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Dear Men oo,

Have you ever wondered why sleep mode has been activated on your "SHOTS”, whenever you slide into a lady's Dm ?

Have you ever felt what the hell does she feel like?

Have you ever judged her arrogant, because she never replied you?

Now, you should read this.

Before you slide into anyone's "Dm" or shoot your shots, there's need for "clarity".
I mean, why do I want to chat her up?.
Trust me, this will help you intiate a healthy conservation.

How do you expect a lady whom, you have never spoken to reply you, when all you have been sending is "Hi, Ov far, Sup, Xup etc?". And the funniest part is, you have chosen to be the father of Hiiiiiiii.

No doubt, Courtesy demands a "Hi or Hello" for a chat after which you shoot your shots.
Example,

Hi Kendra,

"Trust you're doing great this morning.
I checked your profile, and I must say,
you'll make a good friend.
Do have a pleasant day".

I'm sure a "reasonable" lady, regardless her busy schedule, will find time to reply you.

A Week Later

Hello friend,

Trust you had a splendid weekend?
How's is life generally?....

No lady will ignore anyone who slides into her "Dm" in this reasonable order.

In some cases, after the first chat, the lady might have gone to check your profile, and she likes the personality your wall portrays, She's already looking forward to chat with you again. You have gotten her attention already.

So, when next she sees your message, she replies immediately.

Friendship is the basis for any form of relationship. It takes a process. Let the lady at least trust you, to an extent. At the long run, she will be the one using "endearing" words for you.

Why? Because she's getting use to you already.

Some of these lady's have a lot on their minds and are so intentional in the pursuit of their careers amidst other things and wouldn't have the time to spare for "mushy" chats.

I have had someone ask me have you eaten? And I asked her, do you intend sending me food ? And the next thing she blocked me. Who cares?

Dear men, How do you feel when your "ex" bugs you so much. Even when you've made it known it's over?.

Just so you know, that's the same way a lady feels when you become a "pest" with absolutely nothing to offer!

Some of you even tag any lady who refuses to reply your mushy chat "arrogant, rude" and you conclude that's the reason why she's still single in her late 30's.

You say she's being selective while she was much younger. That she has lost her prospective spouse and has "slim" chances of getting none.

Like are you serious?

So, all because a lady has decided to live by the knowledge of who she is, and not by the standard of none other?

To my Amiable 30's,

Being in your 30's isn't a crime whatsoever, it doesn't give slim chances of settling for less.

Gracias !

Nice write up.

some guys wil send a chat message to a girl thus like this...ow far or hi
na maybe an hour later the girl go reply and during those 60 minutes they still be hooked on their phone waiting for her reply

Why do I have a feeling that this write-up was composed by one midnight Newspaper.

Anyways, The write up is good

SangoOlukosoOba:
Why do I have a feeling that this write-up was composed by one midnight Newspaper.

Anyways, The write up is good

I am even thinking of sending sango to you for having for having a bad feelings of what you aint sure of sir.
just playing around...thanks sir

realokopi:
Nice write up.

thanks sire

You made sense. Women don't want to feel like they are being interrogated. Some guys will just slide into a lady's DM and start asking her "jamb questions".

But the truth is, there are some ladies that will still snub you no matter how smooth you think you are.

The only time a lady wouldn't snub a guy was if he requested for her account number.

lefulefu:
some guys wil send a chat message to a girl thus like this...ow far or hi
na maybe an hour later the girl go reply and during those 60 minutes they still be hooked on their phone waiting for her reply

shebi some will even reply you in an hour time...some will not even reply you at all or they will block or unfriend you immediately
no mind boda wey mumu


you are doing good sir

Useless User Guide Manual for fvck girls that won't add any financial etc values but rather erode precious values from your life.
Thread sounds more like "HOW TO SUCCESSFULLY WORK INTO A NAIJA GIRL'S LIFE WRECKING TRAP" to me.

NockMedia:
You made sense. Women don't want to feel like they are being interrogated. Some guys will just slide into a lady's DM and start asking her "jamb questions".

But the truth is, there are some ladies that will still snub you no matter how smooth you think you are.

The only time a lady wouldn't snub a guy is if he requested for her account number.

like this is another topic o, some wont reply immediately, they will go over to view the guy's timeline or picture.

you are doing well sir

balosammy:
no mind boda wey mumu

fulaniHERDSman:

Useless User Guide Manual for fvck girls that won't add any financial etc values but rather erode precious values from your life.
Thread sounds more like "HOW TO SUCCESSFULLY WORK INTO A NAIJA GIRL'S LIFE WRECKING TRAP" to me.

i tire ..who has that time to be following manual on how to chat to a girl ..i guess its the jobless men who would be reading such a manual to heart on how to chat up a girl

fulaniHERDSman:

Useless User Guide Manual for fvck girls that won't add any financial etc values but rather erode precious values from your life.
Thread sounds more like "HOW TO SUCCESSFULLY WORK INTO A NAIJA GIRL'S LIFE WRECKING TRAP" to me.

[i][/i]you dont have to chat up all those wrecked life naija girls, look for the ones that can add value to your life and probably bring connections that will help you in one way or the other.

NockMedia:
You made sense. Women don't want to feel like they are being interrogated. Some guys will just slide into a lady's DM and start asking her "jamb questions".

But the truth is, there are some ladies that will still snub you no matter how smooth you think you are.

The only time a lady wouldn't snub a guy was if he requested for her account number.

yes o,start a chat with


hello Lovet !



pls send me your account number,I want to credit you right away,hope 50k is not too small for you.

Say the truth:

She has checked your profile out and has decided whether you're worth her time or not. Go figure!

Baffupdrizz:
Say the truth:

She has checked your profile out and has decided whether you're worth her time or not. Go figure!

This is just it, nothing more.

a girl that likes you will reply once she check your profile.....


there is no formula to chat with girls