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This spiritual tradition is only relative to a town called Enugu-Ezike which is located at Enugu State, Nigeria.

Enugu-Ezike comprises of 36 villages in Igbo-Eze North local government area in the Nsukka senatorial zone of Enugu State.

The town has common boundaries with Benue and Kogi states. On the north is Etteh, a non-Igbo-speaking community in Enugu State. On the north-east side is Ofante while on the north-west flank are Amaka and Akpanya communities in Benue State. On its boundary to the south is Ibagwa-Aka, the headquarters of Igbo-Eze South local government while on the south-west is Alor Agu, Unadu and Itchi. On the south-east lies Iheaka, Ovoko and Obollo Afor, the headquarters of Udenu local government area.

Oral traditional legends as documented by the late John Arji in the book “Enugu-Ezike in world history” revealed that the name Enugu-Ezike originated from Idah in Kogi State. Ezike, according to the story, was the eldest of the three children of the then Attah of Igalla, who migrated from his home in Idah to Elugwu (Hill top) where he settled.



Ndishi is a spiritual being seen only by those who violated the tradition of marital fidelity. The tradition is as old as Enugu-Ezike instituted by Ezike Oba himself before he died.

The tradition is binding on every child of Enugu-Ezike. It revolves around having extramarital affairs with another man’s wife or even an obvious intention to do so through kissing or having your hand across the waist of another man’s wife which is seen as synonymous with s€x.



Once a lady’s pride price is paid, she cannot for any reason have an affair with another man other than her husband.

A widow is forbidden to have an affair while inside her late husband’s house or risk the death of her first son. If she wants to do such a thing she must be relocated to another house. If she gets tired and wants to come back to her late husband’s house, she will confess to her escapades, appease the gods and then return after a cleansing ceremony.

An Enugu-Ezike man is forbidden to have a sexual relationship with another man’s wife. Such acts attract the wrath of Ndishi and are highly punishable.



Apart from extra-marital affairs, Sunday Sun learnt that married women are forbidden to give men money either as a gift or borrowing without the knowledge of the husband. Buying of property by a married woman in the name of her brothers without informing the husband also leads to the “arrest by Ndishi.”

A married woman is forbidden to make a monetary donation or contribution to her family or any other person without the knowledge of her husband or risk being arrested by Ndishi.

A married woman while taking her bath cannot answer a call from another man except her husband.

It is against Ndishi to knock on the door of a married woman when she is alone in the room or at home. “Please someone from Enugu-Ezike should comfirm this information for us”

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Yes, it is true

That's why it is somehow risky for Enugu Ezike man to marry outside Enugu Ezike because women from other places downplay the "Ndishi" of a thing.
They don't believe it and by the time they have committed adultry, it is already late to believe.

Travel to Enugu Ezike and see for yourself. Churches can't even destroy it and I think it is because it is biblical to divorce on ground of infidelity...so it is in accordance with the Bible.

However, confession followed by deliverance can help.

This is my opinion from experience

I like the place

Nice tradition , no cheating , correct

una sure sey all the mad women wey dey mad for east no from dia?..cos they cheated on their husbands...e for dey applicable to boyfriend and girlfriend too..mad girls for full everywhere.

Nuulife:
Yes, it is true

That's why it is somehow risky for Enugu Ezike man to marry outside Enugu Ezike because women from other places downplay the "Ndishi" of a thing.
They don't believe it and by the time they have committed adultry, it is already late to believe.

Travel to Enugu Ezike and see for yourself. Churches can't even destroy it and I think it is because it is biblical to divorce on ground of infidelity...so it is in accordance with the Bible.

However, confession followed by deliverance can help.

This is my opinion from experience

Are you from that side?......

Biafrans will praise them but if it's in Yoruba land biafrans will start cursing and abusing afonjas

Same tradition holds sway in Aku in Nsukka.

This tradition is mostly Chauvinistic as it doesn't say anything about married men sleeping with unmarried women. Only affects men when they sleep with married women.

But for women it is all encompassing.

Nuulife:
Yes, it is true

That's why it is somehow risky for Enugu Ezike man to marry outside Enugu Ezike because women from other places downplay the "Ndishi" of a thing.
They don't believe it and by the time they have committed adultry, it is already late to believe.

Travel to Enugu Ezike and see for yourself. Churches can't even destroy it and I think it is because it is biblical to divorce on ground of infidelity...so it is in accordance with the Bible.

However, confession followed by deliverance can help.

This is my opinion from experience

Your experience? Did you cheat or were you cheated on? Did you go mad?

You are not far from the truth,I know a guy that has such experience

Nuulife:
Yes, it is true

That's why it is somehow risky for Enugu Ezike man to marry outside Enugu Ezike because women from other places downplay the "Ndishi" of a thing.
They don't believe it and by the time they have committed adultry, it is already late to believe.

Travel to Enugu Ezike and see for yourself. Churches can't even destroy it and I think it is because it is biblical to divorce on ground of infidelity...so it is in accordance with the Bible.

However, confession followed by deliverance can help.

This is my opinion from experience