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He Doesn't Pick Up My Calls When He's At Home / My Fiancée Has Stopped Picking My Calls / My Boyfriend Stopped Calling And Picking My Calls (2) (3) (4)
| I Am So Angry, She Trivializes My Calls by agbarahk(m): 9:54pm On May 08, 2020 |
Why are women like this haba! Called my Fiance ova 7hrs ago she didn't pik up . And she Neva texted me to say she is bixy at all . Then I called again to let ha no am not happy. Imagine ha respons.....u should know am bixy dasts why I didn't pik up dat time. Ppl what do u think is going on? Candid Advice pls 2 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: I Am So Angry, She Trivializes My Calls by chatinent: 9:58pm On May 08, 2020 |
Take my words: never let sb feel they reserve the right to treat you unjustly. 27 Likes 3 Shares |
| Re: I Am So Angry, She Trivializes My Calls by Franzinni: 10:06pm On May 08, 2020 |
Bros its means you are a door mat .. Your duty is to keep her foot clean and also to beautify her doorway .. But don't be alarmed the worst is yet to come .. May I ask ... Have you started washing her undies or you have not yet reach that level yet? If not you will need to go the faculty of simping and get your handout because you are in this till you graduate from youth service and that is still along way 28 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: I Am So Angry, She Trivializes My Calls by topedoski(m): 10:10pm On May 08, 2020 |
Give her space If she doesn't call back Forget her 22 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: I Am So Angry, She Trivializes My Calls by MrBrownJay1(m): 10:11pm On May 08, 2020 |
stop dating immature women... there is nothing wrong with being busy BUT when she saw your missed call she should have called you back (thats what women who care about their men do), if she didnt then it says a lot about her state of mind, AND FURTHERMORE, her rude reply says a lot about what she thinks of you. 25 Likes 3 Shares |
| Re: I Am So Angry, She Trivializes My Calls by TonyeBarcanista(m): 10:17pm On May 08, 2020 |
agbarahk:Stop being a nag, it is a turn off. Your fiancee didn't pick your call and all you could do is tell her you aren't happy. Who does that? She is supposed to be the one explaining herself without being prompted (that is if she takes you serious) Secondly, you need to earn her respect by being a MAN!!! Once you can man up, your fiancée will call or flash back whenever she misses just a single call. BTW what kind of business is she into to ascertain her caller? I hope it's not  12 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: I Am So Angry, She Trivializes My Calls by AfroKnight: 11:16pm On May 08, 2020 |
Stop typing like a teenager in 2007. Spell the words out properly. Your predictive keyboard will help you. Let me break the good news to you. If this is a recurring problem then she has lost interest and is most probably involved with a new guy and they are at the talking stage. Moving on should be on your mind now. If you thought to get closure by demanding answers from her, she would only become irritated. And you don’t want to be the object of a woman’s irritation. She no send you. Your ear go full. Better respect yourself and ignore her. If she comes back fine. Keep her at a distance. No open arms for her. If she doesn’t return, that’s alright. Move on. When your woman becomes too busy for you every time and responds to your inquiries harshly, she has a new man making her feel like she’s Agbani Darego. Don’t waste your time trying to win her back. She belongs to the streets bro. 58 Likes 5 Shares |
| Re: I Am So Angry, She Trivializes My Calls by Nobody: 11:21pm On May 08, 2020 |
cut her off and get a new girl 8 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: I Am So Angry, She Trivializes My Calls by pansophist(m): 11:28pm On May 08, 2020 |
AfroKnight: Op, take this advice. Read it like a bible and follow it. 25 Likes 3 Shares |
| Re: I Am So Angry, She Trivializes My Calls by pansophist(m): 11:29pm On May 08, 2020 |
| Re: I Am So Angry, She Trivializes My Calls by AfroKnight: 11:38pm On May 08, 2020 |
pansophist: 4 Likes
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| Re: I Am So Angry, She Trivializes My Calls by Nobody: 11:59pm On May 08, 2020 |
pansophist:plenty other available girls are in the street for him to love 5 Likes |
| Re: I Am So Angry, She Trivializes My Calls by freethinker01: 11:59pm On May 08, 2020 |
I'm sick and tired of what I read and see these days about how guys are too emotionally involved with women that they let them take them for a ride on a daily basis. I call a bit*h once and she doesn't return my call, that's the end. Reading stuffs like this makes me sick to the bottom of my stomach and makes me wanna burp. What kind of men do we breed these days? If they're being manipulated emotionally by these bit*he's, how will they teach their male children how to handle such if it arises? Read ubunja's post, take the red pill, that's one of the best things you could do for yourself. 9 Likes |
| Re: I Am So Angry, She Trivializes My Calls by Seandisputed(m): 12:24am On May 09, 2020 |
Revenge is actually sweet sometimes, you have to play Petty too sometimes. My "supposed"girlfriend was online throughout the night yesterday and even early today( I slept and woke up in the middle of the night to check if i had any message and still saw her online). I sent her a message at 8pm, she read and ignored, tried exchanging pleasantries again, she read and ignored(this is someone who'll send you a message now and if you don't reply that same minute, she'll start complaining you're snubbing her and all that blackmailing shiit) I kuku respected myself, took my L in peace and decided to chat with other friends. She finally replied this night and was expecting me to get angry, me i just lock up, no reply. She sent like 15 different messages blackmailing me that i have gotten another lady, in fact, nothing this girl no talk. I've made up my mind that I'll reply on Monday or any year my mind tells me to reply. When that new guy wey dey shack am don nack her finish, her eyes go clear. Don't put any girl on a pedestal. They're humans like you. 50 Likes 6 Shares |
| Re: I Am So Angry, She Trivializes My Calls by Nobody: 12:42am On May 09, 2020 |
You've been pussymatized, move on bro. |
| Re: I Am So Angry, She Trivializes My Calls by freethinker01: 1:02am On May 09, 2020 |
AfroKnight:exactly, that's her home 1 Like |
| Re: I Am So Angry, She Trivializes My Calls by CosmicJames(m): 3:31am On May 09, 2020 |
agbarahk:The real question here is: what are you going to do about it? 7hrs was long enough for her to return the call if she was truly busy when you called. But no, she didn't care to return the call. Being a gentleman, you called again to express your feelings for wrong her attitude. Instead of her to apologize and explain why she didn't pick or call back, she gave you charge! That's totally understandable. You must find out if she's truly your own fiance or someone else? 9 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: I Am So Angry, She Trivializes My Calls by NobleDeSage001: 4:06am On May 09, 2020 |
I am still wondering how you got to the level of fiancée with a woman who treats you like a nobody. Bros, tarry a bit, you may have to look somewhere else. Marriage is too long a time for you to live with a disrespectful and unruly wife. She has little or no feelings for you. She doesn't care about you. She does not love you. A woman who respects and cares about you will always be on your matter every now and then. If she misses your call, she will get back to you the moment she is available to call. 4 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: I Am So Angry, She Trivializes My Calls by helinues: 4:08am On May 09, 2020 |
So you were idle for 7 hours? Why calling someone more than 3 times when it's not an emergency? 2 Likes |
| Re: I Am So Angry, She Trivializes My Calls by 1beat(m): 4:15am On May 09, 2020 |
are we God that we will know wat is going on the question you supposed to ask her you're asking us here Covid19 is going on ... keep asking don't open ur eyes |
| Re: I Am So Angry, She Trivializes My Calls by NoHoper: 5:07am On May 09, 2020 |
Reminds me of when I was a total loser. That's how a girl used to utterly disrespect me on a regular basis. She won't return my calls or chats and whenever I lodged my displeasure she would just casually tell me she is not in the mood for a fight. No apologies from her. If I insist she apologizes, she would threaten to end the relationship and then somehow I'd end up apologizing. Depression sucks ( I was battling some mild depression and anxiety and I thought she was doing me a favour just being around me). After having enough, I developed some self respect and a bit of self esteem. The scenario played out again and this time when she threatened to leave, I said fine, you are free to go. She couldn't believe it. Sent in a couple of messages explaining why she behaved the way she did, but I thought I'd had enough. I'm alone now, much happier, and I hope to work on my anxiety issues and build up my self esteem and confidence before venturing into another relationship. 49 Likes |
| Re: I Am So Angry, She Trivializes My Calls by Kokoboss: 5:10am On May 09, 2020 |
Hahahhahaha another one. 7hrs? Don't worry the elders are coming to tell you exactly what is going on...be there! 4 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: I Am So Angry, She Trivializes My Calls by Kokoboss: 5:19am On May 09, 2020 |
Seandisputed:exactly.. Na guy she dey chat with online. 2 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: I Am So Angry, She Trivializes My Calls by Mykel51(m): 5:31am On May 09, 2020 |
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| Re: I Am So Angry, She Trivializes My Calls by Nobody: 5:42am On May 09, 2020 |
When the attention of the latter becomes appealing the attention of the former becomes displeasing 4 Likes |
| Re: I Am So Angry, She Trivializes My Calls by Kokoboss: 5:45am On May 09, 2020 |
agbarahk:you're on your own bro. 7hrs? And she replied that way after she picked? You're the real definition of OYO 5 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: I Am So Angry, She Trivializes My Calls by daddio(m): 6:11am On May 09, 2020 |
agbarahk: IT MAY BE IT'S TIME FOR YOU TO MOVE ON BROTHER, IT REMINDS ME OF MY EX TOO (A CHOIR MISTRESS), SOMEONE WHO (THEN) WILL CALL BACK AN HOUR OR TWO AFTER I'D CALLED HER, THEN WE USED TO CALL FOR LIKE TEN TIMES A DAY, THEN SHE STARTED REDUCING THE CALLS CLAIMING SHE WAS BUSY, AFTER SOME TIME SHE SAID WE SHOULD NOT BE TALKING MUCH ALL THE TIME. MY INSTINCT TOLD ME TO LET HER GO THEN, BUT I WAS THINKING OF ALL I'D DONE FOR HER. THEN SHE STARTED DATING BOTH SINGLES AND MARRIED MEN ... I LEFT HER LAST YEAR JULY TO CONTINUE WITH HER CANDY SAMPLING THOUGH SHE'S BEEN BEGGING ME TO EVEN ACCEPT HER AS A FRIEND BUT NO. ONE THING IS IF YOU ARE THINKING OF WHAT YOU HAD SPENT ON HER OR ON WHATEVER, WHEN IT'S HER TIME TO LEAVE YOU, SHE'LL LEAVE YOU, TRYING TO MAKE HER STAY WOULD MAKE HER USE YOU AND EVEN USE YOUR BRAIN. 12 Likes 1 Share
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| Re: I Am So Angry, She Trivializes My Calls by frozen70(f): 6:19am On May 09, 2020 |
agbarahk: The relationship is not healthy, look into it very well 1 Like |
| Re: I Am So Angry, She Trivializes My Calls by femi4: 7:01am On May 09, 2020 |
agbarahk:You didn't ask her why she didn't pick only for you to accuse her in your next call. You deserve such response 1 Like |
| Re: I Am So Angry, She Trivializes My Calls by Nobody: 7:01am On May 09, 2020 |
@Op in simple tenses, you're a Cinderella Man |
| Re: I Am So Angry, She Trivializes My Calls by Biglittlelois(f): 7:56am On May 09, 2020 |
Lol guys do this too, when your partner start to complain of calls, chats, always busy, all your questions, blaming you for everything, just know that he/she has someone else, best to let go and move on. 3 Likes |
| Re: I Am So Angry, She Trivializes My Calls by emkz: 8:04am On May 09, 2020 |
How people treat you is entirely your own making. I had an ex who told me to make other friends and hang out with them. Also ignored my calls and only called back after I had slept (so she'd justify herself). My brother, these are signs to start pulling out of a relationship emotionally so that the eventual withdrawal wouldn't hurt you so much. A relationship can only be successful when the two parties agree to co-operate. She'd have an explanation for her behaviour, so listen to the elders here who commented like TonyeBarcanista, AfroKnight, Seandisputed and NobleDeSage001. Seems they have had relationships with women to understand the quasi-complex female dynamics. I just like to add that you can indeed put a woman on a pedestal, but she must work hard to earn it and don't be afraid to remove her and level her when she "bleeps-up" (apologies to nairalandbot that invented this nonsensical word that does not fit the context). 9 Likes 1 Share |
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