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What Do Women Take As Seriousness Or Commitment From An Admirer Aside Money by Niceguyyy(op): 8:27am On Apr 25, 2020
I'm having probs getting into a serious relationship or sustaining one please help!!! I'm not a guy that want to dig and run but insecurity from past relationships has made me not want to commit myheart, trust or finance into any relationship.
I've developed this impatient, disrespect & nonchalant attitude towards women, i easily get tired of them, i think most times little gifts/money, attention, patience could mean alot to this girls but i hardly find any lady wortht of this. Most ladies say am unserious but i don't know what exactly they mean, do i have to call morning, afternoon and evening to show am serious? Or what exactly do they consider as a guy being really serious or commitment from a guy that really admire them??
Re: What Do Women Take As Seriousness Or Commitment From An Admirer Aside Money by BlackShit:
女性は商品です。

trust me.
Re: What Do Women Take As Seriousness Or Commitment From An Admirer Aside Money by Davash222(m): 8:35am On Apr 25, 2020
To them, to be serious means to spend lavishly on them.
Re: What Do Women Take As Seriousness Or Commitment From An Admirer Aside Money by sarrki(m): 8:44am On Apr 25, 2020
A pathological liar

A show boy

A deceiver
Re: What Do Women Take As Seriousness Or Commitment From An Admirer Aside Money by Recon1: 9:48am On Apr 25, 2020
Niceguyyy:
I'm having probs getting into a serious relationship or sustaining one please help!!! I'm not a guy that want to dig and run but insecurity from past relationships has made me not want to commit myheart, trust or finance into any relationship.
I've developed this impatient, disrespect & nonchalant attitude towards women, i easily get tired of them, i think most times little gifts/money, attention, patience could mean alot to this girls but i hardly find any lady wortht of this. Most ladies say am unserious but i don't know what exactly they mean, do i have to call morning, afternoon and evening to show am serious? Or what exactly do they consider as a guy being really serious or commitment from a guy that really admire them??
If 1,2,3 ladies say you are unserious, maybe you really should check yourself
Re: What Do Women Take As Seriousness Or Commitment From An Admirer Aside Money by ednut1(m): 10:26am On Apr 25, 2020
Taking care of her needs e.g rent, school fees, phone etc
Re: What Do Women Take As Seriousness Or Commitment From An Admirer Aside Money by Ihatefeminist:
My brother, women aren't capable of loving a man the way men desire to be loved; don't waste your time on them.
Just Bleep anyone you meet and move on to the next one.



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4DfQhh7v2xA
Re: What Do Women Take As Seriousness Or Commitment From An Admirer Aside Money by Cholls(m): 10:37am On Apr 25, 2020
BlackShit:
彼はあなたを愛して trust me.
my brother you are not serious yourself...the only solution to his problem is to 兄弟他妈的你自己
Re: What Do Women Take As Seriousness Or Commitment From An Admirer Aside Money by AfroKnight:
Apart from money? grin

Are you sure you want to marry a naija girl?

Any man who wants to be deemed serious in the eyes of a naija babe must have money. Even if he doesn’t spend it on her, she will make excuse for him as long as she can enjoy a ride in your luxury car or the comfort of your well furnished home, while eating your food.

Your money should be evident on you like perfume.

Don’t deceive yourself.

Yes, there are exceptions but that’s what they are - exceptions. They are not the norm. They are rare. There is a high probability you won’t meet such exceptions during your search for a wife unless the universe is merciful to you.

In conclusion, don’t spend time trying to puzzle out why women find you “unserious”. Face your source(s) of income and expand your earnings. Give these girls a secondary position in your life. You will be fine.
Re: What Do Women Take As Seriousness Or Commitment From An Admirer Aside Money by Tboymessiah(m): 11:26am On Apr 25, 2020
sarrki:
A pathological liar
A show boy
A deceiver
correct.
Re: What Do Women Take As Seriousness Or Commitment From An Admirer Aside Money by Tboymessiah(m): 11:27am On Apr 25, 2020
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Cholls:
my brother you are not serious yourself...the only solution to his problem is to 兄弟他妈的你自己
Naso.
Re: What Do Women Take As Seriousness Or Commitment From An Admirer Aside Money by BlackShit: 11:48am On Apr 25, 2020
Cholls:
my brother you are not serious yourself...the only solution to his problem is to 兄弟他妈的你自己
grin
Re: What Do Women Take As Seriousness Or Commitment From An Admirer Aside Money by Niceguyyy(op): 12:28pm On Apr 25, 2020
ednut1:
Taking care of her needs e.g rent, school fees, phone etc
I'm not sure i can do this, she probably have a father now
Re: What Do Women Take As Seriousness Or Commitment From An Admirer Aside Money by Niceguyyy(op): 12:30pm On Apr 25, 2020
AfroKnight:
Apart from money? grin

Are you sure you want to marry a a naija girl?

Any man who wants to be deemed serious in the eyes of a naija babe must have money. Even if he doesn’t spend it on her, she will make excuse for him as long as she can enjoy a ride in your luxury car or the comfort of your well furnished home, while eating your food.

Your money should be evident on you like perfume.

Don’t deceive yourself.

Yes, there are exceptions but that’s what they are - exceptions. They are not the norm. They are rare. There is a high probability you won’t meet such exceptions during your search for a wife unless the universe is merciful to you.

In conclusion, don’t spend time trying to puzzle out why women find you “unserious”. Face your source(s) of income and expand your earnings. Give these girls a secondary position in your life. You will be fine.
you ve said it all, this generation ehn
Re: What Do Women Take As Seriousness Or Commitment From An Admirer Aside Money by Niceguyyy(op): 12:31pm On Apr 25, 2020
sarrki:
A pathological liar

A show boy

A deceiver
You re very correct.
Re: What Do Women Take As Seriousness Or Commitment From An Admirer Aside Money by emmaodet: 7:48pm On Apr 25, 2020
AfroKnight:
Apart from money? grin

Are you sure you want to marry a naija girl?

Any man who wants to be deemed serious in the eyes of a naija babe must have money. Even if he doesn’t spend it on her, she will make excuse for him as long as she can enjoy a ride in your luxury car or the comfort of your well furnished home, while eating your food.

Your money should be evident on you like perfume.

Don’t deceive yourself.

Yes, there are exceptions but that’s what they are - exceptions. They are not the norm. They are rare. There is a high probability you won’t meet such exceptions during your search for a wife unless the universe is merciful to you.

In conclusion, don’t spend time trying to puzzle out why women find you “unserious”. Face your source(s) of income and expand your earnings. Give these girls a secondary position in your life. You will be fine.
Hmmmmmmmmm
Re: What Do Women Take As Seriousness Or Commitment From An Admirer Aside Money by Nobody: 7:54pm On Apr 25, 2020
See G's wailing.
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