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bukatyne:
Kun84, crackkhaus

I am not bukkatyne.

General Public Announcement.

Thank you.

I suspected.

She is the one - FountainofLittlelois.

The girl is obsessed, completely not okay

crackkhaus:
@Sassysure, the biglittlelois/fountainofyouth does not like you too oo.. She told me herself, just like she told me about Bukatyne.
Why you go dey quote me with kisses and why we go dey joke with each other...that's her problem with you.

No let am deceive you by forming friendship here.

Very obsessive chic and messed up girl with plenty insecurity issues.

But, I'm never bothered by all these na
But come o, you like that chick, talk true.
Una go they use our head here.
Na so coogar and babè use every body head here until the bubble burst
I still dey here for now, no leave no transfer.
We will see the end of this
I don't trust u guys at all.

Kuns84:
Nope.

I said what I said and it's facts

Please na
Even my oga for don change mind.

sassysure:
But, I'm never bothered by all these na
But come o, you like that chick, talk true.
Una go they use our head here.
Na so coogar and babè use every body head here until the bubble burst
I still dey here for now, no leave no transfer.
We will see the end of this
I don't trust u guys at all.

Like ke, fire...

Didn't you see the screenshots of past mentions when she dey force her pathetic love on who no send her?

Yes we could have been friends, but the moment we got talking - I could sense a psycho with many disorders, no kidding.. and when i just couldn't be bothered checking up or calling anymore, aunty decided to take out her anger against me here on NL.

I'm always on my own when most of these things start...but when I begin to shoot bullets I become the bad guy.

cococandy:
1. The wife can analyze what went wrong first. That’s sensible. However, what went wrong may not be explainable in a simple language that either of them understand. Their life might just be going well as it had always been from the beginning yet one of them will become a drunk and a cheat. Life is more complex than Nairaland back and forth posts.

2. It doesn’t mean that she did it, as was implied by your first post asking what she did to turn him into a drunk and a cheat.

3. I thought we agreed on personal responsibility.
The same way married women are supposed to be responsible for their actions and choices and the consequences thereof , so should their men.

1. There must be something wrong for a sane husband to go insane. For every action, there is equal and opposite reaction. It is to decipher if it is an action or reaction and deal accordingly. The wife might analyse, give him time to change and even separate as a message to the husband.

2. It is not necessarily the wife's 'fault'. It can be a new stuff he picked up to 'belong' or whatever.

3. Of course, the men are responsible for their actions, reactions and would deal with the consequences. Just how I think XYZ saying they cheated because their spouse did is crap.

For all it's worth, I was responding to this after I responded to Mr. 'Sir' before I switched to mobile on my other moniker and the thread degenerated.

crackkhaus:
Like fire...

Didn't you see the screenshots of past mentions when she dey force her pathetic love on who no send her?

Yes we could have been friends, but the moment we got talking - I could sense a psycho with many disorders, no kidding.. and when i just couldn't be bothered checking up or calling anymore, aunty decided to take out her anger against me here on NL.

I'm always on my own when most of these chics start, but when I begin dey shoot bullets I'm the bad guy.

Cos u are a baaaaad bad wolf indeed .
Repent.

crackkhaus:
@Sassysure, the biglittlelois/fountainofyouth does not like you too oo.. She told me herself, just like she told me about Bukatyne.
Why do you always quote me with kisses and why do we joke with each other... that's her problem with you.

No let am deceive you by forming friendship here.

Very obsessive chic and messed up girl with plenty insecurity issues.

.

crackkhaus:
@Sassysure, the biglittlelois/fountainofyouth does not like you too oo.. She told me herself, just like she told me about Bukatyne.
Why do you always quote me with kisses and why do we joke with each other... that's her problem with you.

No let am deceive you by forming friendship here.

Very obsessive chic and messed up girl with plenty insecurity issues.

Wait, let me get this right, a lady told you somethings privately but you decided to bring it here because you don't agree anymore ?


Interesting.

Ariza:
[s]Wait, let me get this right, a lady told you somethings privately but you decided to bring it here because you don't agree anymore ?


Interesting.[/s]

Please fvck off all the way to one of Jupiter's moons.

The lady you're trying to defend started this and I had ignored her long enough.
If you don't know the beginning, mind your bizniz and keep watching.

Don't come up on me and try to make her the victim.

crackkhaus:
Please fvck off all the way to one of Jupiter's moons.

The lady you're trying to defend started this and I had ignored her long enough.
If you don't know the beginning, mind your bizniz and keep watching.

Don't come up on me and try to make her the victim.

How old are you?

Magnoliaa:
By saying a teen forced into child marriage is emotionally intelligent. You can Google the adverse effects of such marriages on the emotional wellbeing of a child. It stunts their education and development.

You compared that to and say it's greatly better than women having choices.



So are those young girls in the North emotionally intelligent?



I was referring to the olden days(which I thought you were making reference to). Family life was simple and so, their marriages. Some were 'successful' (and longer) according to their terms.

The majority of child marriages aren't successful, they don't have to end in divorce.

And in present times, even younger people divorce more than older people. https://www.wf-lawyers.com/divorce-statistics-and-facts/
There's a lot of extensive studies you'll have to dig through... This is just one. I'll share some screenshots below.



How are you so sure SHE did something/contributed to his decline? If you'd asked what happened originally, that would have been balanced.



The man is a cheat and a drunkard, and you blamed the woman for what she did to turn him that way. I'm saying what if she'd tried to get him help? What if she'd tried to find ways to deal with his infidelity?



I understand. I choose whatever man I want (based on what he does/how he is). I can choose to continue being with same man no matter how he acts, that's me accepting the 'consequences' of my choice, but there's no where am I making that man be who he is. He's what he is independent of me, and I choose to be with him. I may influence or inspire him and all that, but he's solely responsible for his actions.



Well, you posted on a forum with diverse people having different mentalities...

Pardon me, I am tired of going back and forth.

I have in no way made light of teens who were forced into marriage. I have however been privileged to interact with a few and they made good their lives with sometimes tough choices and no whinning.

Everybody (male & female) is responsible for their choices, actions, reactions and should be willing to face the consequences of each one.

When people of different mentalities see my posts, I expect them to jump and pass.

I don't go to Islamic section and start talking against polygamy, it would be foolish of me.

bukatyne2:
1. There must be something wrong for a sane husband to go insane. For every action, there is equal and opposite reaction. It is to decipher if it is an action or reaction and deal accordingly. The wife might analyse, give him time to change and even separate as a message to the husband.

2. It is not necessarily the wife's 'fault'. It can be a new stuff he picked up to 'belong' or whatever.

3. Of course, the men are responsible for their actions, reactions and would deal with the consequences. Just how I think XYZ saying they cheated because their spouse did is crap.

For all it's worth, I was responding to this after I responded to Mr. 'Sir' before I switched to mobile on my other moniker and the thread degenerated.

I figured.

sassysure:
Cos u are a baaaaad bad wolf indeed .
Repent.

They don't know...

Vin Diesel in Fast8 said, "the problem with putting your foot on a Tiger's neck, is you can never let it up..."

Sleeping Tiger

Kuns84:
You dey mind am?

Ariza is a known beg-friend of that pathetic crew she's desperately trying to defend. I've watched her insert herself foolishly to their mess and then when she gets insulted in return, none of 'them' jump to her defense

She's as pathetic as they come.

I don't even know her or care to know her.

I think this is the second or third time she's quoting me on this here forum and it's always with something silly.

Kuns84:
You dey mind am?

Ari za is a known beg-friend of that pathetic crew she's desperately trying to defend. I've watched her insert herself foolishly to their mess and then when she gets insulted in return, none of 'them' jump to her defense

She's as pathetic as they come.

Ermmmmmm supporting stricker, attache, wannabe, the guy who is never good enough to stand alone. You really see everyone the way you are, don't you?

You watched enough but you are too dumb to realize that I'm not a regular visitor here to make your assumptions true. Just take several seats backward because unlike others I won't give you the attention you need to make yourself feel important here. Okay?

My last response to you here.

crackkhaus:
They don't know...

Vin Diesel in Fast8 said, "the problem with putting your foot on a Tiger's neck, is you can never let it up..."

Sleeping Tiger

So u watch that thing?
They no allow me hear here o.
That man wey dey pump himself with steroid.
Yesterday, I was forced to watch transformer. Some of the cars are here. Of all the things I use my precious money to buy it's transformer toys.

Hey guys, before una continue
Samsung is giving out free phone Samsung s10 to people all over the world to celebrate their 80th anniversary
Google how to enter and if u meet the criteria, there u go.
Go to official Samsung Africa. U may get the info.

Someone maybe lucky.
As long as u have verifiable and traceable address

crackkhaus:
Like ke, fire...

Didn't you see the screenshots of past mentions when she dey force her pathetic love on who no send her?

Yes we could have been friends, but the moment we got talking - I could sense a psycho with many disorders, no kidding.. and when i just couldn't be bothered checking up or calling anymore, aunty decided to take out her anger against me here on NL.

I'm always on my own when most of these things start...but when I begin to shoot bullets I become the bad guy.

Bad guy she fat come ugly abi?

All of you will be alright Las Las

ModelX:
Bad guy she fat come ugly abi?

Lol

sassysure:
So u watch that thing?
They no allow me hear here o.
That man wey dey pump himself with steroid.
Yesterday, I was forced to watch transformer. Some of the cars are here. Of all the things I use my precious money to buy it's transformer toys.

Lol, I've seen all Fast & Furious movies including the spin-off, Hobbs & Shaw.
Also seen all of the Transformers movies including the spin-off, Bumblebee.

Kids love Transformer toys, no try yourself oo.
My little cousin, nephew, and god-daughter, they don't joke with them.

What kind of movies are you into?

Kuns84:
Lmaoo!

See her pathetic rant above. E pain am

Very normal and expected.

Such disgusting nonsense

Magnoliaa:
bring it

Quite unfortunate you can't see it.

Biglittlelois:
Submission will never automatically happen because you married a woman, especially when the man is irresponsible and undeserving of it,

You guys always like to preach what suits you while ignoring the first part of that verse in the bible which says "husband, love your wife" then said "wife submit to your husband" after, if you want total submission from your wife, you have to love her first, completely, and wholeheartedly, when you do this, submission will happen effortlessly, that is how to achieve a happy marriage, the bible is complete.

Which husband do you think, that does not love his wife at first?
submission is the basic foundation in which the lady need to wins a man's heart.

Madam, there are ladies that even if you possess all characteristics mentioned and even more will take you for granted and try to control you and also tag you as being weak and still disrespect you I am talking from experience, in conclusion a man that will love will do so, a woman that will submit, nag and disrespect will do likewise it's about individual character

Rozz:
Hard work and the fear of God is what I will look out for,once a person posses these two qualities you will hardly find the person wanting in other areas.But these are qualities you can hardly find in men of these days.If I have my way,i would have love to marry very early so that before 30 I will be done having my kids but you read stories everyday about marriages that are not encouraging, even the ones you thought are having it good start telling you stories on getting closer to them,you can see comments from men here trying to justify cheating and want the women to accept it,its not fair .Just very few women are lucky and I want to be among the few ones.Thanks MA.