Bros didn't you read the story? he just needed advice?

Pharaoh350s:
And so
Won't you mind your business in this lockdown??

lmao....peeps dey vex o..

valuedrvn:
Bros u no read the story? Na advice the nigga want no be kill e kill na?

I like how you men get all panicky and troubled at the sight of a lady having an affair. I’d bet some good dollars that you wouldn’t be troubled enough to go pay for counseling if it was her husband you saw kissing someone else.

Call it double standards but if it was the guy, i will snooze like a baby. I guess it still points to the fact that women are finer vessels... if we see a vessel flawed, e no natural.

cococandy:
I like how you men get all panicky and troubled at the sight of a lady having an affair. I’d bet some good dollars that you wouldn’t be troubled enough to go pay for counseling if it was her husband you saw kissing someone else.

Mind your business if you wanna live long

tutidaplug:
Call it double standards but if it was the guy, i will snooze like a baby. I guess it still points to the fact that women are finer vessels... if we see a vessel flawed, e no natural.

More like hypocrisy. and please miss us with the emotional blackmail of women being finer vessel, weaker vessel, supposed to purer and all the blas.
A human is a human.

Anyway I won’t tell you to mind your business because if you wanted to mind it, you wouldn’t have been peeking into the car in the first place.

Good luck with whatever you decide to do.

Might tell the man and him and his wife will use you to reconcile .

Please speak for only yourself o, i am a woman and enjoy being termed a fine vessel. Maybe not pure but a fine vessel all the same. Inability to let some harmless compliment slide by itself is a serious thing o. Are you saying you've never looked into a parked car ? Now u are sounding pure o! No wait, whats that big word you used.. aha. hypocritical.

cococandy:


More like hypocrisy. and please miss us with the emotional blackmail of women being finer vessel, weaker vessel, supposed to purer and all the blas.
A human is a human.

Anyway I won’t tell you to mind your business because if you wanted to mind it, you wouldn’t have been peeking into the car in the first place.

Good luck with whatever you decide to do.

Might tell the man and him and his wife will use you to reconcile .

gracie007:
Please speak for only yourself o, i am a woman and enjoy being termed a fine vessel. Maybe not pure but a fine vessel all the same. Inability to let some harmless compliment slide by itself is a serious thing o. Are you saying you've never looked into a parked car ? Now u are sounding pure o!

It’s different when it’s a compliment versus when it is used to make you accept bad treatment.

Harmless compliment?
There’s a world of difference between a compliment and something that is said to you to make you more pliable to abusive behavior.

Bad treatment? pliable to abusive behaviour? all deduced from this one statement up there? Really?... amazing analogy indeed from you. I guess that settles it. I rest my case. #Staysafe

cococandy:


It’s different when it’s a compliment versus when it is used to make you accept bad treatment.

Harmless compliment?
There’s a world of difference between a compliment and something that is said to you to make you more beautiful pliable to abusive behavior.

gracie007:
Bad treatment? Finer vessel? Really?... amazing analogy indeed from you. I guess that settles it. I rest my case. #Staysafe

Women are finer vessel. so if they behave badly, it’s terrible.

Men aren’t fine vessels like women: so it’s not a big deal when they cheat or behave poorly.

All it does is create an environment such that they don’t flinch when they cheat on you (that’s the bad treatment I’m talking about) because they are not required to be a fine vessel like you. But if you do, it’s terrible because you’re a finer vessel and aren’t supposed to behave that way.

It doesn’t protect you or your wellbeing or how you actually feel about such things. It just tells you to accept this or that because it’s the popular perception. But you know who’s interest that ‘harmless compliment’ is protecting?

Wouldn’t it be nice if we were all fine vessels and don’t taint ourselves? Lol

You stay safe too. Wash your hands and try not to touch your face.

For someone who is already getting caught kissing in a parked car, it won't take very long before more people will know about her infidelity and it will get to her husband.

You just sit back and let the gods do their work, her husband will soon find out...I assure you

(Pouts) ...and i had just said bye.
Ok. Find my answers in-line.

cococandy:


Women are finer vessel. so if they behave badly, it’s terrible. No, we are fine vessels, regardless. I choose to listen to what my father taught me not what any b/f or man thinks

Men aren’t fine vessels like women: so it’s not a big deal when they cheat or behave poorly. I know responsible brothers that are hubby-goals, mature and decent. I advice women to identify and stay away from anyone that subscribes to this school of thought..

All it does is create an environment such that they don’t flinch when they cheat on you (that’s the bad treatment I’m talking about) because they are not required to be a fine vessel like you. But if you do, it’s terrible because you’re a finer vessel and aren’t supposed to behave that way.

It doesn’t protect you or your wellbeing or how you actually feel about such things. It just tells you to accept this or that because it’s the popular perception. But you know who’s interest that ‘harmless compliment’ is protecting? "This is a form of generalization borne out of something called a "Herd Bias". sometimes like i said b4, a compliment is simply that. A compliment

Wouldn’t it be nice if we were all fine vessels and don’t taint ourselves? Lol Abi o! I agree wuth you 100% on this one

You stay safe too. Wash your hands and try not to touch your face. (My hands are too occupied to be going to my face sef.

bros maintain your lane,he no concern you. shallom

I am more concerned that you and your neighbours are visiting one another.
She will soon kiss corona and come and sneeze in your sitting room.

1 Thessalonians 4: 11-12

cococandy:


It’s different when it’s a compliment versus when it is used to make you accept bad treatment.

Harmless compliment?
There’s a world of difference between a compliment and something that is said to you to make you more pliable to abusive behavior.

Na today women start to use "real man" to manipulate men for their selfish gain? Abegi!

Lordswazz:

Na today women start to use "real man" to manipulate men for their selfish gain? Abegi!

Well that’s another side of it

Pharaoh350s:
And so
Won't you mind your business in this lockdown??

even the culprit no vex reach u...I am suspecting u

cococandy:


More like hypocrisy. and please miss us with the emotional blackmail of women being finer vessel, weaker vessel, supposed to purer and all the blas.
A human is a human.

Anyway I won’t tell you to mind your business because if you wanted to mind it, you wouldn’t have been peeking into the car in the first place.

Good luck with whatever you decide to do.

Might tell the man and him and his wife will use you to reconcile .

what is this one saying...is the lockdown. affecting ur reasoning?

LMAO...

worworbabe:
I am more concerned that you and your neighbours are visiting one another.
She will soon kiss corona and come and sneeze in your sitting room.

The girl reasoning is deficient.

EmmySparky:
what is this one saying...is the lockdown. affecting ur reasoning?

valuedrvn:
Brozay! as in eh. The girl reasoning wowor die. If you dey tell them dey no go hear.

honestly I just read the gibberish she posted and couldn't make sense of it...

thanks .

For me, I won't like to be caught in this kinda web... The counselor was very right but you are in a state of dilemma.

If any other person caught her and choose to tell her husband, the wife would certainly think you told him. Keep kwayet for life pls

I watched a movie, a lady was seen cheating on her hubby. A good friend of the family thought it wise to tell the husband...Alas, the husband knew all along but it is their own way of survival. In essence, he is aware of how she gets her money and was angry at the friend for not minding his business and rather embarrassing him the more.

Your story might not be the same with the above.

But please, let us learn to mind our business for our own life. Before person go use car run u over for ur estate. Her cup will soon be full.

She will tell her husband u asked her out and she didn't agree that's why u are u lying against her


Mind your business

Hmmmm...this reminds me of one yeye friend I had in school then who was cheating on her bf. Each time this nice dude comes around, my conscience always made me avoid him. Eventually sha...he caught her....I forged ignorance and disappeared from the scene. It could be heartbreaking... Just mind your business. You can't even send an anonymous text to her husband now sef, she would know its you.


Pele...how dare she burden you with the knowledge of her sin! Reduce your familiarity with her biko. Good luck!

honestly, i can't imagine the guys burden.

sisisioge:
Hmmmm...this reminds me of one yeye friend I had in school then who was cheating on her bf. Each time this nice dude comes around, my conscience always made me avoid him. Eventually sha...he caught her....I forged ignorance and disappeared from the scene. It could be heartbreaking... Just mind your business. You can't even send an anonymous text to her husband now sef, she would know its you.


Pele...how dare she burden you with the knowledge of her sin! Reduce your familiarity with her biko. Good luck!

tutidaplug:
Firstly, i don't like getting my nose in people's business but this one pass me. My neighbor is in his early forties and a really nice guy who i've known for 3 years. I was sick of staying home last week Saturday so i strolled to the estate gate by 7pm as this lock-in period was really getting to me. On my way back, i took a longer, lonelier route 3 streets behind mine only to see my neighbors wife in a parked LR4 kissing one old man in is fifties. For some strange reason i looked at the car and the mobile phone light inside shone making me see here as clear as i'm typing now. In shock she waved and i waved back. After 10 paces , the car honked and i looked back to see the woman running towards me. She wanted to explain and i asked her "Madam do we know each other?" and winked. She smiled and said "no" and went back.

As sleek as an answer that it was, i feel guilty because the couple as always came visiting two days ago as they always do. After they left, i told my wife and she said that she will leave this with me and god as she trusts me to know what to do. This thing has made me spend money calling one popular therapist yesterday. I even pay on top for phone counseling.. After we spoke, the guy said he needs me to mind my business and not take up some other persons load. He said if i saw the woman, it simply meant that she was already getting reckless with her affairs and would be caught soon.

I took the advice peeps but don't know if it was the right one he and my wife are giving me o. Conscience dey knack me no be small anytime i see the guy. I just tire.. This lagos na truly wah...

Just mind your business