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SEVEN MEN YOU MUST AVOID AT ALL COST.

1. WICKED OPPORTUNISTS.

They prey on weak moments. They show up when you are in a bad shape. There is a weakness in almost every woman that makes them most vulnerable when they are in one kind of emotional issue or the other.

Generally women are like that. When you show a woman consistent unusual benevolence, especially when she is emotionally frustrated, she will try to look for a way to support you back and since a woman's body is her biggest treasure, she is tempted to use it. She may not offer it, but may not resist if you try.

Again, when a woman is emotionally frustrated, she begins to crave for a shoulder to lean on and this is part of what makes her vulnerable.

Wicked Opportunists take advantage of these unguarded moments and use and dump the women.


2. SEXUAL PREDATORS.

They ruthlessly exploit women. These are the kind of men that see women as trophies to be won rather hearts to be loved.
They act like predator wild animals-THEY CHASE and they are good chasers!

They do everything to get you and when they do get you, they have their fill and dump.
You need the Holy Ghost to escape these ones.

One common thing about women is the fact that they love to be chased. Even when they are married they want their man to maintain that initial energy. So these men get their preys, devour them and leave them bones and carcasses.


3. WOMEN BEATERS

'Woman Beaters' can apply to men who verbally, mentally or physically abuse women to make up for their own weaknesses and insecurities. They usually don't have much going in their lives and it makes them feel better to pick on women to make up for their failures__Urban Dictionary.

In our world today, there is a high increase in domestic violence.
Women are created to be loved and cherished not to be used as punching bags.
Listen, once a man lifts his hand and beats you for the first time, he may never stop.
To men there is always a first time but scarcely a last. If you find out he is a women beater, RUN!


4. INSECURE AND OVERLY JEALOUS MEN.

It is usually the insecurity about a man's position in your heart and life that fires up his jealousy.
But then, its becomes a big problem when jealousy turns to rage!
He wants to be your google map, hack your phone, set you up to see if you are faithful, always asks you who called etc.

They want to be your all in all, i.e your dad, mum, elder brother, teacher, pastor, they just want to play all the roles in your life. It is doubtlessly good to make efforts to keep your woman but you must also know that there are limits since she is an entity herself.


5. CHRONIC CHEATERS.

Let's get this straight, cheating is NEVER a mistake, its a choice. People know exactly what they are doing when they are flirting with the opposite sex.
I mean, look at all the processes involved in the action. You should forgive your partner if he/she cheats but quit when it becomes a lifestyle.

This guy confessed to me one day that he 'accidentally' cheated on his spouse and I asked him, "you mean you accidentally paid for hotel room, accidentally collected your balance, accidentally texted her the room number, accidentally removed her bra, accidentally removed her underwear?" And to the shock of my life he said "YES SIR" I told him "you are accidentally mad".

First is happenstance, second is coincidence, third is devil's action. Don't ever imagine that a chronic cheater will suddenly transform into a faithful husband because he is married to you. What a man is before the wedding day is what he is after the wedding day! Wedding does not change people, people make decisions to change.
So, until you see that change you hoped for, don't go that road as yet.


6. AKA GUM (STINGY MEN).

My dear sister, love is demonstrated not only in the other room (which you must avoid because its a sin) but also in the giving of gifts. Its understandable if he does not have the money but if he has it and cannot spend a dime on you without a fight, he is stingy, avoid him.

Ladies, avoid rich men who would prefer to take you to a traditional doctor than to fly you to London for child delivery, e get why.


7. COMMITMENT-PHOBIC MEN.

Please and please, STAY AWAY FROM THESE MEN! They just want to waste your precious God-given time for nothing. Stay, they will not stay. Go, they will not go.
They are just hanging there like a dry leaf in a rainy season.
He is never ready for commitment but he is always ready for the other room.

I have found out that men with commitment phobia are very sexually active and perhaps even promiscuous. In all your falling in love, never fall in love with a man with commitment phobia, it is nightmare.


BONUS:
EMOTIONALLY UNAVAILABLE MEN.

Truth is, some men can be strangely cold hearted. They treat you like their fellow man. Its no news that women generally are more emotional and men more rational. Women need attention.

A woman needs you to call her for no reason at all. Men must therefore learn how to be a bit more emotional and women a bit more rational. When a man is distant, does not ask you about yourself, does not call or text, is self centered, treats you poorly, it is either does not love you or he is cold hearted.

Getting involved with such a person who is emotionally unavailable can be so frustrating and often leads to heartbreak. You deserve a healthier and a happier relationship, stay away from them.

By Pastor Douglas Jonathan

Follow on Fbk https://www.facebook.com/pstdouglasjonathan/

and IG @douglasthesongwriter

For more

Some people no go like dx post...(adjusts my glasses)

PureGoldh:
Some people no go like dx post...(adjusts my glasses)

I swear my brother

Pastor Douglas Jonathan?? Does he pastor at Rhythm 5 church, MOUAU, Umudike, Umuahia??

And gays too

JustWinniefred:
Pastor Douglas Jonathan?? Does he pastor at Rhythm 5 church, MOUAU, Umudike, Umuahia??

Lolz yes you know him?

Got this from his page! I love that guy!

Braintrain:
And gays too

Hahahahhahaha no start wetin you no fit finish o

Alright

all parts of love

All the men you listed are coming to attack you.

Mstick:
All the men you listed are coming to attack you.

I'm so waiting for them hahahhaha

Women don't even know what they really want

PasD:
Lolz yes you know him?

Got this from his page! I love that guy!

Yup, I know him, did u attend MOUAU??

Dannieln1:
Women don't even know what they really want

Some do actually!

JustWinniefred:
Yup, I know him, did u attend MOUAU??

Yes I do...use to attend at multipurpose hall...

Yes
We’re not complete.
We still have our dark side
Some women still love their man like that lol

PasD:
Some do actually!

Bro they don't

PasD:
Yes I do...use to attend at multipurpose hall...

Alright

PasD:
SEVEN MEN YOU MUST AVOID AT ALL COST.

1. WICKED OPPORTUNISTS.

They prey on weak moments. They show up when you are in a bad shape. There is a weakness in almost every woman that makes them most vulnerable when they are in one kind of emotional issue or the other.

Generally women are like that. When you show a woman consistent unusual benevolence, especially when she is emotionally frustrated, she will try to look for a way to support you back and since a woman's body is her biggest treasure, she is tempted to use it. She may not offer it, but may not resist if you try.

Again, when a woman is emotionally frustrated, she begins to crave for a shoulder to lean on and this is part of what makes her vulnerable.

Wicked Opportunists take advantage of these unguarded moments and use and dump the women.


2. SEXUAL PREDATORS.

They ruthlessly exploit women. These are the kind of men that see women as trophies to be won rather hearts to be loved.
They act like predator wild animals-THEY CHASE and they are good chasers!

They do everything to get you and when they do get you, they have their fill and dump.
You need the Holy Ghost to escape these ones.

One common thing about women is the fact that they love to be chased. Even when they are married they want their man to maintain that initial energy. So these men get their preys, devour them and leave them bones and carcasses.


3. WOMEN BEATERS

'Woman Beaters' can apply to men who verbally, mentally or physically abuse women to make up for their own weaknesses and insecurities. They usually don't have much going in their lives and it makes them feel better to pick on women to make up for their failures__Urban Dictionary.

In our world today, there is a high increase in domestic violence.
Women are created to be loved and cherished not to be used as punching bags.
Listen, once a man lifts his hand and beats you for the first time, he may never stop.
To men there is always a first time but scarcely a last. If you find out he is a women beater, RUN!


4. INSECURE AND OVERLY JEALOUS MEN.

It is usually the insecurity about a man's position in your heart and life that fires up his jealousy.
But then, its becomes a big problem when jealousy turns to rage!
He wants to be your google map, hack your phone, set you up to see if you are faithful, always asks you who called etc.

They want to be your all in all, i.e your dad, mum, elder brother, teacher, pastor, they just want to play all the roles in your life. It is doubtlessly good to make efforts to keep your woman but you must also know that there are limits since she is an entity herself.


5. CHRONIC CHEATERS.

Let's get this straight, cheating is NEVER a mistake, its a choice. People know exactly what they are doing when they are flirting with the opposite sex.
I mean, look at all the processes involved in the action. You should forgive your partner if he/she cheats but quit when it becomes a lifestyle.

This guy confessed to me one day that he 'accidentally' cheated on his spouse and I asked him, "you mean you accidentally paid for hotel room, accidentally collected your balance, accidentally texted her the room number, accidentally removed her bra, accidentally removed her underwear?" And to the shock of my life he said "YES SIR" I told him "you are accidentally mad".

First is happenstance, second is coincidence, third is devil's action. Don't ever imagine that a chronic cheater will suddenly transform into a faithful husband because he is married to you. What a man is before the wedding day is what he is after the wedding day! Wedding does not change people, people make decisions to change.
So, until you see that change you hoped for, don't go that road as yet.


6. AKA GUM (STINGY MEN).

My dear sister, love is demonstrated not only in the other room (which you must avoid because its a sin) but also in the giving of gifts. Its understandable if he does not have the money but if he has it and cannot spend a dime on you without a fight, he is stingy, avoid him.

Ladies, avoid rich men who would prefer to take you to a traditional doctor than to fly you to London for child delivery, e get why.


7. COMMITMENT-PHOBIC MEN.

Please and please, STAY AWAY FROM THESE MEN! They just want to waste your precious God-given time for nothing. Stay, they will not stay. Go, they will not go.
They are just hanging there like a dry leaf in a rainy season.
He is never ready for commitment but he is always ready for the other room.

I have found out that men with commitment phobia are very sexually active and perhaps even promiscuous. In all your falling in love, never fall in love with a man with commitment phobia, it is nightmare.


BONUS:
EMOTIONALLY UNAVAILABLE MEN.

Truth is, some men can be strangely cold hearted. They treat you like their fellow man. Its no news that women generally are more emotional and men more rational. Women need attention.

A woman needs you to call her for no reason at all. Men must therefore learn how to be a bit more emotional and women a bit more rational. When a man is distant, does not ask you about yourself, does not call or text, is self centered, treats you poorly, it is either does not love you or he is cold hearted.

Getting involved with such a person who is emotionally unavailable can be so frustrating and often leads to heartbreak. You deserve a healthier and a happier relationship, stay away from them.

By Pastor Douglas Jonathan

Follow on Fbk https://www.facebook.com/pstdouglasjonathan/

and IG @douglasthesongwriter

For more

Good but let ma add, this relationship or love thing is like a table tennis game. If you serve and the other don't play same, it's a waste of time.

This analogy applies to all your points.

If you think it has to be one person pushing for what both of you want, you'll be taken for granted in the future.

So pastor Jona, same point applies to bother men and women

duality:
Good but let ma add, this relationship or love thing is like a table tennis game. If you serve and the other don't play same, it's a waste of time.

This analogy applies to all your points.

If you think it has to be one person pushing for what both of you want, you'll be taken for granted in the future.

So pastor Jona, same point applies to bother men and women

There is definitely the women version which is on the Fbk page. But your point is strong tho. Kudos!

All these endless lists

I see nothing wrong with being a sexual predator.
Not all sexual predators dump after conquering.

Truth is...
some women are too sweet, sexy and fine to be just dumped like that.
You just want more, and more and more, you end up being an addict!

Every man needs that bit of sexual predator in him to make the relationship exciting.

Most women hate boring and dull men in the other room.
Fantasise and bring it to reality...

I say YES to sexual predators!

Kingsteve:
I see nothing wrong with being a sexual predator.
Not all sexual predators dump after conquering.

Truth is...
some women are too sweet, sexy and fine to be just dumped like that.
You just want more, and more and more, you end up being an addict!

Every man needs that bit of sexual predator in him to make the relationship exciting.

Most women hate boring and dull men in the other room.
Fantasise and bring it to reality...

I say YES to sexual predators!

Lolzzzzzz this made me laugh so much! Your opinion tho

PasD:
SEVEN MEN YOU MUST AVOID AT ALL COST.

1. WICKED OPPORTUNISTS.

They prey on weak moments. They show up when you are in a bad shape. There is a weakness in almost every woman that makes them most vulnerable when they are in one kind of emotional issue or the other.

Generally women are like that. When you show a woman consistent unusual benevolence, especially when she is emotionally frustrated, she will try to look for a way to support you back and since a woman's body is her biggest treasure, she is tempted to use it. She may not offer it, but may not resist if you try.

Again, when a woman is emotionally frustrated, she begins to crave for a shoulder to lean on and this is part of what makes her vulnerable.

Wicked Opportunists take advantage of these unguarded moments and use and dump the women.


2. SEXUAL PREDATORS.

They ruthlessly exploit women. These are the kind of men that see women as trophies to be won rather hearts to be loved.
They act like predator wild animals-THEY CHASE and they are good chasers!

They do everything to get you and when they do get you, they have their fill and dump.
You need the Holy Ghost to escape these ones.

One common thing about women is the fact that they love to be chased. Even when they are married they want their man to maintain that initial energy. So these men get their preys, devour them and leave them bones and carcasses.


3. WOMEN BEATERS

'Woman Beaters' can apply to men who verbally, mentally or physically abuse women to make up for their own weaknesses and insecurities. They usually don't have much going in their lives and it makes them feel better to pick on women to make up for their failures__Urban Dictionary.

In our world today, there is a high increase in domestic violence.
Women are created to be loved and cherished not to be used as punching bags.
Listen, once a man lifts his hand and beats you for the first time, he may never stop.
To men there is always a first time but scarcely a last. If you find out he is a women beater, RUN!


4. INSECURE AND OVERLY JEALOUS MEN.

It is usually the insecurity about a man's position in your heart and life that fires up his jealousy.
But then, its becomes a big problem when jealousy turns to rage!
He wants to be your google map, hack your phone, set you up to see if you are faithful, always asks you who called etc.

They want to be your all in all, i.e your dad, mum, elder brother, teacher, pastor, they just want to play all the roles in your life. It is doubtlessly good to make efforts to keep your woman but you must also know that there are limits since she is an entity herself.


5. CHRONIC CHEATERS.

Let's get this straight, cheating is NEVER a mistake, its a choice. People know exactly what they are doing when they are flirting with the opposite sex.
I mean, look at all the processes involved in the action. You should forgive your partner if he/she cheats but quit when it becomes a lifestyle.

This guy confessed to me one day that he 'accidentally' cheated on his spouse and I asked him, "you mean you accidentally paid for hotel room, accidentally collected your balance, accidentally texted her the room number, accidentally removed her bra, accidentally removed her underwear?" And to the shock of my life he said "YES SIR" I told him "you are accidentally mad".

First is happenstance, second is coincidence, third is devil's action. Don't ever imagine that a chronic cheater will suddenly transform into a faithful husband because he is married to you. What a man is before the wedding day is what he is after the wedding day! Wedding does not change people, people make decisions to change.
So, until you see that change you hoped for, don't go that road as yet.


6. AKA GUM (STINGY MEN).

My dear sister, love is demonstrated not only in the other room (which you must avoid because its a sin) but also in the giving of gifts. Its understandable if he does not have the money but if he has it and cannot spend a dime on you without a fight, he is stingy, avoid him.

Ladies, avoid rich men who would prefer to take you to a traditional doctor than to fly you to London for child delivery, e get why.


7. COMMITMENT-PHOBIC MEN.

Please and please, STAY AWAY FROM THESE MEN! They just want to waste your precious God-given time for nothing. Stay, they will not stay. Go, they will not go.
They are just hanging there like a dry leaf in a rainy season.
He is never ready for commitment but he is always ready for the other room.

I have found out that men with commitment phobia are very sexually active and perhaps even promiscuous. In all your falling in love, never fall in love with a man with commitment phobia, it is nightmare.


BONUS:
EMOTIONALLY UNAVAILABLE MEN.

Truth is, some men can be strangely cold hearted. They treat you like their fellow man. Its no news that women generally are more emotional and men more rational. Women need attention.

A woman needs you to call her for no reason at all. Men must therefore learn how to be a bit more emotional and women a bit more rational. When a man is distant, does not ask you about yourself, does not call or text, is self centered, treats you poorly, it is either does not love you or he is cold hearted.

Getting involved with such a person who is emotionally unavailable can be so frustrating and often leads to heartbreak. You deserve a healthier and a happier relationship, stay away from them.

By Pastor Douglas Jonathan

Follow on Fbk https://www.facebook.com/pstdouglasjonathan/

and IG @douglasthesongwriter

For more

Very nice

No fool should quote that epistle above

PasD:
6. AKA GUM (STINGY MEN).

My dear sister, love is demonstrated not only in the other room (which you must avoid because its a sin) but also in the giving of gifts. Its understandable if he does not have the money but if he has it and cannot spend a dime on you without a fight, he is stingy, avoid him.

So ladies should avoid guys sexual demand because it's a sin right!...But it ain't sin when guys showers them gifts right? Kwantinu

ennon92:
No fool should quote that epistle above

The post is a masterpiece shebi?

Then all you have left is 80% of ladies chasing after 5% of guys.

ennon92:
So ladies should avoid guys sexual demand because it's a sin right!...But it ain't sin when guys showers them gifts

Yes that's my point exactly

ednut1:
Then all you have left is 80% of ladies chasing after 5% of guys.

Survival of the wisest and smartest...

PasD:
Survival of the wisest and smartest...

they then start using diabolical means and husband snatching

Going by this list, no girl is getting married. Cos I don't know of any guy that doesn't belong to at least one of those groups.

Three things a Nigerian girl looks out for in a potential husband

1. A good height
2. A good fvcker
3. A good spender

Every other thing is irrelevant.

Woman never do that pastor something na why.