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Would You Reject Expensive Gift From An Admirer For Cheap One From Your Lover? by Nazgul: 7:55am On Jan 06
I just decided to ask this question...I've seen people gift their admirers, iPhones, cars, even cash gifts of up to 5m.

So would you as a girl or guy reject an expensive gift from an admirer for cheap gift from your lover that comes from his/her heart?

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Re: Would You Reject Expensive Gift From An Admirer For Cheap One From Your Lover? by Acekidc4(m): 7:56am On Jan 06
As a Man I will accept the Two Gifts nah! No Time to check Time

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Re: Would You Reject Expensive Gift From An Admirer For Cheap One From Your Lover? by NextD18: 7:59am On Jan 06
I don't like been gifted, because I will end up not using it.

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Re: Would You Reject Expensive Gift From An Admirer For Cheap One From Your Lover? by chewwie(m): 8:02am On Jan 06
I don't accept gifts because I hate being indebted to someone.

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Re: Would You Reject Expensive Gift From An Admirer For Cheap One From Your Lover? by Thinkherbell(f): 8:05am On Jan 06
If i love a man, I wouldn't look at any rich person twice. No matter how rich the person is.

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Re: Would You Reject Expensive Gift From An Admirer For Cheap One From Your Lover? by felong(m): 8:06am On Jan 06
Nazgul:
I just decided to ask this question...I've seen people gift their admirers, iPhones, cars, even cash gifts of up to 5m.

So would you as a girl or guy reject an expensive gift from an admirer for cheap gift from your lover that comes from his/her heart?


Cc lalasticlala mynd44 Dominique
I will accept both.
Re: Would You Reject Expensive Gift From An Admirer For Cheap One From Your Lover? by istina: 8:12am On Jan 06
The one from whom you receive gift from is actually your lover. Either you accept it or not your heart is for the man from whom you receive the gift from

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Re: Would You Reject Expensive Gift From An Admirer For Cheap One From Your Lover? by felong(m): 8:14am On Jan 06
istina:
The one from whom you receive gift from is actually your lover. Either you accept it or not your heart is for the man from whom you receive the gift from
It doesn't work that way o, some girls date guys just for what they can get from them. They have a real lover behind the scene.

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Re: Would You Reject Expensive Gift From An Admirer For Cheap One From Your Lover? by JOACHINpedro: 8:15am On Jan 06
If you like being indebted for life then accept gift from girl you no love, unless it was mutual

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Re: Would You Reject Expensive Gift From An Admirer For Cheap One From Your Lover? by Ahmed0336(m): 8:27am On Jan 06
Thinkherbell:
If i love a man, I wouldn't look at any rich person twice. No matter how rich the person is.


You don't mean it !!!!


grin grin grin

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Re: Would You Reject Expensive Gift From An Admirer For Cheap One From Your Lover? by virginprincess(f): 8:27am On Jan 06
No matter how cheap the gift is, i will accept it wholehearted from my lover, before an admirer gives you something, know that he is after something, maybe dating or even your body, in this life nothing is free not even in free town.

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Re: Would You Reject Expensive Gift From An Admirer For Cheap One From Your Lover? by Thinkherbell(f): 8:30am On Jan 06
Ahmed0336:


You don't mean it !!!!


grin grin grin

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Re: Would You Reject Expensive Gift From An Admirer For Cheap One From Your Lover? by Kapeter(m): 8:33am On Jan 06
I hate gifts just as much as i hate receiving help. They are both ways of enslaving people. Anything i can't buy for myself or my family(dad, mum, brothers, sister) can't get me or help me with is never mine to be. Expensive or cheap. Keep it. If we eventually become mr and mrs, you can go ahead and buy me the world then. I want no problem and i'on joke with my freedom.

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Re: Would You Reject Expensive Gift From An Admirer For Cheap One From Your Lover? by Liposure: 8:35am On Jan 06
I only accept gifts with no strings attached

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Re: Would You Reject Expensive Gift From An Admirer For Cheap One From Your Lover? by samuel19222(m): 8:40am On Jan 06
if na naija girls u know the answer....
Re: Would You Reject Expensive Gift From An Admirer For Cheap One From Your Lover? by asdfjklhaha(f): 8:45am On Jan 06
Nazgul:
I just decided to ask this question...I've seen people gift their admirers, iPhones, cars, even cash gifts of up to 5m.

So would you as a girl or guy reject an expensive gift from an admirer for cheap gift from your lover that comes from his/her heart?


Cc lalasticlala mynd44 Dominique
Collectin gifts from admirers can ruin ur relationship, I remember sometime in 2018 I was still wit my ex, a guy in my church bought me a phone. I told him am in a relationship I cant accept it he said he is not interested in dating me that he doesnt like the phone am using, that I should accept it. I did an told my boyfriend then, he did not complain about it or ask me to return it, but that was the beginning of our break up, any little issue we hav he will say is because he doesn't have money to by me phone that's why I have started double dating. This is someone I told, I could easily have lied to him that an aunty or uncle bought it for me but I told him the truth, yet he started using it in every issue, after a while he told me to return the phone back to the guy, phone I hav used for more than 2 months, the problems was just too much I just had to personally end it so I can have peace of mind. But I learnt from it. Accepting gift from admirers can be risky cos it can ruin ur relationship especially if ur guy is the insecure type.

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Re: Would You Reject Expensive Gift From An Admirer For Cheap One From Your Lover? by felong(m): 9:10am On Jan 06
asdfjklhaha:

Collectin gifts from admirers can ruin ur relationship, I remember sometime in 2018 I was still wit my ex, a guy in my church bought me a phone. I told him am in a relationship I cant accept it he said he is not interested in dating me that he doesnt like the phone am using, that I should accept it. I did an told my boyfriend then, he did not complain about it or ask me to return it, but that was the beginning of our break up, any little issue we hav he will say is because he doesn't have money to by me phone that's why I have started double dating. This is someone I told, I could easily have lied to him that an aunty or uncle bought it for me but I told him the truth, yet he started using it in every issue, after a while he told me to return the phone back to the guy, phone I hav used for more than 2 months, the problems was just too much I just had to personally end it so I can have peace of mind. But I learnt from it. Accepting gift from admirers can be risky cos it can ruin ur relationship especially if ur guy is the insecure type.
Your boyfriend is very childish, that you are broke doesn't mean you should frown at your girlfriend when people try to show her care. Such guy will block your progress because of his selfish ego, it's a good thing you left him.

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Re: Would You Reject Expensive Gift From An Admirer For Cheap One From Your Lover? by asdfjklhaha(f): 9:19am On Jan 06
felong:

Your boyfriend is very childish, that you are broke doesn't mean you should frown at your girlfriend when people try to show her care. Such guy will block your progress because of his selfish ego, it's a good thing you left him.
Many guys are like that especially the broke ones, you will say with them, encourage them, support them, even lend them money you don't have, yet that will never be happy for you when good things come your way, they want. They see suffering as a way of proving to them that you love them. Even hanging out with anyone becomes a problem, honestly dating toxic guys is terrible. You can run mad with stress. Thank God I'm free.

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Re: Would You Reject Expensive Gift From An Admirer For Cheap One From Your Lover? by felong(m): 9:24am On Jan 06
asdfjklhaha:

Many guys are like that especially the broke ones, you will say with them, encourage them, support them, even lend them money you don't have, yet that will never be happy for you when good things come your way, they want. They see suffering as a way of proving to them that you love them. Even hanging out with anyone becomes a problem, honestly dating toxic guys is terrible. You can run mad with stress. Thank God I'm free.
My dear it has nothing to do with being broke it's just mentality. Even if a guy is broke, once his mentality and Ievel is high you will enjoy him. Many guys today still reason like our great grand parents forgetting that we are in the 21st century.

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Re: Would You Reject Expensive Gift From An Admirer For Cheap One From Your Lover? by asdfjklhaha(f): 9:31am On Jan 06
felong:

My dear it has nothing to do with being broke it's just mentality. Even if a guy is broke, once his mentality and Ievel is high you will enjoy him. Many guys today still reason like our great grand parents forgetting that we are in the 21st century.
You are right, guys need to step up their game and IQ level, am tired of dating over grown babies who complain at ever thing u do.

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Re: Would You Reject Expensive Gift From An Admirer For Cheap One From Your Lover? by felong(m): 9:32am On Jan 06
asdfjklhaha:

You are right, guys need to step up their game and IQ level, am tired of dating over grown babies who complain at ever thing u do.
Exactly cool
Nice profile pic by the way. cool
Re: Would You Reject Expensive Gift From An Admirer For Cheap One From Your Lover? by asdfjklhaha(f): 9:38am On Jan 06
felong:

Exactly cool
Nice profile pic by the way. cool
Lol... thanks
Re: Would You Reject Expensive Gift From An Admirer For Cheap One From Your Lover? by Nazgul: 10:09am On Jan 06
virginprincess:
No matter how cheap the gift is, i will accept it wholehearted from my lover, before an admirer gives you something, know that he is after something, maybe dating or even your body, in this life nothing is free not even in free town.
Well said.

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Re: Would You Reject Expensive Gift From An Admirer For Cheap One From Your Lover? by Nazgul: 10:09am On Jan 06
NextD18:
I don't like been gifted, because I will end up not using it.
Depends on the gift bro...if it's something you need, you'll definitely use it.

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Re: Would You Reject Expensive Gift From An Admirer For Cheap One From Your Lover? by kalu61(m): 10:13am On Jan 06
Kapeter:
I hate gifts just as much as i hate receiving help. They are both ways of enslaving people. Anything i can't buy for myself or my family(dad, mum, brothers, sister) can't get me or help me with is never mine to be. Expensive or cheap. Keep it. If we eventually become mr and mrs, you can go ahead and buy me the world then. I want no problem and i'on joke with my freedom.
My type of person. l like standing upright and l see gift as something that may stand against my principle.

I don do lovers but admirers yes, once you show your colour, l step you down.

I de pain girls ehh

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Re: Would You Reject Expensive Gift From An Admirer For Cheap One From Your Lover? by Magnoliaa(f): 10:44am On Jan 06
Why is it an "either/or" situation? Will receiving a gift from an admirer make me think less of the person I'm with or what?

Worth doesn't matter as much as its intention from my lover... Same for an admirer - just a slight difference. If it's TOO expensive, then I'm not taking it. It'll leave me feeling indebted. If it's not and the admirer gave of their will (I don't care for whatever motive), I WON'T feel indebted or be tricked into feeling so. You gave me the gift, and I'm going use and enjoy it freely till its last.

I can't put myself in a place where I'll constantly have to be checking if I'm hurting people with what I do or say or receive or give and...

Also, gifts can sometimes be expressions of friendliness and appreciation, etc. I don't attached much negativity and distrust to it.

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Re: Would You Reject Expensive Gift From An Admirer For Cheap One From Your Lover? by ODJ124(m): 12:41pm On Jan 06
Love is blind...




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Re: Would You Reject Expensive Gift From An Admirer For Cheap One From Your Lover? by money121(m): 12:41pm On Jan 06
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Re: Would You Reject Expensive Gift From An Admirer For Cheap One From Your Lover? by Godpikin4real(f): 12:41pm On Jan 06
An old friend of mine would tell me she doesn't reject gifts. Well, for me, if I like d admirer beta dan d lover boi, I'd simply accept.

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Re: Would You Reject Expensive Gift From An Admirer For Cheap One From Your Lover? by 9jayes: 12:41pm On Jan 06
Like rejecting a mansion in Banana Island for a bungalow in Urlu Imo state?, I dey crazy?

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Re: Would You Reject Expensive Gift From An Admirer For Cheap One From Your Lover? by rawtouch: 12:41pm On Jan 06
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