with this guy, even without the guy asking her out.

Guys who are doing well in life will often get laid regularly, unless of cause they act needy. Bro, rich guys don't toast girls. Na girl dy chase them. Bro if you don't work on yourself, that your dovy-dovy relationship will soon hit the rock. Everybody wants someone who will take them to the next level.

Let's be sincere, looking at your life now, if you were a girl, would you want to bleep you? Talk true.

A girl will only cheat on you because there is something she sees on the other guy that she is not seeing in you. It may be handsomeness, brain, built, talk, confidence, the list goes on.

Your girlfriend can have a meet a guy today and get so attracted to you, to the extent that she will think about him even when she is with you. When a girl gets so attracted, just know that you might get laid within a week, don't get too carried a way, you will only get laid when you don't mess it up. Work on yourself and this will naturally happen.

How do you work on yourself?
1. You read books
2. Work on your appearance. Is that your haircut really ok?, Are those clothes you are putting on up to date, do you smell nice, put ur appearance in order. Dress the way you want to be addressed.
3. Chase your passion don't chase girls.
4. Have plans on how to make money. I am not saying you should make money because of girls, make money because of yourself. You must have heard of Dubai, Paris, Ibiza, and other beautiful place, my guy, u no wan explore the world, na Nigerian abi Africa you wan die put?......abeg o

Change your way of life and your life will change.

I have used more than half of my time to write about how important it is to be a better person.

Another reason why you might not get laid is because you are too needy, you must have gotten tired of hearing this, but it is the truth, even as a rich guy, if you are needy nobody will want to bleep you. Neediness is a total turnoff for everybody on this planet.


Abeg, my guys I don tire, but all this bloggers dy try o
Re: Why You Not Getting Laid by Ladylite: 5:32pm On Apr 14, 2020
So all these hard points just to get laid, when with 1000 naira so many ladies on the street will freely do it with you just to survive?


Getting laid is not as important as surviving Covid19.

Stop making posts about it. If no one will fvck u, life certainly will fvck u up so bad in all positions. So calm down bro. Focus on better things
Re: Why You Not Getting Laid by Jas80(op): 5:42pm On Apr 14, 2020
Ladylite:
So all these hard points just to get laid, when with 1000 naira so many ladies on the street will freely do it with you just to survive?


Getting laid is not as important as surviving Covid19.

Stop making posts about it. If no one will fvck u, life certainly will fvck u up so bad in all positions. So calm down bro. Focus on better things
What are you angry about beauty? Are you hungry?....... By the way give me an example of "better things"
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