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ubunja:
"Men are ATMs"

But for all their love of money, women have a very complicated relationship with money. And that relationship needs to be fixed.

ONE:
First, many women lack the character strength to receive from men WITHOUT giving anything back (the key to having a man invested in a woman - see Sunk Cost Fallacy). If you thought men were weak beings who couldn't think straight at the sight of pussy, you haven't seen how weak women are where money is concerned. You cant give an average girl the equivalent of her monthly salary (which is peanuts to a man with money) without the woman eagerly offering her pussy and asshole on a silver platter. Put a wad of cash in many females' hand, and you've just corrupted her. She'll be your wh0re ready to do everything you ask. She can't say NO to anything. All resistance and boundaries and self control goes bye bye. You have seen the crazy things girls do for money out there. So, a woman has to develop that strength of mind not to be swayed by money. No matter how much. To remain STOIC and unmoved. And keep legs shut. No matter the amount of money she has been gifted.

Give an average girl a car and she'll happily become your sex slave. Give a gold digger a car and she's plotting on how to get your house next. That car, mind you, just earned you the right to only kiss her. Not even fvck her. I won't go deep into this MindGame but the summary of it is that gold diggers deal with you in such a way that they allow you to sleep around knowing that the longer they keep their own legs closed the more you'll do for them because as a man the pussy that occupies your mind is the one you can't have. So the slut and the prostitute do the Gold Digger's dirty work. And the more the man pays a woman he's not sleeping with the more VALUABLE that woman becomes in his eyes because if he's paying but not getting anything he tells himself the other men not even paying anything to this woman don't stand a chance X1000. So his mind tells him the gold digger indeed had a pussy of gold (meanwhile a thug is screwing that same bitch free. But pure gold diggers don't even fvck any man for just the pleasure because they understand 1: sex takes a toll on their body and their body is their only asset. 2: sex can make them bond with said thugs and complicate their game as they start to harbour feelings for the guys fvcking them on the side 3: mistakes happen and a girl can get pregnant. Not many are okay with abortion. Plus there's the fear of disease)

MINDSET TWO:
Many Women have forgotten how to receive from Men. Decades of feminism and women's rights have taught women the 50/50 mindset. That they must bring something to the table. Which is a poisonous mindset when a woman is dealing with a masculine man with serious money who was raised to view himself as a Provider. The quickest way to chase away a rich man is to pay your own way. It emasculates a rich man to see their woman use her own money .Rich men have ego. And it's fragile that way. But what has the average woman been brought up to believe? To pay her own way. As a strong woman who is able. Failure to do that she's a loser.

That mindset is a hindrance in the Gold Digger game. As a gold Digger your motto, mantra, slogan, must always be I BRING NOTHING TO THE TABLE. Proudly. Without shame. Rich men don't have a problem with that. You can even tell that to a rich man straight and he would just laugh and continue dating you. Rich men are looking for someone to SPEND ON. To throw cash at. It nourishes their ego. But the average girl's mindset is the Independent Woman mindset. fail.

And the independent woman mindset is a direct consequence of growing up poor. Never is a woman more unlikely to accept money from men than when she grew up in poverty because she has learned to hustle for herself to survive. Now that mindset needs to go. A woman needs to heal and learn to accept help from men. Rich men don't date hustlers. Poor men do.


THREE:
Poverty mindset. A Girl who grew up poor grows up with a mindset to choose the cheapest of everything and to live economically. Rich men are allergic to such women. Go to a restaurant and choose the cheapest meal at the smallest quantity and you won't be invited on a second date. To you it may seem normal cause you grew up saving to survive. But you must understand that such things are not the rich man's reality. Rich men are used to oppulance and luxury and extras. And you being frugal/economic will tell him he's Dealing with a low quality woman. And he'll drop you.
The poverty mindset is a poison in the game. Imagine a rich man takes you out to eat, because you grew up hungry, you wipe your plate clean eating everything (a big no no) or there are leftovers and you take out a lunch tin and collect the leftovers into your lunch tin!! You won't get the call for a second date.

That's the poverty mindset that has to go.

Women aspiring to be high level gold diggers need to shed that mindset. Learn to choose the most expensive option on the table. A rich man offers to buy you a phone, choose the most expensive. He offers to buy you a dress, choose the most expensive in the shop, and take two. Or three. He can afford it. If he can't he's not rich enough and he's the wrong target in which case you need to drop him ASAP. But there's a specific way of going about this that works his Ego making everything easy for you.

I can go on and on. But let me end here. And go back to that point about BRINGING NOTHING TO THE TABLE:
A woman who aspires to be a gold digger must learn to take without giving. Because men are ATMs. And because by taking without giving she plays a psychological game on men that draws them closer to her because they become INVESTED in her. Like she's a business project or something.

A woman must never give anything to a rich man if he wants that rich man to marry her. This is a major mindfvcks for many girls. They don't see how that works. But they need to trust the Game. It works. Even if they don't understand it.

Also, you don't give a rich man presents or gifts. If you must, use his money. But don't give anything. Maybe a card. And nothing more. Again, it seems cruel. But it's a psychological game. Trust the game. It works.

But a word of caution is in order: The Game is to played on the right target. A man with a lot to lose in society. Not thugs or broke men, Because 1: the gold digger games don't work on broke men. Because broke men's relationship with money is not like the rich man's relationship with money. 2: thugs have nothing to lose and will kill you if you play them. But a board director of a respectable company won't do anything even if he feels he's been played. He has too much to lose. He'll cut his loses and move on.

Let me stop here on Mindsets. But there's more that can fill a book on these concepts. But the most important thing to note is this: A MAN HAS TO LOVE YOU MORE THAN YOU LIKE HIM FOR ALL THIS TO WORK.

Not every man will think you a Prize worthy to be pampered daily for the rest of your life, just as you don't think every guy is a Prize, but your job is to find that one rich man who'll be so breathtaken with you that he'll move mountains to see you happy and his joy in this life will be providing for you. Once you get such a man (if you're really lucky he'll not be too old or too ugly), then you'll know what Cinderella felt like. Because Cinderella is the original gold digger.

Ubunja, nice post.

I'm doing a giveaway of about 1 million naira today on Nairaland by 6pm

Please help me to share the good news to redpillers and anti-redpillars

Thank you for everything.

ubunja:
"Men are ATMs"

But for all their love of money, women have a very complicated relationship with money. And that relationship needs to be fixed.

ONE:
First, many women lack the character strength to receive from men WITHOUT giving anything back (the key to having a man invested in a woman - see Sunk Cost Fallacy). If you thought men were weak beings who couldn't think straight at the sight of pussy, you haven't seen how weak women are where money is concerned. You cant give an average girl the equivalent of her monthly salary (which is peanuts to a man with money) without the woman eagerly offering her pussy and asshole on a silver platter. Put a wad of cash in many females' hand, and you've just corrupted her. She'll be your wh0re ready to do everything you ask. She can't say NO to anything. All resistance and boundaries and self control goes bye bye. You have seen the crazy things girls do for money out there. So, a woman has to develop that strength of mind not to be swayed by money. No matter how much. To remain STOIC and unmoved. And keep legs shut. No matter the amount of money she has been gifted.

Give an average girl a car and she'll happily become your sex slave. Give a gold digger a car and she's plotting on how to get your house next. That car, mind you, just earned you the right to only kiss her. Not even fvck her. I won't go deep into this MindGame but the summary of it is that gold diggers deal with you in such a way that they allow you to sleep around knowing that the longer they keep their own legs closed the more you'll do for them because as a man the pussy that occupies your mind is the one you can't have. So the slut and the prostitute do the Gold Digger's dirty work. And the more the man pays a woman he's not sleeping with the more VALUABLE that woman becomes in his eyes because if he's paying but not getting anything he tells himself the other men not even paying anything to this woman don't stand a chance X1000. So his mind tells him the gold digger indeed had a pussy of gold (meanwhile a thug is screwing that same bitch free. But pure gold diggers don't even fvck any man for just the pleasure because they understand 1: sex takes a toll on their body and their body is their only asset. 2: sex can make them bond with said thugs and complicate their game as they start to harbour feelings for the guys fvcking them on the side 3: mistakes happen and a girl can get pregnant. Not many are okay with abortion. Plus there's the fear of disease)

MINDSET TWO:
Many Women have forgotten how to receive from Men. Decades of feminism and women's rights have taught women the 50/50 mindset. That they must bring something to the table. Which is a poisonous mindset when a woman is dealing with a masculine man with serious money who was raised to view himself as a Provider. The quickest way to chase away a rich man is to pay your own way. It emasculates a rich man to see their woman use her own money .Rich men have ego. And it's fragile that way. But what has the average woman been brought up to believe? To pay her own way. As a strong woman who is able. Failure to do that she's a loser.

That mindset is a hindrance in the Gold Digger game. As a gold Digger your motto, mantra, slogan, must always be I BRING NOTHING TO THE TABLE. Proudly. Without shame. Rich men don't have a problem with that. You can even tell that to a rich man straight and he would just laugh and continue dating you. Rich men are looking for someone to SPEND ON. To throw cash at. It nourishes their ego. But the average girl's mindset is the Independent Woman mindset. fail.

And the independent woman mindset is a direct consequence of growing up poor. Never is a woman more unlikely to accept money from men than when she grew up in poverty because she has learned to hustle for herself to survive. Now that mindset needs to go. A woman needs to heal and learn to accept help from men. Rich men don't date hustlers. Poor men do.


THREE:
Poverty mindset. A Girl who grew up poor grows up with a mindset to choose the cheapest of everything and to live economically. Rich men are allergic to such women. Go to a restaurant and choose the cheapest meal at the smallest quantity and you won't be invited on a second date. To you it may seem normal cause you grew up saving to survive. But you must understand that such things are not the rich man's reality. Rich men are used to oppulance and luxury and extras. And you being frugal/economic will tell him he's Dealing with a low quality woman. And he'll drop you.
The poverty mindset is a poison in the game. Imagine a rich man takes you out to eat, because you grew up hungry, you wipe your plate clean eating everything (a big no no) or there are leftovers and you take out a lunch tin and collect the leftovers into your lunch tin!! You won't get the call for a second date.

That's the poverty mindset that has to go.

Women aspiring to be high level gold diggers need to shed that mindset. Learn to choose the most expensive option on the table. A rich man offers to buy you a phone, choose the most expensive. He offers to buy you a dress, choose the most expensive in the shop, and take two. Or three. He can afford it. If he can't he's not rich enough and he's the wrong target in which case you need to drop him ASAP. But there's a specific way of going about this that works his Ego making everything easy for you.

I can go on and on. But let me end here. And go back to that point about BRINGING NOTHING TO THE TABLE:
A woman who aspires to be a gold digger must learn to take without giving. Because men are ATMs. And because by taking without giving she plays a psychological game on men that draws them closer to her because they become INVESTED in her. Like she's a business project or something.

A woman must never give anything to a rich man if he wants that rich man to marry her. This is a major mindfvcks for many girls. They don't see how that works. But they need to trust the Game. It works. Even if they don't understand it.

Also, you don't give a rich man presents or gifts. If you must, use his money. But don't give anything. Maybe a card. And nothing more. Again, it seems cruel. But it's a psychological game. Trust the game. It works.

But a word of caution is in order: The Game is to played on the right target. A man with a lot to lose in society. Not thugs or broke men, Because 1: the gold digger games don't work on broke men. Because broke men's relationship with money is not like the rich man's relationship with money. 2: thugs have nothing to lose and will kill you if you play them. But a board director of a respectable company won't do anything even if he feels he's been played. He has too much to lose. He'll cut his loses and move on.

Let me stop here on Mindsets. But there's more that can fill a book on these concepts. But the most important thing to note is this: A MAN HAS TO LOVE YOU MORE THAN YOU LIKE HIM FOR ALL THIS TO WORK.

Not every man will think you a Prize worthy to be pampered daily for the rest of your life, just as you don't think every guy is a Prize, but your job is to find that one rich man who'll be so breathtaken with you that he'll move mountains to see you happy and his joy in this life will be providing for you. Once you get such a man (if you're really lucky he'll not be too old or too ugly), then you'll know what Cinderella felt like. Because Cinderella is the original gold digger.

Bro I need you to shed some light on something I've been observing lately. Why is it that women/girls like to criticize or insult another girl about something they themselves are doing?

DaddyRochie1642:
Sir Ubunja, ... I Hail Thee

There's this very Vital Observation I made and it has been Over-Looked For Several Decades, ... Infact It has been right there in front of us all this Decades,

My Observation;
I Observed accurately; the CHURCH teaches Men How to Become BETTER BETA MALES, ... The Church Teaches and Encourages men on how to Become an Expert In Being a SIMP, ... This is The Truth

In My Church For Example, ... My Pastor once encouraged a man to Marry a lady that already had two kids, that he saw a Vision, .. I was "Blue Pilled" dah time, I didn't know it was absolutely wrong.

Another instance;
During Father's Day, .. In The Church, the men are always Told that the can do Better, the men are almost nearly Condemned despite all the sacrifices that the make for their Family and you'll always hear the women shouting "Amen"

But

During "Mother's Day" ... The Women are always "Celebrated", celebrations everywhere because it's mother's day.



I'll Like to Know your Opinion on this,
"The Church Truely Teaches and Encourages Men To become an Expert in being a "BETA MALE" ... I want you to give me your Opinion Raw Like you always do Sir.


RedPill Indeed is the Best Thing That can Happen To a Wise Man that's not Afraid and Scared to Embrace the Truth.

One Thing People Fail to Realize is that the RedPill Is Not only for women, ... It's for Every Aspect of Life and Once You Apply it, .. believe me, you'll see Unbelievable Truths that were Just there Right Under Your Nose All along.

God Bless The RedPill.

Honestly, as U said de church has and continue to run men's lives down thru marriage. De church use rheir teachings to place wicked loads on men while celebrating docile n unproductive women. De church is not doing well to protect men in de area of marriage. Know God n His word personaly and allow ur conscience, righteosness and ur interests to guide U. Dnt allow church to goad U in de area of marriage as a man. They will kill U with wrong teaching tilted in favour of de female folk. Why? The females are more sheeple &gullible and they use these favours in marriage teachings to bring dem, keep them, get money from them n attract more members.

ubunja:
Frankly the average girl can't pull this off because it's too much work.

The same way average dudes can't pull the Red Pill level up because it's too much work. We are used to mediocrity because we are lazy and change is hard work. So we stay in our comfort zone of being average.

Yo Ubunja, this right here struck a chord within me. How do I Red Pill level up. Laziness and indiscipline has been my greatest weakness..can't seem to be serious about changing my lifestyle.
You've pointed out some things for the op, kindly give me some pointers too. Cheers.

DARKLASER:
Yo Ubunja, this right here struck a chord within me. How do I Red Pill level up. Laziness and indiscipline has been my greatest weakness..can't seem to be serious about changing my lifestyle.
You've pointed out some things for the op, kindly give me some pointers too. Cheers.

Some don't know their weaknesses whilst a few do know. You are part of the few and the first step in solving a problem is identifying that problem. Now that you've identified yours, all you need to do is be honest with yourself. You have to start be hardworking and smart working at the same time as no food for the lazy man. As per the discipline aspect, read books that will help you.

Omar09:
Some don't know their weaknesses whilst a few do know. You are part of the few and the first step in solving a problem is identifying that problem. Now that you've identified yours, all you need to do is be honest with yourself. You have to start be hardworking and smart working at the same time as no food for the lazy man. As per the discipline aspect, read books that will help you.

Thanks Omar. Quite frankly I read books on discipline, self development etc. I'm a little bit disciplined, but not to the extent of effecting the change in lifestyle that I want. This is where the concept of mediocrity and being average comes in.

Seems there's no hard and fast rule, I just have to keep working on myself.

DARKLASER:
Thanks Omar. Quite frankly I read books on discipline, self development etc. I'm a little bit disciplined, but not to the extent of effecting the change in lifestyle that I want. This is where the concept of mediocrity and being average comes in.

Seems there's no hard and fast rule, I just have to keep working on myself.

Yes you just have to working on yourself

Wolgrace:
On point! To avoid being a sexist, same applies to guys too. I know a guy who got clearing and forwarding connection (not his field though but fate) when he went to a certain rich men's bar at lekki, he ordered an expensive drink while sitting opposite of two rich men discussing business, summoned them to join. Then boom! During discussion, int'l business connection clicked because they are importers..

Honestly, there are PEOPLE you will meet, things you will know, PLACES you will go and your life will never ever remain the same. Ever!

Wolgrace:
It works if you are so determined not to sell your body, i.e to embrace sexual abstinence, purity, godliness and righteousness... Man looks at outward appearance and God looks at the purity and godliness of the heart, i.e they coexist.

Here is a story of a young lady (first born and daughter of a wretched family) who worked with U.B.A Bank. She applied for transfer to urban area, VI precisely, and was approved. She has a small and neatly tokunbo car but pimply packaged. She risked most of her life savings and rented a BQ apartment at banana Island to ease her movement, but had a target. She packaged herself with expensive decent wears, shoes, perfs, etc.. On her way to work, out of the estate gate, she mostly meet calibres of business moguls (both married and singles). That's how she met a young oil mogul (single extremely rich dude) while driving side by side towards the gate, exchanged contacts.

Today, they are married. Bye-bye to poverty in her family.

PACKAGE YOURSELF WITH PURITY AND HOLINESS.

And when the "oil rich guy" goes broke she will dump his sorry ass and tell him ' I can't suffer with you'. Some women are just useless.

DeHill:
And when the "oil rich guy" goes broke she will dump his sorry ass and tell him ' I can't suffer with you'. Some women are just useless.

Check the source of your statement because bad spirit inspires negative mindset...

Wolgrace:
Check the source of your statement because bad spirit inspires negative mindset...

are my not telling the truth?

Wolgrace:
It works if you are so determined not to sell your body, i.e to embrace sexual abstinence, purity, godliness and righteousness... Man looks at outward appearance and God looks at the purity and godliness of the heart, i.e they coexist.

Here is a story of a young lady (first born and daughter of a wretched family) who worked with U.B.A Bank. She applied for transfer to urban area, VI precisely, and was approved. She has a small and neatly tokunbo car but pimply packaged. She risked most of her life savings and rented a BQ apartment at banana Island to ease her movement, but had a target. She packaged herself with expensive decent wears, shoes, perfs, etc.. On her way to work, out of the estate gate, she mostly meet calibres of business moguls (both married and singles). That's how she met a young oil mogul (single extremely rich dude) while driving side by side towards the gate, exchanged contacts.

Today, they are married. Bye-bye to poverty in her family.

PACKAGE YOURSELF WITH PURITY AND HOLINESS.

Are you aware this lady is a gold digger of the highest order? If we are to switch the genders now and a man is the one who played such a role, People would have Screamed Gold digger to the roof.
Pls, this is 2020, don't let us encourage gold digging