fulaniHERDSman:

We are all stuck in the lockdown too. Many has even lost there jobs, as in, has been sacked already. But they must get by. This same people might be owing too or even have bills piliing up. But they must find a way. Don't be proud. Proud people tend to over blow your kind of situation. They tend to feel easily humiliated and bother so much about saving face.
Truth is, I won't say jack about myself here but if I transfer a little of my own challenge to you ... maybe you will run naked sef.
I have been through a lot in my life and it all helped me to develop thick skin about vagaries of life.
Tary a while, your problems will sought out themselves overtime, as long as you keep doing the necessary little things.
One day you'd look back and laugh over how silly and selfish you were this day.
Yes, selfish because if you consider others in your life you won't wish to hurt them by thinking of suicide.

fulaniHERDSman:

We are all stuck in the lockdown too. Many has even lost there jobs, as in, has been sacked already. But they must get by. This same people might be owing too or even have bills piliing up. But they must find a way. Don't be proud. Proud people tend to over blow your kind of situation. They tend to feel easily humiliated and bother so much about saving face.
Truth is, I won't say jack about myself here but if I transfer a little of my own challenge to you ... maybe you will run naked sef.
I have been through a lot in my life and it all helped me to develop thick skin about vagaries of life.
Tary a while, your problems will sought out themselves overtime, as long as you keep doing the necessary little things.
One day you'd look back and laugh over how silly and selfish you were this day.
Yes, selfish because if you consider others in your life you won't wish to hurt them by thinking of suicide.

opeano:


Thanks for your words.

I am not proud and I have been battling this since December 2019. It is just overwhelming right now and everything here around me seems void. I can't help it

opeano:


Thanks for your words.

I am not proud and I have been battling this since December 2019. It is just overwhelming right now and everything here around me seems void. I can't help it

OloriOfMontreal:
OP, I'm going to bed now.

I'll check in on this thread in the morning. Keep the hope alive.

If you love music, I hope you find comfort in them.

Try to get some rest too.

And do share the details regarding your debts, like someone mentioned there are several NLders that will be willing to help once they're able to confirm your case.

Take care

fulaniHERDSman:

Even the people you owe are battling the effects of the lockdown. They don't live on the moon ofcourse. I know some creditors can be mean ... but such creditors make me meaner too.
Worry more about managing yourself through the lockdown till we all are liberated from Covid and all hussles gets into full throttle again. Even then, courageously meet your creditors with a view to reschedule and amortise your repayment. Very key you don't fear any creditor. They also are most likely owing some other people.
But for now dwell more on how to be happy. Go stay somewhere else with loved ones. Learn to share details of your challenges with matured ones among them. Rather than bottling up and magnifying your little challenges into stuffs of gigantuan proportion.
Goodluck man.

opeano:


Thanks for your words sir.

I just wish I can sort out this present one. It is the most pressing. I have met with some of my creditors and arranged with some of them for more time and patience

HarunaWest:
your a bloody scammer...all of a sudden you no wan die again, now Na hustle you dey hustle...we already have a lot of things we are all dealing with here,if you owe money,Pay back. Cos if you don't, then u died a coward

opeano:


I have no words for you sir. You can call me anything you like. You are not in my shoes

HarunaWest:
Yeah I can't be in your shoes..I don't like up debt and will run to die..I pay my debts..Pay your debts you coward. You owe somebod money and you don't intend to pay, the person will curse you to your grave. Pay your debts Debtor...Nairaland is not a charity organisation..Go and hustle and pay your debts. Using depression and suicide to frighten us doesn't work any longer.Covid affected by everyone of is but we are all trying to bounce back..If you decide to end it today, that's your business, but first pay your debts.

opeano:


Thanks for your words. It's more about the shame I will face. From one debt to another.

I am owing virtually every finance houses in Nigeria. Customers goods that I ought to deliver yesterday. The money is gone.

If I could just sort out this last mess. I can face the rest of my debts and work even harder. This lockdown has not helped me at all. No sales from my business

opeano:


I sincerely wish you understand my situation. But then, you can't cos you already imagined I came here to fraud.

opeano:


Thanks for your words and your time.

The debt are very many and numerous but this last one is causing me a lot of disgrace and pain. It is amounting to about 112,000

I need help every well meaning Nairalander

OloriOfMontreal:


How are you doing? Hope you are feeling much better today? Have you been able to go by some of the advises given on this thread?

nigeriancritic1:
As postulate by Charles Darwin, survival of the fittest. Natural selection takes effects. You contemplating suicide because you are weak. Most billionaire went through rough upbringing before they became what they are. Likewise myself. two years ago I had nothing. Today I have two houses in abuja, a car and other properties.
You don't need people to approx you. Restructure your debts, read biographies and see.
Don't be the weak, nature has a way of weeding out the weak. Don't help nature to get rid of you.
Send me the details of your issues for advise.08035209543

opeano:


Thanks so much for your words. For people like you who genuinely care, God will forever be with you and bless you abundantly.