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No need to bore you guys with long epistles I just need your advice.
My girlfriends attitude just change recently at first she was all loving and receptive she allow me kiss her cuddle her and she loves the intimacy and sex was good but all of a sudden she no longer lets me touch her .even to hold her hands she will resist no longer receptive to intimacy.i was a bit worried at first so I just prepared my mind for the worst I knew this were signs she no longer loves me I am a very realistic person so I wanted to quit the relationship since I had other options outside.

Few weeks before the lockdown she stopped visiting me this is a lady that sees me everyday before going home from school .she started going home all of a sudden without seeing me I asked her why she always used her work as excuse, she will promise me she will come visit me but later fail to show up without even calling me so I called her and told her not to bother coming again that I don't want to look like a burden to her immediately that day she showed up in the evening probably because she was afraid I want to stylishly dump her.

The lockdown has began she barely calls me or chats me up first i asked her to be sincere with me that it's normal if she has another guy or if she no longer loves she said she still loves me dearly and wants to be with me for life that she doesn't have another guy in her life but her actions speaks otherwise leaving me confused i have gotten tired and I want to break up with her but my conscience keeps pulling me back I feel maybe I don't understand her yet since our relationship is just two months old or am I wrong maybe I should move on.

Oga free that girl....Nobody should beg for love or attention.

No, don't quit. Its one of those phases she would gradually adjust.
Spend more time with her, buy her stuffs(IPhone 11 preferably), treat her like a princess take her to expensive places and spoil her like your Queen.
Give her more money for upkeep.

Goodluck.

zerateck:
No, don't quit. Its one of those phases she would gradually adjust.
Spend more time with her, buy her stuffs(IPhone 11 preferably), treat her like a princess take her to expensive places and spoil her like your Queen.
Give her more money for upkeep.

Goodluck.

Hmmm

You are a mumu man!!

Admissionclass:
No need to bore you guys with long epistles I just need your advice.
My girlfriends attitude just change recently at first she was all loving and receptive she allow me kiss her cuddle her and she loves the intimacy and sex was good but all of a sudden she no longer lets me touch her .even to hold her hands she will resist no longer receptive to intimacy.i was a bit worried at first so I just prepared my mind for the worst I knew this were signs she no longer loves me I am a very realistic person so I wanted to quit the relationship since I had other options outside.

Few weeks before the lockdown she stopped visiting me this is a lady that sees me everyday before going home from school .she started going home all of a sudden without seeing me I asked her why she always used her work as excuse, she will promise me she will come visit me but later fail to show up without even calling me so I called her and told her not to bother coming again that I don't want to look like a burden to her immediately that day she showed up in the evening probably because she was afraid I want to stylishly dump her.

The lockdown has began she barely calls me or chats me up first i asked her to be sincere with me that it's normal if she has another guy or if she no longer loves she said she still loves me dearly and wants to be with me for life that she doesn't have another guy in her life but her actions speaks otherwise leaving me confused i have gotten tired and I want to break up with her but my conscience keeps pulling me back I feel maybe I don't understand her yet since our relationship is just two months old or am I wrong maybe I should move on.

SOMETHING is very wrong with you.

you are one of those who unfortunately entered relationship with a UNREALISTIC expectations.

how INSENSITIVE of you, is it ALL ABOUT YOU? DO you know if she is scared you will leave her? or scared of pregnancy? or her mind is on something else? EVERYTHING you are writing is all about pleasing YOU, YOU, YOU.... Oga o... bros calm down and grow up.

WELCOME TO MARRIAGE LIFE 101... a lady who will be 24hrs 7 days a week, 365 days a year HAPPY and excited is cheating or hiding alot. Let that fact sink into your head.

WHY DATE HER IF YOU WOULD NOT BE THERE IN HER GLOOMY TIMES when the romance gets boring? Are you paying her to ACT or you are LOVING HER THROUGH HER MOOD SWINGS.

So little change you are already RETHINKING your options of her... choi... the BITTER TRUTH IS.... YOU NEVER LOVED HER. LOve is not something you can just choose to PICK and DROP easily. Love is not known during sex or kisses.. its proven when the chips are down. Stop being like this indomie generation that want everything to happen INSTANTLY and NON-STOP SWEETNESS.... this is the real world NOT nollywood.

Bros WHAT MEANING ARE YOU CONTRIBUTING TO HER LIFE apart from your deek? even if you give her some cash? what other void her you filling in her life.... cos you may be dating her BODY but if she can not open up freely to you, then YOU DO NOT KNOW HER SOUL.

The big mistake is you got to know her body first without contributing anything to her soul such that if she is having a mood swing or a secret issue, she would run to you first... YOU PROBABLY are not in it for the LONG HAUL.... FOR THE GOOD AND BAD TIMES.

THE good news is, you can start afresh today... just be her FRIEND.. someone she is free to tell anything to even things that may hurt both of you cos she feels safe with you, and you will discover more about her. Stay strong bro.

she suddenly changed, so unless she can tell you WHY EXACTLY she doesnt want to cuddle, hold hands any longer, then she is playing you. the least she can do is to be fully honest with you about whats going on...and if she is not willing to do that then you have no business being with this lady.

One question: how old is she?

she's tired because she has been giving you free "chops" expecting you to go see her father and pay for what you have been eating but you have refused understand,that babe dey try,performing bedroom duties without payment(bride price) to her father. Op,you are the one owing her,clear your debt and stop fornicating