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I usually wonder why most relationships collapsed but I've discovered why. It's because most compare their relationship with others.
In fact comparing yourself with your mate will lead you to early grave. Haa my mate has done his/her concert Olorin Agbaye lo wa sibe, I must do mine they must gbaa, my mates is this my mate is that, you will just die on untimely. See your time is different from that of your friends, relatives, colleagues, neighbor e.t.c. just wait for yours. Get wisdom and in all thy getting get understanding.
The fact that your fiancée is not spending money on you now does not mean he won't make it. Forget about I need a lovely gown, high-heel, Brazilian hair, Gucci bag, iPhone 7 and all that. Reason with him. Plan your future together. Pray together and lots more.
Now to married couples...don't kill your husband because your neighbor's husband is riding the latest car. Your neighbor's husband time is different from yours. Give him peace of him. It is when he have peace of him that he will think straight. A settled mind is a settled destiny.
Wazzuppi youths....have a cordial relationship with your parents, listen to them. They are your small gods. After God, they are next in command.
Lastly, if you don't have peace of mind you might not be fulfilled. Relax your mind. Leave what you can't handle for God. Let's His will be done. It is when you stay in His will that He will pay your bill.
I challenge you to stop comparing yourself with others.
Stop comparing your marriage with others, there's no perfect marriage anywhere. We go dey manage ourselves dey go.
Stop comparing your work with others. Your mission is different.................MAYG
ODHEALTHEWORLD

Is there ever a moment when comparison is good?

Humanoid01:
Is there ever a moment when comparison is good?

No comparison does and makes one less of the other it is never good to compare

With the rate at which people are dying...we are all blessed to be alive and healthy.

#blessup

.....compare a bird with a fish, then blames the fish because of it's inability to fly while forgetting the bird will never swim. My man, live and let live.