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| Advise by reeny2020(op): 11:38pm On Apr 17, 2020*. Modified: 8:56pm On Jun 06, 2021 |
reeny2020: Quote Post Hello nairalander I need your advice am married with one child but my husband is a government ministry worker and he doesn't like to do other things he believes more in the salary |
| Re: Advise by uzicuzy(m): 7:11am On Apr 18, 2020 |
All I see here is u complaining about ur husband yet u want a better life...wat is wrong with u working an bringing something to the table? For your information you can do much more than observe ur hubby as your job...go out there hustle..be career oriented bring in results maybe that might jolt him back to reality...#oprah..#alakija 6 Likes |
| Re: Advise by crackkhaus: 7:26am On Apr 18, 2020 |
Shey your own hand is paining you and stopping you from working to acquire your own property? Abi no be women like you dey start foundation of house, which then motivates their husband to complete it? Sit there and be waiting for your husband to give you a life of enjoyment. So typical... 8 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Advise by Acidosis(m): 8:44am On Apr 18, 2020 |
reeny2020:What do you do asides waking up, eating, and monitoring your husband's finance? 4 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Advise by YourCoffin: 9:24am On Apr 18, 2020 |
Your husband is not lazy madam. He goes to work and feed you guys with his salary. He is just not business minded. Lucky for him he married you to compensate for that. 2 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Advise by Bola146(f): 1:18pm On Apr 18, 2020 |
Are you not working? If yes, show his good example by saving and buying things yourself in your name 1 Like |
| Re: Advise by ibkayee(f): 1:33pm On Apr 18, 2020 |
How are the domestic, childcare and financial responsibilities distributed in your household? I don't know enough information about your situation to tell you to go and do it yourself or to come to the conclusion that your husband is genuinely lazy 1 Like |
| Re: Advise by emmaodet: 1:54pm On Apr 18, 2020 |
Acidosis:Oooohhhhhhhh Abasiiii Mr Acid, u get bad mouth ooo 1 Like |
| Re: Advise by CAPSLOCKED: 5:27pm On Apr 18, 2020 |
reeny2020:YOU'RE YET TO SAY WHAT YOU DO FOR A LIVING AND HOW YOU PLAN TO MAKE YOUR HOME AN INVESTMENT HOME. HOW DO YOU HAVE THE GUTS TO TALK ABOUT ACHIEVEMENTS WHEN YOU DO NOTHING BUT TOTALLY RELY ON YOUR HUSBAND? LAZY PIG. 7 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: Advise by Biglittlelois(f): 5:44pm On Apr 18, 2020 |
Ma'am this could work in your favour, if you're working(pls have an income) buy landed properties and investments in your maiden name only, flaunt your achievements in his face, if it doesnt jolt him back to reality, that means he is truly a lazy man with no ambition and no desire to progress, just let him be, there are shameless men living in houses built by their wives and driving their wives car, yours wouldn't be the first. 1 Like |
| Re: Advise by AFONAMARO: 5:47pm On Apr 18, 2020 |
reeny2020:What value have you brought to the table since you guys got married? It's not enough to complain, bring something tangible to the table. At least he has Android and Fire TV to his name. What have you? |
| Re: Advise by emmaodet: 6:18pm On Apr 18, 2020 |
CAPSLOCKED:  Hahahahaha The entitlement mentality though. When a lazy person thinks he/she is better off than another and criticising them. 1 Like |
| Re: Advise by Mariangeles(f): 7:55pm On Apr 18, 2020*. Modified: 10:08pm On Apr 18, 2020 |
reeny2020:A woman I know, her husband was a transporter and was doing very well. She has three children and her own business too, but her husband gave them everything they ever wanted. Unfortunately, the man suffered a terrible accident with a lifetime injury, but was lucky to be alive. Everything changed in an instant! The woman had to step up her game because from thereon, she became the breadwinner. She had to cater for the kids and all their needs, while her husband got treated in their hometown. At first, all she did was cry and cry and cry, till she realized that it wasn't going to solve anything, then she braced herself, worked harder and expanded her business. Now, she's come to terms with reality and is coping well, and her husband is also learning to walk again. The reason I shared this real life story is for you to brace yourself and quit depending totally on your husband's income. Life is unpredictable. In an instant, one's whole life could change forever. Make plans for the future. |
| Re: Advise by bukatyne2: 8:53pm On Apr 18, 2020 |
reeny2020:What have you done to improve the situation? |
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